Is there a future for us with this age gap?
Q. Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over tim...
A. 11 October 2007: Hi
They may not like it now but they would get used to the idea. It is their problem to deal with it!
Regards... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.
Q. my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
No you shouldnt do this. You are too young and it will ruin your relationship, so dont.Think of other things you can do to exciten your relationship.
Regards... (read in full...)
Guys! I don't know what to say in bed - he wants me to talk dirty. Any tips?
Q. I wanted to ask guys what do they like to hear a girl say in bed. My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him but I feel so shy and couldn't think of anything to say!! Help!!...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
I think that as you get comfortable with the person, it would become easier for you.
Regards... (read in full...)
If my gf kisses another guy does it mean she's cheating on me?
Q. Hey last time i asked this it got rejected saying it was fake or stupid but it is a real question and i know it does sound stupid but i wanna know, if my gf kisses another guy does it mean shes cheated on me?...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
Ask your gf what she would do if you kissed someone else. I doubt she would like it. I think it is cheating.
Regards... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I argue all the time, she thinks I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?
Q. hi,me and gf argue all the time recently,she doesnt trust me even tho i am loyal,she threw her engagement ring away and now we cant find it,she got annoyed cos i said i was goin to pick my mum up and stay the night before she lives 250 miles ...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
It is not what you can do it is what your gf should. She needs to stop being so paranoid. Whtat your gf doesnt know but needs to realize is that constant nagging and accusing pushes a guy away from you. Ask her if that is what she wants? I... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to trim her hairy private area?
Q. My lady friend is rather hairy around her private area, how could i ask her to trim it without wrecking any further chances?...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
You should not actually ask her rather suggest it. If you are comfortable with each other then you should say what you prefer but dont ask her to do something that she doesnt want to.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
How do I make our first time special for my girl? Tips from women preferred?
Q. Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and i think were ready to make love i want her first time to be special and great and a long time ago she told me before we went out that she wanted her first time to be great sex well she ...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi
Dont rush! Take your time and be gentle. You can also get some nice oils and give her a massage or you can have a nice bubble bath together. Just be safe and use protection.You should also ask her what she would prefer and arrange somethin... (read in full...)
How do I regain his affection and trust again after accusing him of cheating for years?
Q. Hello, My husband and I have been married only 1 year but together 10 years we have a daughter together.My husband just recently started a new job and has been comeing home tired ..(or atleast how I justify it) he hasn't been showing to much ...
A. 1 October 2007: Hi,
You should apologize for what you have done and the things that you have said. You should cook him a nice supper and tell him that you are sorry for saying all those crazy things and this the turning point, you are no more going to say that... (read in full...)
Is he a cheater, should I dump him?
Q. Is he a cheater, should i dump him? i want to first start out by saying i have been cheated on in the past and i think the cheating may be my problem now..?? so this is my problem, my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months, before...
A. 28 September 2007: Hi
The bad thing about being in love is that you love the person so much, that you wann believe the better part of the story. I was in the exact same position. You should speak to him and get some answers out of him. I think that you should s... (read in full...)
I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old
Q. i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times ...
A. 28 September 2007: Hi,
If you know this guy well then you should know his past. If he doesnt have a shady past then you should be ok. Find out what his intentions are. I am 19 and my bf is 30. We are happy together.You should actuallt break up with your bf and then... (read in full...)
How can I tell my family of my relationship with an older man?
Q. Im in love with an older man but know my family would disagree with the relationship, how can i tell them?...
A. 28 September 2007: Hi
How much older is this guy? You should just be honest and straight with them. I am 19 and my bf is 30. He makes me really happy and at first my parents never agreed but then they finally accepted it.They now see how happy he make me. Speak to... (read in full...)
He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?
Q. hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it norm...
A. 28 September 2007: Hi,
Hunni, you shouldnt be having a relationship with someone that wants to have sex with you at such a young age. Yes it would be painful and your first time should be with someone that you love and wanna be with. You shoould be ready and it s... (read in full...)
Is this too much of a difference... ?
Q. I just moved away from home to go to university: first year student. I am 18 and have started recently going on dates with a man who is 27.. I have always dated older guys, however, not with this much of a difference. I do not have an issue, but ...
A. 28 September 2007: Hi
Dont worry about peope, if you do you would be unhappy your entire life. If you really love this guy and he make you happy then dont worry about anyone else. What does your parents have to say? I am 19 and my bf is 30. We are happy together... (read in full...)
the day he left.
Q. ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi
It just goes to show that when you think that everyithing that could possible going wrong with you, there is someone else experiencing something worse than you.You should be proud of yourself and continue to be that strong person that you are.... (read in full...)
Does wearing two comdoms decrease the risk of getting pregnant?
Q. Does wearing two comdoms decrease the risk of getting pregnant?...
A. 26 September 2007: No, one is better than 2.
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Why is my boyfriend so moody... ?
Q. I cannot figure out my boyfriend. We just celebrated out 1 year aniversary together a couple weeks ago. It was the greatest day, very cute and romantic, and the private part of the night--fantastic!! hah. Any way we dont see each other as much as we ...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi,
With regards to your monthly girly thing, i suggest you go to the doctor as that could be serious. Your bf probably doesnt realize what he is doing to you.The only way he would know is if you tell him. Sit him down and calmly tell him that you... (read in full...)
Large breasts, should I get a reduction?
Q. hi, im a 27 year old from canada. im just like every other girl except that i have extremely large breasts. im a 48 eee and im not fat im only 140 pounds, and every time i go out i get stared to death by guys. at first i like it but after a while it ...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi
I think you should flaunt it if you got it. Dont change your self for others, Be happy with your beautiful body that god has given you. Some people would do anything to have bigger boobs, so dont change them. I suugest that you do go to the d... (read in full...)
Is there a future for us with this age gap?
Q. Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over tim...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi
It is a pleasure. Dont worry too much about the family thing either or about what other people think. What really matters is that the 2 of yourll are happy.Although there is such an age gap between me and my bf, i have realised that his comp... (read in full...)
If you lose all respect for a human being which you are to share your life with, is it even conceivable that you can ever respect the person again?
Q. Hope someone can give advice. Fairly recently my husband was caught redhanded cheating. I have been struggling understandibly with all the emotions involved when this happens. He has also done all the expected things - begging for forgiveness, ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
Even though, im young i can somhow relate to what you are experiencing. My bf and i were going out for months when he texted another girl behind my back (even though it was only an sms, i took it as some typr of betrayal to me)After a cheating... (read in full...)
We are planning on sex for the first time. Need some answers to my questions...
Q. Hi me and my gr have been together just over a year and we have been talking about that fact we are ready to have sex, we are both old enough btw. i live with her(long story) so its kind if hard to get a chance to try it but next weekend her parents ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
1.) She should not be worried about the pain, as this will cause her to be tense.Get loads of info so that you know what you are doing and remember it is both your first time so it is okay to be shy and not be perfect.
2.)As i said before, r... (read in full...)
Is there a future for us with this age gap?
Q. Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over tim...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
With regards to the age gap, i am 19 and my bf is 30. Our relationship is great and everything is good. I think age gaps are only a problem if you make it one. With regards to your intimacy, there could be a number of problem, he could be... (read in full...)
Do you think I should give my cheating ex another chance?
Q. I have written on here three time already but wanted to update you. My ex (broke up 7 months now) really wants me back and I am re-considering. He cheated on me whilst I was pregnant but they didnt have sex until we broke up and there relationship ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
This guy has made a mistake and has admitted it. It seems as though he is really sincere when he says sorry.I think that he would really try to make things work this time. Everyone deserves a second chance and you have been together since 16... (read in full...)
I don't want to give him up but everyone is telling me to
Q. I have a boy problem. I really like this guy, Derek, but he likes someone else Eve. Eve is seeing someone, but is tagging Derek and two other guys along. His friend, Louis, a friend of mine too, tells me that I have no chance, that i should give up ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
Listen to your heart. If you can build up the courage to ask Derek himself about his feelings for you then you shoudl but dont take other people's word. Continue to try being his friend and things may just go your way. Once he realizes what typ... (read in full...)
Want to be with my ex but he is dating a very rich person now, how do I compete with this?
Q. I want to be with my ex but he is going out with a very rich person now. How can I compete with this? My ex has always seemed like someone who is looking to be taken cared of but knows the value of work. I'm not poor but I have struggled now and ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
Sometimes there is more to life than money. Your guy may just be using this girl. You probably have something special that her money just cant buy. Show him what a lovely,caring person you are.Remember if yourll are meant to be then you woul... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
I am so sorry to hear about that but you should know that God does things for a reason. Just keep praying and keep strong. You are in my prayers.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents
Q. My boyfriend's parents hate me. I don't know what I did wrong. I ws staying with them for seven weeks in France (where they are from) after we accomodated my boyfriend for two months while he did a work placement here in London. During that stay...
A. 17 September 2007: Hi
If you and your bf love each other then nothing should stand in your way.Is it not possible for her yourll to move in together. Speak to your bf and tell him what you think his parents are up to and try to find out how stable he is in this rel... (read in full...)
Should I take advantage of my youth, taking the advice of my friends?
Q. Today I spoke to my friends about my break-up with my girlfriend earlier this summer. I hadn't seen a lot of them since it happened back in June. I was with her for 2 years, and she broke things off with me. Summer has been very hard to bear wit...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi
I think you should think this one out: You can have a serious relationship, there is nothing wrong with that but if you want to enjoy life that doenst mean that you must sleep around, you can get diseases and then you would have nothing ... (read in full...)
I found out some things about my long-term partner that disturbed me, like cross-dressing; now I don't know what to do
Q. Hi! Please help! I've been with a man for almost 3 years now...and recently he told me he has this sexual thing for inflatables...(he likes to masterbate with them and deflate them and such) when we were first together he mentioned it but I never g...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi
I think you need to give this guy some time for him to figure out who he is. You should let him decided who he is an dwho he is comfortable being. Once that is done then you can establish whether the hitch in your relationship can be mended o... (read in full...)
Embarassed about online dating
Q. Embarassed about online dating Hi everyone, This may sound really silly, but I find myself feeling embarassed about using an online dating site. Only one of my friends knows I am on Agematch.com and that is because we both joined together!...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi,
There is nothing to feel embarassed about. It is yor choce at the end of the day. If you choose to visit the online dating site you shouldnt feel embarassed.There are plenty of positive outcomes from that way of dating, i think it is your cho... (read in full...)
Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?
Q. It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi
I dont think that would be a nice thing to do, you would be cheating on your gf. If things are really bad why dont you sugest just being friend and hooking up when you have finished school, however there is no promise that she would wait for... (read in full...)
By him losing his temper, I think he's guilty of chatting with her. When men get defensive, is that a sign of guilt?
Q. When men get defensive, is that a sign of guilt? My b/f's ex girlfriend tried to I.M him the other night for the first time, in like 6-8 months. She has never completely disappeared from his life, but continues to re-surface from time to tim...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi
No problem.Dont worry, people may say that you are going over the top by looking at his phone and emails but i think that if your mind is kept at ease and you feel secure with what you see (and what you dont) then it's not a problem.... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??
Q. okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
You have to tell him the truth and believe me if yourll were meant to be ( if yourll really love each other) then you would overcome this. Im sure that you have learnt not to lie anymore.You need to tell him asap so that you can work on mendi... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: Hey
Not all girls are like this. I know that i am not like that, i would never hurt any guy intentionally. Sorry that you had an unlucky experience with one of those type of girls.
Regards... (read in full...)
My family doesn't accept the man I love because of his lack of education. What should I do?
Q. I am so in luv with a guy that i know for over 4 years,he has a good job nd he is perfect,the prob is that he is not as educated as i am,nd because of that my parents are refusing to see nd meet him,they think he has no future at all!What should i ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
You dont need to worry about them. If they loved you enough they would be happy as long as you are. Have you tried speaking to them. They need to realize that love doesnt have any strings attached to it. You dont have to be educate to love som... (read in full...)
Why am I so paranoid?
Q. Am 18 and my b/fs 22 we’ve been together for almost 6 months now and I love him very much, he says he loves me too and I believe him. But I just cant seam to stop thinking that he will/is cheating on me and I get extremely jealous of other...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
You need to stop stressing and work at your relationship for it to work out. You need to get a hold of yourself and realize that the only reason you feel like this is due to your bad experiances. Not all guys are the same and you may have the... (read in full...)
I like her, she has a boyfriend but she told my mate she likes me! I'm going insane!
Q. Hello i am new here i need help or i will go insane.ok there is a girl i would give the world to! i have met her and we clicked right away but... she has a boyfriend now i want her to be happy so i dont want them to split.One of my mates hered her ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Speak to her and try to get the correct answer from her then you would know whether you are fighting a losing battle.Speak to her and find out for yourself, dont listen to what people say , you should hear what you need to from her.
Regards... (read in full...)
By him losing his temper, I think he's guilty of chatting with her. When men get defensive, is that a sign of guilt?
Q. When men get defensive, is that a sign of guilt? My b/f's ex girlfriend tried to I.M him the other night for the first time, in like 6-8 months. She has never completely disappeared from his life, but continues to re-surface from time to tim...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Im the type of person that get defensive especially when i get accused for something that i am not doing.Like last night my bf accused me of having something to do with my ex.I hit the roof and wanted to end things with him (which in a way made... (read in full...)
My belly-button peircing is painful and red. Any advice?
Q. In June (2007) I got my belly-button pierced. It is now September and it's still red around the piercing and is still sore if I bump it accidentally (which I do all too often). It's not bleeding, or oozing, but every couple of days there's a little ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi I had my belly button pierced about 2 years ago and it healed withing 2 months. You should clean your belly button with cotton wool and salt water, that really helps, it worked for me Good Luck... (read in full...)
Can a lasting relationship come out of cheating, and how does it feel to be the "other guy" ?
Q. A couple of questions: What does it feel like to be the "other guy"? Is it possible to have a relationship with a girl you've been cheating with? Can a lasting relationship come out of this scenario? Any tips/hints/suggestions you co...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi
This can definately work. I have done the exact same thing. Last year i left my relationships (of 2 years) i felt there was nothing left.I am now in another relationship which i started last year and this month would be a year that we are toge... (read in full...)
He has no self control when in comes to "checking out" other women, although says he loves me.
Q. My boyfriend is allways checking out other women mostly ones with large breasts and butts when he is with me. ( i wounder what he does when i;m not there). there is looking and then there is pathetic constant gawking! I fell emberraced and also ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi
You must realize that at the end if the day he is all your and no one elses. But the fact that you say that he doesnt just look he gawkinga and you have spoken to him but still hasnt stopped shows that he has no intentions to.You should t... (read in full...)
I don't know how to ask her out... Any advice?
Q. i need some advice im in school and today i saw the cutest girl in my class and i would want to try to go out with her but i dont know what to do? help please!...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi
You should first try to be her friend.Find out what she likes and what she likes to do in her spare time.Once you know what she like,for example; if she like to read then ask her to go to the library together and then you would also get to k... (read in full...)
Are we really over?
Q. hey guys i just got really hurt here is my problem? I get back togther with my third time ex Austin 4 weeks ago so i called him tonight and told him to call me back whick he did. Then he said kiss me of course you know i did then all of the sudden i...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi swty,
Did you have 2 bfs together? You first need to decide who you want to be with. Then work on that one. If you really want another chance with you ex then you shold call him and explain to him that you didnt mean to shout at him and you ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
Most of the time.
I would rather chose to go out with someone that is average looking but i know is all mine then for me to go out with a stud and he would be out there for everyone else to look at. I would chose personality in conjunction w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hi,congrats! Im so happy with your decision and i would be praying for MIRACLE for you. Tell your bf not to give up hope, god works in mysterious ways, Pray and have faith and everything would work out for the best. Good Luck and take Care of you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi,Follow your heart. I am sorry to hear about your bf. If it is what you want then you should grant him his wish.Just remember that after some time you would have to raise that baby alone, would you be able to do that?
Think about the after effe... (read in full...)
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