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| | *abrielle Stoker's profile:Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life. |
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How big is too big?
Q. Girls only: What penis size is too big for you?...
A. 22 October 2010: Used properly even a 10 incher can be endured.
Used improperly, 5 inches can be too much.
On an average though, beyond 8.5 gets me worried.... (read in full...)
At 30, how do I address my virginity problem?
Q. I am a male virgin who turns 30 this summer. This bothers me a lot, only because it makes me feel “nervous” around my friends.I don`t have any past experiences i can narrate to anybody. I didn`t think much about it when I was younger as I was an ...
A. 22 October 2010: I believe being a virgin till marriage is not very unusual in India (or so some of my Indian friends/acquaintances have told me). There's certainly nothing in it to make you feel awkward around your own friends.
The time will come when the time... (read in full...)
Am I throwing away 13 years of marriage for no good reason/
Q. this is probably a strange thing to be dealing with but i dont know what to do it all started about 2 years ago me and my husband was in bed going to sleep when he recieved a text message from his friends girlfriend (whom he doesnt know and has ...
A. 22 October 2010: It's not unusual between guys in that profession. I'm not saying your over-reacted, but my recommendation would be to take things easy. If his track record indicates a good, faithful man, it isn't worth throwing away for banter.... (read in full...)
Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?
Q. embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls hav...
A. 21 October 2010: Different people like different things, you know. Try creating an anonymous poll where people can vote - give you a nice statistical spread.
I'd go for the athlete myself, but I'm not a guy.... (read in full...)
Weight advice needed!!!
Q. I have been on a very low cal diet (450-700 cals) for the past 2 months, I have no idea how much weight I have lost, my scales have been broken. I now have a pair of scales :) I weigh 115lbs at 5'6.5" and I am 22 years old. Basically, I need to lose ...
A. 21 October 2010: You don't need to lose weight to get into a role of a heroin addict. Make-up and good acting can do the job more-than-adequately (and you're at a fairly low weight anyway).
Some diets can play havoc with your digestion - and I fear youre going do... (read in full...)
Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?
Q. Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...
A. 21 October 2010: There are few things in the world I like more than the delicious sight of a man's 'goods', but only IN THE RIGHT CIRCUMSTANCES. When it's forced on me through an indecent article of clothing or otherwise, it gives off the impression of a disturbed ... (read in full...)
How often should I swallow cum?
Q. Me and my boyfriend like to do sex everynight.I really enjoy to give him a blowjob.He tells me to swallow his semen.I don't like swallowing.Is it harmful for body?Is it helpful?How many times in a week should i swallow cum?...
A. 20 October 2010: You can swallow it as often as you like without any harm (unless of course you're allergic or something). I've been swallowed quite a lot of sperm over the years with no negative effects (only positive, if consistent good health counts).
The i... (read in full...)
Why is hard during sex, but soft during oral sex?
Q. Hello.My boyfriend and i are living together for 3 years.My bf's penis is about 8' long but when i want to take it in my mouth it loses it's erection.During sex it's ok but during blowjob not.What can i do?...
A. 19 October 2010: Maybe his mind wanders during oral. It's possible.... (read in full...)
Shaved or trimmed?
Q. Guys and girls what do you like? Do you like a shaved pubic area or trimed or natural on your partner or on yourself?...
A. 19 October 2010: I've shaved myself occassionally but prefer to keep a close trim.
On guys I prefer trimmed or shaved to being too hairy, since I would normally spend a lot of time giving oral. Hair can be...distracting.... (read in full...)
How can I ask her out without feeling hurt that she rejected me?
Q. How do I ask a girl out who probably doesn't even like me because of how I look but doesn't know how I am in the inside? How can I ask her in a way where it won't hurt as much if she rejects me? Why do most girls now a days look for what's on the ...
A. 19 October 2010: Rejection will always hurt, no matter how softly it is couched. Just ask, you know. Preferably when there isn't anyone else around, And if she says no - well that's her prerogative and probably her loss. You'll get over it.
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She can't decide what she wants, should I even bother anymore?
Q. Ok, first off sorry for the length. Here's the preface. I'm a 23 y/o virgin. The girl in question knows this before we start hanging out, thanks to an ex-friend I have since cut out of my life. So I tell this girl I've been hanging out with ...
A. 19 October 2010: Distance yourself mentally at least, if you can't do it physically. She's using you, sort of, as a shoulder to lean on without having to commit anything emotionally or physically. If you have feeling for her stronger than friendship, you are only ... (read in full...)
Why didn't boyfriend cum?
Q. I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last night, and he didn't cum/finish. i was doing it for about 10-15 minutes and i didn't really feel like i was getting anywhere so i stopped. except i did a lot of like "research" online before we...
A. 18 October 2010: A lot of men don't cum from BJs (and I happen to be rather an authority on the subject). Sometimes you just HAVE to use your hands, darling. Don't stress it. Someday he might, it takes a combination of factors, some of which have nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
I refuse to be with someone who would be into that stuff!
Q. Ok so im dating a guy for about 3 months now. I moved with him and everythng seems fine. Except one thing. We got a computer from his friend and downloaded limewire. A few times i caught him downloading porn. I didnt make a deal about it. But then ...
A. 17 October 2010: Adult porn makers would not, unless extremely stupid, risk associating in any way with child porn websites. I'm sorry but the explanation sounds a little far-fetched. ... (read in full...)
How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?
Q. How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...
A. 14 October 2010: There are hot people in the world. Some of them in porn, others in the movies, modelling, working at the nearby supermarket for all you know.
To the typical male, these are nice to look at. It doesn't mean they want to be with them. They want to ... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 14 October 2010: Sometimes you just have to keep trying and hope for a response. What you're describing is fairly typical in such cases I think. And I think a few concessions may be made - if your boyfriend can't stand her maybe she's had those negative vibes and ... (read in full...)
We had sex, he came in me, and I tried to wash it out. Will that work?
Q. hey i need help well my boyfriend cum in me and i dnt know what to do, im really scard . it happen today and i when in bath and whased it out, well i tryed, so wat i do. xx...
A. 13 October 2010: No, that's not sufficient.You will need a port-coital contraceptive. And condoms for next time.... (read in full...)
I have a fat fetish and want my girl to be even bigger!
Q. Okay so i have a big problem. I've been dating the same girl for a year and i told her i have a fat fetish and i needed her bigger. so shes gained about 20 lbs for me but i am still not nearly sexually satisfied. i know for a fact im in love with ...
A. 12 October 2010: There really isn't a shortage of overweight women who have difficulty finding a mate. I'm sure one of them might even like a strange, strange guy like you.
Spare the girl, you know. ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant out of revenge?
Q. Hello my name is Haibine, i've dating my bf two years, but he had a girl while he was with me but i didn't know that. when find out he told me he leave the i didnt trust him, i was cleaning his room and i find a letter the girl sent him, she told ...
A. 8 October 2010: No, really. The mind just boggles.
How would that be revenge on the guy? It would be pretty much the worst thing you can do - to YOURSELF! Two stupid acts do not make 1 intelligent one. The best revenge for the guy might be to leave him and let ... (read in full...)
Should I feel insecure if I'm dating a woman who can beat me up?
Q. I'm not much of a fighter, and I have a question. Should I feel insecure if I happen to meet a gorgeous woman who could beat me in a fight? Is this a strange question, or is it a legitimate concern? Let's say she's a karate expert or somethi...
A. 7 October 2010: What exactly are you proposing to do that will make her want to knock you out?
Unless you are proposing any such interesting activity, I don't see the concern.... (read in full...)
Has anyone used sex toys to acquire multiple penetration with your partner?
Q. Has anyone used sex toys to acquire multiple penetration with your partner? He would like this too. I would like multiple penetration without the guilt, and problems of asking other people into our bedroom....
A. 7 October 2010: An MMF is certainly not recommended if you're in a committed relationship but sextoys do a good job of approximating the feeling. Try one in your mouth as well. I doubt your boyfriend will have a problem with that.... (read in full...)
Is swallowing harmful to my health?
Q. I want to go on a vaginal sex break coz i want my vagina to get back in shape.I know about kegel exercises but i think taking a break also will help.While on break,i intend to be giving my bf as many bjs as he wants (he's incredible at giving oral ...
A. 6 October 2010: Is it swallowing that's good for the skin or applying it TO the skin that's good for it? We wouldn't want to give her misleading advice, guys. ... (read in full...)
Is swallowing harmful to my health?
Q. I want to go on a vaginal sex break coz i want my vagina to get back in shape.I know about kegel exercises but i think taking a break also will help.While on break,i intend to be giving my bf as many bjs as he wants (he's incredible at giving oral ...
A. 6 October 2010: @Slimshady 6 times a day? Thats very impressive on your part!
I'm wondering whether I should attribute my looks to the same source :)... (read in full...)
I"m 14 and my best friends wants a FWB relationship
Q. Im 14 and i just found out my best friend has liked me since 5th grade. We were on the phone a few days ago and he wants to be "friends with benifits" Well i like him alot to and i kinda do wanna be to. but he has a rep of just using people. I can't ...
A. 6 October 2010: I've been where you are when I was about the same age - and let me tell you, three years of that later I felt horribly used. It's the only phase of my life I regret.
At 14, your sexual appetite should benefit only yourself - use a finger or a sho... (read in full...)
Is swallowing harmful to my health?
Q. I want to go on a vaginal sex break coz i want my vagina to get back in shape.I know about kegel exercises but i think taking a break also will help.While on break,i intend to be giving my bf as many bjs as he wants (he's incredible at giving oral ...
A. 6 October 2010: Unless you have any allergies, absolutely not. I've swallowed more than most and my health has been, if anything, better than the average person.... (read in full...)
Advice on boyfriend's porn.....
Q. I’ve been with this guy for almost ten years in a serious relationship and he is wonderful on many levels. However, long story short, I discovered porn on my boyfriend’s internet history by accident earlier this year and I confronted him about it. ...
A. 6 October 2010: You seem to have diametrically opposing views on the subject of porn. You've said this is a long-term relationship - and then you've gone on to add,
"Just the fact that this upsets me should make him want to stop, no"
I guess this is the line... (read in full...)
Yay or nay to a threesome???
Q. My boyfriend and I been together for over 5 years. The sex is great but now I find myself wanting a female, not sure but big breasts are a realy hot turn on for me now? How can I get my boyfriend to agree????...
A. 6 October 2010: Well try talking to him about it, approaching the subject gently, as it were. Conventional wisdom says that a man will not turn down an FFM (though conventional wisdom isn't always right).
Still, pay attention to what @person12345 says below - ... (read in full...)
Searching for tranny porn..is he gay?
Q. My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with porn. I just recently learned he watches tranny porn...actually searches for it!!! What does this mean?? He's never showed any signs of being gay.Is this some sick sex addiction?...
A. 6 October 2010: A liking for transexual porn does not really indicate much about male sexuality - a vast number of otherwise straight men are attracted to sufficiently feminine transexuals.... (read in full...)
How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 4 October 2010: Are we bringing a lot of these questions out of cold storage?
This is auch a subjective question you know. Depends on the individual, his/her upbringing, social background and religious convinctions.
For some people, anything more than 1 (whi... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my boyfriend to stop me before orgasming?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two months, things regularly get heated, yet I haven't slept with him yet. The thing is, when I toss him off he always stops be by saying 'stop' or pulling my hand away, just before orgasming. I think he's scare...
A. 4 October 2010: Seems to be afraid of the mess.
Have you tried telling him (at that moment when he is so close) that you "Want his cum"? I've found it works wonders.... (read in full...)
Will it grow anymore?
Q. I am a 15 year old male with a 6 1/2 inch penis with a girth of almost 6 inches. Will my penis grow anymore? P.S. I would apreciate it if answerers dont give me the "your to young to be thinking about sex" answer. Im just curious and I want matur...
A. 4 October 2010: I'd hope not, actually. Your size as it stands right now is purrfect.... (read in full...)
How can you justify looking at violent or rape porn?
Q. I don't just mean like being beaten and screaming, I mean the stuff where the woman gets her head shoved in a toilet, where the guy does anything until she cries or gags, etc... Why is that OK to get off on so long as it's not child porn or ...
A. 1 October 2010: I wouldn't justify it actually. It's marginally better than bestial/child pornography in the sense that the violent porn has some degree of informed consent involved but that doesn't make it any more right. Thankfully not a lot of people are into it ... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 30 September 2010: @SlimShady I'm not sure whether to be pleased or scared as hell that my peak may be ahead of me. The possibility of my being monogamous by that time is really remote, so...this is practically giving me an anxiety attack here!
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My husband wants to watch me with another man and I'm thinking about it. Need advice pls.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and he has always had this fantasy of watching me with another man. Before I've always said no and he never pressured me, just dropped hints every now and then. But this year I've started to indulge him ...
A. 30 September 2010: Since I've been 'referred' I guess I have to answer.
There have actually been some very helpful responses in the past on this subject. I suggest searching by tags for "3somes" and similar subjects on the site. There was even one guy who had desc... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Again, if you have grounds for doubt, ask for a test. It depends on your level of trust with her, doesn't it? If you're having a lot of casual sex with women you don't know very well, both parties are entitled to ask for a test. If it's a long-term ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Well put, DemmandLace. If the girl you're with is someone you've just met or it's really very early in the relationship or you have other strong grounds to doubt the presence of an STD, you should clear this question before you actually begin the ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: That is something you should have gotten cleared long before you removed your clothes, isn't it?... (read in full...)
Sexual tips regarding a large penis?
Q. Hi, need some advice from guys and girls, please. Slept with my new bf for the first time last night and OMG his penis is huge! I have never been with a man with such a large penis before. Not only that, he had so much stamina (was erect for ...
A. 30 September 2010: Hm...you do have a problem. Missionary with your legs closed does work. Another idea might be to concentrate on giving him oral (that what I do when I get faced with anyone over 7.5) until he's spilled it, then use the size to get yourself off. With ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Certainly wouldn't be insulted to be touched down there! As for that question...well it's not disrespectful at all, but it sounds a touch 'scientific' actually.... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting
Q. Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...
A. 29 September 2010: Berlin, eh? I wasn't aware of there being a strong tranny scene in Berlin. Rio and Bangkok/Pattaya I knew about (and want to visit so desperately).... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 29 September 2010: @Slimshady But how important is each factor? For instance, a woman who is financially independent in her twenties itself and has a place of her own - would she hit that peak earlier? Or is an increase in sexual desire from 29 to say around 38 ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 29 September 2010: Apart from some women who would tell you specifically that they are giving up their right to be respected (regardless of their being clothed or not at the time), yes, we do want to be treated with respect. Even if my previous statement has been ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting
Q. Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...
A. 29 September 2010: It's very normal. In fact I'm terribly attracted to them myself (though in a purely sexual way) though I've never been with one. All that I've heard however leads me to believe that transexuals would love to attract a woman and further that they ... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 27 September 2010: I'm going to have to watch this thread. I've around the same age as the OP and if my sexual prime is *starting* now...the mind boggles. Seriously.... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: @Cerberus I agree, it's not something I consider likely either. More of the "If I hit random keys on my keyboard I may eventually type out a coherent sentence" kind of chance.
Miamine has hit the nail on the head though. To help this girl, it... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: Well she isn't turning into a prostitute as long as she isn't asking for money, so that's a rather misleading title. I'd say it's something even worse - the love junkie who craves affection so much that any man can have his way with her.
It's ... (read in full...)
How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 13 August 2010: "Too many" is always going to be subjective. I'd been with two men by the time I was 18. One was a classmate I was crazy about and who used me, the other was the school gardener who must've been thrice my age. These are the only two sexual partners ... (read in full...)
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