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writes:hi. i have had a crush on my teacher for a while. she is right out of college i believe shes 23 im a 18 year old senior entering my last week of school. i guess she noticed i liked her and asked me to have sex after school. i did and it was amazing. im not inlove with her just for her life in bed and insanly hot! but it is a small factor.she a down to earth smart polite and has simiar interests shes a great girl i think i love her i know it s illegal to date a teacher but im graduating in a week. i think she wants a reashionship and i do too.should i date her, would it be awkward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): You can't even wait a measly week so that the law can;t do a thing to stop you?
Grow up.
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reader, Becca64  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 this is wrong because she is in a position of power over you while she is your teacher
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (21 June 2010):
 id say leave it until you are completely out of school as its illegal she could get into a lot of trouble and even loose her career shes obviously worked hard for but deffinately give it a go after theres obviously an attraction between you both
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (21 June 2010):
 I'll keep the value judgements aside regarding her giving you a booty call. You're of age and once you're out of school the teacher-student relationship also ends. If you're compatible, what's stopping you?
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reader, QZ +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Wait, you had sex with a woman and didn't even know her age? I think that's more awkward than dating someone after you've slept together. Just realize that because you've had sex with someone doesn't mean you love that person. I'd focus on the emotional and not the physical first if this is something you seriously want to pursue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Well you guys had sex already so dating I don't think would be akwarddd compared to that? And if she asked you to have sex, she obviously wants something to do with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Yeah! Go for it! You're so lucky you're teacher actually knows that you like her! I had a crush on a teacher before but I didn't tell or do anything. Now she's happily married and I'm alone...Grab the chance while you can! Best of luck. :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): She's five years older than you. Generally I would say go for it, I mean you are at a legal age. Don't think the age is that bad (if anything it might bother her more than you because she can drink and enjoy things that you can't). But you say she is down to earth so maybe she doesn't care about that.
However, this woman is playing with fire. It is so unethical of her to get into teaching and have an affair with her own student. I don't know to me that is just lame. I mean I can understand in different circumstances that you both hit it off and like I said I guess the age isn't that bad. But in this circumstance, like she is supposed to protect you and be a mentor and a teacher, not a lover.
I don't know. That's her life and her risks. I don't know about her but you certainly have nothing to lose.
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