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We always argue via telephone. How can I control myself?

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Question - (11 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I always argue at phone calls..

Sometimes i ask him "Why didnt' you call me?"

and he will say "I am busy"

......... and start the fighting.. he gets mad at me..

How can i handle this? How can i control my self.. please help me guys...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

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hi guys i just want to say thank you so much..

I feel better now.. i will do all your advices...

thank you and i hope we could be good friends...

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (11 January 2008):

sexi agony auntHi

You need to understand that if you are going to keep up this behaviour then you are bound to lose this guy (sorry for being so harsh). Guys dont like fighting and bickering. I know my bf doesnt. Try to avoid a fight. Even if your bf gets mad/angry try and soften things up by saying ....but i love you. Dont retaliate when he says something bad - Sometimes you just got to be the bigger person and try and avoid what you.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

You need to meet him halfway and re-negotiate what is good for both of you. Can you text instead? Also - talking on the phone is devoid of body language and other subtle signals and of course facial expression so its easy to take things the wrong way or read into things. My husband has always been rubbish at calling me - I've told him a million times please call me but he never does and is so abrupt. But face to face we can talk for ages.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

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yes you're right.. hmmm i like at least one in the morning and afternoon

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