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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Yes you can use two condoms, but only roll the first one just past the head, then hold in place with a suitable elastic band, (11cm doubled suited me)place a little ortho cream over the condom, this prevents friction for the fully applied condom.For me this made contraception 100% for twenty odd years.My wife was unable to use any of the female methods so this was our best way of contraception.
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reader, solviva  +, writes (12 January 2008):
Ha ha lol it sounds like hes making up an excuse for trying to make him self last longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): bad idea - most condoms are lubricated on the outside so chances are the top one will come off inside you.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (11 January 2008):
It reaally amazes me that in this day and age there are some people who think like your dude.Tell him that he won't feel anything if he uses two and you won't feel anything too(that's if he's never tried it before).A more honest and mature approach is to downlad articles from da net and share them with him.If that doesn't work then you have no option but use manipulation.Tell him that you know the risks of using two condoms and if he won't use one he's not getting any sex from you,pronto!
Good luck.
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reader, gcockerham +, writes (11 January 2008):
Just buy some extra safe condoms and you should be fine. Durex make an "extra safe" version. Maybe this will make him feel more comfortable.
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reader, gcockerham +, writes (11 January 2008):
Just buy some extra safe condoms and you should be fine. Durex make an "extra safe" version. Maybe this will make him feel more comfortable.
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reader, gcockerham +, writes (11 January 2008):
Just buy some extra safe condoms and you should be fine. Durex make an "extra safe" version. Maybe this will make him feel more comfortable.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Hi
Try and get some info on condoms which you can give to yourbf. 2 Condoms and not safer then 1. I think you should get the info so that he can read it - If he reads it then he would probably understand it better. Also you can go to the clinic for someone to help you .
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): yeah two is actually not as safe as just one. why don't you tell him to wrap a hefty garbage bag around it while he is at it. lol that was a joke!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (11 January 2008):
You are right, it doesnt protect you anymore, infact, from what ive heard from a professional, is that it increased the chance of the condom breaking if you wear two for 'extra safety'. Perhaps you could show him this page? Google the topic on the internet and show him articles from professionals about it. Or you could both go to the doctors to talk about contraception and they will tell you what works and what doesnt. Perhaps you could get a parent or some other adult you are both close to, to talk to you both about it?
Whatever happens, stand your ground! Dont have sex until you both are fully aware of the best and most safest way of having sex.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (11 January 2008):
 With two condoms he won't feel anything I imagine. This is your best bet for convincing him. If this doesn't work simply tell him that unless he is wearing only one condom he's not going anywhere near you. It is your body and you are the one who will get pregnant. If he can't respect that give him the heave ho!
good luck.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 if he hasn't done the two condom technique before, maybe you can scare him out of it and say something about how it already feels like a vicegrip using one, would really want to double that? my bf has probs keeping it up in ONE so i think two he'd be totally celibate for the rest of his life..see? scare tactics! good luck, don't give into his ridiculous logic you're right to think it could get you two in trouble
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Tell him you won't risk pregnancy or disease just because he thinks two are better. Inform him that until he realizes that the friction between the two would cause a rupture and put you both at risk you will not have sex with him. He should listen then and if he dosen't then he's not worth having sex with.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (10 January 2008):
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Say to him, if you wanna use two condoms, we are not having sex.
Two condoms is stupid as they will rub together cause fricton and chances are both will break.
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