I still want him back, after he cheated on me! What should I do?
Q. O.K My ex-boyfriend and I split like 7 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend. Which is the reason why we split!! I ended up hurt really bad as he chose to be with her. However, recently I have met up with him and we ended up messing around. He was ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, what your bf has done to you, his new gf is doing the same thing to him.Dont give him the impression that you are waiting around for him as he will keep you hanging around as long as he can. Be his friend and be there for him when he needs ... (read in full...)
Can cheaters really change??
Q. hi, I have a boyfriend that i really love, can't imegine a life without him. He loves me too but he has been cheating on me but like in our country its normal for boys/girls to cheat on each other. All i want to know is we talked about it and he ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, Yes people do really change for the ones they love.The same thing has happend to me and i was really hurt.I made my bf aware that of how i felt and i even wanted to seperate from him. He said he was sorry and that he would never do that again,so ... (read in full...)
I eat healthily, but i can't seem to gain any weight! Advice, please?
Q. hello. i am a girl in the 16-19 yrs group, and i need advice on weight gaining. i am 5'5 and weigh around 103 lbs. my boyfriend says he likes me thin, but i get comments all the time from people saying that i look anorexic/bulemic, sickly, boney, ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi, I have the exact same problem. I am also thin and eat really well,pies, cakes, a good meal but i cant seem to pick up weight. All of my clothes that i purchase i would have to alter it. I have gone to doctors bu nothing seems to help. Just ... (read in full...)
He got back with his ex but he calls and texts me every day. What is he playing at?
Q. I had been seeing this lad for 2 months in which time he admitted he had strong feelings for me and phoned and texted me everyday. A month ago he told me that his ex had been back in touch and that she wanted to give their relationship another go, ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hi, i dont think you should waste your precious time on a guy ike that. He wants to have the best of both worlds. You should go out and meet other people instead of allowing this guy to hold you down. You dont want to be in the situation that you ... (read in full...)
He got back with his ex but he calls and texts me every day. What is he playing at?
Q. I had been seeing this lad for 2 months in which time he admitted he had strong feelings for me and phoned and texted me everyday. A month ago he told me that his ex had been back in touch and that she wanted to give their relationship another go, ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hi, i dont think you should waste your precious time on a guy ike that. He wants to have the best of both worlds. You should go out and meet other people instead of allowing this guy to hold you down. You dont want to be in the situation that you ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't we just 'get over it' if we break up with someone? Anyone believe this?
Q. Hi there..i know this is a pretty random question..but id like to know.... Who belives that when you break up with someone .. or when someone tells you the truth and its not what you wanted to hear .. that theres no real point sulking and feel...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi, its easier said then done.You have to get over it (no doubt) but it may take some time depending on the efect of what has happened.No one should be rushed into gettiing over anything as this is a process that only the person experinecing it ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that having braces may have discolored my teeth!
Q. okay well i had braces for 18months now, and am getting them taken off next week. Im a bit woried tho that i might have lots of stains on my teeth from where the braces were/weren't. so i was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to whiten my ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, if that does happen to you then you can get your teeth polished. Also ask your dentist to recommend a toothpaste that would help whiten your teeth. Take Care... (read in full...)
I'm still in a fairly new relationship but he doesn't txt or call much anymore?
Q. Got to the point when must ask this. Im dating the guy for one month(from the previous question)and started well,going out, nice evenings spent together and so on... And now im more than confused. He used to send me a heap of SMS, phoning ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi,you have stated that you like to be to yourself, then maybe he is giving you what you want - time for yourself.If you never really replies to his msgs then why are you feeling it now that he hardly smses you?!? Then few sms that you do get you ... (read in full...)
She sees her ex every day, as her mother welcomes him at their house. How do I take him out of the picture?
Q. Hi, i'm in a relationship with a girl who i love but she doesnt love me yet, and a few months ago she was going to get married but she called it off, and now her ex boyfriend is still in her life because my girlfriends' mother loves him like if he ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, speak to your gf and tell her that it upsets you when he is at her house. She can speak to her mum and ask her not to ask him to come around or she can simply not be there when he at her house. She should go to the library, mall or even spend ... (read in full...)
How do i survive my freshman year without being destroyed by a bunch of seniors?
Q. I am currently entering my freshman year of school and unfortunately most of the guys have it in for me because of my stupid brother.......how do i survuve my freshman year without being destroyed by a bunch of seniors?...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, just play it cool. Be confident and be yourself. It would take some time for them to get to know you but once they do, they may even like you. Take it one day at a time. Even though it may be thopugh, battle it out - Nothing lasts forever. When ... (read in full...)
I'm still in a fairly new relationship but he doesn't txt or call much anymore?
Q. Got to the point when must ask this. Im dating the guy for one month(from the previous question)and started well,going out, nice evenings spent together and so on... And now im more than confused. He used to send me a heap of SMS, phoning ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, the only way that you would get the true answer is by speking to him. Communication is very important - It helps to keep the air around you and your bf clear. Ask him why he doesnt text as much,maybe he did come to the conclusion that you dont ... (read in full...)
We've been friends a year now and i still like him, But he now has a girlfriend. I cant stop thinking about him..
Q. okay well theres this guy i really like hes 16 (im 14) and we used to be pretty close and went away on tour together with the band, he used to flirt with me an hint to me quite a lot but i didnt say anything to him not thinking its genuine. just ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, there is not much wrong with you confessing your feelings for him now.You just have to prep yourself up for the option of rejection.He may decide that he still feels the same way and then you can consider yourself lucky or he may be content with ... (read in full...)
Every now and then I feel like I still love my jerky ex boyfriend! Why?
Q. i went out with this guy for 2 years and i truely thought it was love. anyways he constantly would lie and hurt me, one night it got too much and about 2 months later i started going out with a guy ive known my whole life and we have always had a th...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, it is normal seeing as you have been with your ex for 2 years. You have said that he has lied and hurt you before so dont forget that - That is why he is your ex and not your present. You have made a good decision, stick by it. In time you would ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my friend but I'm unsure how to proceed!
Q. I have this problem. You see, I'm in love with this guy at my school. He's one of my good friends, and I'm quite certain he loves me back; after all, he looked all mad even though his best friend was only helping me carry some stuff! But for ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, you should wait unil you know for sure that he really likes you because if you tell him and he does not feel the same way then you are going to lose out on a great friendship as things would become akward between you two. Good Luck,mail me if ... (read in full...)
My parents dont like my boyfriend and now he wants to break up with me!!
Q. I'e been with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months. ive known him for like 6 years and we have always had a thing for each other. Anyways my parents always have loved him, but when we started going out they didnt like him and do everything they can to ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi, i have been in the exact same situation. My parents never liked my bf at all. Eventually after 6 months they gave in and they allow him to see me at home now. Just speak to whichever parent you are closer with and try to explain your feelings ... (read in full...)
We want to move in together but my family are saying they will dissown me. What should i do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for ten months now (I am 18 and he is 19). Our one year anniversary is on my 19th birthday. Anyway; we are so in love, so incredibly in tune with eachother, and so respectful and caring of the other. He is ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi,you are an adult.It is your decision to make. I would move in with my bf and follow you heart. If you family really loved you,what makes you happy should make them happy. Regards... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to dream about another guy???
Q. I feel guilty... i dream about another guy but I have a boyfriend. Is it wrong os cheating to dream about another guy? I know i cant control my dreams but i still feel bad....
A. 27 August 2007: Hi,it very much normal and ok.I would suggest that you keep it to yourself and not to share it with your bf as he would not be too happy.Dont stress, it fine. Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
What is the average age to lose your virginity?
Q. what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...
A. 22 August 2007: Hi,dont worry about these people.They are ignorant. There is no right age or a specified age to have sex. The right time is when you are ready an are in a stable relationship with someone you love.
Take your time,there is no hurry.
Regards... (read in full...)
I love him, but my mom doesn't. Should I choose him or my family?
Q. I am totally in love. head over heels for this guy. there is a 7 year difference between us. my mother will not stand for it, and is trying to put him in jail because i am only 17. ive been with this guy {behind her back} for a year now, and I'm so ...
A. 21 August 2007: Hi,i am 19 and my bf is 30.At first my parents never allowed it because they hav issues with his family (it had nothing to do with our ages)Now my parents have decided to let us be. He sees me at home (they prefer it that way instead of me seeing ... (read in full...)
We argue all the time but i love him.
Q. Ok, iv been with my boyfriend for nearly four years, he is a few years older than me, im 20 and he is 24. the first 2 years we were together were brillant, we had such a good time and had a healthy sex life. We decided to move in togeher, which was ...
A. 21 August 2007: Hi, to be in a relationship it is hard work. Just hang in there ang things would sort themselves out. When you feel an argument coming on, avoid it. Try to be extra nice to you bf (even though it may be hard),then he would have no option but to do ... (read in full...)
He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!
Q. My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less ...
A. 21 August 2007: Hi,dont do what you dont want to.Just tell him that you are not comfortable with doing so and if he really loves you he would stop asking and take things at your pace.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
My boyfriend physically abuses me
Q. I really need help....I have been with my BF for 3yrs nearly and i just dont no wot to do. At 1st we would argue but he would blame it all on me, he'd make me feel really small from the things he would say to me and i found it hard to say stuf...
A. 17 August 2007: Hi, you are suffering so badly. If you really want to make this relationship work, then you should go with him as support for help. You really dont deserve this and you should be treated better. I assume that you do not have any children.If you dont ... (read in full...)
My periods are literally ruining my life!
Q. My periods are literally ruining my life! I have about 5 days (if i'm lucky) each month where I feel 'okay'. My periods are so painful I have to miss work, I get all hot and sweaty I feel so sick, and even wretch sometimes, the pain is just so bad. ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi, i am 19 and i have the same problem. Ususally on the first day i feel sick literally (nausea,weak hot and then cold)I too have to take the day off. I have been to doctors and it seems like i am too thin!I take some painkillers that really work ... (read in full...)
We're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry.
Q. Me and my boyfriend love each other loads but the problem is we're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry. He blames everything on me but I hate the arguing, it ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi, in a relationship it is normal to have arguments. Everyone doees. My bf and i have really big arguments but i love him as much as he loves me. Try to contain your anger (i know it is very hard to do so with the opposite sex) but remember when ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified I won't be able to have a baby in the future!
Q. I'm 17, I don't want a baby yet but I just want to ask a question. I've always worried that when I decide to start a family with my boyfriend [in about 7 years or something] that I won't be able to have children. I don't know why I worry so much ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi. you should not be worried if there are no sign. If it is bothering you, you should make an appointment with a gynacologist and then you would be at ease once you know for sure. Take care... (read in full...)
I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out.
Q. I may be wrong about this, but I think you may be able to help me. You see, I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out. Funny thing is, the guy I like is also single too and shows signs of ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi, you need to understand that having a bf is not all that life is about. With regards to the guy that you like,why dont yuou try talking to him first. You can hang out with him and after you become friends then you can see where things go. H emay ... (read in full...)
My brother pins me down and I hate it!!
Q. Hey, i have asked many questions here and i no i haven't replied to as many as i could of but i have a question. "Is my brother sexually abusing me even if he is younger then me ? " My brother is 11 and i am 13 and he keeps pinning me to the floor ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi, You can try speaking to him. Sit him down and tell him that you don't like what he does to you. Make him understand that it upsets you. If that does not work you should tell your mum or an adult that you are comfortable to speak what he is doing ... (read in full...)
Do you think this could work out??
Q. I met a guy over a year ago let's call him John, we really got on but I was in a relationship at the time. A few weeks later we broke up. About a month later I called John but he was in a relationship himself. They broke up fairly soon after an...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi,I guess you would never know until you enter into a relationship with him.I would say give it a try. You have nothing to lose. It sound like he likes you,so what is holding you back?Trust your instincts, if you feels he is a lovely guy, he may ... (read in full...)
I recently dumped my boyfriend of 2 and a half years I'm finding it very difficult as I love him so much!
Q. Hi, I'm new to the site! I recently dumped my boyfriend of 2 and a half years I'm finding it very difficult as I love him so much! We both agreed that we could do with some time apart and we are meeting in another month to see where things lie...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi, if you are worried that he would get over you and you want to get back with him,tll him as soon as you can. Say to him that you have made a mistake and want to get back with him,you dont see yourself being apart from him and it reall hurts being ... (read in full...)
I lost my fiance because he thinks I was a prostitute!
Q. I lost my fiance because he thinks I was a prostitute! Okay, so I had been with my fiance for about 11 months and loved him dearly. I had no money and couldn't find a job so I began giving erotic massages. There was no sex involved. I adm...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi,everyone deserves a second chance (no you are not crazy) Some people just find it harder to forgive than others. I would like to say there are plenty of other ways of making money then the way you have chosen but what is done cannot be undone. ... (read in full...)
She is more experienced then me but she doesn't know that as I lied and said I've done things in the past too,
Q. Hey guys I have a problem! Just wondering if you could help me, I keep wanting to ask my girlfriend about her past. I don't want to know what she's been up to before but I keep wanting to ask her, I duno why! She is more experienced then me but ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi,come clean and let her know how much you really have done then she would probably do the same.Dont ask about her past maybe there are things that are better left unsaid.Start being open with her and she would do the same. Take care... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but does he just want into my pants?
Q. I have a friend from Spain who I have known for 5 years and he recently told me he loves me... and I think I've started to love him too... but I'm not sure if I believe him because we've been thinking of taking things further sexually and I would ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi, it depends on your maturity level and how ready you are. If those to apply then age isn't much to worry abou (except with the law) Regards, Mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi, i would like to promise you that all this is going to end soon. Pray and have faith and everything would be ok. I would like to think i am here for you so don't think that you are alone. If you ever need to speak to anyone mail me. Regards ... (read in full...)
Do I have to show her my bad side to stop me seeming weak?
Q. I am not strictly in a relationship, but me and a girl are in love. Sounds stupid but I wont bore you with the details. I would say I treat her well, like nicely. We are always texting and I always compliment her and I did that alot (mostly in ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,no dont show her your bad sid - that would scare her away. She probably prefers the nice you.
Take Care... (read in full...)
Do girlfriends often want to break up after graduating from University?
Q. Do girlfriends often want to break up after graduating from University? She does after me supporting her financially and mentally for 4 yrs+. What shall I do?...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, dont hang onto her if she wants to break up. She seems ungrateful and unappreciative. You deserve someone better that would treat you the way you deserve to be treated.You can try speaking to her and finding out the reason for the break up, that ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but does he just want into my pants?
Q. I have a friend from Spain who I have known for 5 years and he recently told me he loves me... and I think I've started to love him too... but I'm not sure if I believe him because we've been thinking of taking things further sexually and I would ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,you should wait until you know that he really loves you. If someone loves you then he would not mind waiting as long as you want him to.You should not be sexually involved with someone at such a young age. You should wait until you are in a ... (read in full...)
I really like him and want to go round but I'm scared I get caught, what should I do?
Q. Me and this lad have been texting for about a week now and he is 27 and I am 18, my mam is going on holiday on Wednesday and he wants me to go to his (I can't let my mam know I am texting him, she wouldn't approve at all) I really like him and want ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,if you really want to meet this guy you should do at a public place so that it is safer then to meet at his house.Just think about what you are doing and make sure you know this guy really well before meeting him in a private place.
Good ... (read in full...)
She was forced by a guy she was dating for about 2 weeks to perform oral sex on a him
Q. You saw a girl that you like very much, she is sexy and attends college. When you are trying to know her, someone tells you that she was forced by a guy she was dating for about 2 weeks to perform oral sex on a him once. She leaves the guy after ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,dont believe what you hear from other people.99% of the time it is lies and the only way you canget thr truth is from her. You should try to get to know her better and you might realize that she is nothing like what you have heard.dont listen to ... (read in full...)
Why does she think I'll leave her?
Q. It's been 7 months into our relationship and dated only twice.... We both express our feelings (i.e. I love you) over 50 times a day through the mobile phone.... everything goes fine... but don't know sometimes she acts very weird... she says that ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, Your gf sounds insecure.She probably needs alittle reassurance every now and then. Ask her whyshe feels that way and then you can stop the things that you may be doing that gives her these thoughts. You need ti rid her of those fears because you ... (read in full...)
Would you recommend I stay with him and try to fall back in love, or should I just throw in the towel, after 2 years?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now. A year ago, he said some pretty hurtful things. He called me fat and ugly, and even worse than that. the next day he said he was stressed about school, and for some reason i forgave him. A ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi, you should think about giving things another chance, it has been 2 years.If you dont love him you should not string him along by giving him mixed signals. You can also suggest being friends and see where that ends up.Try and make a decision with ... (read in full...)
Her family have been getting on her case about me!
Q. Im 16 and ive been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her like nothing else, but recently her family has been getting on her case about me, accusing me of only wanting sex and that ive had sex with her. (not true, still a virgin). I ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi,just be there for her.Be the support that she needs.I have been through the same thing with my family when i first started going out with my bf (i even ran away from home)You can get your gf to mail me(on this website) and i would be glad to ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi,Just hang in there and everything would work out for you.Take it easier. Try and keep yourself occupied and you would soon stop thinking about Robbie.Force yourself to think about all the bad things he has done to you,think of all the bad times ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: You get very few guys like David you should hang onto him with both hands!... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi,you are feeling terrible about wht has happened to you but ou slept with Robbie while you were going out with David - If you feel so bad why are you leeting him experience what you did?
You can keep hanging onto Robbie, he is playing with your... (read in full...)
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