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My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 14 October 2010: Sometimes you just have to keep trying and hope for a response. What you're describing is fairly typical in such cases I think. And I think a few concessions may be made - if your boyfriend can't stand her maybe she's had those negative vibes and ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any insight into ED?
Q. So for the past couple of months my boyfriend has been having trouble maintaining an erection during sex. It won't happen every single time we have sex, but it does happen and its getting really depressed about it. For starters, he's 23 and I'm ...
A. 16 September 2010: While ED can happen to anyone, what you've described sounds like exhaustion more than anything else.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want me to "whore" myself out?
Q. My husband is always after me to reveal my private bits to other people. For example, if we are going out for the evening with another couple, he loves it if I wear a sheer bra and a blouse that gapes open. We went biking on the path and he got me ...
A. 16 September 2010: A vouyeurism fetish is not unuusal but acting on it to this extent can be. There's nothing wrong with being proud of your body and showing it off, but there's ways to do it and people you should be doing it in front of...Showing off cleavage or a ... (read in full...)
Did I over-react to the nurses comments?
Q. My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...
A. 15 September 2010: Being nice and affectionate is what nurses - at least the good ones - do. When a patient is being taken for surgery, calling him by a term of endearment can make him feel more comfortable about what can be a scary experience for a lot of people.
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How do I give a blowjob to my boyfriend who has a lot of cum?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I am 20 and he is 21. I took his virginity right before his 21st birthday. But I had only had sex with one other guy before him and I had only given a bj before sex so I had never ...
A. 15 September 2010: Well if you don't like cum, that's not something that's likely to change any time soon. However it's not that difficult to keep it out - guys normally know when they're going to cum (with enough experience you will know too) and when the moment is ... (read in full...)
Dry run when ejaculating?
Q. I am 65 years old male. When I ejaculate nothing comes out or if it comes it is only afew drops. What can be the reason? please help....
A. 14 September 2010: Not unusual at your age actually. I usually find men over 60 don't produce as much. Is it also a little watery when it does come out?
You may want to see a doctor though he'll probably tell you it's age-related.... (read in full...)
Is it true that a guy won't ever turn down sex?
Q. Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. we r very happy together. i have a problem though, i have been influenced by people so much in the past that you cannot trust any man ever. an i have been told this so many times that i dont t...
A. 14 September 2010: Yes, men can, and do, turn down sex. It could be on moral grounds, because they're tired or anything else really. For pretty much the similar reasons that women turn down sex.
We aren't different species, y'know.... (read in full...)
Do guys compare sex with their lovers?
Q. Silly question I have to ask. Well, do guys tend to compare the sex with different partners... I mean.. having a new girlfriend would they wish she would make love as his ex? And is a virgin more appealing than some woman who has had some experie...
A. 14 September 2010: I've wondered that myself. I suppose it depends on the guy though. I've certainly had some men who were 'told' by their friends that I was something that they needed to experience at least once, so I assume I've been discussed!... (read in full...)
Are orgasms stronger from a big one?
Q. I've heard that women often experience more intense orgasms when they are with a guy who is very large. I've read about the T-spot, and how only a large penis can reach it, and it is proven to increase wetness and the intensity of orgasms when ...
A. 14 September 2010: No, not for me.... (read in full...)
She's not into her orgasms as much as mine
Q. My girl seems to like getting me off more than herself during sex. She sometimes pulls my hand or mouth away when I try to give her an orgasm, and begs me to F#ck her instead...but she does not have orgasms from penetration. But penetration is her ...
A. 14 September 2010: Well I'm like that too I guess. I mean I cum easily, but I don't need to have to cum to feel like I've enjoyed sex. I guess that's because I love to see the man enjoy himself, to ejaculate, to see the cum. My pleasure is largely incidental. I guess ... (read in full...)
His mom caught us having oral sex!
Q. okay, so, me and my ex havent been dating for two years, and we havent really talked either, were teenagers, and his moms psycho, and becuz i got caught giving him oral sex, she dosent want him to talk to me, she practically has the people at our ...
A. 14 September 2010: If he's been talking about your technique to other guys that's not generally a good sign. At your age, his friends are going to interpret that as meaning that you're easy.
Do try to be a kid a little longer, darling. There'll be a lot of time to ... (read in full...)
Why does he cum so fast?
Q. Hello! me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for a year. we were both virgins before we met. when we have sex he cums within the first few minutes. so i dont have a chance to even start enjoying it really. why does this happen? ...
A. 14 September 2010: Happens with youngsters a lot, especially if you're very tight (you must be). As others have said, he will learn control over time. Another option is for you to get him off orally, indulge in some foreplay and then have a go again. They always last ... (read in full...)
I'm in a gay relationship but I would love to see what it feels like having sex with a woman.
Q. I'll start from the top then. (This needs some explaining) I'm a 26 year old guy and I've been in a stable, loving relationship with another guy for 8 years now. We live together and we've been in a Civil Partnership for three years. We enj...
A. 14 September 2010: It may be a passing phase but then again it may not. Whether you wish to talk to him depends on your relationship with him, I guess. But if you ever feel that you wish to act on it, do talk to him before you go ahead.... (read in full...)
We have sex 5X a week and he still needs porn?
Q. Hello. My bf and I have sex about 5 times a week, but he still watches porn alone and masturbates. I have never had a problem with him watching porn, but does this reflect on me? Am I not enough?...
A. 14 September 2010: Not a reflection on you at all. Some men need that 'alone' time no matter how much they love their wives (and they do). Try to be a part of the porn experience with him - watch, give a helping hand or mouth.... (read in full...)
Getting him to take care of himself!
Q. Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...
A. 14 September 2010: Yes, that's pretty much what I meant.... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 9 September 2010: Persons aren't 'goods' to be used or otherwise. You may feel betrayed - it does look as though she has been economical with the truth, but do try to evaluate the situation on its own merits. She's not the only person to have had a casual ... (read in full...)
One of my photographers recently has asked me to do more adult work for a private portfolio. Is this cheating?
Q. I am in a great loving relationship (5 years). I recently (a year ago) quit a well paying job as a stripper. I do artistic nude modeling to help make ends meet as my "respectable" job doesn't pay too well. One of my photographers re...
A. 9 September 2010: Talk to your partner.
Even if he IS ok with it, which I doubt, this would only work if you sign a legal contract that makes the photographer liable if the pictures ever make it to the public domain, quantifying damages. Since the lawyer will cos... (read in full...)
Getting him to take care of himself!
Q. Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...
A. 9 September 2010: I can give a good handjob without even looking, so you can try that. But sometimes even that isn't feasible, so just take your top off and continue doing what you're doing. You'd be surprised how much men like women being nude (or semi-nude) while ... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: @Cerberus I agree, it's not something I consider likely either. More of the "If I hit random keys on my keyboard I may eventually type out a coherent sentence" kind of chance.
Miamine has hit the nail on the head though. To help this girl, it... (read in full...)
She says I'm better even though they were bigger!
Q. ive been with the same woman for 14 years.i just found out that she slept with 3 of my friends four yrs ago.one a really close friend.iam now very insecure and hurt cuz i knw that they are bigger than me in penis size.so i knw she enjoyed it ...
A. 8 September 2010: It's very possible. Size is a question of optimums, not maximums. I'm beginning to wonder whether an article on the size myth is warranted. I adore cocks in general, but even I am partial to men smaller than 7inches. The big ones are nice to suck ... (read in full...)
I'm just wondering if teenage relationships can last forever
Q. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been in a realtionship for 3 years now and he is my first boyfriend. Im just wondering if teenage relationships can last forever? Ive heard that with young relationships they dont always last because one may ...
A. 8 September 2010: Well it's not unheard of. My parents met when they were just out of their teens (Admittedly both sets of grandparents totally set them up to fall in love with each other.) and are still very much in love. Not quite the 'first' for each other, ... (read in full...)
After sex I feel worried and confused!
Q. im really confused because me and my boyfriend have just started having sex and just before we do it i feel like i really want it but after i feel confused and worried and feel like he doesnt love me what should i do?...
A. 8 September 2010: Can you share with us how he behaves post-coitally, i.e. what does he do after he's ejaculated? That could be the key to understanding this.... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: Well she isn't turning into a prostitute as long as she isn't asking for money, so that's a rather misleading title. I'd say it's something even worse - the love junkie who craves affection so much that any man can have his way with her.
It's ... (read in full...)
I think my baby is another mans!
Q. hey i really do need some advice,basically i gave birth to my daughter on the 24th august an the thing im worried about is she looks nothink like the guy i thought was her dad as from the due date the doctor gave me i automatically said ye hes the ...
A. 8 September 2010: Get a DNA test. The scan report is not a sureshot indicator. Medical reports do make mistakes.
So, apparently, do people.... (read in full...)
Is he thinking of impregnating me?
Q. My boyfriend confuses me again and again...I am 20 and he is 36. We've been dating more than half a year. When it comes to sex, we use the pull-out method. From the first, he stated that he wanted no kids. I shrugged it off since I'm young and ...
A. 8 September 2010: The 'pull out method' is not a method. It's an invitation to parenthood.
Please start the pill and make it about your choice, not what he's trying to do.... (read in full...)
How do I tell mom that I want to be on birth control?
Q. I'm 15 and I want to go on birth control, but I just don't know how to tell my mother. I want to be straight up with her but I'm scared that she will think I'm actually having sex when I'm not. I just want to be sure there aren't going to be any ...
A. 7 September 2010: But if you're not going to be having intercourse, why do you want to be on birth control? ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?
Q. Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!...
A. 7 September 2010: Feeble attempt to be funny. Possibly a little insulting but I'm leaning more towards bad joke.... (read in full...)
Please, let lonely, single virgins suffer in silence!
Q. I am not writing a question but posting some thoughts that I have had on my mind in regards to all of the positive responses that readers post on this website, especially in regards to people being depressed, single, virgins well into their adult ...
A. 7 September 2010: Just a thought though - if the single, lonely virgins want to suffer in silence, they would not be posting on an advice column complaining about being single, lonely virgins. When a person comes out and posts on DC stating he is what he is, it seems ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that this turns me on?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for several months now on the DL; we're just friends with benefits and have agreed that there's no strings attached. I'm 19 and he's 34. Well, today is my birthday and last night I went by his place for some fun and end...
A. 7 September 2010: Pretty normal. The 'I may be watched/heard' is a very common fantasy. I knew a girl who loved to give oral in the storage rooms at the supermarket where she worked for that very reason - at some point she knew she'd be heard/seen.
Just - be caref... (read in full...)
I'm 14 with an 8 inch penis but I'm worried that it might get too big!
Q. I'm 14... I have an 8 inch penis. I'm worried that eventually it's going to to be too big. Does anybody think this may be an issue?...
A. 6 September 2010: It won't be a 'problem' really. As CaringGuy said - remember to be gentle during sex. You'll be envied by a lot of your male friends.... (read in full...)
Shaved, trimmed or natural?
Q. What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ...
A. 6 September 2010: I sometimes keep the lips shaved with a heart-shaped patch above. Goes with the tattoo.... (read in full...)
Do Women See Penises As Men Do Breasts?
Q. When a man sees a nice pair of boobs, they usually get turned on. But when a woman sees a penis does she get turned on like a man would by boobs? I was reading a post on here earlier and a woman said she doesnt find them attractive at all. If a ...
A. 6 September 2010: There's no one answer to that, because obviously not everyone reacts the same way to the same stimuli. Personally I love the sight of a shapely (not I do not say 'large'), well-maintained penis. It's a huge turn-on because it gets me thinking of how ... (read in full...)
Did he like the bj?
Q. I've given my boyfriend a blowjob a couple of times before but a couple of days ago I noticed that while i was doing that he had his eyes closed and he seemed relax.could this mean that he liked it? how can i give him a good blowjob?...
A. 6 September 2010: Certainly sounds like he enjoyed it!... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend masturbate after having sex with me?
Q. Why does my boyfriend masturbate after having sex with me? After we have sex, he says he needs to pee, goes to the bathroom and continues masturbating? Why does he do that?...
A. 6 September 2010: Some guys do. Maybe he's so aroused by you that he wants to go again but thinks you don't want to. In the interest of honesty and maybe to bring a new facet to your relationship, why don't you try telling him you'd love for him to masturbate with ... (read in full...)
Do masturbations make men cum faster than the sexual intercourse?
Q. Do masturbations make men cum faster than the sexual intercourse? How long can men last for each type ( approximately) I have not idea about this problem. So pls help out. ...
A. 6 September 2010: It's not just about masturbation, actually in my experience handling makes men cum faster than intercourse, whether it's their own hands or mine.
But to answer what I think is your real question, in general a guy lasts longer during actual i... (read in full...)
Too embarrassed to have sex because I'm not very endowed. How to gain the confidence for myself?
Q. Yeah, yeah. "Size doesn't matter unless " I've heard that before. My penis is just barely 4 inches long, 4 inches in circumference (around), and 1.4 inches thick (across) when hard. I get so insecure when people tell me "Oh it's okay, you're al...
A. 6 September 2010: 4 inches is a lovely size. I'm not being nice, trust me - niceness isn't what I do. I've probably seen more penises than most people and can assure you that:
a) 4 inches is actually not that much smaller than normal
b) It's enough for a vaginal ... (read in full...)
At the risk of getting pregnant...?
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl, well almost 17 now. I was kind of wondering if you could help me by telling me what things could actually put me at risk to get pregnant. I mean i have a bf and dont want to do anything with him that i may regret ...
A. 6 September 2010: Kissing is fine. Handjobs too provided you don't let him ejaculate near your vagina. Even blowjobs won't get you pregnant.
The best advice would actually be for you to just...keep your clothes on, I guess!... (read in full...)
Has anyone actually become pregnant after the pulling out technique?
Q. Hey Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex but he doesn't actually ejaculate inside me.. I've been hearing mixed comments about this as some people say it is very unlikely to get pregnant and some think it is very likely.. Has anyone ...
A. 6 September 2010: Oh yes, lots. I know at least 10 users of the pull-out method who are now proud fathers. ... (read in full...)
What is this situation? I'm so confused and feel so wrong! (sex problem)
Q. I feel like crap.... Okay here is the situation: I have a girlfriend and she has a brother. I love her dearly and been with her for about 10 years. Well we have been fighting a lot and her mother wanted to kick me out because of our arguing. ...
A. 6 September 2010: So basically you've given him another handle to blackmail you with?
Move out, take the girl with you. If she doesn't come, move out anyway.... (read in full...)
I have a much higher sex drive than my partner. Help!
Q. I want lots of sex but unfortunately my partner doesnt! I lost my virginity at 24. The first time wasn't great and neither was the second time...but then it just kept getting better and better and now I'm hooked! However, my partner who is in his ...
A. 6 September 2010: You're in an unfortunate place, you know. I understand you love this man and all that but there's little that can be done. At his age, with his lifestyle, things aren't likely to get better for you very soon.
You're still very young. You might wa... (read in full...)
He'd like to have a threesome with another girl
Q. My boyfriend said last night that he'd like to have a threesome with another woman. He's only ever said before that he'd like one with me and another guy. Personally I've always been curious about a threesome with another woman (rather than 2 men) ...
A. 6 September 2010: There's enough questions/opinions/articles here on DC that talk about how 3somes can damange relationships. Pay heed to them. If you're both very secure in your feelings for one another and know you can handle it and find a participant with the ... (read in full...)
What should he eat so it can taster better?
Q. okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...
A. 6 September 2010: Who's the 'gulper'? Me?... (read in full...)
What should he eat so it can taster better?
Q. okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...
A. 1 September 2010: @Yos
Yes, that's what I've been doing! Not because I like it! It's all for science!... (read in full...)
What should he eat so it can taster better?
Q. okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...
A. 1 September 2010: Water and fruit. Vegetables don't hurt either but don't ocok with too much spice and salt. Red meat makes it really pungent.
Good luck!!... (read in full...)
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