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I dnt brag and say i have all the answers, cause i dont. I just say my opinion, which some of the time is right.
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How can I stop feeling jealous of his gorgeous ex?
Q. I'm dealing with some stupid, irrational jealousy here... or envy, I don't know, I feel inferior compared to his ex even though I shouldn't! This guy says I'm his first love. He has endured several problems to be with me (actually he's jealous of ...
A. 12 February 2008: I'd say stop worrying. She's his ex for a reason so obviously it wasn't working out with them, and the fact she cheated would make it even worse. I just say enjoy all the time you have with him. If you worry about it you won't be as happy, and I'm ... (read in full...)
We have a date for the cinema! How should I behave?
Q. Hey guys! Right well i've been txtin a girl for a while! And decided to tell her i liked her last night and see how she felt about me! She said she liked me aswell and thanked me for bein straight with her. :) So we're goin to the cinema on frida...
A. 12 February 2008: If she likes you too then theres not much worry She will probably be wondering the same thing. If i was on a date i would feel more relax if the lad put his arm around me, make you feel more relaxed into it, and not just like you are with a mate. A... (read in full...)
Will the morning after pill stop me getting pregant?
Q. hello, a friend of mine said morning after pills really works: like when you take it within 73 hours, it really works like it clean everything in you out. Last night me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me. After that i put spermcid...
A. 2 February 2008: The morning after pill is more effective the earlier you take it so you might still get pregnant. ALso spermicide isnt 100% effective aswell. Id get the pills as soon as possible to have a better chance.... (read in full...)
Is it bad to go out with a 17 yr old male if you are 15?
Q. Is it bad to go out with a 17 yr old male if ur 15?...
A. 26 January 2008: Well i dont think so. U think its a big deal now but when you are older you wont. Just think, he might be more mature than boys your age But still be careful round some lads XxX... (read in full...)
How do I stop my large breasts giving me stretch marks?
Q. I have size 30G breasts and I hate it because I have recently started getting stretch marks because they keep on growing. Does anyone have any ideas, help or tips on how i can prevent this because the marks are making me afraid to ever show any ...
A. 15 December 2007: The one i go a shop called bravissimo, there are three branches in London. covent garden,ealing and oxford circus. i dnt know if you live near there but they do great feminine bras unlike the horrible stuff i seem to only be able to find in other st... (read in full...)
How do I stop my large breasts giving me stretch marks?
Q. I have size 30G breasts and I hate it because I have recently started getting stretch marks because they keep on growing. Does anyone have any ideas, help or tips on how i can prevent this because the marks are making me afraid to ever show any ...
A. 14 December 2007: Id like to point out i am not a hacker.
and basically the info about the bra i gave was the same as you pgissyd.
And they do make you look thin. i sud know seen as i have them!!... (read in full...)
How do I stop my large breasts giving me stretch marks?
Q. I have size 30G breasts and I hate it because I have recently started getting stretch marks because they keep on growing. Does anyone have any ideas, help or tips on how i can prevent this because the marks are making me afraid to ever show any ...
A. 14 December 2007: I dont think that there is any way for you to get rid of the stretch marks or stop your breats from growing. I was and still am in the same situation however, mine were DD at 14 and now at 16 are FF and stil growing. I say just be proud of them, a... (read in full...)
We're having our 1st anniversary and I want to give her something unique and romantic but won't freak her out?
Q. hey people just a general question..ive been with my gf for a year now can ne1 help me with any unique romantic ideas? and also is it weird to give an anniversary card because i thought that might be nice bt i thort that something married couples ...
A. 28 November 2007: If you have pictures, why dont you make a scrap book of your first year together this makes it really special and something she can look back to and remember hope this helps XxX... (read in full...)
I love her so I do not want her to regret taking this step! - as I am going away for 2 yrs to school. She is willing to have her first time with me.
Q. im 17 my gf is 14 weve been together for 7 months and she wants me to take her virginity but im going off to school in august of 2008 for at least 2 years but our love is true. please help i love her so much but i dont want any regrets ...
A. 23 November 2007: I think you are being really sweet to you gf,im sure most other guys wont be like this.
First let her know of whats happening in the future. If she is still ready after that go for it. I know most people will say that your gf is too young but if y... (read in full...)
How do I know if he fancies me or my mate?
Q. I really like a guy at school, though i seem really young at 14 i've never felt like this with and other crushes i've had on guys. I get along quite well with him and we seem to flirt alot but i dno whether to ask him out or not, I'm also worried ...
A. 16 November 2007: Looks like a tricky situation, but to be honest, what is the point of not telling him, if you dont your'll just keep wondering. If he doesnt like you then you have closure, but if he says he does, then brilliant.
I would first find out if your frie... (read in full...)
Is he interested or is his flirting behaviour just friendly?
Q. I've known this guy since the start of term, and there was like this instant attraction between us. We were both really keen on getting to know each other, even though we were at a new college and there were loads of other people we didn't know. So ...
A. 9 November 2007: I think that we might be twins or something lol,
Same thing happened to me today lol,
Cept it was in a classroom
I really enjoy it when he flirts with me and it always cheers me up when im with him.
I just put up that barrier of how far it goes.... (read in full...)
I'm a girl and I have a moustache - how can I hide it?
Q. I am a girl and I have a bit of a moustache above my top lip. I bleach it so noboby can see it. But it worries me because it makes me feel really unfeminine. Also, I was wondering that when you kiss someone, can you feel their moustache? Have you ...
A. 8 November 2007: I have the same problem
I would decide to wax just yet as it makes the hair grow thicker and more noticable and you will get more self concious about it.
Carry on bleaching it. You can feel it and its just as innoticable as the hairs all over you... (read in full...)
Is he interested or is his flirting behaviour just friendly?
Q. I've known this guy since the start of term, and there was like this instant attraction between us. We were both really keen on getting to know each other, even though we were at a new college and there were loads of other people we didn't know. So ...
A. 7 November 2007: I am in exactly the same situation, the only difference is that his gf actually goes to the same school as we both go to.
What i had to think about what different outcomes there could be.
I dont want him to cheat on his girlfriend because that mea... (read in full...)
Confused and he's all I think abot.
Q. OK heres the thing, i really like a lad who like me as well. He has a gf. I really feel a strong attractivness towards him. He has always thought of himself as the ugly one and says first he has nothing and then something big comes along (me), and ...
A. 1 November 2007: Well, we've put up a barrier that we will just be friends,
I feel so gutted and sad, i just want to cry my eyes out.
I told him not to do anything to his gf and he agreed but said we can stop our feelings, but we are going to try
Wish me luck for ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not??
Q. My crush knows I like him or has known that I've liked him. Sometimes he's like everywhere I go and other times he acts like I'm not even there : ( He ad I are both REALLY shy with each other because I know that it is possible for him to like me ...
A. 1 November 2007: Ok the thing is with guys, is that they dont want to show any feelings towards girls when they are around their friends. They will want to act big around them. Does he only ignore you when he is around his friends???
When you asked your guy frie... (read in full...)
Had him, Left him, Had him, Left him, Want him, Lost him.
Q. Alright. About a year ago, I met this REALLY nice, cute and tall (yah... It's hard for me to find all 3 in 1 package, considering im 6 feet tall) boy. He liked me... ALOT. It was weird for me, because I'm a distant person, and need time to get to ...
A. 1 November 2007: I dnt really know the extent of the situation tbh, but i had the same situation with my ex bf.
We went out many a time, and i always dumped him time and time again. When he go a new gf i wanted him back, and i couldnt of course. I got over him quic... (read in full...)
He's giving me mixed signals.
Q. Hi, I need some advice. This lad keeps staring at me and even when his friends try and talk to him he doesnt stop looking. My friends look over for me and when ever they do he is always looking.We always talk over msn and he described the girl he ...
A. 31 October 2007: First you need to decide whether you like him as well. If you do, it really seems that he likes you and i say go for it. Maybe get him on his own and spend some quality time together, just to get to know each other. Ask him bluntly whether he likes... (read in full...)
When is the right time to make the first move, I don't want to scare her off
Q. when is the right time to kiss a girl in a relationship. i don't want to do it to early and scare her away or seem pushy but i don't want to do it too late and seem uncaring or not interested. any help would be great. thanks....
A. 31 October 2007: I think that a first kiss comes when you are both ready for it.
I think you will just feel the need to.
I think any time after a week would be a gr8 time. Try to make your first kiss special, as as the relatioship progresses, she will always r... (read in full...)
I'm too nervous to talk to my crush. What do I do?
Q. There's this girl and i really like her! When i see her i really want to talk to her but then i finally get to her and i get really nervous and don't know what to say. all i get to say is Hi and thats it and walk off! I was going to ask her out the ...
A. 31 October 2007: Don't just jump straight in there and ask her, you might scare her off.
Get to know her as a friend first. Use msn or another way of talking to get to know her better.
Personally i prefer a guy that can make me laugh, and cheer me up. Send subtle h... (read in full...)
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