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Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life.

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Whats better for penis size?

Q.   So this may sound dumb but I'm wondering from a girls point of view. What's better for penis size, length or Gerth? Cause I'm 5.5 long and 5.75 around, so which one is more enjoyable...

A.   15 December 2010: Both are trumped by a sense of humor, but if one HAS to choose, gifth. By the way, your present size is just yummy!... (read in full...)

If she's attractive, will you lose your control when drunk?

Q.   Guys,if you always find a female friend of yours attractive and you're sexually attracted to her,will you lose your control when you get drunk or tipsy? Will you act on your sexual feelings for her?Do you try to avoid drinking in front of her? ...

A.   14 December 2010: It's a well-known fact that, when sufficient alcohol is applied, certain men will revert to their 12-year old avatars. The presence of an attractive woman serves as a catalyst to speed up the reaction.... (read in full...)

He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!

Q.   I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will ...

A.   6 December 2010: This is surprising to you? In that situation, a man who is obviously not composed of particularly upstanding moral fibre (if he was, he'd have ended things with her before carrying on with you) is going to say whatever he thinks is likely least da... (read in full...)

I love a man who is 37 years older than me. How do I tell my family?

Q.   okay well i been dating this guy for 1 yr, i love him to death. he makes me feel great he put a smile every time i see him. there one problem he older than me 37yrs. i met him when i was turning 20. he loves me and i love him. my parents don't know ...

A.   6 December 2010: They aren't going to like it. In fact, no one would - these May-December matches (or in your case, March-December) rarely work out in the long run. Have you really considered all aspects of this relationship? Are you certain you can handle to ... (read in full...)

I want to watch my wife have sex with another man!

Q.   I am another husband that would love to watch my wife having sex with another man. We have talked about this for the past year and I want to take it to the next step. She loves to talk about doing this while we are having sex and says she wants to ...

A.   6 December 2010: That's something only your wife can answer, you know. It's always possible that she's only seen it as excited as long as it was a fantasy. Besides, it's generally not a good idea...... (read in full...)

Obsessed by my girlfriend's sexual past........and I like it! Am I weird?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. Our sex life started well, but then dwindled to once a month at most. I have always liked the thought of her being with someone while I watched, and we used that to turn ourselves on for a while. ...

A.   6 December 2010: It's pretty much as Odds describes, I guess. It's not exactly uncommon - I can testify that a few men I've known have been turned on by the thought and with my present partner, well, it's not just a 'thought'... That said, a lot of women would no... (read in full...)

Tips on how to flirt without looking like a skank.

Q.   can i can some tips on how to flirt with a guy wen ur in highschool without looking like a skank?? i go to a school with a total of 50 students in my class so they are very judgmental. ...

A.   6 December 2010: In high school being judged on your behavior is inevitable. Try to stick to the occassional discreet smile.... (read in full...)

Do you love your man because he has money or educated or do you just love him?

Q.   Hi everyone! I just wana ask the girls,do you love your bf beacause he has money or educated or do you love him from the bottom of your heart? I have a bf, his not educated he only have matric(grade 12) and he doesn't want to go to school forever, ...

A.   3 December 2010: Two months is a little early... Anyhow, while education and intelligence are not always related variables, it's important that a man want to do something with his life - even if 'something' is just wanting to provide a home for his family. ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian? Will my dream of finding my prince come true?

Q.   I'm a 17 year old girl who is worried about my sexual orientation. obsessionally worried. and I really want help. So first of all let me lay down the basics, I have always only felt oriented to guys. Ever since I was as young as 2nd and 3rd grad...

A.   3 December 2010: 1. Confusion is fairly normal 2. The female body is an intensely erotic visual object. Feeling turned on by it does not, by itself, indicate sexual orientation. 3. You do appear to be attracted to men. Thus, you are either straight or bi-sexua... (read in full...)

Coping with my fiance's extremely promiscuous past

Q.   I'm falling apart trying to deal with my fiance's questionable past. I've been reading similar posts from other guys on the subject for the past few months, and although they've helped a bit, the extreme nature of my case leads me to create my own ...

A.   3 December 2010: Her past only seems to be one part of the problem here, actually. The fact that she appears to still have feelings for her ex-husband is a major concern. Add to that the fact that you've only known her 8 months - even if she was a virgin with a ... (read in full...)

She's the girl all the bad guys want!

Q.   Yeah I know that I shouldn't be depressed because in the end I will find the one I ultimately love. I met this girl in town through Facebook actually. We talked for a good week and she wanted to hang out. I never EVER get nervous about meeting ...

A.   3 December 2010: Tell her what you've just told us (leaving out the preacher's daughter 18-year-old virgin bit) and you'll know what she thinks...... (read in full...)

Too much sex...how can I ask her to tone it down?

Q.   Ok so this is an odd situation. Me and my girlfriend just moved in together. And we we were having sex like 7 times a week. And we used condoms everytime, and I brought up the pill and having more sex. She said ok and she went on the pill and we ...

A.   3 December 2010: Best to be upfront about these things, you know. She should be able to understand, after all, sex 10 times a day is excessive (and I'm not normally the sort to use /excessive/ and /sex/ in the same sentence as a rule) and surely she'll realize what ... (read in full...)

Why does her past bug me so much!

Q.   Hi I have posted a few items now and I am sure a number of you will recognise which ones when I write on.... this is another post to see if I can tap into your wisdom again. My girlfriend and I get ever closer and also ever closer to having o...

A.   26 November 2010: Just a couple of things - If you're talking about her having to 'pay' for what she's done, that's getting into rather dangerous, judgmental territory. Being driven to prostitution as an 'economic refugee' of sorts is difficult to classify as a ... (read in full...)

I am having a problem accepting her sexual past, please help me??

Q.   I got divorced ten years ago and thought my world had come to an end,however,after a year of trying to find a new life partner i met a fantastic woman who had also been divorced around the same time as me.To cut a long story short we have been ...

A.   25 November 2010: Considering that you've lied about your own past, I'm afraid you having a problem with her past is a little difficult to justify. I'd recommend taking her on a vacation to that Greek island though. Maybe it'll help you realize what you mean to ... (read in full...)

Is denial of conjugal relations a form of cruelty?

Q.   After 11 years of marriage, which included conjugal relations, my wife said she no longer wanted to have sex with me. She said I could mssturbate to meet my sexual needs. My choices were to find a eexual partner outside of the marriage or remain in ...

A.   25 November 2010: Depends on what state you're in I think. I'd suggest taking qualified legal advice.... (read in full...)

Why does her past bug me so much!

Q.   Hi I have posted a few items now and I am sure a number of you will recognise which ones when I write on.... this is another post to see if I can tap into your wisdom again. My girlfriend and I get ever closer and also ever closer to having o...

A.   24 November 2010: The OP's follow-up states that she only really enjoyed it with a 'handful' of people. That's where I was coming from. The point being, while dealing with her past will obviously be difficult (after all, at this stage we as outsiders do not even know ... (read in full...)

Why does her past bug me so much!

Q.   Hi I have posted a few items now and I am sure a number of you will recognise which ones when I write on.... this is another post to see if I can tap into your wisdom again. My girlfriend and I get ever closer and also ever closer to having o...

A.   24 November 2010: That is a sad, but I suppose fairly common story. I don't have much to say - it's a decision you need to make yourself, after all. I'd like to draw your attention to one thing though - you said that she stopped the protitution gig cold turkey a... (read in full...)

Penis isn't as erect as before, is too much masturbation the problem?

Q.   hi people ... let me introduce me first ... im 20 and im masturbating from 14 i suppose ...... and in recent days i started masturbating too much ..... and only now i noticed that my penis erection is not as strong as it was before ...... if i stop ...

A.   24 November 2010: Spend less time thinking about your penis, more time studying or working or whatever it is you do and masturbate only when you are actually aroused. Should do wonders.... (read in full...)

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!

Q.   My boyfriend is going to Las Vegas this upcoming Thanksgiving weekend. He has only gone on a few trips without me,but NEVER to a place like Las Vegas." Whatever happens in Vegas,stays in Vegas." I am horrified of this quote. He is going with his ...

A.   24 November 2010: The issue here isn't Vegas, its more your relationship with your guy. If he wants to cheat he'll manage to do it anyway. In fact, speaking as someone who's (generally unwittingly) been the person with whom men have cheated, I can tell you that ... (read in full...)

Why are young girls interested in much older men?

Q.   What is happening? I'm wondering why these young girls about 13 to 15 say they love WAY older than them as much as ten even twenty years older I don't get why these girls would fall everytime I here this story I become sick to my stomach there are ...

A.   24 November 2010: At the age of 13-15 it's a combination of 1. An Electra complex 2. The fact that boys from 13-19 are rarely attractive. As a girl gets older it's probably a desire for security and stability (apart from (1) above) that the older, often wea... (read in full...)

Why can't my boyfriend keep it up and finish?

Q.   My boyfriend and I just started dating and I've now tried to give him head twice but he goes limp halfway through. He says it's not my fault and he finds me really attractive. I've given blowjobs before and my technique has never been an issue ...

A.   23 November 2010: Some guys have difficult finishing from oral without some help from a hand (yours or his). It's not you, it's him. Find a work-around. I think finishing a guy off with my hand and directing his cum to where I want it is pretty hot.... (read in full...)

I am having an affair with my boss and his wife knows about it!

Q.   I m in love with my boss, he loves me too. He is 15 years senior to me, is married and has 2 kids. it all started from his side andhe says that he wants to marry me... we are in a relationship for 5 years now, there have been all sorts of problems ...

A.   22 November 2010: I don't normally agree with her, but DearJilly has it spot on this time. You need a reality check.... (read in full...)

Cumshots! Outrageous???

Q.   I have heard that one of the latest things in porn is to have multiple oral cumshots. I've heard that some of the women have had up to 20 or more men cum in their mouth and pretty much mad to swallow all of it. How can any woman like that? Do any ...

A.   22 November 2010: Just for the record, I do like it. ... (read in full...)

Is there anything memorable I can give him for his 21st birthday?

Q.   Oh Dear! My boyfriend lost his favourite ring that he bought in America a year ago, and for his 21st birthday in two days, I bought him a similar one. He just called me all excited, saying he'd just found it in a pocket of one of his pairs of pants...

A.   22 November 2010: If I was him, knowing I had a girlfriend who cared enough about my feelings to buy a replica of a ring I had lost would be enough. But I'm a girl with a strong sentimental streak, which your boyfriend presumably is not (at least I hope he isn't a ... (read in full...)

Is she just flirting or does she want more?

Q.   helo pls help me. if a female (who already has a boyfriend) is inviting me by different signs like twinkling eye, bringing her ass close to me how i will ask her whether she welcoming me for sex, or i m wrong?...

A.   22 November 2010: You're probably reading too much into her body language. Look for a woman who is single.... (read in full...)

How do I tell Him I still like/love him? A poem? Text?

Q.   So I have liked this guy and I have known him since I was in 2nd grade. His parents are close to my entire family so we see each other on weekends.Every since I can remember I have always liked him on and off for 7 years. He is a very sweet and a ...

A.   22 November 2010: A poem might be overkill. Just text him and see if he responds...if he does, it starts a conversation which may lead to things. If not, it's best to think about moving on.... (read in full...)

My clitoris is bigger than other parts. Is this normal?

Q.   Hey guys this is abit embarrasing hence annon, but is it natural for my clitoris to be larger than the other parts of my private parts? Is it bad and do men find it unattractive?...

A.   22 November 2010: Fairly common and makes sex quite enjoyable, or so I'm told. Most men should not mind and some might even find it attractive. Don't worry about it!... (read in full...)

If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?

Q.   Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x...

A.   22 November 2010: "Can" you have sex multiple times? The answer is yes, if your boyfriend is up for it, that is. "Should" you? That's a more difficult question to answer. it's likely to be a painful experience, maybe VERY painful. You will be dealing with feeling ... (read in full...)

Is it enough?

Q.   I just turned 15 a month ago and i got a 6 and 1/4 penis. Is it a good size?...

A.   22 November 2010: Damn near perfect, actually.... (read in full...)

My baby daddy's family drama!

Q.   "Cord" is the biological father of my son and "Michael" is the man who has been helping me raise my son since he was 5 months old. Cord died in June of 2009, he was drunk (on Father's Day) and fell off of a roof and broke his neck in three pl...

A.   18 November 2010: Can't something be worked out where the child's grandmother (but only the grandmother) gets to visit at your house? Michael can choose not to be at home when this happens. Finally your primary responsibility is to the child and providing him the ... (read in full...)

Importance of physical attraction for guys?

Q.   i met this guy off an online dating website (im 21, he 22).. im quite shy and am rather intimidated by him for various reasons, but we;ve been on a few dates anyways.. just wondering whether guys would persue a girl that they're not physically ...

A.   17 November 2010: Very important. I don't think a guy would do 6 dates unless he was attracted to you. Unless of course you've dropped any hints that you are incredibly wealthy or something. ... (read in full...)

Oral sex pointers?

Q.   i just started giving blowjobs. Is it a good thing if they can have an orgasm in less than 5 minutes or is that too long? I'm really starting to enjoy doing it so pointers would be appreciated. How do I know if he enjoys them..are there signs? Also, ...

A.   17 November 2010: IF you got the guys coming within five minutes you're already doing great! Looks like we've got a natural here :) ... (read in full...)

Internet Dating: We know it's rubbish, so why do we do it?

Q.   So, they are both at it again. Who's at it? My two best female mates and they are doing what they both said they would NEVER do. They are both internet dating...again. Why? I sobbed, looking up at the ceiling in hope of some divine guidance ...

A.   11 November 2010: Lovely article (the funny parts are hilarious). No personal experience with that sort of thing (well, not in the way you've described) but seems realistic too.... (read in full...)

Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?

Q.   I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...

A.   11 November 2010: Forty year old men want a lot of things. The chance for sex with a younger woman (attractive one's preferred, of course) ranks right up there next to the scarlet Ferrari. I've been with my share of older men as a teenager - while I lost my virgi... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever come across the male counterpart of a cock-tease?

Q.   Hello all. I was talking with someone earlier this evening who told me a story of coming across a 'minge-tease' or the male equivalent of a cock-tease in her recent dating life. I was wondering, if any of you had ever come across this yourselves ...

A.   11 November 2010: Oh yes I have. I'm good at getting my revenge on those types though.... (read in full...)

He told me he misses my boring company, how does that make sense?

Q.   Ok... I was out with my best male friend of many years tonight, we went to a place with nice music as we usually do and he had two glasses of wine. I felt I was not in the mood and told him I feel I am boring tonight. He answered me saying that ...

A.   11 November 2010: It does appear that way, though the contribution of alcohol cannot be ignored.... (read in full...)

How can I make him explode again, without the aid of porn?

Q.   I love my boyfriend 5 months. We are both virgins but engage in oral sex. My problem is the blowjob. FYI I love to please him. I've given him 6 complete ones so far. (there were others in between but dont count because we were distracted interrupted ...

A.   11 November 2010: dirtball is..err..on the ball, for lack of a better word? Getting a guy to come from only a BJ is not easy at the best of times. Use your own hands more. Handjobs are more of an art than blowjobs but have more definite rewards.... (read in full...)

Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?

Q.   Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...

A.   10 November 2010: If it did I know a few girls who could have doubled the population of West Virginia by now. They haven't.... (read in full...)

Penis is too short for sex!

Q.   Ladies, would you seriously consider having an ongoing sexual relationship with a guy whose erect penis isn't long enough to reach the end of your vagina? By 'end', I mean the point at which anything longer would cause a longitudinal stretch. Is s...

A.   8 November 2010: 4.5 is a very decent length and quite enough to stimulate the important nerves. Your problem might be more between your ears than between your legs.... (read in full...)

BJ with or without a tongue piercing

Q.   How does a blow job feel with a tongue stud compared to one without? I've never had one with, but I am very turned on by a pierced tongue. I'll never get to experience a BJ with one, but was just wondering. ...

A.   8 November 2010: I'm told I give good ones but then I got that feedback even before I got the piercing. So it's hard to say really.... (read in full...)

I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?

Q.   Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first ...

A.   8 November 2010: I've swallowed a lot of cum over the years and never experienced what you described. Sometimes it's a bad taste, but not a 'burning' sensation. Do you have ulcers in your mouth/throat by any chance? Might be the acid content,...I'd be more con... (read in full...)

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