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He had a foursome before he went out with me, should I be worried?

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Question - (21 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi.

Me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months and it's great and so is the sex. until one day he let it slip that he done a foursome before he went out with me.? Is this something to worry bout? Also he watches a lot of porn and has magazines does this mean he likes porn better than me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007):

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Thanks to everyone who anwsered my question i am 14 and my boyfriend is 13 x

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (22 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

Guys like porn but i dont thinkthey like it better than the real deal if you know what i mean. I think that you should try lokking at the porn together (if you are comfortable) and that should enhance your sex life.I dont think you should worry about the foursome. It happened before you and it should be kept where it belongs in the past. I think that you should make it clear to him that you dont want to experience a foursome and you wouldnt like the idea of him having a foursome behind your back (if this applies to you) hope everything works out for you.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntNo guy likes porn more than the real thing, I wouldn't worry about that =)

As for the foursome, the age is a concern but just because he has done that doesn't effect how he feels about you.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (22 November 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntAre you seriously 13-15? If you are, any guy who ALREADY has a foursome under his belt, well... maybe you should be a little cautious. If he were older, I would say the past is the past, as long as you can handle a little kinkiness, etc.

However, if your boyfriend is as old as you are, I would worry a little bit. He seems pretty wild and a little too sexually active for such a young age!

As for the porn, he doesn't like it better than you, it's just a band-aid for the times you aren't there to please him. No worries!

xxIndia

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