Am I being paranoid about not meeting his parents.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and I have still not met his parents, all though we do come from to different racial backgrounds, Im am white and he is asain. I love him so much and I really do want to meet his parents, and he still ...
A. 12 November 2007: Hi
The way that i see it is that if a guy tells his parents/family about you then he is serious about you ( im not saying that your bf isnt) It is possible that things maybe very difficult for him now as his parents are probably strict and have... (read in full...)
Is he only sticking around for sex?
Q. An old aquaintance and I recently got back in touch, and we have gone out every weekend for the past three weeks. We hit it off, and there was obviously chemistry, and in the heat of the moment, we had sex that first night and have continued to each ...
A. 12 November 2007: Hi
I think that would be good for you to be a friend when he needs one so desperately now. Friendship is where everything starts. Good Luck.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
Is it emotional abuse
Q. Is it emotional abuse if someone makes you feel bad when you don't smoke or drink? Then, they turn it around and say that you're the one making a big deal out of nothing, when in fact they just can't take no for an answer?...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
Somelone that loves and cares for you wouldnt want to see you drink till you are drunk.He should wanna protect you.Im not saying that you are like this but when people are drunk they lose control of their actions and end up doing things t... (read in full...)
Why is he afraid?
Q. I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
I just want to share something with you. When i first met my bf we were both in relationships. I left my then current relationship to be with this other guy (the 1 i am with now we would call him S) S had a gf at that time who he never left. He... (read in full...)
Why is he afraid?
Q. I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
I just want to share something with you. When i first met my bf we were both in relationships. I left my then current relationship to be with this other guy (the 1 i am with now we would call him S) S had a gf at that time who he never left. He... (read in full...)
Why is he afraid?
Q. I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
I just want to share something with you. When i first met my bf we were both in relationships. I left my then current relationship to be with this other guy (the 1 i am with now we would call him S) S had a gf at that time who he never left. He... (read in full...)
Why is he afraid?
Q. I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
I just want to share something with you. When i first met my bf we were both in relationships. I left my then current relationship to be with this other guy (the 1 i am with now we would call him S) S had a gf at that time who he never left. He... (read in full...)
Why is he afraid?
Q. I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
I just want to share something with you. When i first met my bf we were both in relationships. I left my then current relationship to be with this other guy (the 1 i am with now we would call him S) S had a gf at that time who he never left. He... (read in full...)
We're married with kids; I threatened to leave if he doesn't stop drinking. Please help.
Q. We have been married for 14 years and have 2 girls aged 13 and 16 years. My husband works hard and is a good provider, our problem is the drink, he never used to drink and drive but lately he has taken to having a few pints with mates after a day's ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hi
My dad would never admit that he has a drinking problem too. My dad is just like your hubby. If they have a couple of drinks then they would be ok but if we go out and my dad start to drink (even if he agrees at home that he would have only a c... (read in full...)
During the break-up I saw a side of him that I didn't like/forget. He just proposed now. How to find the strength to walk away?
Q. I am so confused. I am in love with someone that hurt me. He broke up with me and now he is back and wants to work things out. I love him so much but during the break-up I saw a side to him that I didn't like and could possibly never forget. Should ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
You need to realize that you have seen a side that is in him and would always be. It would take something like what has happened between yourll previously to bring that side out of him again. I dont think that you wanna be in a relation... (read in full...)
We're married with kids; I threatened to leave if he doesn't stop drinking. Please help.
Q. We have been married for 14 years and have 2 girls aged 13 and 16 years. My husband works hard and is a good provider, our problem is the drink, he never used to drink and drive but lately he has taken to having a few pints with mates after a day's ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Alcohol is one of the worst things on this planet. My dad doesnt drink from a Monday to a Thursday but the does on the weekend. When he does have alcohol (within a certain amount) then he is ok but if he goes overboard then we have a problem.... (read in full...)
Doctors say my husband and I are fertile and we've been trying to conceive for 3 yrs now. Suggestions, pills?
Q. Hi ladies this is a more of a question for you and guys if you can give advice that would be ok too. Well i am 18 years old the first time i have got my period was when i was 10. But i have irregular periods. i have been to doctors after doctors and ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Just out of curiosity at what age did you get married? I think that the possible reason that you are unable to conceive is because you are under stress a this time. You are constantly worrying about concieving which is preventing you from doi... (read in full...)
I speak to my bf on the phone but I don't want to sound depressed all the time because of the distance. Suggestions to make this easier?
Q. Hi My boyfriend has been sent away for work for a few months. We have recently just moved in together and I am totally missing him at the moment.. I have this really bad longing for him and he's only been gone a week. We speak to each other all t...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
You should think about all the good times that you are going to have when he gets back and about the wonderful relationship you have (think happy thought). you can also remember all the good/happy parts of your relationship.You dont want to ... (read in full...)
I broke up with her, feeling lust for other girls. I care for her, but don't actually know what I want. Your opinions?
Q. Hi, i got a question on wether i did the right thing, or i dont know what. iv been friends with this girl for 3 years, sleeping with her for the past 6 months, and dating her for the past 2 months. My first relationship ever. We have fun with ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
You should consider yourself lucky coz to me it seems like she likes you alot. If you felt that you didnt want to be in the relationship, then it would be that you have done the right thing. You should be in the relationship if you dont wan... (read in full...)
Is this normal? About ejaculation.
Q. My penis starts leaking semen at the time of arousal. Is this normal? and i also ejaculate within few seconds ...
A. 8 November 2007: Yes it is very normal, It is like when a girk get wet so do guys.Stop Stressing.
Regards... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid about not meeting his parents.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and I have still not met his parents, all though we do come from to different racial backgrounds, Im am white and he is asain. I love him so much and I really do want to meet his parents, and he still ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Can you let me know what religion your bf is. I am asian as well.
Regards... (read in full...)
I love him, don't want to cheat, but don't know what to do
Q. hi everyone thanks for reading this post. Basically I am engaged to a lovely man and I love him dearly - we met online 2 yrs ago and are getting married in 2009. We have a very happy relationship however we haven't had sex in the last year and I ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Have you realized that if you marry this guy, it would be like this forever.Do you wanna enter a marriage like this?From your post i sense that if you do enter into that marriage then you are bound to seek the attention else where. I think yo... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about it, it's eating me up
Q. I have been going with my boyfriend for ten months, its had major ups and major downs and sometimes i question why i`m with him, but i couldnt bare to leave him and see him with somebody else, recently i learned that his ex girlfriend was a virgin ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
You need to realizes that the past is the past and that dwelling in the past prevents one from moving forward. If you speaking abouty this to your bf you are going to push him away from you.Do you want to drive your bf away? Also nobody c... (read in full...)
Married without parents permission
Q. can a 16 year old who is pragnet by her 21 year old boyfriend get marry without parents permision...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Im not sure, it depends in which state you live. I do think that if you are under 18 and pregnant then your bf can go to jail. Be careful what you decide.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
How can I stop her from coming with us?
Q. Right i got dis friend lets call her 'Katy' and she's being really clingy to my other mate, who i'm better friends with than Katy. Anyway she's like constantly with us all the time, sometimes it really bugs me - i don't consider her as a good ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Maybe you could ask your other friend to ask Katy to lay off abit. I understand that you are feeling a bit suffocated with her presence. If that doesnt work then you should speak to her yourself. Tell her calmly not to come where she is not i... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me the way he should
Q. Help!! I am still in love with my exbotyfriend but I recently found out that he has been married for 1 year and also has a nwborn son. my heart truely belongs to him. I am in in a relationship with my two kids father but he doesn't love me the way a ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
By you staing in the marriage you would be unhappy and would soon make your husband unhappy. You should speak to your hubby about the aspects of your life that you are unhappy about.You need to realize that your ex has moved on and you shou... (read in full...)
I need to control my snack habit
Q. Most nights when I get home from school I have loads of snacks and it is worrying me because I don't want to get over weight. Like tonight, I have a packet of crisps, ice cream and a biscuit. I don't intend on having so many snacks but I can't help ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Why dont you go out and buy some healthy foods like fruits and health biscuit etc then when you feel like snacking you can grab one of those. I think you should try and keep yourseld occupied to prevent yourself from eating those unhealth... (read in full...)
Why is he afraid?
Q. I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
I think that he is jealous due to you seeing other people. Which isnt correct as he has a wife which he has not left yet. Are you sure that things are going to go the way you want them to? You should speak to him and get his intentio... (read in full...)
Is it emotional abuse
Q. Is it emotional abuse if someone makes you feel bad when you don't smoke or drink? Then, they turn it around and say that you're the one making a big deal out of nothing, when in fact they just can't take no for an answer?...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Im not sure whether i wold call it emotional abuse but you are being pressured into doing things that you dont wanna do. I would suggest that you stay away from this person or people. They are bad for you.
Take Care,mail me if you wanna tal... (read in full...)
She doesn't know if she loves me
Q. Can anyone help me I've been with my partner for 4 years now we have lived together with her 2 kids aged 16 and 17 for 3 1/2 years we have made a house a lovely home we've been on lots of hoildays as a family with our friends and on or own,most ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
You wife acted in an immature manner. Does she not know that 2 wrong definatelt dont make a right? You need to take a stand in your relationship. I think she is walking all over you becaeuse of your mistake and she is holding that against ... (read in full...)
How can I be strong and stay away from him?
Q. For the past 2 years i was dating a loser. The First 6 months were heaven! after that things slowly deteriorated, in the 2nd year i knew i had to get out of this relationship. I lost touch with my family and friends one by one who decided they...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
There is someone out there that deserves you and would know your worth. You have to be strong, you have made it a week without him and you can continue like that. A guy needs to be doing things fpr you not the other way aroung. You deserve ... (read in full...)
How to get him to start having sex with me again
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years now. In the beginning we would have sex all the time, but for the last year and a half he doesnt want to. He would rather look up porn and masterbate instead. How do i get him to stop ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Maybe you should try and spice up your sex life. Do something special. Give him a massage,make dinner for him. Wear a kinky outfit and that should get the ball roling. If that doesnt work then you should speak to him about his lack of intimacy... (read in full...)
How do I fix it now?
Q. Hey, my girlfriend and I are in a relationship for about five months now. I'm 19 and she is 18. I admit that I have been clingy, obveously because I love her, but I should have controlled it sooner, because I recently realized that its a turnoff. I ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Have you thought that maybe there is an issue that she is dealing with? If you dont call then she would probable realize what she is missing out on. My bf and i see each ither everyday for about 2 hours and we call each other about 4 times wh... (read in full...)
My gf's sister and 4 year old loud niece are moving in. I want to help out family but feel this may be too much!
Q. My gf's sister and her 4yr old niece are moving in with us. We live in a small 2bd condo and space is tight. Never before did I think that I would have a problem helping out "family" in a time of need but I do have some serious concerns regarding ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi
Your gf is probably trying to show you that "She has everything under control". I dont think it would be right for your guys to babysit. As you have said that you work 6 days a week and you would need time to yourllselves. I think that there is... (read in full...)
He confessed he's been kissing another girl, should I accept him back?
Q. I have been with boyfriend for nearly a year but we have been going through a bit of a bad patch, he has been acting really strange so i accused him of cheating, we moved to live apart for a few weeks and started getting on great again. Last night ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
It is hard to say. Everyone deserves a second chance so i would say you should give him one BUT you should first see if he is genuienly sorry and if he really wants to make things work. Make certain that he aint going to be doing that again. Y... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my time of the month to change?
Q. Dear cupid is it normal to miss a month of period?? because i miss mine last month and now it came on the first week of this month..is normal?...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
Yes it is very normal for you period not to be regular (come at the same time) Dont stress!
Regards... (read in full...)
She gets drunk and treats me like a king, but sobers up and treats me like a peasant!
Q. People; I am a seriously and totally confused guy. Im a 29 year old guy, and i am totally and utterly in love with a woman 10 years older. I have no issue with the age difference at all. We do enjoy each others company and talk regulary and hav...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You need to let this woman know that her actions are not acceptable. Let her know how you feel and that you dont appreciate being left in the dark. She needs to be straight with you and tell you where you stand in her life.Its either she want... (read in full...)
I'm married, never cheated on my husband, and the tests reveal I'm HIV positive. How do I tell him this...?
Q. How can I handle my life? I'm 30 yrs old I have i'm married for 6 yrs now. i didn't have sex with other guys but when i tested my blood i'm positive with HIV, do you recommend to tell to my husband? He will kill himself and I belive him he didn'...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You have to tell your husband, If you really love him you would want to protect him and let him take precautions. You need his support and you should get some counselling.You need all the support you can get but who you tell is your choice a... (read in full...)
I think I'm pregnant. I am young but I still want the child!
Q. i think im pregnant! im young but i want this child! i am having cramps in my stomach and it seems like something is moving in their! my back has been hurtin and earlier i have been feeling queisy.....am i pregnant or am i not!!!...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You should take a pregnancy test to make certain. You should also think careful about what you are going to do if you are pregnant but until you know for certain if you are pergnant you should worry about it.
Regards,mail me if you wanna cha... (read in full...)
I want my parents to accept my soon-to-be, tatooed and pierced boyfriend!
Q. ok, so im almost 18 and my guy friend and i decided we would wait until im 18 to start dating, because hes 21. he is one of those tattooed and pierced guys, and i want my parents to be okay with him, how do i tell them about him so that they are ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
Speak to whichever parent you are closer with. Tell them that you have chosen to date this guy but you have waited until you were 18 ( im sure they would think that you are responsible) ask then to see who the real him is and to look beyond h... (read in full...)
Should I wait for my ex-boyfriend in the Navy? He gets out in 7 months!
Q. My ex boyfriend is in the navy. We have been talking on and off for the past 4 years and he recently told me he is in love with me and has been for a very long time. But he doesnt want a long distance relationship.He gets out in 7 months. I love him ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
I agree with the others. You should wait for him. You should know that if he is in the navy, he would be gone again and you have said that he doesnt want a long distance relationship, so if you wait for him then how are you going to have a r... (read in full...)
I moved to be with him in California, but now he's a Jerk!
Q. I have been with a guy on and off for the past two years. I was a sophmore in highschool when he left to go to school in California and I lived in New Jersey. We talked for the next two years without going out and I visited him in Cali twice. ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
If you stay where you are do you have to see him? Are you guys staying together? If you can avoid him then maybe you should stay where you are and just avoid coming in contact with him.You cant keep runing because if this guy. You have made a d... (read in full...)
My gf's sister and 4 year old loud niece are moving in. I want to help out family but feel this may be too much!
Q. My gf's sister and her 4yr old niece are moving in with us. We live in a small 2bd condo and space is tight. Never before did I think that I would have a problem helping out "family" in a time of need but I do have some serious concerns regarding ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
The only person who can help you is your gf. Speak to her and let her know hw you feel. Maybe she thinks you are very ok with the situation but you are not entirely. Is this going to be a permanent thing? Let your gf know what you think an... (read in full...)
I love him, but he hates my family, how can I handle this?
Q. so i love this guy i have been with for two years. We have been pretty serious, and I really love him, but things are just so hard. He said he hates my family, and i'm not sure how to take that, because family is very important to me, and he is ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
Things are going to get better. My bf has a hard time being around people (he is reserved).When we first started going out he never wanted to be around my immediate family. He wanted to be away from them. but as time has gone by he has changed.... (read in full...)
I want to be an early mother.
Q. k, i'm 15 and soon to be 16 and i have given it alot of thought i want to find the right person for me and be and early mother, i want to graduate before haveing the child though, but i need help finding the right guy. i just feel like ive always ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
I think you are just going through a phase that woulld end. Just hang in there. You should consider babysitting and dealing with kids too help you.Hope this has helped.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
His behavior is annoying and getting on my nerves.
Q. My boyfriend still talks to his ex. It bothers me and i confronted him, but he says that it is not what it seems. He says that their relationship is over. But, they talk and exchange txt messages constantly, and it makes me wonder: what could ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
Long distance relationship are difficult to maintain. I would like to know how do you know that they are in contact? You should probably tell your bf that you are reconsidering yourlls relatioship due to his contact with his ex. I personal... (read in full...)
Is he only sticking around for sex?
Q. An old aquaintance and I recently got back in touch, and we have gone out every weekend for the past three weeks. We hit it off, and there was obviously chemistry, and in the heat of the moment, we had sex that first night and have continued to each ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
I think you should ake a stand for what you want. I understand that you like this guy but if he isnt going to give you what you want ( a relationship) then why should you give him what he wants (sex). I think you should stop having sex with him... (read in full...)
I like him but don't know what to beleive
Q. Well, theres this guy. I like him ALOT. I can't say that I love him, because I'm too young yadda yadda, but it feels like it. I was SO sure he liked me back. Examples: At a dance, he asked me to dance 3 or 4 times. The next day at a party, he asked...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
I think that this guy likes you he may just be shy. You shouldnt believe what other people say so dont worry about what that friend said (about him not liking you). Just continue to chat with him and give your relationship more time to build.He... (read in full...)
Is he in it for the money or me?
Q. So I dated this guy for a really long time, we broke up and now are kinda friends but I am still in love with him and he says he is still in love with me. Although, unfortunatley I'm still really wrapped around his finger and still let him borrow ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
The sad thing about loving someone is you wanna do everything to help them out. The good thing is that you seem to have realized what he is up to. I suggest that the next time he asks you for money say you dont have. If he still hags around t... (read in full...)
I want them to treat me like an adult and not like a child.
Q. I'm 20 years old, I still live with my parents and I just went threw a really hard time, I just lost my baby and I kinda don't want to spend a lot of time at home because I was really ready for him and had everything set up for him. Anyways, my mom ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
I am sorry about your loss. It is possible that after what hasn happened to you ( you losing your baby) your mum has seen the effect it has on you and wants to be there for you but doesnt know how to show you.You should speak to her and just... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to call, or call him?
Q. My boyfriend called me and we met. However he hasn't called me again yet and few days has passed. Although he isn't interested in a serious relationship at least for this time and i has realized it, i like to meet him because he is interested and ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You need to understand what your bf wants out of this relationship and then decide if you would be happy with that or do you want something more? The fact that he hasnt called maybe because this is the type of relationship that he wants, y... (read in full...)
How do I fix it now?
Q. Hey, my girlfriend and I are in a relationship for about five months now. I'm 19 and she is 18. I admit that I have been clingy, obveously because I love her, but I should have controlled it sooner, because I recently realized that its a turnoff. I ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You should try to reverse what you have done. May be you shouldnt let her go out with her friends or you should wanna be with her everywhere - Now you should send her with her friends or let her be who she wants to be. Has your gf said anything... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity? Did he? What happened here??
Q. im worried!did it happen? me and my bf was fooling last night. im a v and wanna stay one till im married and my bf knows that. but last nite he did put he's thing in me but not in my vagina but the other one. i really dont know what exactly happened ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You are still a virgin because he did not penetrate your vagina. If your bf had sex then he is not a virgin but can also bleed as he would have forced his penis and may have hurt himself. Relax, everything is ok.
Regards,mail ... (read in full...)
He had sex with his close friend... but now she's a lesbian and they're both cool about it - should I be?
Q. hi everyone, my boyfriend told me that he had sex with a close friend of his when they were really drunk it was about 3 1/2 years ago. Now they stayed good friends and today she is a lesbian. they are cool about it as they got on with their lives ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
He was honest and you should appreciate his honesty. I would just like to know if he slept with her while he was involved with you? If it was before that then you should just move on and accept it (i know it is easier said then done). You need... (read in full...)
Are things getting too serious? He cried because he thought I fancied my best-gay-friend!!
Q. I'm fifteen and in a steady relationship, and I'm scared things are getting too serious for me. He cried on me the other day because he thought I liked my gay friend. Pathetic since he's gay! Anyway I do like another guy.. and I got really close to ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You cant stay with someone if you are not entirely happy with them. You would end up hurting him more in the future. You said that you have feelings for someone else so maybe that is the reason that you feel like ending your current relation... (read in full...)
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