Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: Hey
Not all girls are like this. I know that i am not like that, i would never hurt any guy intentionally. Sorry that you had an unlucky experience with one of those type of girls.
Regards... (read in full...)
Are we really over?
Q. hey guys i just got really hurt here is my problem? I get back togther with my third time ex Austin 4 weeks ago so i called him tonight and told him to call me back whick he did. Then he said kiss me of course you know i did then all of the sudden i...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi swty,
Did you have 2 bfs together? You first need to decide who you want to be with. Then work on that one. If you really want another chance with you ex then you shold call him and explain to him that you didnt mean to shout at him and you ... (read in full...)
I keep thinking about my boyfriend all the time... It's annoying me!!
Q. ok i need help..really bad..i have a boyfriend..and i cannot stop thinking about him..I mean its annoying now..EVERYTHING i do he is there in my thoughts..he wants to marry me when he turns 18..will that not b acceptable cus im only 16...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
If you and your bf just started out then that is completely normaal hun.Due to your relationship being new that is the reason for your thougthsJust hang in there after sometime i doubt you would be thinking about him that often.With regards ... (read in full...)
He's ditched his girlfriend... Is he coming after me?
Q. I known this guy for about a year now and I really like him. I think he's flirting with meh but it's hard to tell. H just broke up wit dis grl, but i dunno cause i heard him telling peeps dat he broke up wit her to got out wit someone. I hope it's ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
This is a 50/50.You should hang out around him and then you would be able to pick it up from him.Also you should get to know his friends and then maybe they would be able to tell you. Just hang in there and you would soon know if it is you. ... (read in full...)
Since I cheated too, we're "even-steven," but I don't know if this means he will be unfaithful again.
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me the other day. But...i did the same to him... i cheated with an ex. He knows, i told him, and he told me he cheated on me. We're being honest with each other, which he really appreciates. But he said he was upset and mad ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi You need to know that 2 wrongs defintely dont make a right. Your relationship needs some mending now and you should both work on the trust factor. Try to get your relationship back on track then you wouldnt feel insecure. You should spe... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for taking him back but I just can't let go.
Q. hi, I'm really stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in no more, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has started taking drugs cocaine, I've told him if he carrys on I'll end it but I don't think he cares. He has hit me in the ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi Other then the fact that this guy is a danger for you, he is also a danger for you child. I suggest that you leave this relationship now, while you are alive before it is too late.I understand what you are saying that you find it hard to let g... (read in full...)
She never calls me, I always have to call her first yet she calls her friends with no problems.
Q. dear cupid Hope you are fine. I have a girlfreind who I love so much, but the problem is that, I don't know if this girl loves me as much as I do her, this girl does not call me at all, I have to call her everytime... even if I send her air time... ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi I cant really say what is the reason but is she shy?You should try speaking to her about this and then you would get the answers. Also you can say " How about you call me back at ____ (time)? Commmunications is very important and the only way... (read in full...)
I love her but I have trust issues from previous relations so I've been snooping around and can't put my mind to rest. What should I do?
Q. My past is not the greatest i have slept with random girls and i had some one night stands! so here is my question - Me and my girlfriend started dating 6 months ago and when i moved into her house i snooped around because that is the pers...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
I know jealousy is a nasty thing. You need to realize that not all girls are the same. She may be different from your previous gfs. You should go for some counselling either alone or with her as this is soon going to start destroying your rel... (read in full...)
How to say to a guy that has treated you well and cared for you that he is not the one?
Q. How to say a guy, that has treated you well, cared about you, was on your side to support you and who you know has feelings for you, that HE IS Simply Not THE Guy you're looking for?? and not to be painful for him? What's the best way? Please, any ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi,
The truth is that no matter how you tell him, it is going to hurt him.Just be honest and polite. Tell him that you think it would be better if yourll were just friends. Im sure that he would appreciate your honesty and i also think that it ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?
Q. Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
In cases guys wouldnt want to do anything to upset their gfs.So you should just tell him that you dont like the idea and that you would prefer it if he stopped doing that.
Regards,mail if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lives in another city and I feel neglected.
Q. My "boyfriend" lives in another city and went on vacation with his family and sister/niece/nephew from another country for 2.5 weeks, so the last time I saw him was on August 12. While on his trip, he only e-mailed me once and text messaged me ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
It is normal for you to feel neglected. You need to speak to him and let him that if he continues the way he is, this is going to distance you from him and there woukd not be much of your relationship left. Ask him what his intentios are, whe... (read in full...)
I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment.
Q. I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment. I am confused, don't you think that after three years someone should know their intentions! He has told me that he loves me, a few times. What do I ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
You need to take charge. You seem to know what you want and you need him to play his part in yourlls relationship.You should try and get a reason as to why he doesnt want to commit, you need to know where you stand with him.After speaking... (read in full...)
How can I rid myself of this jealousy before I kill our relationship?
Q. I separated from my husband almost 18 months ago but have to remain in the same house due to financial pressures. Just after we separated I became more than friendly with a man I'd known from a distance, he told me he too was separated although I ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
You have to deal with your insecurities. i have also had this problem and the truth is that i almost destoyed my relationship.Get reassurance from him and then you shoudl be ok.What are your plans for this relationship in the future?
Regards... (read in full...)
We both agreed to stop the relationship since he moved to another city. What would you do?
Q. I met this guy at work last year, we went out, had a couple of dates, and both had strong feeling on each other. However things have been changed because he has decided to move to another city, and we stopped our relationship becoz we both thought ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
There is no reason why you both cant have a long distance relationship,If you both really love each other and are determined enough then you should try that out. You should also realize that being in a long distance relationship involves... (read in full...)
I had genital warts years ago and I'm worried it could come back at any time. Please help me put my mind at rest!
Q. Hi. About 9 years ago i had genital warts which were treated and gone. and my mate came around last night and told me she has got clamydia which brought back memories for me, so this morning i went and did some research on the net to read that once ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
Go to the doctor and ask him for his opinion.Also if that does happen then you can just get it treated again. Speak to your gynacologist for more info.Get about 2 opinions and then you can decide what you gonna do.Dont stress untill you know... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair for 5 yrs but we argued and now we're not talking. Does she love me or not?
Q. Hi I am with love with her, we were together for last five years, we bothe were married but some how got into love but it was very difficult to manage this relationship as she wanted me to adject lots of things, because of love I was trying to do ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi,
This is just my opinion; when 2 people have seek relationships out of their marriage they look for something that does not require much work (no fighting,arguing, stress etc) She has probably decided to take some time out as it was becoming... (read in full...)
My husband works away and we only see each other once a year. He says i'm shy. Please help.
Q. i am married and my husband does job in other country.he comes after one year and we talk on phone after one week or in emails.in our 4 years marriage i still feel a gap with my husband.he says you are shy girl..he is simple and honest man. i am ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi,
Is it really necessary that your hubby work so far from home? Can he not find another job that is closer to home. I must say that i admire your courage and determination to maintain such a lond distance relationship.The reason you are shy is b... (read in full...)
My ex HATES me for no reason while most couples that break up at school act cordial to each other afterwards!!...
Q. My ex and I have been broken up for a year. We go to a small school. Most couples that break up at school act cordial to each other afterwards but my ex HATES me for no reason. At the time he was having family problems and broke up with me. I waited ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
Firstly,Is your age correct?
Your ex is probably hurting as he did not expect you to be someone else. He ended things with you as he was having problems with his family and was probably not thinking clearly but that is really no reason... (read in full...)
My mother said she likes to pick trouble with me so I can do something wrong and she can call the cops!
Q. I cant stand it! i am very emothional and people who I "thought that love me" are bringing me down. Like my mom, when i stand up for someone she yells at me like i was the one who to blame, but when she stands up for someone and i disagree she ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
I dont understabd why your mum would act in this manner. i dont think that is right for her to be going through your things.You and your mum should try to get some counselling so that you can work through your dilemma.You should try speaking... (read in full...)
Should I be upset or just be happy to spend time with him?
Q. The guy i dated all summer and i are now back at different schools. We got very close over the summer and then it was time to leave. We did not say we were seeing each other exclusively because we r at different colleges. He asked me to come down ...
A. 7 September 2007: If you really like this guy then i suggest that you ask him where your relationship is heading so that you dont expect too much and receive nothing.Also dont always believe everything that you hear, see that what you have heard is from a trusted ... (read in full...)
Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the course of our relationship.
Q. Hi all, please help. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. We own a home together, have a 1 month old son, and I have a 4 year old daughter who he treats as his own. Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi Your bf is just hurting and that is the reason for his nastyness. You need to gain his trust again and things should work out for yourll.Let him no that you are sorry and regret everything that you have done to hurt him and reassure him tha... (read in full...)
Should I just take a break with him and focus on my life?
Q. Should I break up with him? I really love him and he loves me we have been going out for 8 months now. I'm just not into anything sexual or anything like that, I like him more as a companion right now. It is also probably becuase I am a big ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi, In life is nice to have a companion.Ask him if he is ok with the amount of time that you 2 spend together and if he is then you dont reallt have a problem.However, if he would like to spend more time with you, then there would be lots of... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend hasn't texted all day. Is this normal?
Q. Is it normal in a relationship for your partner to have the odd day where they don't contact you at all? My boyfriend hasn't texted me at all today you see. I have this romantic ideal where the guy beats a path to your door all the time but I ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi, Stop stressing for nothing. Your bf may just be busy, you cant jump to the conclusion that he is not interested in you.Have you tried texting him? The fact that he may be busy does not mean that he does not love you either. Just hane in the... (read in full...)
I upset my boyfriend because I told him I'm scarred of where he lives. What should I do?
Q. i really upset my bf to the point he cried i was telling him on the phone about something that happened in his area (a girl was killed coz she was a goth) and said im scared to go to his. he then started going on about me toughing up and how i need ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi, Just ket him know that nothing can effect your relationship as you really loves. Tell him that you are prepared to work through your fear (and you should be) and that would ease him. Speaking to him should comfort him. You can also plan a nice... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date my step cousin?
Q. is it wrong for me to date my step-cousin? i have this step cousin of mine that i have had strong deep feeling for and chasing after for more than a year and an a half. the good thing is that she knows about and confronted me about. what she say was ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi How is this girl your step cousin?... (read in full...)
How do I ask a guy I like out? I'm scared of rejection.
Q. Hi there is this guy who i like, and im good mates with him,he is 27 and im 22, and he is one of the managers of mcdonalds in town,where i live,im very good mates with one of the other young managers their too, but i like the 27 year old. ive...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi, First become friends.Ask him out to a movie but as a friend.Let him get to no you, then he would probably doit first.After you become his friend then you should exchange telephone numbers to get into contact.Start wih friendship and m... (read in full...)
I don't want my bf getting sucked into his ex's dramas!!
Q. An old girlfriend tried to I.M. my b/f tonight while we were on the computer downloading some music. He chose the "do not accept" this person as an I.M. buddy, but I was still upset that she's contacting him. He claims he hasn't talked to her and ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, i had the exact same problem.My bf's ex was contact him on my fone which she though he had.They have not been in contact for about a year.She tried ti call and texted him. Eventually i called her and she said that "they were only friends and if ... (read in full...)
How do I make him realise he still needs to earn my love?
Q. I love him so much, but 9 months now and he knows he has me. he doesnt chase me anymore which makes me mad cause he just gives me this blah attitude. i wanna see him yet he takes forever for that. how do i make him realize he still needs to earn ...
A. 4 September 2007: Speak to him and let him know that you dont like his easy going attitude.
... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
Most of the time.
I would rather chose to go out with someone that is average looking but i know is all mine then for me to go out with a stud and he would be out there for everyone else to look at. I would chose personality in conjunction w... (read in full...)
I went out and cheated on my girl. I want to make it work with her for my daughters sake but my feelings aren't the same anymore..
Q. hi.I need suome advice of wot to do!I have been with my fiancee for 6 and half years and we have an 18 month old girl.Last weekend saw me go out and stay round a mates!I ended up taking a girl with me and we made love!I really dont know what to do ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi,
get some marriage counselling and make sure that this never happens again as this would not only end up hurting your gf but also your daughter.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?
Q. I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
It depends:
You could either do the same thing you have done to the new girl and then end up hurting her as well
Or
You can let her know that you really loved her that is why you chose to be with her instead of the other girl.
So... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesom but I would rather it just be me and another woman! Is this selfish of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we are extremely happy. He always talks about wanting to try new things and I am usually completely up for it. But lately he has talked about having a threesome with another girl. For awhile I ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, i personally think that a threesome is very much likely to cause issues in the future for you and your bf.I think you should get rid of the idea and if after some time you are keen then you should let your bf go and then go and experience being ... (read in full...)
I lost a bet and now have to dress as a girl for a week! What should I wear?
Q. I lost a bet to some girls and have to dress as a girl for 1 week. skirts make up dress and dat. help what will i wear?...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, i woud suggest no high heeled shoes ( you would fall over yourself) just wear skirts with slops and some pretty summer dresses.If you dont mind me asking, where are you going to find these clothes?
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Do I stay or do I go? My guy is distant these days.
Q. Okay, me and my guy have been together since Jan this year. And Im his first proper relationship. He has been with other girls before, but none would give them him the time of day. He spent lots of money on them, but I have to pay for my way in the ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, speak to him and get him to tell you where you stand in the relationship.Once you know for sure then you can either continue fighting for yourlls relationship and be his support or you can get out of the relationship and move on. Communicate ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity with a lad and I haven't bled. Does that mean there is a problem?
Q. Well ive just recently had sex with a lad i met and ive had sex with him 3 times but i did'nt bleed.Is this normal or have i got a problem ? ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, yes it is normal. Not everyone blleds their first time. you were just one of the luck ones. there is nothing for you to worry about.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy then he abused me. How do I get over feeling betrayed and used?
Q. I had sex with my bf after 10 months of going out with him. He was my first kiss, my first bf. I am 18 years old. However about a month after we had sex for the first time we broke up. I broke it off with him, however the reason why I did was ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, you are not stupid you just trust too easily. You have a made a mistake and have realized it now it is time to move on.Try and get past this incident with your ex bf.It is clear enough that he is not worthy of you and that you deserve better - ... (read in full...)
My partners son said I hit him. I didn't and his 21 yr old sister lied and said I did to my partner. How can I deal with step children?
Q. I have reached the end of my tether with my partners children. My partners 9 year old son and his 21 year old step daughter live in Northern Ireland and visit during school holidays and for long weekends. In short they are horrible to me, ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, sorry that you have to put up with that.They have probably lied to get you in bad books with their father.Calmy sit your partner down and tell him what really happened and explain to him that you would neve hurt his children as they are like ... (read in full...)
I went out on a date with this guy and he was too touchy feely. How do I let him know I only want to be friends?
Q. I feel so weird, please help. I recently met a guy who works at a bookstore in my local mall about a week ago; he made me laugh so much and was just so much fun to be with, that I agreed to meet him for lunch today. Okay, here's what happened ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi, just give me a last chance and see if he is really sorry or nothing has changed and then you can decided from there. Go out on Wednesday (hope it is a public place) and things might just be different. Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
I was drunk and cheated on my boyfriend; now he won't talk to me!...
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend on a saturday night and I told him what i had done the next day. i was drunk and i didn't realise of what i was doing.i didn't even like the guy. now my boyfriend doesn't wanna talk to me and i don't know what to do in ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, I dont think you would want to drink anymore (LOL).Speak to your bf. He needs to understand that everyone needs a second chance and that if you are sincere, he should give you one. Everyone makes mistakes and you were one of them.Apologize and ... (read in full...)
I went out on a date with this guy and he was too touchy feely. How do I let him know I only want to be friends?
Q. I feel so weird, please help. I recently met a guy who works at a bookstore in my local mall about a week ago; he made me laugh so much and was just so much fun to be with, that I agreed to meet him for lunch today. Okay, here's what happened ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, just tell him in person. You better do it soon because this guy sounds like he is going way over your boundaries.Tell him that you have a bf (even if you dont) and that youu can only be his friend nothing more.Infact you shoud not want to be ... (read in full...)
We snogged and got it on. Was this just a one off or something more?
Q. ok here it goes i met a friend of my sisters bf and we got on well..so i asked my sis bf if he liked me he said he asked about me but nothing much was said. so i met him again this was the fifth time and we had a few drinks and we crossed in the ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, you have to speak to him to find out what is going on. You need to know what his intentions are before you expect more from him.Just speak to him and ask him where to from here. Before you speak to him you need to realize what you expect from ... (read in full...)
I still want him back, after he cheated on me! What should I do?
Q. O.K My ex-boyfriend and I split like 7 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend. Which is the reason why we split!! I ended up hurt really bad as he chose to be with her. However, recently I have met up with him and we ended up messing around. He was ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, what your bf has done to you, his new gf is doing the same thing to him.Dont give him the impression that you are waiting around for him as he will keep you hanging around as long as he can. Be his friend and be there for him when he needs ... (read in full...)
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