Are things getting too serious? He cried because he thought I fancied my best-gay-friend!!
Q. I'm fifteen and in a steady relationship, and I'm scared things are getting too serious for me. He cried on me the other day because he thought I liked my gay friend. Pathetic since he's gay! Anyway I do like another guy.. and I got really close to ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
You cant stay with someone if you are not entirely happy with them. You would end up hurting him more in the future. You said that you have feelings for someone else so maybe that is the reason that you feel like ending your current relation... (read in full...)
I'm embarrased because I have small breasts
Q. I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help...
A. 5 November 2007: Hi
Your boobs still have lots of time to develop. My boobs are big and I am very conscious of them. They are very sore because i am small in built. Just give your boobs time to grow more. Dont worry about the name calling it would soon pass.
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How to delay your period? Starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true?
Q. Hi, im on the pill (21 day pack) and am going on holiday soon. I heard you can stop your period for that month by starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true? and after that 2nd pack do you then leave it off for a week and get your ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hi
I understand that your period can be a problem at times but i would like to let you know about an email that i received. There was a lady that was on the injection for a bout a month ( the injection stops your period) and she died. The doctors ... (read in full...)
How can I make these stretch marks disappear?
Q. I am 16 and i am a virgin but for the past year i have had stretch marks on my inner and outer thigh how can i make these go and why are they there....
A. 5 November 2007: Hi
You can try some tissue oil It is called Bio Oil.
Regards
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Am I just wasting my time with him?
Q. I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hi
There is a way that you need to bring up the topic. Dont make him feel that you are pressurizing him into giving ou a commitment just make it seem like you want to knoe his opinions and views. I understand that you dont want to chase him away... (read in full...)
I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!
Q. I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi
You need to understand that if you continue like this you are going to push your bf away and you would end up alone. Try and seek professional help. You are in this state because of your previous relationship(i assume) you need to know that not... (read in full...)
25, about to get engaged... but still have feelings for me ex. What can I do?
Q. Im 25. Have been with my partner for 3 years. we met immediately after a messy breakup with my ex of 5 years - who was my first love but completely broke my heart. Im still in love with him but im also happy with my current partner. My ex called me ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi
You should take some time out to sort out your feelings. You shouldnt commit to your bf for the wrong reasons.You need to analyse your feelings for you ex and once you decided who you would rather be with then you can decide what to do.Also ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time with him?
Q. I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi
You havent mention yourlls ages - You should just give him some time. Dont keep mentioning the topic. Give him time to adjust to yourll relationship. You have mentioned another child from a his previous relationship - This could be a reason f... (read in full...)
My right breast is two sizes smaller than the left.
Q. Hey im 19 an my right brest is like two sizes smaller than my left... will they stay this way?? or is there anything i can do to help me with my comfit??? i just started seeing a guy it been 5 months an am shame to be naked infront of him... ...
A. 24 October 2007: Hi
I think that is normal. My right boob seems bigger then my left and so is my mums so dont worry about it. Im sure your bf loves you enough to accept you and your different boob sizes.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
His two-faced sister is always talking to his ex and being mean.
Q. My boyfriend's sister has been communitcating with my bf's ex. All the communications have been mean stuff about me. They call me mean names, talk bout how they wish my bf was still with his ex, plot ways to get them back together..and so on. I have ...
A. 24 October 2007: Hi
How do you know that they have been doing this?
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I am approaching the point of giving her an ultimatum.
Q. God I need help. I haven't slept in two days, and am an absolute wreck. Trying to make a long story short, past year been trying to have a child with no success, extremely stressful. Lately my wife has become distant. She said she is depressed ...
A. 24 October 2007: Hi
I think your wife is being very selfish. There is a problem in your home which you need to deal with "TOGETHER". Speak to your wife when she gets back and tell her how you feel and that you are also going through the same thing she has been goi... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my mum would kill me!
Q. I want a baby but im only 15. I'm not sure if my bf wants one but i think he does but i no if i get pergent my mum would kill me so what should i do???...
A. 24 October 2007: Hi
Like everyone has said you are too young to have a baby. You should just wait. A baby needs to be born in a home with parents the love each other and are commited to each other. Im sure it is just a phase that you are going through and it shoul... (read in full...)
We have a relationship and I feel this other woman from miles away who he told me not to worry about in the beginning, is still in the scripts, calling late at night etc.
Q. Dear Cupids My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, (I pat myself on the back) the relationship has been growing very nicely and we are so in love with each other. He has the best qualities i need from a man and he really knows how...
A. 24 October 2007: Hi
I had a similar situation. My bf ex gf (Who is married and has a child and lives about 450 miles) tried to contact him. Before she tried to contact him he knew that i was the jealous type so we exchanged phones.She tried calling him in the morn... (read in full...)
Is it me or her that's the problem?
Q. Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year, and we used to have sex on a regular basis (she had many sexual boyfriends before me),i dont live with her as yet. We do talk alot about kids and moving in with eachother in the future, anyways, ...
A. 23 October 2007: Hi
You should speak to a doctor and ask him the effects of the injection. If it is the injection then things should sort themselves out once she has it undone. If it isnt the injection then you should speak to your gf and i am sure if you are gent... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have feelings for someone else?
Q. Hi, i have currently been in a relationship with my partner for around 3 years and i love him alot, we have a home together, a beautiful baby and we are engaged. I couldnt ask for a better life but recently i have been having feelings for one of our ...
A. 23 October 2007: Hi
Yes it is normal but i dont think that you should act on those feeling;there is alot at stake.(1) If you and your friend have anything kmore then friendship, then you should realize that things would NEVER be the same againg and you cannot t... (read in full...)
He can't be trusted. Should I let my six-year-old see him?
Q. Well, when I was 13, I got pregnant with a 20 year old guy, I didn't know it was illegal at the time and I went on to have the baby, now, the baby is 6 years old and wants to know who her dad is, I contacted the father and he says alright, he will, ...
A. 23 October 2007: Hi
Maybe you should wait until your child is old enought to understand the entire situation. Atleast then, the child would be able to understand whats going on. The last thing you wanna do is confuse your daughter. Imagine if you lt her father i... (read in full...)
Many mental problems in our family, any advice to my questions.
Q. Okay here is a seriously family problem i need help with let me give some background first. *scroll down for the questions* I'm 16, I have 6 older sisters, 5 of them have mental problems, only me and one other sister dont. As we're not allowed n...
A. 19 October 2007: Swty
All you can do is speak to your dad and tell him what you see, he may not necessarily see things the way you do. You the child he is the adult, he is supposed to be looking after you and not the other way around. You should be doing things g... (read in full...)
I am in love with my sisters husband
Q. i am 18yrs old, i m in luv wth 39yrs old man(my sisters husband) and he love me too. but he is married and has a kid. the worst part of it is that we live in the same house. He is nice and lovely. He respects me a lot, but sometimes when we are ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
This guy is playing you and your sister. If he can do this to your sister with you then he can hurt her with anyone else. He doesnt want to end what you have but he displays affection with your sister in front of you (Which he has a right to... (read in full...)
My daughter has turned her back on her family in favour of an older man! What should I do?
Q. Help me my daughter 19 previously a loving member of our family has found a 34 boyfrind(manfriend) who has whisked her away to live in a flat with him. We have never met him, and although we tried to reason with her, and then just resorted to being ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
I am 19 and my bf is 30. I would like to give you advice from my perspective.
Mail me and i would write back... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my celebrity crush?
Q. I have a bad problem. I have a celebrity crush on the rapper T.I and I want to get over it very badly because I get upset and hurt and I'm tired of feeling this way. Any info would help and thank-you 4 reading....
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
It is ok to have a crush on a celebrity.At some stage in our lives we all have. Stop worrying and trying to figure out how to get over it, you would soo get over it before you know it. You would grow out of it and things would be better f... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my celebrity crush?
Q. I have a bad problem. I have a celebrity crush on the rapper T.I and I want to get over it very badly because I get upset and hurt and I'm tired of feeling this way. Any info would help and thank-you 4 reading....
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
It is ok to have a crush on a celebrity.At some stage in our lives we all have. Stop worrying and trying to figure out how to get over it, you would soo get over it before you know it. You would grow out of it and things would be better f... (read in full...)
Help! I am addicted to him
Q. me and my ex split 2 and a half months ago we were together for 7 years, he said he wanted to be single. i was totally devaststed. i found out he started seeing another girl 2 weeks later. he says he still loves me but doesnt want a serious ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
After 7 years, it is understandible why you feel the way you do. Firstly you need to set some boundaries here. You need to tell him that he should decide who he wants to be with. He cannot be with both of yourll. I think that even though h... (read in full...)
I can't see that it's over
Q. have been having an affair with a man who i taught was my soul mate.. we meet on friday night, booked into a hotel and had an amazing loving night.. i have txt him twice since and he has not replied.. should i just move on? its very hard to be like ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
You need to speak to this guy then you would get the answers that you are looking for certainly. It is possible that this guy has decided to end yourlls affair. Has he ever not had contact with you before? If he has then maybe it is just one... (read in full...)
Can love survive religious conflict?
Q. im a hindu and my boyfriend is a muslim we have been with each other 4 2months and 3weeks. we have come to the stage in our relationship wer he has startin to realise that when our parents find out his family may not accept me but he aint shore ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
I think that you should think about conerting. The truth is that girls do normally convert and follow their husbands religion.If you are okay with converting then his parents shouldnt have a big problem. What about your parents? Would they be ... (read in full...)
How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out?
Q. How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out? She is so hot. Wow! HOT!...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
The fisrt thing you need to realize is that if she doesnt feel the same way for you then your frienship is NEVER going to be the same again, you might even risk losing her. So make certain before you ask her out that the feelings are mutual. ... (read in full...)
I'm so discusted with the though that I was with my ex for 5 years. Has anyone else felt this way?
Q. I was with my ex for 5 years. I was totaly head over heels the first year or so. But I guess his true colors shone through over the years and now he is everything I hate. I am mad at myself for being with him. When I think about how I had sex with ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
My ex bf has not done half the things that yours has but i do regret going out with him now. He was unstable and so was his family. I guess we just have to forget about out past misrakes but take forward the lessons that we have learnt. ... (read in full...)
Many mental problems in our family, any advice to my questions.
Q. Okay here is a seriously family problem i need help with let me give some background first. *scroll down for the questions* I'm 16, I have 6 older sisters, 5 of them have mental problems, only me and one other sister dont. As we're not allowed n...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi
For such a young girl you have been through alot. I commend you on your strength tyo cope and your courage. You should try seeing a counsellor or a social worker. They would probably help you and make things at home better for you. If you spea... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my mum to show me how to use a tampon?
Q. hello, just wondering, is it normal for my mum to want to show me how to use tampons ? i mean i was so embarssed about telling her i was even on my period, (she found blood stains in my pants so that's how she found out) and i am so scared. is this ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi
I am 19 and i used sanitary towels up until 2 months ago.I decided to use tampons but i had no advice from my mum.I followed the instructions on the box coz my mum doesnt use tampons. Just be glad you mum is open. The best friend that you can ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to make love in boyfriends truck
Q. is it wrong of me to want to make love in my bfs truck ? he promised we would but havent yet !...
A. 12 October 2007: Hi
I wouldnt say it is wrong but maybe your bf thinks otherwise. Speak to him about it and you should pick up by his reaction and facial expression whether he is comfortable with the idea or not. I dont think there is anything wrong with that.
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Is it normal to bleed two times a month?
Q. well i am on the pill and am bleeding 2 times a month is this normal ...
A. 11 October 2007: Hi
I am not on the pill but i have had my period twice in a month. I would say it is normal.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
He didn't climax during the bj! Am I crap?
Q. When I gave my boyfriend a blow job, he didn't ejaculate. Am i crap?...
A. 11 October 2007: Hi
No their could be lots of reason why he didnt. If it is really bothering him,ask him and you would get an answer - It may not necesarily be you.
Regards
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My dad and bf are alcoholics - I want to leave, but I love them!
Q. My father has been an alcoholic for a long time. He has beaten me and my mother since I was a baby. My boyfriend turned out to be aggressive, as well. He drinks a lot and I think he is an alcoholic, too. I would like to leave them, but I love them. ...
A. 11 October 2007: Hi
You should take some time out to see what is really happenig to you. Your bf being aggressive with you is a potential for an abusive relationship and you dont want to be in a relationship like that. You deserve better and there is someone ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)
Q. Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...
A. 11 October 2007: Hi
It aint surprising, this is a really great website!
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Is there a future for us with this age gap?
Q. Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over tim...
A. 11 October 2007: Hi
They may not like it now but they would get used to the idea. It is their problem to deal with it!
Regards... (read in full...)
My best friend told my deepest secrets to my worst enemy!
Q. Alright. This isnt really a problem with the girl i like, its more a friend problem, but i have nowhere else to turn. My best friend, who has always been there for me and who I have poured my deepest secrets to told pretty much my worst enemy almost ...
A. 8 October 2007: Hi
I dont think she is a real friend. I wouldnt trust her. If you wanna be her you can but i dont think that you should tell her much anymore.Finf other friends that can kepp secrets. Good Luck,
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?
Q. Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...
A. 8 October 2007: Hi
You need to think long and hard before you do something like this. It can hace repercussions on your relationhship. After you have done that, it could always be there to cause loads of problems. You would be jealous and so would your bf( if i... (read in full...)
I still care for my ex and when I texted him, he responded "I'm on a date, and she's cool!" What does this really mean?
Q. Hi everyone, My ex and I have been split for many months now. Throughout that time, until mid-July, we were pulling the "confusion" card whenever we saw each other, which wasn't much since we were pulling it long-distance anyways. In t...
A. 5 October 2007: Hi
I think he wanted to let you know that he has someone else for himself. Maybe you should just move on too. If you really look at it, he didnt have to tell you that he was on a date but the fact that he did tell you shows that he wanted you to k... (read in full...)
How should I approach my coworker - on the phone or in person?
Q. I want to get to know a female better in the office but have a hard time asking due to the other office girls nearby.I can talk easy with her on the phone.Is it better to ask one to one?...
A. 5 October 2007: Hi
If you are really sure that she likes you then you can ask her one to one because then you would know for sure what your answer would be.If you are not sure then you can do it over the phone, whichever makes you feel comfortable.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
23 years age gap. I don't care about me, but of my boyfriend's reputation. Please advise.
Q. I'm having a relationship with an older man, there is a 23 year age gap but we are both very comfortable with each other and we're very happy together. My problem is that im worried that people may think bad of us, not many people know of our rela...
A. 1 October 2007: Age is only a prob;em if you make it one.As long as you too are happy then you should not worry about anyone else.... (read in full...)
Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s. Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wo...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
I am in a relationship and im 19 and my bf is 30. I have met some of his friends and they are all married except for me and him. Dont worry about everyone. Just be yourself and be friendly. Good Luck,
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.
Q. my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
No you shouldnt do this. You are too young and it will ruin your relationship, so dont.Think of other things you can do to exciten your relationship.
Regards... (read in full...)
Is there a future for us with this age gap?
Q. Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over tim...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi
It is a pleasure. Dont worry too much about the family thing either or about what other people think. What really matters is that the 2 of yourll are happy.Although there is such an age gap between me and my bf, i have realised that his comp... (read in full...)
Is there a future for us with this age gap?
Q. Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over tim...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
With regards to the age gap, i am 19 and my bf is 30. Our relationship is great and everything is good. I think age gaps are only a problem if you make it one. With regards to your intimacy, there could be a number of problem, he could be... (read in full...)
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