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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): You wrote it in your last two posts, I'm going to highlight the important parts:
-He wouldn't give back your stuff after you two broke up.
-He hangs up on you.
-He doesn't stop his friends from prank calling you.
-He ignores you.
-He's only nice to you when he wants you to suck his dick.
I'm really worried about you. You're dating an asshole, and you're practically begging him to hurt you. Dump him, you can get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk heres the thing me and my ex just got back together and when i called him he was edgy on the phone and then he had some of his freinds prank call me and he keeps hanging up the phone on me it is geting anoying and we go to diffrent schools but we meet up at a boces program my school has,and every time he see's me online he logs off and when i do see him at boces he just looks at me and goes to class or on his bus or when we are on a date it is all i want to go her or i want to see thios movie he refuses to pay for everything or even split the bill or if we are with my parents at there cottage he wants to go on walks and askes me nicely to give him a bjand being a good girlfriend i would or when we don't see each other for more than a week he ignores me in every way also he never notces me what should i do?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (26 November 2007):
It's good you broke up coz u guys didn't trust each other.What stuff do you wana get back? Can't you just forget about the stuff? If it's that's important talk to your parents to help you get the stuff back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst off thanks guys. Also my ex refused to give me my stuff back so i asked my parents to talk to his mom to get back my stuff but how should i act when i see him to pick up my stuff.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Hi
What stuff?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): Oh, that should be the easy part. Tell him you want your stuff back. If he says no, threaten to have your parents take legal action. And even if it doesn't get to the point where you'd take him (his parents) to court, you can at least get your parents involved if you can't immediately solve this.
I don't think he'll try to keep your stuff from you, so just call him and tell him you're going to stop by to pick it up. I think breaking up with him was a good choice, he has trust issues and you shouldn't deal with that.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 if you want your stuff back then just tell him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did everything you guy and girls said and we broke up but i don't know know how to get my stuff back from him any sugestions?
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reader, sexi +, writes (22 November 2007):
Hi
Your bf should know you better than to go and believe someone that you dont even know that well. Tell your bf your side of the stort about how the hell would this person know things about you as your dont knoe her that well to go and confide in her. Tell him that you are being truthful and you wouldnt lie to him and if he wants to believe this other person then there isnt much you can do to make him see things otherwise. I suggest you and him go up to this girl and ask her what is up and get the story straight in fornt of her. It is possible that hse may like your bf and is trying to break you up so i think you should be careful of her.You both should knoe better than to trust people out there. You cant trusu anyone as there are alot of crule people out there.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, chlez83 +, writes (22 November 2007):
Mistake number one.Your boyfriend quickly believed a third party.He needs to trust you more.I know it hurt him,especially that you guys just hooked up.Tell him how much you care about him.Tell him what he means to you and tell him that he can trust and not people from elsewhere spreading lies about you.If the dude can't get over it,it's best you leave because he'll never trust you and you don't want a partner who doesn't trust you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): This guy is believing that person instead of you? Jeez. Tell him upfront that either he will trust you unconditionally or he won't, or the relationship is over. You don't have to deal with this.
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reader, jorge88 +, writes (22 November 2007):
first of all, who gives a whoop about what anyone else has to say, i'm a guy myself and i will not believe anyone who has gossip about my girlfriend beacuase i know if something is wrong with my gf. us guys, we notice changes and patterns. if he really loves you, he won't be doind this to you. with this, you are actually realizeing that he is the one who doesn't trust you. do you need someone like that? no. if youre not guilty, let him make his decision and move on with your life, you can probably find someone better who really trusts and appreciates you.
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reader, muffy +, writes (22 November 2007):
i had the same problem with my bf when we first broke up. his best friend told him i was cheating on him with my ex which i sooo wasn't and he believed his friend and one of my friends who told him the same thing instead of me!!! i was sooo upset but just ask him if he still wants to be together. If not then try your hardest to move on even though its the hardest thing to do when your in love. If he still wants to be together then let him know that you will never lie to him and that you are telling the truth and that he should trust you. I hope everything works out for you ok.love and kisses
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