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| | BadAsh6705's profile:I am a 23-year-old female living in the Dallas/Ft. Worth, TX area. I major in Psychology in school and joined this site to gain some insight into people's daily problems and hear others' opinions on some of my own problems. |
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What to do about sex when you're in a long distance relationship?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and starting this June we have been in a long-distance relationship. I get very horny sometimes and just want to have sex. And when I get horny, I think all kinds of thoughts. I'm sure it is p...
A. 11 November 2008: There are options...
You can try phone sex if you feel comfortable with that, or get him to send you some sexy pictures of him to look at and uh..you know. Send him some of you. Call him and tell him how horny you are for him and tell him what you... (read in full...)
Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?
Q. my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think you just need to figure out how to express your feelings better. Instead of cutting him off when your mad, take a deep breath and just stop for a second and try to think clearly about why you are mad and be as short and simple as possible. ... (read in full...)
Can't believe I'm asking this, but what do I do after she CHEATED on me, to get her out of my mind?
Q. My ex-girlfriend of over a year cheated on me and its been 2 months and I still think about her everyday. How do I get her out of my mind and move on? This is seriously dogging me and it sucks that she cheated on me yet I still have feelings for ...
A. 11 November 2008: It is understandable that you feel hurt and that you still have feelings for her, but this was only the first of many relationships that you may have in the future. Just remember that there are many, many, MANY other girls out there that will treat ... (read in full...)
My girlfreind is so depressed because of me .
Q. Me and my girlfreind have been going out for one 13 months now and i really love her alot infact i could pretty much say i cant live without her. Im 14 yeah young but madly in love. When i was high i mistakenly tried to make out with another girl. ...
A. 11 November 2008: You shouldn't blame this on yourself.
At that age, girls go throught a lot of hormonal changes that are confusing and can make them feel depressed. When I was 14 I contantly fought with my parents and rebeled in every way and a lot of the time I w... (read in full...)
I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!
Q. ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...
A. 11 November 2008: It may seem interesting to you because it is something "naughty" that you're not supposed to do. The same reason why people might find it exciting to cheat, it is tempting to do things we're not supposed to do.
Thankfully this was only a dream an... (read in full...)
Is it friendship only or has he more in mind?
Q. Am I reading too much into this? There's this guy in one of my classes who I talk to and kind of flirt with a little bit, but I haven't really hung out with him outside of class until last week. He left class before I did and he was waiting for ...
A. 11 November 2008: In my experience guys don't usually start talking to a girl like that unless they are interested. If he invited you to a party that means that he wanted to bring you around his friends which is pretty important. It sounds to me like he is definitly ... (read in full...)
I'm lonely now that my friends are moving on with their lives.. Help!
Q. I've been feeling out of place lately. I am not a teenager anymore. I am not in that 21 phase anymore. I have a career and my own home but am not married. I haven't had a serious relationship in years. I've been feeling so lonely lately. My ...
A. 7 July 2008: I know exactly how you feel...I have felt the same way lately. I think it's just part of being at this age. After school, everyone who used to be in your life every day starts to drift away, or get married and start families.
It's weird. And lone... (read in full...)
Family fights all the time, I am miserable, I must leave, is there someplace to live for free temporarily?
Q. Hi, Im writing becasue I can't seem to find peace at home and I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for about 23 years, but my mom's had to deal with infidelities, indecision physical and physiological abuse (IN THE PAST). I ...
A. 7 July 2008: You should look into living on campus at your school. You can use your scholarship toward it and if you need to, you can apply for other financial aid (grants, loans) to help pay for it. You can also ask at school about roommates, most schools have ... (read in full...)
I'm having dreams of other guys, what does it mean?
Q. Hi everyone! I am having some strange dreams lately, I have a boyfriend whom I am very happy with, but I keep having dreams that I am with other men. They are not sexual, but I have dreamt of being with my ex (I was sitting on his lap and he had h...
A. 22 May 2008: Haha...no one is more attractive to me than my guy!! :D... (read in full...)
Everyone at uni talks about sex and I'm not really interested. Is this normal?
Q. hiya Im at university and am still a virgin. At uni everyone talks about sex the whole time, its impossible to get away from. Im not really interested in sex atm, probably because i dont really know what im missing but i feel really left out and ...
A. 23 January 2008: Of course you are normal! Just because you aren't going around sleeping with everything that moves like most college students doesn't mean that you should change your standards or feel any less than anyone else.
I think most of these sexual e... (read in full...)
How would you interpret this dream?...
Q. Ok this is a kind of odd question... I met this guy in October of last year, and we exchanged numbers and texted alot over the months and met up a couple of times. He knows that I really like him. The night after I saw him for the first time on my...
A. 22 January 2008: You are probably dreaming about this guy being into you because that is what you want so much. Have you been with anyone else since you and your ex split? You may be seeing his shirt on the new guy because you still have some feelings for him (not ... (read in full...)
How can I break it off with my very 'dependant' girlfriend?
Q. I want to leave my girlfriend but she's too dependant on me. I don't think she'll be able to cope. She says her life has never been as happy as it is with me and I've turned her life around. She says I've helped her get off drugs, move to a nice a...
A. 22 January 2008: Just be completely honest with her no matter how much it hurts her, she will eventually understand. Once you do break it off DO NOT give in to her when she tries to keep calling, wanting to see you, etc. Try to stay away from her for as long as ... (read in full...)
His ex is pregnant and he doesn't love her...should I still date him?
Q. So I use to go out with this guy for 2 months. Then we broke up and later on he got with this girl but then they broke up. During the time that he was with that girl, he would still try to contact me and try to keep it cool with me. So once him and ...
A. 17 January 2008: I can tell you from personal experience that you should not go back with this guy. Not that he is a bad guy, but he is not taking this seriously right now and you don't know what will happen if it is confirmed that she is pregnant and further on in ... (read in full...)
I'm off my meds and trying to cope...will I get better with time?
Q. Hi, I hope that someone out there can give me some advice. I feel like I'm going a little crazy and I just don't know what to do. I have recently come off of anti depressants (about 4 months ago) after being on them for around 9 years, I was ini...
A. 17 January 2008: I would agree that this will definitly be a process that will take awhile to adjust to. 9 years is a long time to be on anti-depressants...usually those types of meds are made to be a temprorary fix, so I would suggest trying your best to learn to ... (read in full...)
I'm having multiple orgasms, but not in the bedroom?? how can I control this its driving me crazy?
Q. i have quite an embarassing problem,recently, almost every day, i have been having uncontrollable orgasms and i can have upto 5 a day without even doing anything and they last what seems like forever, this might be all well and good if i was ...
A. 17 January 2008: wow!... (read in full...)
He spent mone at a strip club, I dumped his butt, now he wont speak to me, what is going on with him?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after finding out he spent a large amount of money at a strip club without telling me. I told him not to call me until he wanted to be honest about how he spent the money. He didn't call me for five ...
A. 17 January 2008: It seems like there is maybe two possibilities in this situation...
Either this guy was looking for an excuse to get out of this relationship and this gave him the easy way out, or he is just still very upset about what happened and will need som... (read in full...)
Whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. What's wrong with me?
Q. I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is ...
A. 17 January 2008: Maybe you are just a bit nervous, or the person you were kissing doesn't kiss you the way that you would like! It is much more enjoyable when you feel comfortable with the person you are with. ... (read in full...)
I don't find girls my age that attractive, and find they are far more mature than me. Is this a problem?
Q. Hey, I'm 18 and at uni, and had been in a relationship with someone 15/16 until recently. It ended and I'm over it, but now I've found that I only seem attracted to and interested in girls at the age of 16. It's really weird, but I don't find g...
A. 17 January 2008: There's nothing weird about that...I have never dated anyone younger than me, and only a couple who were the same age. Even now at 23, I still am mostly attracted to older guys. Age has nothing to do with maturity really. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant , with my bf but why do I keep thinking of an ex bf who I was with for 9 years.
Q. Hi I am in my mid twenty's I have been with my b/f for little over a year and I am pregnant with his child but I still think a Lot about my ex which I was with for 9 years is it love or not? ...
A. 17 January 2008: Well, you were with him for a lot of your life! A good bit of your memories involve him, so of course you will still think of him and maybe even still love him! Obviously there is a reason why you aren't together anymore, and you have a family now ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as too much sex in a relationship even if we both really enjoy it?
Q. Can too much sex in a relationship ever be bad? My boyfriend and I used to have sex an average amount but recently it has become more frequent. I'm scared our relationship will become merely based on sex... Is that a possibility? Can there ever be ...
A. 17 January 2008: I don't think you should worry about it causing problems in your relationship. You guys might finally come to a point where you're not so interested in sex as you are now, but I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
My boyfriend and I ha... (read in full...)
Who do I believe---him or his pregnant ex gf?
Q. I have a tricky situation and I could do with some advice. I've been seeing a guy for around a month now, and we've got on so great, he's the best thing thats happened to me in ages and he feels the same way. Everything was going perfectly...
A. 17 January 2008: I think I may be able to help, seeing as I have been in almost the EXACT same situation before...
I was dating a guy for about 6 months and started to develop pretty strong feelings for him, but he seemed confused about what he wanted and broke it... (read in full...)
I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?
Q. O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch ...
A. 17 January 2008: I just wanted to add some more info on this situation because it is so funny to me...I decided not to go visit. I thought well, if I do end up moving closer, maybe we can see what happens then. WELL was I wrong! Only a MONTH after this, I happened ... (read in full...)
My friend's stategy to attract women. What do you think?
Q. I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go) He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more? What do...
A. 28 November 2007: Honestly...yes, it does work, but I believe it is better to not play games and be honest if you really like someone. If you do want to play hard to get, don't ignore them or be mean at all, just be playful about it. That works just as well.... (read in full...)
I'm bored and uncomfortable with my life. Sometimes I indulge in very dangerous things!
Q. Howdy, This is bound to be kind of long sorry but rounds to a question in the end.. I am 27, semi hot down to earth mother. Recently I have been wondering about my sexual identity. I have been married for 1 year but together for 10 years wit...
A. 28 November 2007: I don't think you are gay just because you are stimulated by other women, this is the only other type of sexual attention you have had since your marriage. You are angry at this man, which makes you resent men altogether right now. You need to stand ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to orgasm simultaneously with your partner?
Q. My girlfriend of several years and I have not had sex yet. We are both virgins. I have read that orgasm are very nice. How can I give her one? Is it possible to give her more than one? Is it possible for both of us to have one at the same time? ...
A. 28 November 2007: In my experience, it took quite a few times before I ever had an orgasm. I would feel like it was getting close, but would never happen. It takes awhile to get used to your own body and figure out what does it for you. The best thing to do is to ... (read in full...)
What advice do you have about giving and receiving Cunnilingus? When is a right time to give one?
Q. My girlfriend and I are in love. We are virgins and have not had sex yet. I understand that Cunnilingus are very pleasarable for woman. What advice do you have about giving and receiving Cunnilingus? How will I know when it is a good time to give ...
A. 28 November 2007: I think that if you want to do her a good favor, you should first get her in the mood...maybe after a nice date out or dinner or a relaxed movie at home, first kiss her softly and get her worked up, then ask her if she would like to try it.
If sh... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!
Q. Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...
A. 28 November 2007: One thing that you need to learn is that your friends' boyfriends are off limits! That's just how it is. You wouldn't want your friend doing that to you, would you? It is wrong of him to flirt with you, even if he would rather have you, he will ... (read in full...)
I was too clingy for my ex, and now HE keeps trying to talk to me...
Q. I broke up with my long-term boyfriend recently due to his starting at university; neither of us wanted to split, and he said (although it's unlikely) that once everything's out of the way, he might like to try a relationship again in the future. We ...
A. 28 November 2007: It sounds like he got used to having you there whenever he wanted and when you finally quit subjecting yourself to being hurt, he got tired of losing the attention he was getting from you. He's messing with your head and not worth it, leave him ... (read in full...)
He likes filming us having sex, why is this?
Q. I need advise, I have been involved with a guy on and off for 4 yrs. over the last 2 yrs he has asked if he can video he and I having sex. I did it then but was extremely paranoid when he kept it and didnt delete. a few months after he filmed it ...
A. 28 November 2007: I would say that this is not completely abnormal...he may have a exhibitionist side to his personality and he may get off on "being watched", BUT you have the FULL RIGHT to know exactly what he is doing with that video!! You never know, he could be ... (read in full...)
We're so close as friends and are scared to take it further in case it ruins what we already have...
Q. Hi, I asked a couple of months ago should I tell my best friend that I'm in love with her. We sat down and talked about it and we both feel the same way but both feel that it could break our over close bond. Anyone any got any advice on what to ...
A. 28 November 2007: If you both feel the same, then go for it! You will never know until you try, and there is no reason to be pesimistic about it when you don't know yet!... (read in full...)
I'm in my first year of a civil engineering course and am struggling badly...
Q. I'm doing civil engineering, I'm in my first year and I am struggling. In 2 modules I am doing really badly and these 2 I have exams in January for them. I've gone to counselling (not for that but self esteem issues) and I'm watching everything get ...
A. 28 November 2007: You should look into tutoring...a lot of colleges offer free tutoring, or private tutoring for a fee. Talk to your professor about maybe something extra he can give you to study with or something you can do for extra credit. Sometimes schools also ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I get along great... so why am I falling for this other guy?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we get along great, I love him to bits. We've been through at lot together and we have such a great connection. This is a long distance relationship though and although it can be annoying I ...
A. 28 November 2007: You need to decide if you can handle the long distance, or if you want someone who you can spend time with now. Sometimes we meet someone who is attractive and that we get along with very well, but that doesn't mean that you have to date him, maybe ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to convince here I have changed and we can make it work?
Q. Hi, I'm 20 and I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, the first year was awesome but the next few months weren't and it's all my fault. She is my best friend's ex girlfriend and she kinda left him for me but me and him are still friends ...
A. 28 November 2007: It is not completely wrong of you to think that way, but it has been a long time you have been together since that happened...does she show you that she cares about you and that she is faithful and trustworthy now? It probably hurt her that you ... (read in full...)
Problem in talking with boyfriend
Q. I have got this strange problem. I am in a relationship for 1-1/2 years. The problem which my bf says I have is only that I dont talk my heart out to him or make conversations. When he tells me abt things which I have done wrong or I have fault ...
A. 28 November 2007: Try to remember to say something nice that you think about him at least once every day. When he sees that you are saying these things on your own without him having to ask, he will feel more appreciated. Guys feed on compliments and they are not ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me here with my insecurities?
Q. I am very happy with my boyfriend, but I have noticed differences in him lately like when we were first going out he couldn't wait to see me and he would spend every moment with me. After college he would come see me most of the week or ...
A. 28 November 2007: Maybe you should try to make one time a week when you are both able to be together that can be "your time" and go out together or study together.... (read in full...)
I don't get turned on at all, is this normal?
Q. I don't get turned on at all...No matter what my boyfriends or myself do, nothing really seems to turn me on..Is this normal?...
A. 28 November 2007: It is just because you are still very young and probably don't have much experience to know what you like. Don't force anything...you will know and feel it when it is right!... (read in full...)
Dazed and Confused... wrapped in a web
Q. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for the past four years. We have a daughter who's two. We were having problems and I drew close to my ex boyfriend who has been my ex for the past seven years. He has a girlfriend but we both drew away from ...
A. 28 November 2007: So you are back with your boyfriend now? (Not the ex?)... (read in full...)
Torn between two...
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a problem that I have been married for 20 years and am in love with two woman. I got married at 19 and have 2 older children. I never thought that I would ever be a cheater. My wife is one that has never supported career...
A. 28 November 2007: I would say on this one you have to take some time and not be around either of them for awhile while you make your decision. You should take some time by yourself, even take some time off of work if you need to so you can think about what you really ... (read in full...)
School Dance...
Q. I'm 12 and going to my first school dance. I'm pretty good and never even hugged a guy before. I can't dance either. What do I do if someone asks me to dance? I want to, but can't!...
A. 28 November 2007: Well, you can practice by yourself and play some music and dance in front of the mirror. Get together with some of your friends and go to the dance together, so you will have someone to stand next to and talk to when you get there. When you dance ... (read in full...)
I'm infatuated... HELP!
Q. Hey -- you guys may think this is lame but, I feel so helpless..and not sure what to do. I moved to this new school to carry on into sixth form, and everyone knew each other, so I was obviously a bit out casted at first. I took a performing art subj...
A. 28 November 2007: From what you say about this guy, he seems like he does like you...he may have some kind of feelings for this other girl, or maybe he is afraid she and her friends will be mean to him if he shows that he likes you. Maybe he is just shy! Some people ... (read in full...)
I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?
Q. O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch ...
A. 27 November 2007: Thanks for all your positive advice!
I think it has really helped me to realize that I need to just slow down and just relax and let things happen naturally!... (read in full...)
I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?
Q. O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch ...
A. 26 November 2007: Thanks for the comment!
I guess I should be more clear, I don't necessarily want a "serious" relationship or expect anything, I guess I am getting ahead of myself. I'm sure he knows that I am interested in him seeing as we have spent time together... (read in full...)
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