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| | BadAsh6705's profile:I am a 23-year-old female living in the Dallas/Ft. Worth, TX area. I major in Psychology in school and joined this site to gain some insight into people's daily problems and hear others' opinions on some of my own problems.
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What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.
Q. I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...
A. 3 November 2009: I don't think it's really perceived in the same way these days. There are some piercings that are seen as a more sexual statement like tongue, nipples, etc., but I don't think the belly button is too bad, or the nose definitely. So many people have ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...
A. 27 October 2009: I think what you should do is next time you talk to him, tell him that it is too hard for you to be only friends with him, and you will not wait around forever. Tell him that you will not contact him for awhile (maybe a month or a couple of months) ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend of 7 years that I like him as more?
Q. Hello! I just recently got out of a relationship that lasted for 2 years and we lived together, so pretty serious, but it didn't work out for us. We mutually decided to break up although I was the one who brought it up because I started to like one ...
A. 27 October 2009: correction- there were a few things said which were pretty obvious tonight like he said I am beautiful and that all my "weird things" fit in well with him, and he likes them! ... (read in full...)
Always the "friend with benefits", never the girlfriend
Q. Hey all, So here's my problem. I keep getting involved with these really great guys. Problem is I always end up as the "friend with benefits". Now it's not that I don't respect myself or anything, but I always tend to get involved with them at the...
A. 17 October 2009: First of all, I would not consider guys who use women "really great guys." Sometimes if a man has just come out of a relationship, it could be because the girl left him because he was not a good boyfriend!! I know this is not always the case, but ... (read in full...)
What is up with her?
Q. I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt tal...
A. 17 October 2009: Honestly, to me it sounds like this girl just likes the attention she gets from you. Girls are weird like that sometimes, even when we aren't interested in a guy, we still like them to be attracted to us. Obviously she likes you as a friend, but I ... (read in full...)
I really like my Teaching Assistant, I googled him and we have so much in common!
Q. Hi Everyone. I have a question about whether or not to show that I like my T.A. (teacher's assistant for those of you who don't know). I am a senior in college and he is a Ph.d student. I am 23 and he is 28. (Oh, I know this because I Google...
A. 11 September 2009: I would say you need to find out somehow if it might make him uncomfortable before you outright flirt or anything because he might find it inappropriate in the classroom. Maybe if you have some questions about something from class you can see if he ... (read in full...)
How can I help my drug addicted son?
Q. How can I help my drug addict son? We sent him to rehab, we helped him, to not live n the street, we sent him to many programs, but he can;t change. He did change a bit, but he is suffering greatly, and not ready to make good choices. My heart is ...
A. 4 September 2009: He can only change if he wants to. I believe that even when addicts want to change, they have to have no other options left because the comfort the drugs gives them is more enticing than taking on the challenge of trying to change. If you have tr... (read in full...)
I have these urges to cheat
Q. im on the verge to cheat on my boyfriend. i posted a situation about four days ago and now i feel like cheating on my boyfriend. im the type of woman that wont even give a guy a second due to the commitment i made to my boyfriend. but since ...
A. 4 September 2009: Please don't do it! Do you still love your boyfriend? Are you still attracted to him? Sometimes when things aren't going so great in a relationship we start to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, but don't get lost in that until ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?
Q. ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...
A. 26 August 2009: If it is legal where you live then I don't see a problem with it unless it will upset your parents...I went through this in high school I was 15 and I started dating a guy who was 21. He was the older brother of one of my friends, so we knew a lot ... (read in full...)
Should I try and make it work with my boyfriend of 2 years, or move on and see if me and friend have a chance together?
Q. Ok I'll try and make this quick. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been happy throughout most of those years, but of course have had our downs too. He is a year and a half younger than me and I can definitely feel the ...
A. 24 August 2009: Hi, I have recently found myself in a similar situation as well...I have been with my boyfriend almost 2 years and we live together, but I still keep in touch with a "friend" of mine who I have always been attracted to although we have never been ... (read in full...)
Would you share your experiences of losing your virginity with me? It would really help!
Q. im a young person really looking for some answers about life and sex...i myself is a virgin and i kno this boy like it will be two yrs we kno each other..we started off on a really bad friendship and now we are pretty close and we kno each other ...
A. 11 August 2009: I think that you should really take some time to think about if you feel that you are really ready to have sex. When I was in love for the first time with my boyfriend, I thought that it would be fun to have sex, but to be honest it is a pretty ... (read in full...)
What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?
Q. Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "de...
A. 10 August 2009: Personally, I don't think it's degrading or disgusting or anything, but it's just something that I don't enjoy doing. I have tried to do it with my boyfriend before, and something about it makes me gag. It's not that it tastes terrible or anything, ... (read in full...)
If he does like someone else so much why was he hooking up with me a week ago?
Q. Thanks anyone for taking the time to read this/respond. I am kind of confused in situation with a new guy I hooked up with recently. I have kind of known him for about a year because I go to the place where he works all the time, and we talked ...
A. 10 February 2009: haha! my plan is already working...he called me again tonight. ;o)... (read in full...)
If he does like someone else so much why was he hooking up with me a week ago?
Q. Thanks anyone for taking the time to read this/respond. I am kind of confused in situation with a new guy I hooked up with recently. I have kind of known him for about a year because I go to the place where he works all the time, and we talked ...
A. 8 February 2009: Well, honestly I just enjoyed sleeping with him, so I don't care if he doesn't want a relationship. I just got out of one and I am not looking for that right now. After we hooked up I didn't call him for like 3 or 4 days and then I sent him a ... (read in full...)
He won't commit, but says we're not breaking up either?!
Q. My boyfriend of two years is leaving the state to return to school. He says he loves me and doesn't want to break up, but also says he doesn't want to maintain a relationship while he's in school and doesn't want me to move to be closer to him. ...
A. 8 February 2009: I can relate to this because I am kind of on the other end of the same situation...
I have been with a guy for a year and we were pretty serious, lived together and everything, but I started feeling very overwhelmed with schoolwork, my job and havi... (read in full...)
Are these signs of depression?
Q. How do you know when your depressed?I am 18,and for about a month I have been very upset, I cry every day sometimes twice a day. I believe I do a lot in a day such as school, work, my parents which are never satified with anything that I do. They're ...
A. 8 February 2009: It sounds like you are going through a tough time mentally because of all the responsibilities you are taking on which I think is normal at this time in your life. From a psychological standpoint, true depression is diagnosed if you are depressed ... (read in full...)
My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...
Q. I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- ...
A. 9 January 2009: I think the real issue here is that your idea of her is not only to do with her body, but when you two were intimate there was more going on than just a visual image of her body. If you were close and connected then that has a lot to do with how you ... (read in full...)
Relationship confusion
Q. I have posted here before, but now I know that I have not gotten over it. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and only recently found out he watched porn. Prior to finding out and when questioned he would tell me that the last time he...
A. 9 January 2009: I think you are definitly overreacting about this!
Pretty much ALL MEN look at porn sometimes. And women too! Imagine that. Well, think of it this way: Generally guys crave and think about sex more often than women. He knows this. He knows th... (read in full...)
How many of you believe that there is something after we die?
Q. How many of you believes that there is something after we die? And what will happen? Reincarnation? Or became a spirit? Or nothing at all? And if nothing , does that make you depressed, that you have only this chance on earth? Life becomes very...
A. 24 November 2008: Wow! Great question...I really like talking about stuff like this, but some people get "weird" when you bring up such personal topics.
Personally, over the years I have come to my own conclusions about such questions. I'm not a religious person, ... (read in full...)
What to do about sex when you're in a long distance relationship?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and starting this June we have been in a long-distance relationship. I get very horny sometimes and just want to have sex. And when I get horny, I think all kinds of thoughts. I'm sure it is p...
A. 11 November 2008: There are options...
You can try phone sex if you feel comfortable with that, or get him to send you some sexy pictures of him to look at and uh..you know. Send him some of you. Call him and tell him how horny you are for him and tell him what you... (read in full...)
Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?
Q. my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think you just need to figure out how to express your feelings better. Instead of cutting him off when your mad, take a deep breath and just stop for a second and try to think clearly about why you are mad and be as short and simple as possible. ... (read in full...)
Can't believe I'm asking this, but what do I do after she CHEATED on me, to get her out of my mind?
Q. My ex-girlfriend of over a year cheated on me and its been 2 months and I still think about her everyday. How do I get her out of my mind and move on? This is seriously dogging me and it sucks that she cheated on me yet I still have feelings for ...
A. 11 November 2008: It is understandable that you feel hurt and that you still have feelings for her, but this was only the first of many relationships that you may have in the future. Just remember that there are many, many, MANY other girls out there that will treat ... (read in full...)
My girlfreind is so depressed because of me .
Q. Me and my girlfreind have been going out for one 13 months now and i really love her alot infact i could pretty much say i cant live without her. Im 14 yeah young but madly in love. When i was high i mistakenly tried to make out with another girl. ...
A. 11 November 2008: You shouldn't blame this on yourself.
At that age, girls go throught a lot of hormonal changes that are confusing and can make them feel depressed. When I was 14 I contantly fought with my parents and rebeled in every way and a lot of the time I w... (read in full...)
I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!
Q. ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...
A. 11 November 2008: It may seem interesting to you because it is something "naughty" that you're not supposed to do. The same reason why people might find it exciting to cheat, it is tempting to do things we're not supposed to do.
Thankfully this was only a dream an... (read in full...)
Is it friendship only or has he more in mind?
Q. Am I reading too much into this? There's this guy in one of my classes who I talk to and kind of flirt with a little bit, but I haven't really hung out with him outside of class until last week. He left class before I did and he was waiting for ...
A. 11 November 2008: In my experience guys don't usually start talking to a girl like that unless they are interested. If he invited you to a party that means that he wanted to bring you around his friends which is pretty important. It sounds to me like he is definitly ... (read in full...)
I'm lonely now that my friends are moving on with their lives.. Help!
Q. I've been feeling out of place lately. I am not a teenager anymore. I am not in that 21 phase anymore. I have a career and my own home but am not married. I haven't had a serious relationship in years. I've been feeling so lonely lately. My ...
A. 7 July 2008: I know exactly how you feel...I have felt the same way lately. I think it's just part of being at this age. After school, everyone who used to be in your life every day starts to drift away, or get married and start families.
It's weird. And lone... (read in full...)
Family fights all the time, I am miserable, I must leave, is there someplace to live for free temporarily?
Q. Hi, Im writing becasue I can't seem to find peace at home and I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for about 23 years, but my mom's had to deal with infidelities, indecision physical and physiological abuse (IN THE PAST). I ...
A. 7 July 2008: You should look into living on campus at your school. You can use your scholarship toward it and if you need to, you can apply for other financial aid (grants, loans) to help pay for it. You can also ask at school about roommates, most schools have ... (read in full...)
I'm having dreams of other guys, what does it mean?
Q. Hi everyone! I am having some strange dreams lately, I have a boyfriend whom I am very happy with, but I keep having dreams that I am with other men. They are not sexual, but I have dreamt of being with my ex (I was sitting on his lap and he had h...
A. 22 May 2008: Haha...no one is more attractive to me than my guy!! :D... (read in full...)
Everyone at uni talks about sex and I'm not really interested. Is this normal?
Q. hiya Im at university and am still a virgin. At uni everyone talks about sex the whole time, its impossible to get away from. Im not really interested in sex atm, probably because i dont really know what im missing but i feel really left out and ...
A. 23 January 2008: Of course you are normal! Just because you aren't going around sleeping with everything that moves like most college students doesn't mean that you should change your standards or feel any less than anyone else.
I think most of these sexual e... (read in full...)
How would you interpret this dream?...
Q. Ok this is a kind of odd question... I met this guy in October of last year, and we exchanged numbers and texted alot over the months and met up a couple of times. He knows that I really like him. The night after I saw him for the first time on my...
A. 22 January 2008: You are probably dreaming about this guy being into you because that is what you want so much. Have you been with anyone else since you and your ex split? You may be seeing his shirt on the new guy because you still have some feelings for him (not ... (read in full...)
How can I break it off with my very 'dependant' girlfriend?
Q. I want to leave my girlfriend but she's too dependant on me. I don't think she'll be able to cope. She says her life has never been as happy as it is with me and I've turned her life around. She says I've helped her get off drugs, move to a nice a...
A. 22 January 2008: Just be completely honest with her no matter how much it hurts her, she will eventually understand. Once you do break it off DO NOT give in to her when she tries to keep calling, wanting to see you, etc. Try to stay away from her for as long as ... (read in full...)
His ex is pregnant and he doesn't love her...should I still date him?
Q. So I use to go out with this guy for 2 months. Then we broke up and later on he got with this girl but then they broke up. During the time that he was with that girl, he would still try to contact me and try to keep it cool with me. So once him and ...
A. 17 January 2008: I can tell you from personal experience that you should not go back with this guy. Not that he is a bad guy, but he is not taking this seriously right now and you don't know what will happen if it is confirmed that she is pregnant and further on in ... (read in full...)
I'm off my meds and trying to cope...will I get better with time?
Q. Hi, I hope that someone out there can give me some advice. I feel like I'm going a little crazy and I just don't know what to do. I have recently come off of anti depressants (about 4 months ago) after being on them for around 9 years, I was ini...
A. 17 January 2008: I would agree that this will definitly be a process that will take awhile to adjust to. 9 years is a long time to be on anti-depressants...usually those types of meds are made to be a temprorary fix, so I would suggest trying your best to learn to ... (read in full...)
I'm having multiple orgasms, but not in the bedroom?? how can I control this its driving me crazy?
Q. i have quite an embarassing problem,recently, almost every day, i have been having uncontrollable orgasms and i can have upto 5 a day without even doing anything and they last what seems like forever, this might be all well and good if i was ...
A. 17 January 2008: wow!... (read in full...)
He spent mone at a strip club, I dumped his butt, now he wont speak to me, what is going on with him?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after finding out he spent a large amount of money at a strip club without telling me. I told him not to call me until he wanted to be honest about how he spent the money. He didn't call me for five ...
A. 17 January 2008: It seems like there is maybe two possibilities in this situation...
Either this guy was looking for an excuse to get out of this relationship and this gave him the easy way out, or he is just still very upset about what happened and will need som... (read in full...)
Whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. What's wrong with me?
Q. I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is ...
A. 17 January 2008: Maybe you are just a bit nervous, or the person you were kissing doesn't kiss you the way that you would like! It is much more enjoyable when you feel comfortable with the person you are with. ... (read in full...)
I don't find girls my age that attractive, and find they are far more mature than me. Is this a problem?
Q. Hey, I'm 18 and at uni, and had been in a relationship with someone 15/16 until recently. It ended and I'm over it, but now I've found that I only seem attracted to and interested in girls at the age of 16. It's really weird, but I don't find g...
A. 17 January 2008: There's nothing weird about that...I have never dated anyone younger than me, and only a couple who were the same age. Even now at 23, I still am mostly attracted to older guys. Age has nothing to do with maturity really. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant , with my bf but why do I keep thinking of an ex bf who I was with for 9 years.
Q. Hi I am in my mid twenty's I have been with my b/f for little over a year and I am pregnant with his child but I still think a Lot about my ex which I was with for 9 years is it love or not? ...
A. 17 January 2008: Well, you were with him for a lot of your life! A good bit of your memories involve him, so of course you will still think of him and maybe even still love him! Obviously there is a reason why you aren't together anymore, and you have a family now ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as too much sex in a relationship even if we both really enjoy it?
Q. Can too much sex in a relationship ever be bad? My boyfriend and I used to have sex an average amount but recently it has become more frequent. I'm scared our relationship will become merely based on sex... Is that a possibility? Can there ever be ...
A. 17 January 2008: I don't think you should worry about it causing problems in your relationship. You guys might finally come to a point where you're not so interested in sex as you are now, but I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
My boyfriend and I ha... (read in full...)
Who do I believe---him or his pregnant ex gf?
Q. I have a tricky situation and I could do with some advice. I've been seeing a guy for around a month now, and we've got on so great, he's the best thing thats happened to me in ages and he feels the same way. Everything was going perfectly...
A. 17 January 2008: I think I may be able to help, seeing as I have been in almost the EXACT same situation before...
I was dating a guy for about 6 months and started to develop pretty strong feelings for him, but he seemed confused about what he wanted and broke it... (read in full...)
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