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Can you get pregnant from this? Please help!!
Q. Mod Note: Posters Original Title Can you get pregnant from dry humping? I'm so worried. My boyfriend was over a few days ago and we were dry humping. I was completely naked but he was completely dressed. Is there any way I could be pregnant from...
A. 19 July 2010: No, there isn't if he had his clothes on.... (read in full...)
How do we tell my girlfriend's strict father about us?
Q. ok i have this mate (well best mate) who i have known all my life she is an indain (this is a imporant). i was home alone as my foks where on holiday and it was about 11:00pm when this knoock came at the door. i opend it to find her standing...
A. 16 July 2010: If you want her you'll have to go and fight for her. Tell her Dad your feelings etc etc.
How old is this girl, anyway?
Keep in mind that, from what little I know about Indian families, if she throws in her lot with you in defiance of her ... (read in full...)
Is there a solution to this?
Q. alright, so im 16 years old and on numerous occasions i have tried to engage in sexual intercourse with different girls.very time things are going good untill the very part where its time to put my penis in, i go soft. i have researched this and ...
A. 16 July 2010: It can happen if both the people are not completely comfortable. Don't sweat it, try not to take the stress and 'performance pressure' on yourself. When you're with the right girl, even if it takes a few tries, you'll get there. Trust me.... (read in full...)
Will a threesome ease my retroactive jealousy?
Q. Ok where to begin! I was in a relationship of 8 years and that ended 1year ago, for the past 5 months I've been dating and living with a woman who 24 years old! She has 2 children and I love her and them! The problem is she has done soooo much ...
A. 16 July 2010: There shouldn't be retro-active jealousy for something she's done before she met you if you're now in a happy, loving relatinonship.
That said, a 3some can be a wonderful experience if both partners are up for it. Don't forget to try it as MFF a... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want me to have sex with a black man?
Q. Can't understand why husband wants me to have sexual acts with a black man !! Iam soo hurt and can't understand!!...
A. 16 July 2010: Maybe he wants to live out a fantasy? There are men who have the whole 'Cuckolded by a black man' fantasy. If you aren't comfortable with it, tell him so, firmly.... (read in full...)
Is waking him up with a blow job a good idea?
Q. When I stay at my boyfriends house we usually end up staying up until 4am being intimate, cuddling, or talking before he has to go back to his room. (still lives with his parents) This weekend we are both attending a party at a friend of mine's. ...
A. 16 July 2010: Is the sky blue? Is grass green? Are kittens cute?
Of COURSE it's a good idea. If I wake up before the man I'm sleeping with I often like to do this, and I haven't yet met a man who didn't like being woken up with a BJ.
If you want a make-out s... (read in full...)
Questions on birth control...
Q. Hi , these questions are probably fairly simple to answer but I just thought I'd get some absolute answers , thanks =) My first question is basically my boyfriend and I use condoms every time we have sex , I'm also on the pill. Is this a really re...
A. 16 July 2010: It's worked for me since I was eighteen, so it should work for you :) Seriously though, you're playing as safe as is possible, short of abstinence. ... (read in full...)
Should I go to a place I hate for a girl I like not even knowing if she'll be there???
Q. Ok so in camp we are going on a field trip to a place I hate, but the girl I like might go but I don`t know if she is becasue I can`t ask her becasue she left camp and as far as I know is coming back. If I go and she goes we might get to spend time ...
A. 16 July 2010: People a lot older than you have done put themselves through a lot more for the vaguest possibility that they might catch a glance of the person they liked.
If you like this girl enough, you'll go. If you don't, you won't. The question is "Do you ... (read in full...)
Why do my gf's stories change over time, is she hiding more??
Q. I am having issues with my GF of 10 months gradually revealing things to me that are a bit worrisome. She has gradually increased the extent of stories about her romantic and sexual past. Guys that she once said she never touched, suddenly became ...
A. 16 July 2010: It's a difficult call. Some part of it mgiht be simply that in the initial stages of your relationship she didn't feel comfortable telling you things that she later felt she could share. To some extent this is all right, but if you feel the extent ... (read in full...)
My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...
Q. Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my ...
A. 15 July 2010: It's child #2, not a 2-year old child. Pay attention, folks! :)... (read in full...)
My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...
Q. Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my ...
A. 15 July 2010: You may be able to repair your relationship with your husband, but both of your relationship with this daughter are surely beyond help (and God knows she deserves it). Tell him you're sorry, apologize to him and ask him if he can come back. If you ... (read in full...)
I use the morning after pill instead of contraception after sex, is this going to affect me in the future?
Q. Dear aunts..im in a LRR, but i see my boyfriend 2 or 3 times a month.we dont use a condom.i use morning after pils.my question is: are they not gonna affect me when the time of having babies has arived,like by 'washing away the sperm' ? Do y...
A. 15 July 2010: The morning after pill is not a form of regular contraception. It is likely to mess around badly with your system in the long run. Please visit a gyneacologist for qualified advice on reasonable methods of birth control.... (read in full...)
Guys, if you tell your friends a girl is gorgeous (even though she is heavier), does it mean you like her?
Q. there is this one guy, and i've been into him since i moved into town 4 months ago... but he's stereotypically good looking (athletic, blonde hair, blue eyes,...) and i'm generally not the type guys like that go for (pretty but not exactly a size 2...
A. 15 July 2010: If the sequence of events is as you have narrated with no embellishments whatsoever, it certainly sounds like he's flirting with youm and not very subtly either.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is sex supposed to hurt every time?
Q. im 13 and im not a virgin. ive had sex a couple times. i had anal sex with this guy but it only lasted like 3 min. and it didnt feel good at all. i had sex with this other guy where i was on top but i couldnt get his penis to go in though. is my ...
A. 15 July 2010: It won't the only thing that hurts if you're really carrying on this way. k_c_100 says a lot of very sensible things. Please pay heed to them.
I only started at 15 and I didn't do anything particularly crazy (like anal) until I was 18. Not beca... (read in full...)
Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past
Q. hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and ...
A. 15 July 2010: Move on. There's nothing to be tormented about. You haven't really told us what it was she had written about her 'first time' so I don't know whether you're upset because it was so special you don't know if you can measure up, or because it was so ... (read in full...)
How do I let my suitors down gently?
Q. I have two guys in love with me, three who really like me, and five I "talk" to. I'm sleeping with ONE. No matter what I refuse to sleep around. But, here's the thing, I'm hurting the two who claim to love me. They're very nice, I consider them ...
A. 15 July 2010: You break up with someone by telling him, repeating as many times as is required, that you are not interested in pursuing a relationship with him and that, if they persist in pressing their affections on you, you will be obliged to discontinue all ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to call off the wedding?
Q. i'm 28 years old. i think i got myself into a situation. the person i married isn't very loving, very selfish and complains when he actually has to do something for someone that is sick, me. i am so mad at myself for putting myself into this ...
A. 15 July 2010: No, it's not too late to call off the wedding (it's never 'too late' until it's actually over and done with). You might want to evaluate your reasons for doing so, though. What you've given isn't too much to go on. I assume if you're engaged to him, ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him, now I feel I can't trust him, why??
Q. why do i feel so insecure and don't trust my husband after i cheated on him and he waited for me and took me back...
A. 15 July 2010: You've cheated and now your brain can't process the possibility that he loves you despite that.
'You can't trust him' indeed! ... (read in full...)
Vacation with him or see my parents, what shoukd I do??
Q. I live in North America but I am from Europe. My partner is also from Europe and lives in North America with me. We have been living here for 2 years now, but we have a recurring arguments about how we should spend our vacation. Being North America, ...
A. 15 July 2010: If this is like a poll, my vote goes to parents every time. One week with them and one week for you and your partner to visit a typical European tourist trap town would be a fair compromise, no?... (read in full...)
I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!
Q. I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. ...
A. 15 July 2010: People have already told you what sort of relationship you could have if you were to persist with a career in (I'm assuming heterosexual) pornography. It would be on where your boyfriend would also have the license to sleep with other women either ... (read in full...)
Does this happen to women too?
Q. I wish to know if girls do get aroused at night the way boys do get erections at night and in the mornings or if they are different?...
A. 14 July 2010: Different times work for different people of both sexes.... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal?
Q. Hi i would like you people to help me when am aroused my penis tend to bend towards my left side as in it is not straight am even afraid of making out with girls am i realy normal....
A. 14 July 2010: No, it feels pretty normal. It's not like you're a stone statue with a penis tilted at 45 degrees. If you can move the penis to a perpendicular position with your hands, you can maneouver it competently into a woman. Relax. ... (read in full...)
She's been married three times but says she has never seen precum before...?
Q. My girl has been married three times and has had several other men ask her to get married and dated multiple others. She is a good looker. I don't care about her history. I love her. The point I should make before my question is that she really ...
A. 14 July 2010: It's possible you produce more than others; most men I've been with do not usually get to a stage where they are producing a noticable amount of it. But I've been with a few men who have give a lot of juice before they actually cum, so I can assure ... (read in full...)
Why cant a make a guy cum from a bj?
Q. My last boyfriend of 6 years never came during a blowjob. now my new boyfriend hasnt either Am i doing it wrong?? im really hurt hes stuck with a rubbish girlfriend!! are some men unable to come during a blowjob....why!!!!!...
A. 13 July 2010: A lot of men don't come 'only' from a BJ without some help from your (or their own) hands or a little vaginal intercourse. It really does NOT mean they aren't enjoying it! Every so often when I take a guy's penis in my hand to finish him off, I have ... (read in full...)
I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!
Q. I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. ...
A. 13 July 2010: Dear OP,
Taking into consideration your assertion that you are not trolling, and also the fact that you are not asking us whether a career in porn is a good idea or not, I would still re-iterate my views in my previous post. Please do not proceed ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to watch porn every night?
Q. I have trouble looking at porn every night when I am supossed to be in bed sleeping. Is this wrong. I dream of sex like 12 times every night....
A. 13 July 2010: "Wrong" is a very badly-defined word, and I'm not going to comment on the ethical/moral implications of what you're doing, but watching porn each and every night may indicate a dependence that could lead to addiction.
Addiction is always a bad th... (read in full...)
Set to be married next month, but things have been quite rocky. Needing advice.
Q. Hey, sorry that this is going be to quite lengthy. I apologize for any ranting. Lately my fiancée has been acting completely different than she has in the past. I love her more than I can explain, but have been questioning whether this is the righ...
A. 13 July 2010: I normally try to take an optimistic view on relationships, but based on your description, your fiancee has said some hurtful, arrogant, callous and even racist things. (Shall I assume that you are not 'white'?)
I suppose she has her side of the ... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal?
Q. Hi i would like you people to help me when am aroused my penis tend to bend towards my left side as in it is not straight am even afraid of making out with girls am i realy normal....
A. 13 July 2010: Yep, pretty normal.... (read in full...)
I regret not making a move on her back then, but should I add her as a friend on Facebook now even though it has been 3 years?
Q. There was a this girl I liked back in high school. She was a really nice and beautiful girl who I hung out with every lunch our of that semester. I don't think there is a girl other than her I've fallen for this hard ever. I was devastated when I ...
A. 13 July 2010: You won't know unless you try.... (read in full...)
I feel so.. not normal because I'm pretty sure most girls my age don't masturbate..
Q. This is kind of embarrassing, but I want to feel better about it. So i'm 16 years old and I masturbate about 3-4 times a week. I'm still a virgin, i've never gone further with a guy than a guy putting his hand down there (over my clothes) and maki...
A. 13 July 2010: Well, you can be pretty sure that most girls your age DO masturbate. It's normal, should be guilt-free and is harmless as long as it's not compulsive.... (read in full...)
I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!
Q. I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. ...
A. 13 July 2010: Does look like a trollish question.
If it wasn't I'd have answered in more detail, but just on the off-chance that this is a genuine question, I'll give a brief resposne. Porn is not really a viable 'career option'. If you're really serious ... (read in full...)
I really want revenge on this shameless, unthankful liar...help?
Q. I was unhappily married for 13 years.I still respect my wife but love was just not there anymore.We have together three beautiful kids.I was more and more sad by time and didn't know what to do.Then two years ago I meet new love of my life.I am 35 ...
A. 13 July 2010: It's really best not to think in terms of 'revenge'. It will only end up hurting you more. The worst thing you can do to her is to forget about her, and if possible see if you can repair your relationship with your own family. Children, in ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is stunning, and this causes problems in public, what should I do?
Q. Hello all. I've been with this girl for 2 months now, she is stunning, but this is a bit of a problem because whenever we go out, there is always someone staring at her behind or her legs or something, and if they aren't just staring, they'll say ...
A. 13 July 2010: You haven't told us an important detail - what's HER reaction when this sort of thing happens, and her reaction to whatever action you take.
I've been in her situation (calling myself 'stunning' might come across as presumptious, but I do all righ... (read in full...)
Is our first anniversary too late to have a wedding celebration?
Q. My fiance and I are planning on getting married in Las Vegas next summer. We decided to only have two witnesses. We both want to have a party to celebrate with family and friends. But because of financial costs we may have to wait til our one year ...
A. 13 July 2010: I suppose your friends and family would think it is too late! Still, it's your choice and if money is genuinely a constraint, it's best to be prudent. Maybe a less lavish party a month or two after getting married would be a compromise solution that ... (read in full...)
He touched me, now I feel guilty! What should I do?
Q. Well, I am 14 years old I am know as the good girl in my school straight A's all that but i had a boy friend and he tried to touch me where I didn't feel convertible. I rejected him the first few times... But then i gave in. I feel so guilty. Should ...
A. 12 July 2010: It's not you, it's him. Resolve to be more firm in future, but do understand this - you're not any of the nasty things you're calling yourself. Treat it as a learning experience and move on. And if he tries to blackmail you into repeating the act by ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough for sex?
Q. I have a 4 inch penis. I am 15 years old, but I am growing every day and I want to have sex with my girlfriend. Is this normal?...
A. 12 July 2010: 4 inches flaccid of erect?... (read in full...)
I'm scared my boyfriend will cheat on me! What can I do?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and hes the first guy who hasnt cheated on me. I really love him and our sex life is great, but he smokes pot and lies alot. We always argue. He almost broke up with me because he said he didnt ...
A. 12 July 2010: What CAN you do? Preventing him from going presumably isn't an option, so that leaves you with:
a) Hope for the best
b) Come to terms with the sort of person you have for a boyfriend and accept that he may cheat.
I wonder what's the question you... (read in full...)
Does this make me a racist?
Q. dear cupid, me and my girlfriend were talking and i said asian people (like japanese, chinese) have stupid names/stupid-sounding names. she then called me a racist and was extremely upset and hootin' and hollerin'. i kept on telling ...
A. 2 July 2010: Somewhere in the streets of Shanghai, Beijing or Tokyo, a man is telling his girlfriend that white people have stupid/stupid-sounding names. Cultures are different, y'know. Names sound stupid because we have no idea what they mean.
'Raci... (read in full...)
I thought they were joking about a threesome!
Q. Hi, i'm 15 and there are two girls at school who keep asking for a threesome with me, I thought they were joking but they came onto me when on my own. Waht should I do??...
A. 2 July 2010: I think you're a bit young for that sort of thing, but it's your choice. Personally I'd advise against it.... (read in full...)
Do all men fantasize of other women than their girlfriend?
Q. Do all men fanatisize of women other than their girlfriends while masturbating all of the time? Is this a red flag? Does it mean they'd probably cheat too? Is it ok to do this?...
A. 2 July 2010: Some do, some don't. It does not, by itself, mean anything particular.... (read in full...)
Girls carrying condoms.
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I have discussed having sex and agreed that while we both would like to have sex with eachother there isn't a pressure on either of us to do it. This is fine , however a few days ago we were in a position where we were go...
A. 2 July 2010: Of course you should carry condoms. It's the sensible thing to do. I don't think it's slutty either, though some might have a different perspective. The thing to remember is; would you rathe be known as slutty or get pregnant/received an STD?... (read in full...)
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