A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend has been really angry towards me. She calls me dumb and pathetic and a 9 year old girl when i dont see how i could be. If i sit next to her she will kick me and punch me and elbow me until i fall off the couch. She will then tell me to leave her house cuz im sulking. When her friends are around she acts differently. I want to know what is going on and want to know what to do and im not the type of person to get tatoos and she keeps bugging me to get one and disobey my parents. If my parents need help with something I help them, but she calls me pathetic for doing so cuz i do everything they say. But when her mom asks her to go to the store each time she goes and gets the stuff her mom wants so like i wanna kno what is going on
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reader, samohir  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Generally Girls do not like guys that are "tightly"attached to their parents...That gives them insecurity,as if they are having work with some "Mama boy"..So, Genreally They like confident, self assertive and down to earth guys.
Maybe there lies the problem,But you should speak certainly with her,openly telling Yours feelings in an confident masculine way.
As far as tatoo is concerned, I dont think You have to do something you dont want. So if you dont want tatoo, tell her or if she so much likes, temporary tatoo could be solution.
But Basicly, speak to her openly and without any fears.
Good Luck
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Hi
You should have a serious chat with your gf. Tell her that you dont like the way she is behaving. I dont think that it is verymature for her to do the things you say she does. About the tatoo thing, you shouldnt do something you dont want to and she cant force you. With regards to your parents, do you spend alot of time together? Are you not spending time with her coz you have stuff to do for your parents? You should equal your time to the both of them. Communication is realli important in a relationship, so try speaking to her and see where that gets you.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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