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Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life.

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Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   28 October 2010: @dirtball Maybe I'm a manipulative psycho too. I wouldn't be too quick to say I'm not. I'd like the guy's perspective here - when you're just looking for a 'release' and not for full-on sex, do you prefer your girls to give you a handjob or a blo... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   27 October 2010: "Kind of, but not really. Neither does a handjob. Still, I'd much prefer these activities to my hand. It's just rare (in my experience) to find a partner willing to give and not be worried about their own pleasure" I don't know...I'd never tu... (read in full...)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

Q.   okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...

A.   6 September 2010: Who's the 'gulper'? Me?... (read in full...)

How can I create more time before ejaculating?

Q.   At present this is too easy for ejaculation. How can I get more time for ejaculation at the time of intercourse or masturbate? ...

A.   3 September 2010: Think of something/someone else when you're about to cum, like Larry King, for example. Or you could find someone who likes men who finish quickly, like me.... (read in full...)

I want to fake a pregnany to get back at him!

Q.   I already know what everyone will say to this, but please say it anyway! I met a guy on an internet dating site and we have been speaking on msn for a few months, he lives about 100 miles away from me and seemed to really like me. he kept begging me ...

A.   2 September 2010: It will only affect your credibility if you do that sort of thing you know. This guy is obviously an A-grade sleazeball who's used you, but there's little you would acheive by faking a pregnancy - after all, he's made it clear he won't be a part of ... (read in full...)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

Q.   okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...

A.   1 September 2010: @Yos Yes, that's what I've been doing! Not because I like it! It's all for science!... (read in full...)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

Q.   okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...

A.   1 September 2010: Water and fruit. Vegetables don't hurt either but don't ocok with too much spice and salt. Red meat makes it really pungent. Good luck!!... (read in full...)

What do you say to a girl who thinks you only like her for her breasts? And how to ask her out if you can't breathe?

Q.   If a girl thinks you only like them for their breasts what would you say to them? How do you ask out a girl when you can't breath around them? ...

A.   1 September 2010: You'll have to be more specific you know. Mostly we'd need to know: a) Are these 2 questions related to the same girl? b) Has she indicated that she thinks you only like her breasts? c) Why would she say this - have you done anything to indi... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   1 September 2010: @Anonymous, Generalizations are generally abominable. If you are going to change your feeling towards men based on a post out here with no factual backing, you're doing yourself a huge disservice.... (read in full...)

I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?

Q.   So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...

A.   31 August 2010: Unusual, but not unheard of. If it's something you're both comfortable with I guess that's fine, but I should warn you that introducing a third (or a fourth and so on) person into a relationship can often lead to issues in the long run. I wouldn't... (read in full...)

Jealous co-workers?

Q.   im an intern at an established business organization, so the employees must act pretty civil and educated right? not really so, I cant help but feel that ppl @ my dept are jealous so they leave me all by myself during lunchtime, when we used to ...

A.   31 August 2010: Interns are normally asked to do shitty tasks. It's a part of the corporate learning curve. Not something you like, but something you have to do anyway. Permanent employees of a department often don't take kindly to interns for any number of reaso... (read in full...)

It takes SO long for him in the bedroom

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been with each otehr over a year, and we're having trouble when it comes to sex. This isn't your usual... it only takes him three minutes! This is.. oh god, it takes him nearly three hours. We've tried to work each other up ...

A.   31 August 2010: Have you tried telling him this? Most men in this situation are actually holding themselves back. (as opposed to those with ED who never cum at all). I suggest using your hands more, it tends to lead to faster ejaculation. ... (read in full...)

My little sister wants to have sex in the church! what can I do?

Q.   this question is for my little sister she is 16 and she really wants to have sex with her boyfriend she thinks she will be with him forever i dont know what to tell her his parents are total assholes and the only place they can have sex is church ...

A.   31 August 2010: Hasn't she been introduced to the backseat of a car yet? Been there done that. Not much fun. Oppressive atmosphere. If she gets off on the perception of sin, that's up to her I guess. There's not much you can do beyond threatning to tell your par... (read in full...)

Why don't girls have sex as much as guys?

Q.   I would like to ask a question at a general/stereotypical level - Why don't girls have sex as much as guys? Eg. a single guy goes to a party/club/bar and hopes something will happen. A single girl goes to the same place and doesn't let anyt...

A.   31 August 2010: Well given that it takes two to have sex, wouldn't it be statistically impossible? (Assuming that homosexual men and women are in the same proportion to each other and cancel each other out mathematically). Women outnumber men in the general ... (read in full...)

She won't swallow!! Help!

Q.   How after 5 years of great sex do I get my girlfriend to swallow? I return the faver to her in every way..oral sex, anal licking, she dose not like oral sex on her but she lets me preform it on her every so often and enjoys it most of the time. She ...

A.   30 August 2010: I love sperm and swallow (whether directly or indirectly) 99% of the time I have sex, but I can tell you that I'm an aberration. It is not a normal practice and certainly not something that a man should expect, let alone demand. She has a right to... (read in full...)

How to do a breast orgasm?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are dating for years and recently I want to play with her breasts little bit, like breast orgasm or such. However I just don't know how and I afraid she might not enjoy it. How to do breast orgasm sexually and successfully?...

A.   30 August 2010: It's easy to get a girl excited by touching her breasts but bringing her to orgasm is nearly unheard of. I don't think it is even possible with most women. I myself have been brough to orgasm 'merely' from breast fondling only twice in my whole ... (read in full...)

Why is my cum green?

Q.   ok so like my cum came out light green why whats going on ,what is it help...

A.   30 August 2010: Consult a doctor. It may well be an STD. Have you been indulging in unsafe sex?... (read in full...)

What is myth and what is real?

Q.   I'm really interested to know, if a man in their 50 s are highly suspectable to become impotent. I, in my twenties, and my boyfriend is 56. I love him, he is great lover, he can do it twice a day, and he wants all sort of things from me. Like ...

A.   30 August 2010: As a generalization, yes, men tend to become less active as they grow older, but this is hardly unviersally true. I've known several men in the fifties and sixties who were as eager to enoy themsevles as men one-third their ages. As for the ex-w... (read in full...)

Why do I enjoy cheating on my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been with my boyfriend (23) for 7 months and in the past 2 weeks I've cheated on him 3 times with 2 different people. Once was just kissing, 2nd time was kissing and "touching" and the 3rd time I had sex with someone else... I don't ...

A.   30 August 2010: Maybe you just enjoy sex too much to ration yourself out to only one person? I suggest avoiding a supposedly exclusive relationship until you are sure you're ready for it.... (read in full...)

Big tummy equals small penis?

Q.   Dear cupid.please give me a clarity of this: are men with bigger bellies/tummy/stomach have a small penis size?the reason im asking is i hear people gossiping about it and a boy who is 'into' me now has a biger belly.whats yo experience on ...

A.   30 August 2010: There is no such inverse co-relation. The fattest man I've ever been with also happened to be the best endowed. In general, the two are independent, though obviously a fat belly may make it 'look' smaller.... (read in full...)

How can I stop my husband playing pc games

Q.   i just want to know how can i stop my gusband from playing pc games ...

A.   27 August 2010: Why do you want him to stop playing PC games? Is it an addiction? What is bothering you about it? ... (read in full...)

I wonder if my disability is stopping girls from approaching me?

Q.   I feel like I have a great life, but there's something that is missing min my l I have been struggling to find a girlfriend for the past 4 years and it feels like I'm being hunted down. I know for a fact that I am not such an unattractive guy or ...

A.   27 August 2010: Hey you're young, you know, and having a girlfriend isn't all it's cracked up to be anyway :) If your mind is in good shape (and I'm assuming from how you've written the question that it's in fine fettle) and the only apparent problem is a slight... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm too small to have sex doggy style!!

Q.   OK well im new to this and my question is: is my penis to small for "doggy style" my penis is 5.5 and my gf butt is pretty big. we havent had sex yet since we just got together but when we talk about it she talks about "doggy style" but i...

A.   27 August 2010: I've never had a problem with that size (but then I have a very toned butt). Surely it's not such a big problem?... (read in full...)

1st date sex does it ever lead to anything besides sex?

Q.   if a girl puts out on a first date, would it ever work into proper dating or just sex? x...

A.   27 August 2010: I always have sex on the first date because I'm not looking for relationships. If I was looking for one I'm pretty sure I'd make him wait. Does that make sense?... (read in full...)

Why jerk off when you have me?

Q.   my man and i are very sexually active, but last night when i came home i noticed that he had been jerking off. i walked into our room and he got out of bed an went to the restroom as if he did not want me to know that he was jerking off why is that?...

A.   27 August 2010: Oh men like to do that. Their hands are their best friends, sometimes. I always tell my boys that even if they don't think my mouth or hands can do for them what their own hands can (usually this is enough to get them to give the 'handove... (read in full...)

Shocked by threesome suggestion!

Q.   My Fiancé and I have been together for 2 ½ years and have a very happy and loving relationship. We have talked about threesomes before and came to an agreement that if were to have a bloke then he would choose who and when, and if it was female then ...

A.   26 August 2010: Shall I be harsh? You've spoken about a 3some with another woman before. He saw pictures of you and then spent some time with both of you. He thought it might be a good idea if she was the third. Natural progression of thought processes. Yo... (read in full...)

Have a big penis and don't know where to put it.

Q.   Im a 20 year old guy who has kind of a wierd problem or dilema. The problem is that I have an above average size penis(8 inches long and almost 6 inches around(its true, Im not kidding)) and I just have no place to put it in my pants. Sometimes ...

A.   26 August 2010: Now you've got us wondering, Queue.... (read in full...)

Why don't boys like me? Is I because I'm over stressed?

Q.   Hi everyone : ) Ok I'm in middle school and I really want a boyfriend. I know you guys are probably goingto say that I'm to young. Well I may be young I think that I is ok to have lIttle boyfriends once in a while. I have had a tough time la...

A.   26 August 2010: If you're in middle school and your parents are divorcing, boy trouble is the last thing you want. School boyfriends are invariably bad news. Focus on your studies and hobbies. Boys will come (no pun intended) when the time is right.... (read in full...)

Do Gorgeous Women only date Equally Gorgeous men?

Q.   Question... Whats the secret to getting a really beautiful woman? You know the type you run into every now and again that make your heart stop and fill your veins with ice water? Is there a secret method for attracting these higher echelon b...

A.   26 August 2010: And I've seen vast numbers of very attractive/rich/powerful men with ugly wives. There's no algorithm.... (read in full...)

He cried when he ejaculated! Is this normal?

Q.   i have just started a new relationship and slept together for the first time although we didnt have sex just foreplay . i just wondered if it was normal for a man to cry whilst ejeculating never had this happen before ...

A.   26 August 2010: Yes, I've seen that happen for some guys. Don't know why, never waited long enough to discuss it. Can't have been emotions.... (read in full...)

Have a big penis and don't know where to put it.

Q.   Im a 20 year old guy who has kind of a wierd problem or dilema. The problem is that I have an above average size penis(8 inches long and almost 6 inches around(its true, Im not kidding)) and I just have no place to put it in my pants. Sometimes ...

A.   26 August 2010: I'm sorely tempted to say "I can think of several places to put it that are not in your pants" :) Must be lovely to get one's hands around. Anyway, the trick is to wear boxers and loose-fitting clothes. Surely it's not THAT difficult, I mean I'v... (read in full...)

Do Gorgeous Women only date Equally Gorgeous men?

Q.   Question... Whats the secret to getting a really beautiful woman? You know the type you run into every now and again that make your heart stop and fill your veins with ice water? Is there a secret method for attracting these higher echelon b...

A.   26 August 2010: You should have seen my first two lovers....they'd come second and third in a beauty competition if the only competition was Frankenstein. On a serious note, though, it's difficult to generalize all 'gorgeous women' into one homogenous bucket. ... (read in full...)

I get turned on by girls breasts in porn does this make me bi?

Q.   I was just wonderng, could i be bisexual? I have never had a relationship with a girl, but never a long one with a guy either, and feel most of the time more attracted to guys than girls. But when i watch porn i get really turned on by both the guy ...

A.   26 August 2010: Not neccessarily. There are very few people of either sex who can resist a perfectly-formed pair of breasts.... (read in full...)

I was really offended. Am I being silly?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He is really great and we get on so well. Just the other night we where lying in bed as usual watching tele and he said to me “if you gave me a blow job for everytime I've watched porn you have a ...

A.   25 August 2010: In the absence of context it's hard to say, but it sounds to me like he was trying to be funny. Maybe you are over-reacting?... (read in full...)

Do Asians have smaller penises?

Q.   I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...

A.   25 August 2010: Well with South Asians (Indians mostly) I've found size is not generally a problem. The guy who was eight and a half was Indian, in fact. For East Asians I suppose they might be smaller but the difference isn't more than half an inch on average. For ... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   25 August 2010: @dirtball. I haven't been to the specific sites you mentioned, but yes, I do know what you mean in terms of the language used getting more and more degrading. Seven years ago I remember the terms used stopped at 'whore' and 'slut' with the occa... (read in full...)

Do Asians have smaller penises?

Q.   I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...

A.   25 August 2010: Wasn't the Middle-East a part of Asia? Anyway, in that case I guess it would a guy who was around 8.5 then. Maybe the OP is referring to people from the Easter part of Asia though (Korea, China, Japan)? Is that so?... (read in full...)

I want to do PORN!!

Q.   I want to do porn, but i come from a religious family and i dont want to disgrace them but its something that ive really tooken an interest to, i have the confidence and body to do it, and i have this really bad sex addiction which seems quite ...

A.   25 August 2010: You haven't mentioned how old you are, but the site says 18-21, so I'll assume that's accurate. First off, you say you have an addiction. Have you tried to treat it? As someone's said, it's an industry where there are people who are very good at ... (read in full...)

Do Asians have smaller penises?

Q.   I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...

A.   25 August 2010: Just to add - you may want to search the web for research (I think some condom manufacturers have actually carried it out). The largest penis I have had that belonged to an Asian was a 9-incher from Turkey. (Is Turkey a part of the EU now, tho... (read in full...)

Do Asians have smaller penises?

Q.   I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...

A.   25 August 2010: In my experience, there is a wide variation in penis size which appears to be indepedent of race and nationality. ... (read in full...)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

Q.   ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

A.   25 August 2010: I'm with Queue on this. As long as it doesn't interfere with international transportation... Seriously though, I'd find lying more concerning than the porn itself. I wonder though, if men would lie if they realized their partners were OK with it.... (read in full...)

If a man views porn, is that sufficient reason for a woman to break off the engagment?

Q.   Here is my situtation. I am 60 yrs old, of Italian heritage, and my now ex-fiancee is 54 and of Korean heritage. I am a widower; she has been divorced for 6+ years. I say this to put things into perspective. I am retired and a very succ...

A.   25 August 2010: The tolerance to porn is entirely person-specific, I'd say. Culture is a part of it, but only a part. It's as Miamine says, you know. Yes, you have a right to watch legal porn. However, she also has a right to choose whether to be with you. Aft... (read in full...)

Am I attractive?

Q.   i would just like to know if i am attractive. I am about to turn 16. Im 5 4 and 96 ibs. light blonde with bright green blue eyes and a 34B. people say im pretty but i just want to know other's opinion thanks. any questons about me ill answer....

A.   25 August 2010: It is impossible to determine if you're attractive based on a description of this nature. In any case, different people define prettiness very differently. Based on your description your figure appears to be decent, but it's impossible to say ... (read in full...)

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