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Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life.

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I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?

Q.   Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first ...

A.   8 November 2010: I've swallowed a lot of cum over the years and never experienced what you described. Sometimes it's a bad taste, but not a 'burning' sensation. Do you have ulcers in your mouth/throat by any chance? Might be the acid content,...I'd be more con... (read in full...)

Is it strange that me and my fiance don't shower together?

Q.   My Cousin stayed the weekend with me and my Fiance recently and we had got done making Dinner and he went to take a Shower and my Cousin says 'your not gonna take a shower with him' and i say No 'Why and she says have you ever showered together, i ...

A.   8 November 2010: Some do, some don't. Some try it once for fun. No one I know does it on a regular basis. Maybe on vacations in a hot tub or something...don't sweat it.... (read in full...)

Do all bi couples swallow?

Q.   my question is do all bi couples swallow cum or do they spit it out and if you don't swallow it why do you have oral sex to begin with just to get it hard. shame what a wonderful taste...

A.   6 November 2010: I doubt generalizations apply to bi couples any more than they do to others.... (read in full...)

All work and no play leaves no time for me

Q.   why do men like work too much and have their family to spend time with, im so tried of my boy friend working 5 days a week, going work early in the morning and coming back 1 am in the morning are sometime 2 am and all he do when hes off for the two ...

A.   6 November 2010: Life is tough. 5 days a week is still better than many people. Count your blessing and try to make the best of the weekends.... (read in full...)

What sports should I try for a plus size teen girl?

Q.   I'm a 14 year old teen girl and I really want to get into sports espescially for losing weight cause I'm around 280 pounds. I would really like to know what sports you all think I should try at first, but don't get me wrong I do dance a lot and try ...

A.   4 November 2010: Consult your PE teacher, but off-hand I'd suggest swimming.... (read in full...)

I can't stand it that my girlfriend is not a virgin

Q.   Im 17, im a virgin, and I have recently found out my girlfriend is not a virgin. She is my first 'real' girlfriend and our relationship is starting to get more physical. We both love eachother, but my problem is, is that I can't stand it that she is ...

A.   4 November 2010: You can either get your head out of the 18th century, accept her for what she is and love her like she deserves OR let it torture your mind and hers for as long as your relationship lasts. Your choice, really. I'll just add that if it was your ... (read in full...)

Do you think it matters how quick a girl orgasms?

Q.   I tend to orgasm within 5 minutes during sex with my bf. I don't know if my bf likes the idea that I finish really quick cause I feel like he wants to go longer. Of course he gets to finish, but i feel like he wants sex to last longer... Obviously I ...

A.   4 November 2010: I'm sort of like you I guess - I tend to cum easily - and I think it's a gift! Enjoy yourself and make sure your man enjoys it too. Nothing to get too off-kilter about.... (read in full...)

It really hurts that he'd rather believe the girl who he just met and not me, when we'v been best friends forever!

Q.   My best guy friend who I love like a brother is a real player to other girl. He always has a girlfriend and he's usually a nice guy. There was a new girl who just moved to my school and she's not really that pretty but she's a real bitch excep...

A.   2 November 2010: Guys are like that. Sometimes you have to let a guy fall and get up again so that he knows not to do it again. Just hang around until you get a chance to say "I told you so."... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me that I've never had a boyfriend?

Q.   I have never had a boyfriend and im trying to figure out waits wrong with me am i ugly waits wrong with me i don under stand...

A.   2 November 2010: Boyfriends are over-rated. Try studies and a career instead. At your age, trust me, you're better off without one. They're invariably uncouth and occassionally illiterate people who will expect you to do their homework and eat your food. They get... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with her even although I'm a virgin?

Q.   I'm a virgin, and this really attractive, and fairly experienced girl wants to have sex with me.. I really would rather save myself the embarrassment of telling her I'm a virgin, but then she'll probably think I'm just shit in bed, i don't know what ...

A.   2 November 2010: The question here is less about whether she is experienced and you're a virgin and more about whether you want to do it with her, whether you like her, whether this is going to be a one-time thing - and so on and so forth. You're young enough for it ... (read in full...)

Delayed ejaculation or not?

Q.   I ve been with my current bf for almost year and a half.i m 19 and he s 24.Its a long distance relationship,and we see each other every week or two.He is the first guy i ve slept with,so i dont have lots of experience with this but 4 almost a year ...

A.   2 November 2010: Very common, darling. Don't sweat it for a moment. It should get better as you spend more time together with less masturbation. Anyway oral is so much fun!... (read in full...)

If your boyfriend was blind, would you stay or would you go?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My name is Alexis and I'm 18 years old. I met the man of my dreams of 21, four years ago and we have been together ever since. When we first started dating, I knew I could picture myself getting married to him, and having a family ...

A.   2 November 2010: A couple of things come out from your question that I think are important to your situation - firstly that you do seem to dearly love this man and secondly that you have let him become practically dependent on you. Since you love him, obviousl... (read in full...)

Is 9 times too much in a day?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating two years and have recently become a long distance relationship. We met at a hotel between the two of us a few weeks ago and he was able to finish multiple times within only a few hours. probably about 4 times. ...

A.   1 November 2010: Unless he's doing it on a regular basis, it's nothing to worry about. But 9 times in a day is - well - superhuman.... (read in full...)

Indian guys don't do oral?

Q.   why don't indian guys give there women oral sex??...

A.   1 November 2010: It's generally more of a personal choice than a national characteristic. I've known Indian men who were willing to give oral and others who were not.... (read in full...)

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

Q.   i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...

A.   1 November 2010: Forget the blowjobs. Why are you with this guy in the first place? Why be with a man when you aren't comfortable with him - are you sure you aren't better off single?... (read in full...)

Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you?

Q.   Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, ...

A.   1 November 2010: Depends. Sometimes 3 minutes seems like enough. Sometimes two hours isn't.... (read in full...)

Do women view penis size as a sign of worthiness?

Q.   A real quick question - Men are very sensitive about penis size, women not too bothered about it, which seems to suggest its a man made issue and often when you read answers about does size matter women will answer size doesn't matter - its how you ...

A.   1 November 2010: No. But then I'm one of the girls who thinks size-ism is nearly as bad as racism.... (read in full...)

Can 6 inches be satisfying to women who have been with very well-endowed men?

Q.   My penis is only about 6 inches long on a good day, but have decent girth at about 5.5-6.0 inches. I need an honest answer from women if you think this is enough to be satisfying if you've been with well endowed men before. I'm older, and ...

A.   1 November 2010: Oh yes. Very satisfying indeed. I speak from recent personal experience. (And yes, I've had much bigger in the past, so I'm well-equipped to answer your question).... (read in full...)

Does chlorine kill sperm?

Q.   I've got a couple of weird questions so if you can please bear with me. Ok now I went on a date this summer with my girlfriend and we were making out in a pool, wearing nothing but swimsuits and pressed up against each other, and we started French k...

A.   30 October 2010: Keeping your clothes on - even if those clothes are only nylon shorts- is very effective at preventing pregnancy.... (read in full...)

Isnt being a porn star harmful to their normal lives?

Q.   All porn stars perform in porn movies to make money but isn't harmful to they real life? how they'll live in real life what are they daily schedule do that's also get married make they own kids if they do that how they can work in porn after ...

A.   29 October 2010: And just to add to what I had said earlier, it's not as though I'm trying to pain a rosy picture. In fact a LOT of actors in the industry are users of addictive substances, have been in, or are in, exploitative relationships. Many are unable to have ... (read in full...)

Isnt being a porn star harmful to their normal lives?

Q.   All porn stars perform in porn movies to make money but isn't harmful to they real life? how they'll live in real life what are they daily schedule do that's also get married make they own kids if they do that how they can work in porn after ...

A.   29 October 2010: I think you would be much better served researching this issue at websites dedicated to pornography and so on. I don't know if it still exists, but http://www.adultdvdtalk.com would be a good place to start. To give you some rather superfici... (read in full...)

Mom asked if she made me "vocal"? What does this mean?

Q.   I tried asking this question before but i guess i needed more info. I was in a drive thru with my mom and i was yelling through the window that the resturant across the street was faster.lol. I loudly said the our nieghbor needed to quit putting ...

A.   29 October 2010: She's probably just wondering out aloud whether she is responsible for your rude behavior.... (read in full...)

Why do men think of women as slaves?

Q.   why do men think of women as slaves?...

A.   29 October 2010: They do? Someone forgot to send me the memo! ... (read in full...)

How common is it to see women that resemble porn stars in reality?

Q.   I got a question its kinda weird.. Minus the girls with boob jobs, Is the natural breast in porn really what most girls breast look like? How common is it to see pornstar material in reality? Just wondering.. its not that its important to me, i ...

A.   28 October 2010: I don't neccessarily agree with k_c100 that porn actresses do not look good in real life. Many of them are very attractive even without the make-up and hair extensions (in some case more attractive). In fact I think a lot of supermodels are very ... (read in full...)

Is it possible there is no pleasure in sex?

Q.   Is it possible for a promiscuous person to not enjoy sex? Why sleep around if there is no pleasure? ...

A.   28 October 2010: I'm one of those people that would probably be classified as promiscuous, I suppose. There have sometimes been men who just weren't fun in bed but apart from that I've never had an occassion when I didn't enjoy myself. That's just me though -... (read in full...)

For the ladies - how long does it take for you to orgasm?

Q.   i was wondering, this is for the ladies. How long does it take for you to orgasm?. I know everyone if different but surly there must be some connection. This is either Oral or vaginal i guess anal too. Or better how long (time wise) do you prefer ...

A.   28 October 2010: I'm a ridiculously easy woman to bring to orgasm. 2 minutes of oral to 5 minutes of penetration is usually enough (give or take a few).... (read in full...)

I'm having trouble concealing my penis!

Q.   I have a very odd problem. My problem is I am having trouble concealing my penis in my pants(especially shorts). I guess you could say its above average in size, 8 inches long and 6 inches around. The problem is many times it just looks like I ...

A.   28 October 2010: Wear looser-fitting clothes...and when you say it comes out of shirt do you mean the head pokes out of your shirt or something? I'm having difficult picturing the situation, actually.... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   28 October 2010: @dirtball Maybe I'm a manipulative psycho too. I wouldn't be too quick to say I'm not. I'd like the guy's perspective here - when you're just looking for a 'release' and not for full-on sex, do you prefer your girls to give you a handjob or a blo... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   27 October 2010: "Kind of, but not really. Neither does a handjob. Still, I'd much prefer these activities to my hand. It's just rare (in my experience) to find a partner willing to give and not be worried about their own pleasure" I don't know...I'd never tu... (read in full...)

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

Q.   I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

A.   27 October 2010: I agree with @Anonymous123, labelling the woman here is hardly fair when our OP has pretty much let himself get into the situation he is in. Those who dig their own graves generally have to lie in them. Confess to your wife before someone ... (read in full...)

I am too quick in bed and I am not satisfying my partner, what should I do?

Q.   when i am with my sex partner, My liquid is falling quickly, my partner has not got satisfaction with my sex, pls. advice , what i do...

A.   27 October 2010: 'Liquid is falling quickly', eh? Well I like 2-minute men myself but I realize a lot of women don't. Your best bet is to please her with your tongue or a toy before you penetrate. ... (read in full...)

Oral sex just for the fun of it

Q.   I have been friends with this guy for a little over six months. We have great fun together, and we have at some point admitted we like each other, but he is not sure about getting in to a relationship with me. ( He says he's broken up with h...

A.   27 October 2010: Yes, guys do that. (Girls too, if I'm anything to go by). If you're not comfortable with that you really should not continue.... (read in full...)

Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted

Q.   Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...

A.   27 October 2010: Things happen when a sexual experience goes beyond the ordinary. I think something like that is what happened here. It's possible she was not even conscious of the fact that a boundary was being broken at that moment. I myself do not like anal and... (read in full...)

She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...

Q.   Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...

A.   27 October 2010: It might be a nice idea to respect her enough to trust that she would not feel degraded if you did that. I love having cum on my face myself and I don't find it detrimental to my self-respect in the least bit. I love the feel of the warm gooey stuff ... (read in full...)

A dream about him cheating on me made me feel more insecure than I ever was

Q.   I know I shouldn't read into dreams, but last night I had a dream about my bf cheating on me. I saw him kissing another girl and we started to fight over it. I slapped him twice and yelled at him, asking if he left me for "something better". He said ...

A.   26 October 2010: A dream says more about insecurities than anything he's ever likely to do. That's why dreams are best forgotten when we wake up. The most intelligent thing you could do is to forget about the silly dream and concentrate on your relationship.... (read in full...)

Guys! What can a girl do/wear to make your head turn?

Q.   What really impresses a guy? What will grab his attention (in a good way) and make him return that attention to you? I'm asking this to use on my boyfriend for a spark, and for future reference should I ever need it. Thanks =]...

A.   26 October 2010: I'm tempted to say something facetious like "a little cleavage goes a long way" or "show just enough to keep them guessing what you're hiding" but I won't. Keep a good posture though. And the truth of the matter is, confidence is the sexist t... (read in full...)

We slept together, he's now ignoring me. What did I do wrong?

Q.   Two months ago, I lost my virginity to someone I'd met online. I was completely head over heels in love with him. The day after, he stopped texting or calling me. We were still in communication; it's just that I did all the work to maintain it. ...

A.   26 October 2010: It really wasn't you - it was him. It's unfortuante but all evidence points to him having taken advantage of you. Chalk it up to experience and you'll know better next time. I really doubt race enetered into it - he'd have done the same to anyone ... (read in full...)

I'm worried my partner is interested in my friend!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are having troubles. I have a fear that he is more interested in my friend ( who is married..by the way) as they have quite similar personalities and enjoy the same hobbies and have been bought up a siminlar way. My friend has ...

A.   26 October 2010: Is there any concrete reason to imagine your partner may be interested in anyone other than yourself? Otherwise it may just be a case of you projecting your insecurities about yourself onto him. ... (read in full...)

I didn't actually feel him finish in my mouth!

Q.   Ok so I am not really sure how to exactly ask this so as I write I hope it's clear. So today I found out that well I was giving my bf a blowjob he actually came in my mouth and I never knew until today. Witch i don't get because people say that it ...

A.   26 October 2010: It's possible it was not a very big load and it hit the back of your throat directly. Or it could have been lost in a lot of salive if it was a salty BJ. I've had it happen to on rare occassions. Always feels like a waste of effort because I like to ... (read in full...)

I feel used after sex

Q.   Okay well I'm 14 and me and my friend are "talking" to these two guys who are best friends and my guy who is 16 lives with my friends guy who is 15. Well we are having sex on and off and I give my guy blowjobs all the time. Well after we have sex he ...

A.   26 October 2010: I was in a very similar sort of relationship when I was around 15-16. Yes I did feel used as well and the guy turned out to be a selfish prick. Yours does too. Why don't you re-think about whether you really want to continue this relationship on a ... (read in full...)

How big is too big?

Q.   Girls only: What penis size is too big for you?...

A.   22 October 2010: Used properly even a 10 incher can be endured. Used improperly, 5 inches can be too much. On an average though, beyond 8.5 gets me worried.... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   1 September 2010: @Anonymous, Generalizations are generally abominable. If you are going to change your feeling towards men based on a post out here with no factual backing, you're doing yourself a huge disservice.... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   25 August 2010: @dirtball. I haven't been to the specific sites you mentioned, but yes, I do know what you mean in terms of the language used getting more and more degrading. Seven years ago I remember the terms used stopped at 'whore' and 'slut' with the occa... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   25 August 2010: I'm with Queue on this. As long as it doesn't interfere with international transportation... Seriously though, I'd find lying more concerning than the porn itself. I wonder though, if men would lie if they realized their partners were OK with it.... (read in full...)

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