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| | *abrielle Stoker's profile:Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life. |
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Should I date my teacher?
Q. hi. i have had a crush on my teacher for a while. she is right out of college i believe shes 23 im a 18 year old senior entering my last week of school. i guess she noticed i liked her and asked me to have sex after school. i did and it was amazing. ...
A. 21 June 2010: I'll keep the value judgements aside regarding her giving you a booty call. You're of age and once you're out of school the teacher-student relationship also ends. If you're compatible, what's stopping you?... (read in full...)
Due for an arranged marriage, fell in love with the guy, and now he wants me to leave him!
Q. im 26 years old, basically im afraid about boys and i hate marriage then i accept my marriage before one year my parents also looking for a guy finally i got one he started to talk, he said he was having one previous love and he cant forget her she ...
A. 21 June 2010: Call off the wedding, please. You don't want to be stuck in a love-less marraige. He's giving you the right advice. Go up to your parents and tell them all this - or ask him to.... (read in full...)
Help! My wife found out about an affair I'd rather forget, how can I get her back now?
Q. F*^ and ! Sorry for my language but everything is horrible. The woman I had the affair with some how found me on the internet and sent me a message. Say how she wished the night ended differently and how even. Though it was only a couple mintues ...
A. 21 June 2010: YouWish has it right, as usual. It's possible your wife might come around once she's had some time to reflect, but don't count on it.
And this is really a case-study for married men everywhere! if you're going for an adulterous quickie, do it wi... (read in full...)
She won't do any more physical stuff with me!
Q. Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have a pretty physical relationship but of course it has died down some. I made it very romantic for her one time and since we both are completely free from our parents sometimes we have to go to the back of the c...
A. 21 June 2010: Personally, I love seeing the back of a car, but it doesn't work for everyone. Try a proper place and see what ensues.... (read in full...)
Help! Is this at all normal?
Q. Is it normal for men to get angry when we females refuse to have sex with them?...
A. 21 June 2010: How would you feel if a shop refused to sell you a bag or pair of shoes you were prefectly willing to pay for?
Actually, the answer is situational, but the above is the first thing that popped into my mind.
WHY was he asking?
WHY did you refus... (read in full...)
Should I go out with him again if he asks?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me last night on facebook and he wrote the following message to me: Um (my name)??? i have a problem real badly um three days ago I asked out(girls name)and she just now said yes Note: This was DURING our relationship...
A. 21 June 2010: He sounds like he has the intellect of a particularly dim-witted species of pigeon. If you are halfway intelligent, please don't entertain this idiot any more.... (read in full...)
How do I make my husband want to have sex?
Q. Hey every one ........... Need a lil advice on how to make my husband want to have sex with me. its bin 2 months now that i try to make the moves on him and he rejects them ive gone as far as going oral and he brushes me away by saying oo babe c...
A. 21 June 2010: Seems to be something very wrong with him. You should talk about it. Don't ignore it.... (read in full...)
Will she think my penis is too small?
Q. My best friend and I decided that we should have sex, just to see if we should be together. I'm worried that she might think my penis is to small. I measured my penis and it is 4 and a half inches. I just wanted to know from a females opinion is ...
A. 17 June 2010: If you've entered your age correctly, you really should not be having sex. Really.
Having said that, I shall assume that you are, actually, at least 18 and that your proposed sexual partner is the same.
4.5 inches erect?
A very nice size, fits... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he reply to my texts?
Q. So I've been dating this guy for 5 months. We really like each other but I have a concern. Whenever we text or talk on the phone, the either doesnt reply or it says things like "K" but when we see each other in person, the fun is nonestop. Does this ...
A. 17 June 2010: #1 Many men (and some women) just don't like texting. Personally, I'm one of them. It feels very distant, keypads are tough to navigate, it hurts the fingers etc. Don't give it any thought.
#2 It's impossible to comment based on what little y... (read in full...)
Is he turned off by oral sex?
Q. I have been in a relationship with a 43 yr old man for almost a year now. Since our first sexual encounter I realize he has some mild ED. I notice that while going down on me he never has an erection. My question- is this related to the ED or is ...
A. 17 June 2010: It's not unusual for a man to not be as turned on while giving oral as when receiving it.(Hey, nevermind what the scriptures say, it's usually better to receive than to give).
If he does cum thru you giving him a BJ you don't have anything... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 17 June 2010: A lot of self-labelled 'feminists' queered the pitch for women's rights in general by being complete idiots. It left so many negative connotations to the term 'feminist" that even sensible women nowadays would rather not be termed that. It's kind of ... (read in full...)
How should I act? Can I get him back?
Q. My relation ended after five long years . We were studying together . Now he has changed his city n moved out . And we have broken apart cuss his parents aren't ready for us to marry as we av a different caste . So he has stopped talking to me , ...
A. 16 June 2010: If he's cut contact with you, it may not be worth trying to get him back. And if you show him you want him back, you're laying yourself open to a lop-sided relationship.
Best move on, if my advice.... (read in full...)
Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 16 June 2010: If you spend more time with one person, i.e. this younger guy, it definitely has the potential to become, at some point of time, something more than just sex. If you and your husband have an understanding that you will have sex outside of your ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been battling with this for a while now and after reading a lot of replies to similar questions here, I decided that this is the best place for me to get advice. My boyfriend and I are both young (we're both 20) and we met...
A. 16 June 2010: This is going to sound negative, I know, but he's pulled the wool over your eyes twice already. The first time you forgave him based on certain promises - he couldn't even keep those.
It's NOT petty. You sound like you deserve more respect.... (read in full...)
I hate porn! Is it true all men watch it?
Q. I'm a 21 year old girl, and I HATE porn. I really, downright hate it. I think that, because of it, I may be doomed to stay single forever. I had a boyfriend until recently. He watched porn, but I just had to deal with it and it killed me inside...
A. 16 June 2010: Well, no, not all men watch it, but most do. The thing is, most of these men are also mature enough to treat porn is nothing more than a distraction.
The ultimate turn on for them is still the body (natural, if imperfect), of their signific... (read in full...)
Taken for granted?
Q. Hey everybody. The title says it all. I’m in a relationship with an amazing woman whom I love dearly with all my heart. And may be that’s why it hurts so much to realize that she is taking me for granted. It’s not anything major, but rather little ...
A. 16 June 2010: Certainly sounds as though you're being taken for granted(though that's based on the story from your point-of-view. For all I know, your significant other may have a different perspective).
The thing is, I guess we let that sort of thing happen t... (read in full...)
Is it possible to do this while sleepwalking?
Q. Well basicly last wednesday i discoverd a sex site in my fiance's name, emial adress, pic and even his regular password(all of which i knew). obviously i confronted him, and he said he knew about the site and had been trying to get rid of it for ...
A. 15 June 2010: Had he accessed a pay-site?
That requires taking a membership, which requires giving credit card details and stuff. A lot more cognitive thinking than the relatively simple acts associated with sleepwalking. So, no, it's not possible you've done... (read in full...)
She's much younger than me, is a relationship possible?
Q. please help me! i am in a big confusion recently i fall in love with a girl, who is 10 years younger than me. please suggest to me that i am in a right way? it is possible for this much age difference? please reply. thanks i...
A. 15 June 2010: If you're really 25, that means that the woman is significantly underage (not to mention that the WHOLE thing is very creepy). It's also illegal, even, I'm sure, in India. It's just...wrong.
If she's at least 25, then she may be mature enough t... (read in full...)
Trembling before orgasm?
Q. Hello! I just was wondering because it is something that I noticed and I'm hoping that the men and women can help me with this. Right before he is about to come, literally a few seconds before he starts trembling. Is that normal? Just wonderin...
A. 15 June 2010: Perfectly normal. Usually means he's having a great time! :) Be proud of yourself.... (read in full...)
Why did I cheat on the perfect wife?!
Q. I need help! I got married when I was twenty one. To my beautiful, caring and amazing wife. But a couple months ago I did something terrible... I cheated. I was out of town. My job causes meh to be gone a lot more now and I. Was having sexual ur...
A. 15 June 2010: You cheated on her because you're weak, I guess. No amount of excuses and justifications will change the fact. The question is whether you truly regret it and think that, as a person, you have changed and will not repeat it.
Should you tell her... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's STD test came back all clear...does that mean I'm in the clear too?
Q. I split up with my ex boyfriend the end of 2008. After we split i took it really hard and slept with quite a few guys over the next few months but only used protection with some of them. Now please don't lecture me on protection, i know what i have ...
A. 15 June 2010: No it does not. You'd better get yourself tested seperately.... (read in full...)
No sex for four years -- will it hurt now?
Q. hi every1..i am 19 and have been going out with this guy who is 42 n we r very much into each other so on monday he asked me if i would go with him for a weekend to gold coast.so far we had not had sex n if we go away together then i know that we ...
A. 15 June 2010: Yes, it will probably hurt a bit, so you'll have to be prepared for that.
Actually if you're 23 years younger than him, that's not the only thing that will hurt eventually. Still, good luck.... (read in full...)
Heartbroken and pregnant at 16...
Q. 7 months ago, i moved to the Dominican Republic with my mom. i fell head over heels in love with a boy and we were " together " for 6 months, just last week i find out he has had a girlfriend the entire time we were " together " to make matters a ...
A. 14 June 2010: You're in a soup. You're also probably pregnant with the baby of what appears to be a completely worthless man.
Weight your options. If it's legal where you are, you should consider an abortion. If not...
You know, this is really a situati... (read in full...)
Should I admit that I've never had a proper relationship but have always slept with prostitutes?
Q. Assuming have stopped going and you are STD free (have been tested) etc, ALWAYS used comdoms etc. Would you admit if asked about previous relationships on a date that you have pretty much only ever slept with prostitutes? Been single and never...
A. 14 June 2010: I would not recommend it unless she's likely to find out. And you'd better not be lying about being clean. It's a good idea to let her know you've not been in a real relationship before, though.... (read in full...)
How can I give a better blow job experience?
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a good while now. About 3 weeks ago I gave him a blow job for the first time. Since then I have probably done it three other times. I keep saying I have no idea what I'm doing, I'm horrible because ...
A. 14 June 2010: Relax, honey. We all had a 'first time' giving head and no one was an expert "right off the bat", as a britsh ex of mine used to say.
First of all, if you're giving him head he probably loves you for that already. Not all guys like exactly the same... (read in full...)
I really want this threesome!
Q. hey im 26 and my girlfriends 20 . we have been together for 3 years we had our ups and downs but we are pretty good now. we have a baby together. i wanna have a threesome. perferably another girl. but i wouldnt mind if it was another dude. im not ...
A. 14 June 2010: Are you quite, quite, sure that's what you want? It wreaks havoc on relationships, y'know. Still, you can try brnging it up in conversation and see if her reactions change. In any case, if she isn't interested, you'd better get it out of your ... (read in full...)
"No hair down there"
Q. "OP Own Title" What is the deal with women shaving their pubic area? I don't mind it being trimmed up and shaved on the sides, but all of it? It use to be a sign of maturity. What gives?...
A. 14 June 2010: Mostly for aesthetic reasons (ie. some men like it that way). Keeping it trimmed is generally a good idea though.... (read in full...)
Did his friend really influence him to masturbate, or did he change?
Q. I recently caught my boyfriend of 5 years masturbating to porn on his PS3. He said he had only been doing it for about six months, when he was friends with someone he was "influencing" him to be a..."pig." He says that other than those six months...
A. 14 June 2010: A) Yes, he's lying.
B) Porn does not constitute 'other women'.
C) Men never want to admit they watch porn.
D) If you can, ignore it and tell him you'd rather he's put his cum in you (or, if you're like me, on you) than waste it masturbating... (read in full...)
Is this guy bad news?
Q. Well, I have a situation I like this boy a lot, we are not going out but he walks me to all my classes waits for me after school and stuff like that.We are not together because we just met and want to be friends for now and get to know each other ...
A. 14 June 2010: Very bad news. No other words.... (read in full...)
My boyfriends a little too honest with me.. I'm not as attractive as this other busted model like chick..
Q. Hi guys. I have a very sweet, sincere and over-all nice boyfriend that I've been dating since last November. We immediately had a great connection, and I've only once caught him in a lie and it was utterly petty. Recently, I've come to think maybe ...
A. 14 June 2010: It appears you might be over-thinking this. It's silly of him to say she's prettier than you, of course, but looks isn't the only thing men see in us. Are you happy and secure in your relationship apart from this? Or is he generally only drawn to ... (read in full...)
Parents' statement "you can do what you want when you are 18 but til then..." seems to have been all a lie!
Q. I'm having major issues with my parents right now. I turned 18 last month and they have always said (in passing, and seemingly without conviction, as you will find) "you can do what you want when you are 18 but til then..." Now, my two best ...
A. 14 June 2010: Ah...growing pains. You poor thing - especially since the way you paint it, it all sounds very very innocent. 18 is just a number, y'know. If you're staying with your parents, you should reason it out with them rather than being unilateral. Parents ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...
A. 11 June 2010: BunnyTee hits the nail right on the head, y'know. Parents can be convinced (or ignored, if it comes to that), but fundamental differences in ambition levels and background sometimes cannot. It seems you have certain doubts already. Please do some ... (read in full...)
Does he masturbate to much?
Q. OK, I need some insight from the guys on a personal matter. I know that it is a private thing, but I am having a hard time dealing with how much my boyfriend masturbates. We probably have sex about twice a week on average and I would like to have ...
A. 10 June 2010: Sounds like he's in love with his own hands. Have you confronted him on this? Does he j/o openly or does he hide it from you?
Personally I recommend you initiate it whenever you want. If he says he's not upto it because he just masturba... (read in full...)
I want to hate and forget someone who I've begun to fall for
Q. My friend, she's gay, and we've known each other for a couple years but really got close since the middle of last year. Usually I hate being close with people and I hate telling them my personal problems. I'm more of the person who's the listener of ...
A. 10 June 2010: You can't hate someone because you want to, any more than you can love someone. I do feel for you - it must be heartbreaking, but like everyone else who's been in your situation, you should try to look ahead. I's not the end of the world, you ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with my blowjobs?
Q. How to arouse my husband when giving fellatio My husband loves me giving him bj before we actually have intercourse. He likes to have a dim light on and looks at the mirrior while I'm giving. He says he enjoys my bj but he doesn't like to ...
A. 10 June 2010: Maybe he's afraid you won't like the taste? You may want to convince him at the outset that you are comfortable with him finishing in your mouth.
Re. tips, I recommend changing the routine during the course of the BJ and try to wrap the lips aro... (read in full...)
He looked at porn right after we made love - whats wrong with me?
Q. I recently posted on here as i'd accidently discovered my fiance had been looking at porn on the computer..only one site had come up so i tried not to let it bother me as you all said and put it down to a one off. But earlier curiosity got the ...
A. 9 June 2010: Very well put, celialetta.
I totally agree; men are natural compartmentalizers. If he was on the comp for as long as 2 hours, it's quite likely he did actually go to play the game and before coming back to bed, was feeling a little randy and look... (read in full...)
Is it strange for me to fantasize about being raped?
Q. Is it wrong for me to like rough sex? I've always liked to be roughed up during sex. ( slap, grabbed and spanked ) Is it strange for me to fantasize about being raped? ...
A. 9 June 2010: It's a very common fantasy. I hope it remains just that, though.... (read in full...)
I tell my husband 'size doesn't matter' but everytime after sex, he asks me if he is too small...
Q. Whenever I make love to my husband, he is asking me the same old question "Am I too small?" I enjoy making out with him and I often tell him that it's not the size that matters, it's the passion inside me that counts. Is my husband ashamed of his ...
A. 9 June 2010: Certainly sounds like he's ashmed of his size (which you haven't disclosed).Is there a particular reason why he might be insecure?... (read in full...)
How do I know whether to believe my fiance?? I found 100's of porn and dating sites, but he blames a virus!
Q. Well basicly last night i accidently stumbled across porn that had been viewed on the computer...I had to know where it had come from so i looked and it was from my fiances acount...hoping i'd made a mistake i checked again and to my horror found ...
A. 9 June 2010: It's a thin explanation. The more pertinent question is whether the fact that he's watched porn is important enough for you to question who he is. ... (read in full...)
How do you find out if a guy is a virgin or not?
Q. hii!lemme ask a question.it might be silly...but there is some expectation about it..is there atleast a small clue to find whether a guy is a virgin or not.? ...
A. 9 June 2010: There's no way of knowing. You can ask and hope he tells the truth, I guess. I've never observed any particular trait that can differentiate a virgin from a non-virgin. All sorts of men can cum early or late...it's just not a distinguisher.... (read in full...)
My sister's tragic death and my parents' misdirected blame at my bestman for it are causing me strife
Q. My friend was lived with my sister for three years. My parents never liked him and gave my sister a lot of problems over him. My poor sister died of a heart attack. It was tragic. She died in her sleep right next to him. He was asleep and ...
A. 9 June 2010: Is it possible to ask your friend not to come? Friends are generally more understanding than relatives - or is that not an option. If it isn't, you'd better tell your parents not to come before the wedding date comes around.... (read in full...)
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