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writes: Whenever I make love to my husband, he is asking me the same old question "Am I too small?" I enjoy making out with him and I often tell him that it's not the size that matters, it's the passion inside me that counts. Is my husband ashamed of his size? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): I am facing similar insecurities, even though I am average and my GF and I have great sex. All men worry, in my case, it was because I happen to know her ex was much larger. You need to find out WHY he is concerned. Did you have a larger partner he just learned about? Did he maybe see a porno with a girl who looked like you, going crazy over a bigger one? Guys fixate on stupid stuff like this, and have a hard time getting over it. My GF says I'm "perfect" and she "loves how I fill her up". It makes me feel good if I don't think too much....because obviously her ex "filled" her more. Try to get him excited about YOU so he doesn't obsess. And try to find out WHY he is having this issue all of a sudden. Confidence is vital for a man in the bedroom.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 He does sound ashamed of his size....I guess you can go wild while he performs to boost his esteem.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Men worry about penis size, women about breast size.
If people can't get past these types of insecurities it can become controlling to the point they no longer believe they are adequate.
If there was a solution this, there would be no breasts enlargements, no hair dyes and no penis enlargements.
Just tell him he fits perfect for you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 He is not only ashamed of his size but also have insecurity problems.
It is not the size but how he uses it to the maximum. It is his performance that counts. If he can make your orgasms,size would not matter.
You will have to repeat your answers until it sinks into his mind or he registers it in his brain.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Certainly sounds like he's ashmed of his size (which you haven't disclosed).Is there a particular reason why he might be insecure?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Yes, your husband is ashamed of his size. I don't know if there is anything you can do except continue to tell him he is good enough and to ask him to stop asking you because you will not change your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): it seems he is curious about size, the average size is good, and the emotion is the important, and how you care and want to please your wife/husband is the important thing and this make all the difference, so tell him to enjoy the moment cause that's all that matter.
good luck and enjoy your life
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): i have this same issue with my fiance. but it took forever to convince him other wise. but with the help of the newest cosmopolitan magazine i happened to glance at while waiting in line i finally did it. it says its not the length that matters at all its the width that counts. he could be 2 inches long and the normal width and still feel amazing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): You dont say how long you have been married. If you have been married a long time and he is now showing concern then you need to keep eyes and ears open......
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