My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
I am so sorry to hear about that but you should know that God does things for a reason. Just keep praying and keep strong. You are in my prayers.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi, i would like to promise you that all this is going to end soon. Pray and have faith and everything would be ok. I would like to think i am here for you so don't think that you are alone. If you ever need to speak to anyone mail me. Regards ... (read in full...)
Her family have been getting on her case about me!
Q. Im 16 and ive been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her like nothing else, but recently her family has been getting on her case about me, accusing me of only wanting sex and that ive had sex with her. (not true, still a virgin). I ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,just be there for her.Be the support that she needs.I have been through the same thing with my family when i first started going out with my bf (i even ran away from home)You can get your gf to mail me(on this website) and i would be glad to ... (read in full...)
How do I handle an unwanted crush from a younger girl?
Q. I am a babysitter of three kids. Ages 6, 8, and 10. The 6 and 10 year olds are boys and the 8 year old is a girl. Now I'm a male and it seems this girl has a bit of a crush. How do I handle it? She undresses knowing i'm around and even goes skinny ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,its normal for younger girls to have crushes on older guys.Dont give her any attention and she would soon grow out of it.You can ask her parents to have a word with her regarding her behaviuor towards you.Hope this helps.
Take care.
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I have been bitten by something for the past several nights!
Q. Okay, This is really gross. I have been bitten by something for the past several nights. I have welts, the size of mosquito bites, that are itchy, but they ooze a little bit the size of a pin-prick at the top. I don't think it is bed-bugs...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, considering that this is a guessing games as no one would be able to give you a definate answer you should go to the doctor and get it checked out. The doc would prescibe some medication for you.
Take care... (read in full...)
Is this distance a sign of maturity or a lack of interest?
Q. i love spending time with my girlfriend, i wish we lived together, and she has expressed the same feeling with me. i understand that she needs her time with her family and i need time with my hobbies/activities. but when we first met we would text ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, i don think that there is anything to worry about. If you are still unsure ask her and then you would know where you stand. I just think that she is now comfortable in the relationship (which is a good thing)If you speak to her then she would ... (read in full...)
I told him my past and now he doesn't trust me and is hurt by it! What can I do?
Q. I've been with my boyf for a year. He's so sweet and loving and great most of the time (except when he gets mad). Everything was good until we discussed my past. I never had a boyf before. I had had a friends with benefits thing three years ago (i ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, My bf had a fling with this girl (about 2 years ago) and we have been together for 11 months.He and this girl smsed each other last month (apparently she ashed him if he reall loved me and he replied saying yes)Even though it was just as sms i ... (read in full...)
He sometimes mentions our age difference. What does that mean?
Q. Im 18 and hes turning 25, we flirt and kiss so much but he just mentions age just a little. What does that mean? Like. i like him alot and he likes me alot and he also says he just dosent wanna get in to trouble......
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,age is nothing but a number.You shoudl speak to him about the age difference and ask him if what are his views ,if you are open you would get answers.I am 19 and my bf is 30 but we dont see any problem with our ages - we did speak about it when ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I like him?
Q. hay, i really want 2 know if i should tell me bff if i like him, we have know each other for about 4 or 5 years, and i don't want 2 mess up relationship with him, and on top of that, he lives in another city. What should i do????...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, there is no harm in being open and honest. Atleast when you tell him how you feel you would no where you stand and the curiousity would not eat you up.If you tell him things might just turn out the way you woudl like them too.Just make sure that ... (read in full...)
We're just talking for now but I'm a minor - should I stop talking to him?
Q. i'm a teenage girl that has fallen for a guy that's in his twenties. before people flip we're just friends online, for now. i know there is laws against guys talking to minors, but we're just talking at the moment, a little flirting every now and ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, there is nothing wrong with just talking but be careful. Dont give any personal info about yourself & i would advise you not to meet him if you are asked to. Just chat online only
Take care,mail me if you wanna talk ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi,Just hang in there and everything would work out for you.Take it easier. Try and keep yourself occupied and you would soon stop thinking about Robbie.Force yourself to think about all the bad things he has done to you,think of all the bad times ... (read in full...)
Life with my bf is going downhill, but he is all I have..should I stay or go?
Q. I've been seeing my bf for over a year and a half, we almost live together, or was. We used to be really close, however things went downhill when i said i loved him... and he never said it back. We talk about it often, i cant help but be upset, i ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi, If you really want to give this relationship another chance try speaking to him once more. Tell him the way you feel and that if it doesnt work out after you give it a chance you think that it would be best to go your seperate ways. Think ... (read in full...)
Help..how can I break up with this guy without really hurting him?
Q. okay i got with my current b/f when i had just turned 18. i loved him so much, and i still love him, but i feel like it's different now, i'm not in love with him. im always stressed out, thinking about other guys, he's always nagging me about ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi, there is no wayof breaking up that doesnt hurt.Just be honet and open and tell him that you think yourll should just be friends. The sooner you do it the better for the both of yourll. By you staing with him any longer you are going to give him ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if you are moving against his penis but it's not inside you?
Q. Can you still get pregnant if its not in you but your movin against it? Is there any possible way? Write back soon please. Wondering...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi, yes you can. When you bf ejaculates,his semen can travel up your vagina and you can still get pregnant.
Hope that helps
Regards... (read in full...)
How do I make new friends in the school I am moving to?
Q. this fall i am going to a different school. I don't know anyone there. I find it difficult to make new friends. How do i make good friends that will stick to me for a long time?...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi,It is difficult to change schools now and leave your old friends behind. You can start by smiling at the mates in your class. you should also try and be the first to confront the learners. Don't be afraid there are probably friendly people ... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't care for her bf anymore and I like him! Should I flirt with him?
Q. Ok well. I have a friend (male) who I have known for quite a while and hes lovley, really sweet and stuff. Anyway he has been saying to my friends that he likes me. I have seen the ovious signs too- sending hearts on msn, holding my hand, putting...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi, you should tell this guy how you feel. If your friend does not like him then nothing i holding you back from having a relationship with him. I would say go fo it. He deserves someone nice after what he has been through and you sound nice enough. ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he had no problem moving on..so why can't I?
Q. Ok where do I start. My ex (which has been my friend for the past 10 years)and I will be broken up for almost 2 years. We were together for 5. Now, he calls me about once a week. He's moved on, living with her and her daughter. Me on the other ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi, you need to be strong for your daughter's sake. If he has moved on you should too (as hard as it may sound). You need to go out and meet other people and that way you are sure to find some that would be worthy of your love. There is definately ... (read in full...)
I just want my husband back!
Q. I have been married for 18 years. I have two kids and raised my step daughter since age 2. Over the years, I had a great marriage. We always had an exciting sex life and looked forward to those intimate times. My Husband had full custody of his ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi, It sad that you should be treated like this whe you have always been so good to everyone. You must speak to your husband and tell him exactly how you feel. He probably feels resopnsible for the way his daughter turned out but he needs to know ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to tell my mom i'm pregnant!
Q. Me and my mom dont get along that well because she is so strict, but im pregnant and im scared to tell her,HELP!...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi,Good luck and i hope everything works out for you. I admire your courage at such a young age to take on the responsibilty of a parent. Take it easy and remember that you are never alone in anything, Take care... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi,congrats! Im so happy with your decision and i would be praying for MIRACLE for you. Tell your bf not to give up hope, god works in mysterious ways, Pray and have faith and everything would work out for the best. Good Luck and take Care of you... (read in full...)
I don't want my gf to drink b/c my dad used to be an alcoholic. But I don't want to tell her what she can and can't do!
Q. Well my girlfriend and I have been dating now for three months and everything is going really good. This weekend one our friends is having a little get together at her house and they are all going to drink and then spend the night over there. My dad ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, no you are not over reacting. My dad drinks during the weekend (so i wouoldnt call him an alchoholic) and i dont like the way he behaves so i would not go out with ant one that drinks alchohol. You have every right to let her know how you feel ... (read in full...)
Feel self conscious about my 30aa chest! Would going on the pill help?
Q. me and my boyfriend lost our viginity to each other recently and have only had sex twice together and he said to me you dont like me touching your front do you and its because ive never taken my top off in front of him due to having 30aa bra size ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi,dont feel bad about your boobs. not all guys like them big and your bf seems happy so stop worrying.
Be happy and enjoy what you have.
Regards... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: You get very few guys like David you should hang onto him with both hands!... (read in full...)
I'm scared to tell my mom i'm pregnant!
Q. Me and my mom dont get along that well because she is so strict, but im pregnant and im scared to tell her,HELP!...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, get some other family member that you are comfortable to talk to and let them tell her. Just be open and honest because she would have question and remeber everything is gona be ok.
Take Care, mail me if you wanna talk
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My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi,Follow your heart. I am sorry to hear about your bf. If it is what you want then you should grant him his wish.Just remember that after some time you would have to raise that baby alone, would you be able to do that?
Think about the after effe... (read in full...)
I'm 20 years old, and dating a 36 year old. What do you think?
Q. I am 20 and the guy I am starting to see is 36. I know how to handle myself as a woman so I'm not worried about getting to attached like most ladies my age... I know I know girls say that all the time but seriously I'm a very mature 20 year old. ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, age is only a number and a probem if you let. I am 19 and my bf is 30 and i am so happy with him - happier then i have ever been with any of my other bf's. Just hang in there with regards to you parents.If they dont already know when they do ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time for my past, and it makes me miserable!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am writing with tears on my eyes 'cause devastated. I will try to make my story short. I met my bf while in college and while in college I acted a little crazy and mess around with a couple of guys. My bf and I were not together...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi,Everybody has a past or somethng abou t there past that they are not proud of. My bf has a past that is so bad that whenever i think about it (i try not to think about it very often) i cringe but i love him so much (with every part of me) that i ... (read in full...)
Does cheating once mean he'll do it again?
Q. Does cheating once mean he'll do it again? My husband cheated on me before we got married. We had been dating for 3 months when he cheated on me. The sings were there but I didn't notice until later because I was going through school and worki...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, no not necessarily. Some people really do change and they can be very sincere. Trust him (as hard as it may be).If you still insecure speak to him and i am sure he would reassure you.It is only naural for you to feel like this after what has ... (read in full...)
Help, I think I might be pregnant!
Q. I need your help whether i might be pregnant. Well i thought i might be so i took two pregnacy test and they both came up negative.Then i waited till 5 days after my missed period and that one also came up saying not pregnant. Now im not sure when ...
A. 8 August 2007: The fact that you are under stress about being pregnant is possible the cause for the miss of your period.Just relax and be positive.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi,you are feeling terrible about wht has happened to you but ou slept with Robbie while you were going out with David - If you feel so bad why are you leeting him experience what you did?
You can keep hanging onto Robbie, he is playing with your... (read in full...)
I'm too young to have sex, but my boyfriend wants to
Q. Hello I'm 15 Years Old 16 Soon And Am Scared Too Have Sex I Really Like This Boy But We Are Not Goiny Out We Have Done Everything Apart From Sex But I Think He Is Using Me Is There Any Advice You Could Give Me x...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, if you are not ready to have sex then don't, you would only end up regreting it in the end especieally if you feel he is using you and after you had sex with him what if he leaves you? When you have sex, your first time must be with someone ... (read in full...)
We're having second thoughts about the abortion...
Q. Me and my boyfriend agreed that we didnt want an abortion but we also dont want either one of us to drop out just to take care of a baby. I'm having second thoughts about it all and im sure he is too. any advice?...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, you can also have the baby and put it up for adoption, that is another option. Think about what you want and what your heart is telling you to do.
Good Luck, Mail me if you wanna talk about anything.... (read in full...)
God, my parents and me... Who comes first?
Q. I have a conflict in values with my parents who are very religious, whereas i am not. Please advice....
A. 7 August 2007: Hi, can you be specific with what type of conflicts you experience.... (read in full...)
He said he was going to the bathroom but headed straight for the spare bed... why?
Q. i met a guy on holidays 6 years ago we are both 20 and weve kept in touch since (with his mum mostly...men cant be bothered with pens and paper!) 2 weeks ago i went up to see him again...cutting the long story short the first 2 days were great we ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi,Gus are like that - they like to pretend that things never happened ( my bf does that) and we girls like to sort things out.Just hang in there and see what happens regarding the reply. No matter how difficult this is going to be hang in there (6 ... (read in full...)
Feeling like I don't love my girlfriend anymore!
Q. i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now and she's my first serious relationship ever and i've been feeling like i dont love her anymore, but i dont know if i'm just having doubts or if this is really the end for me. i've bee...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi, as you said that this is your first serious relationship. Dont hold on to the you present gf if you dont feel the same way for her - Let her go so that she can find someone else. Once you have done so then you can pursue the other girl. It is ... (read in full...)
He said he was going to the bathroom but headed straight for the spare bed... why?
Q. i met a guy on holidays 6 years ago we are both 20 and weve kept in touch since (with his mum mostly...men cant be bothered with pens and paper!) 2 weeks ago i went up to see him again...cutting the long story short the first 2 days were great we ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi, the only way for you to get an any answers would be for you to speak to him. You need to be honest with him and tell him how you feel after the way he has reacted. He would probably tell you the reason for his action. Communicate with him. It is ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: We had over quarter of a million people visit the site over the past month!
Q. Just checking the site stats. We had another milestone... for the first time, in the past 30 days, we had over quarter of a million people visit the site... not 250,000 "hits" or "visits" but actual unique visitors! As counted by Google Anal...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi, it wont be long until this website is voted "the best website eva" and everyone with internet access will be visiting. I have made lots of friends and love love love love this website.
Congrats!... (read in full...)
The condom came off, so we used the morning after pill, but I am late!
Q. The condom me and my boyfriend were using came off during sex and we did not realise. He came inside me. I took the morning after pill as soon as i could the next day. I am now 4 days late for my period. I have all the symptns for my period to ...
A. 31 July 2007: The chances are 50/50. You need to realize that when you are under stress for anything (like how you stressing for your period) your period is likely to be late. Just wait a few days and then see. If you really eager to know then you a=can either ... (read in full...)
I slept with him on the first date, and think I may have ruined the long term value of our relationship
Q. I feel like a fool! After meeting up with a guy I met on a dating site I did something completely out of character.....I slept with him on our first date! He was a real charmer and kept flattering me telling me I was beautiful etc......he bought me ...
A. 31 July 2007: Hiask him to give you a straigh answer as to where you stand in his life.If he wants a serious relationship then he must change the way he acts towards you as this makes you unhappy. If he doesnt want anything serious then you should end it. You don ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife! Should I feel guilty?
Q. I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife. I'm really not the type who does this sort of thing, and I did happen to be extremely drunk. So I'm faced with the problem of whether I should hate myself and feel ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi, you have made a mistake, stop beating yourself up for it. What's done is done and there is not much you can do to change it. As hard as it may be try to move on and make sure that you don't make the same mistake again. Give yourself a break.
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How can I overcome feeling insecure around my boyfriend's ex?!
Q. Ok please help me out here... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months. anyway i went to a club with him a few nights ago and met his ex for the first time. she was stunning, to say the least. even after just having a child(2 mnths ago wit hi...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi,the fact that he has chosen to be with you is proof enough that you have something that she doesn't.You may not be attractive but you are beautiful on the inside, you may have what she doesn't.Stop worrying about how you look because there are ... (read in full...)
Should we let our age difference get in the way?
Q. She is 21 and in college and I am 18 and finishing up high school, we are both interested in each other but we are both concerned about how the age differance will play into our relationship, should we let that matter so much?...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi, Age is nothing but a number. Don't worry about your'lls age.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Concerned about three-some!
Q. Ive been dating my g/f for about 6 months now, and shes pressuring me to have a threesome with one of her friends. The third person is a female, and it should be my fantasy to have it, but i extremly dislike the idea. i love her very much and i ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi, just be honest and tell her how you feel.I dont think that this is a good idea - It is sure to cause problems in the future. You may want to make her happy but dont do something you dont want to.
Good luck... (read in full...)
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