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Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?
Q. Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...
A. 25 January 2013: Sounds to me like he's been stringing both of you along for a while now. I'd re-assess how you look at the role your husband has played here. Whether she has feeling for him or not, carrying on an affair for 3 years suggests your husband, at least, ... (read in full...)
Does evidence on his boxers mean he is cheating?
Q. I saw dry sperm stain on my hubby boxer amd he toil me when ever he urinates sperm comes out from his body. Am not happy because he has not make love to me for a long time and I feel he is cheating on me....
A. 19 November 2012: Possible. Also possible - not cleaned up completely after a jerk-off.... (read in full...)
My 54 year old boyfriend ejaculates prematurely
Q. I've met a lovely gentleman. He is 54 and we have been seeing each other for a few months. We are both ready to take the relationship to the next step but when we get down to it he seems to ejaculate within seconds of me touching him. We have tried ...
A. 12 November 2012: At his age, being with someone half his age - can hardly blame him. It's the sort of thing that happens with guys in that age group (one of my partners is over 65 and its much the same). I usually cum within five minutes with oral or penetration, so ... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend reach climax while wearing a condom?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 10 months now and we've been together for over a year. We love each other dearly and we plan on being together long term. The problem is that there are only two ways I can make him cum: giving h...
A. 12 November 2012: I guess in all the drama and fuss that is made about the female O, the male orgasm is a somewhat neglected thing. Which is unfortunate, because it's not as easy for guys as it's often portrayed, in my experience. So if your guy can't cum with a ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if your husband encourages it?
Q. What should I do? My husband of almost ten years and I talk about everything. He knows exactly what I like and he satisfies me but I have been having a fantasy about being in a threesome. My husband likes the idea but doesn't think the other guy ...
A. 8 November 2012: Not 'cheating', because I think that word connotes doing something without informing the spouse. BUT, I will chime in with @person12345 that this could have disastrous consquences for your relationship going forward.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mom criticizes my natural/healthy lifestyle. Should I stand my ground? If so, how do I do it respectfully and graciously?
Q. Hello, Please excuse me in advance for the length of this message. I am in a 4 year relationship. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 29. We currently live separately, each with our parents. We plan to move in together as soon as I finish university t...
A. 8 November 2012: From what you've written it certainly sounds as thought you're already being quite gracious about it. (Also, your boyfriend and his mother sound like they might be slight hypochondriacs)
My view - stick to your guns and carry on what you're a... (read in full...)
Could it be that I'm ashamed to be Indian?
Q. There's this guy i'm friends with and he makes me feel ashamed to be indian, the comments he makes really grate on my nerves. I don't know what to do about it! It's not him being racist or doing anything malicious. It's just he'll keep referring t...
A. 5 November 2012: The thing about food - all right, just a bit of joking around.
The rest of it - very racist. There is absolutely no call for you to be ashamed of any part of your ethnicity. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to get attached to my fiance's mother? I recently lost my mom and I really care about my fiance's mom
Q. Hello. I've recently lost my mother who was the person I loved the most in the whole world. Since she died I've met my fiancé and grew really close to his family, especially his mom: I really love her and I feel her as both a friend and a mother. ...
A. 16 October 2012: It's absolutely fine, darling. Why should you even doubt it? She's going to be your mother-in-law, and if she loves you as your deesrve, it's the least you can do to reciprocate her feelings. Be good to each other and there's no reason you can't ... (read in full...)
Why do romantic novels make it seem like all women achieve vaginal orgasms?
Q. We all know that a tiny fraction of women achieve a "vaginal" orgasm. Then why do 90% of romantic novels talk of this kind of orgasm as if its only natural for a woman to achieve it? And they always talk of "reaching the heights together" bulls**t. ...
A. 16 October 2012: Becuase they are romantic novels - by definition, escapist fantasy. If you want to read a realistic account of middle-class married life, try "Madame Bovary", followed by "Middlemarch". No sex, lots of realism. Also, much better reads.... (read in full...)
Am I bound by this contract?
Q. I live and am employed in California. When we were hired, we signed a contract stating we must give a 1 months notice before quitting. I want to leave as soon as possible because I have a new job offer but I still have to stay an extra month. Do I ...
A. 25 September 2012: Yes, you are bound by contract. Is there a "buy-out" clause that allows you to serve a less period by paying your employer the equivalent of your salary for that period? If so you can use that.... (read in full...)
Does size matter? I think he's going to be too big.
Q. I met this gentle loving person. However, when we got close I saw that his was way too big and wide. Now I do not know how to tell him that we cannot work out and best to part as I do not think I could take it, it is too big. ...
A. 24 September 2012: Shouldn't you give it a try before writing him off? I've known a lot of guys who were HUGE but still managed to be quite tender and all-round adorable.... (read in full...)
After one month of college I still don't have a boyfriend
Q. hi, I am a 22 year girl...doing post graduation.In my past life I get 3 relationships, but all broke. now in my new college I wanted to start new.....I want someone in my college to be my boyfreind. but here no body takes intrest in me, though I ...
A. 24 September 2012: You know, it's possible that, at a post-graduate level, a lot of the men in your college are either resolved to focus on their studies or are already in relationships.
Resolutions to focus on studies rarely outlive the first 6 weeks, so maybe yo... (read in full...)
I'm very insecure about my size
Q. Hi everyone. I feel very insecure now that I bought a girdle for football. I am a 19 year old male that is teenager cup size that is small. I feel very insecure about that. Am I under developed? My size is 4 inch erect and 2.5 soft. ...
A. 21 September 2012: As long as it's visible without a magnifying glass, I don't think most women care. I certainly don't. Four inches feels nice in places where 8 would hurt.... (read in full...)
Are there guys out there who actually don't like strip clubs?
Q. Are there guys out there who actually DON'T like strip clubs? I live in a mining town and strip clubs are starting to pop up everywhere, and since mining is a very male dominated field, guys go there after work to bond, and blah blah. I've been ...
A. 4 September 2012: I haven't done a scientific survey or anything, but what I understand from men I've spoken to is that quite a few do not care for it much. My boyfriend tells me it's not his cup of tea either - the whole things is a bit 'bleh'.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't get off from blow jobs
Q. My boyfriend says that he can't come from blowjobs. Is this true of some guys or am i just doing it wrong? Tips?!...
A. 4 September 2012: Many guys don't cum from BJ's. Nothing extra-ordinray about that.... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want to have a wedding but not get married legally?
Q. I'm talking to my ex again and things are heading in the right direction. However, I recently inherited a lot of money so my life is going to be very different. I'm planning to travel a lot and I'm not planning to have a "real" job. I just want to ...
A. 17 July 2012: If you really want to go down that road, I would suggest a pre-nup rather than 'having a ceremony and not actually getting married'. In many cases, even a long-term live-in relationship can be enough to give your partner a claim on your assets in ... (read in full...)
Should all men last an hour in bed?
Q. My friends all think a guy should last an hour in bed, but my bf and i dont. We were both virgins and lost it to one another, and we are still getting use to it so therefore he cums quickly. Do you have any proof that this is a normal thing, and my ...
A. 11 July 2012: An hour? That would be...tiresome and painful, to be honest. 10-15 minutes is perfectly acceptable, and I personally prefer even shorter, intense sessions. Over an hour I'd hope to please at least four partners. Anything less is a waste of time.... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? He clicked like on her profile!
Q. This is probably going to be the silliest question I've ever asked and I'm a bit embarrassed asking advice on this but the other day my boyfriend " liked " a girls picture on Facebook. He says it was his friend but since then it's made me very ...
A. 27 June 2012: Perhaps there is more in this that you haven't put down here - I get the feeling there might be. Is there a pattern of him having a roving eye? Has he never gone on a guys trip before? How long have you been together?
Basis the informat... (read in full...)
Asian men and White women.......
Q. Well as an Asian i have got a very important question to all the white girls and I am pretty sure other Asian men need the answer.So here's my question do white women like Asian men? and if the answer is yes please let me know the things that mak...
A. 27 June 2012: I'm race-neutral myself, but your question is rather too generic. (Oh all right, I have a bit of a thing for black men, but it's not because I like others any less).
Some white women do like Asian men, of course, and some don't. Intellig... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said "he's the boss of me, not me the boss of him!"
Q. Hello, I have a boyfriend we have been together for 2 and a half years hes and have recently hit some problems and we broke up for about a month, but after some talking we got back together. But yesterday he got annoyed at me for something ...
A. 7 May 2012: This might be a good time to remind him that the "Boss - Subordinate" relationship is a corporate construct. At home, you may want to consider a more sensible approach, like accepting that it is a situation requiring a more egalitarian outlook.... (read in full...)
Instead of investing in us and our family b/f buys a flat! What's wrong with him?
Q. What is going on inhis head? Myex and Ibroke up several months back, we have 2 kids so we have to be civiland havecontact. to cut a long story short, I waited a long time for him to commit to me and our kids, when I thought is finally got the chan...
A. 28 March 2012: Investing in real estate is generally considered a very smart for of investment for the long term. Exactly what is the issue here?... (read in full...)
What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely?
Q. What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely? Three times in the last couple of weeks I've been with this really hot girl and each time it's ended far too quickly. The first time, we had dinner and some drinks in a few ...
A. 28 March 2012: I feel immensely flattered.... (read in full...)
Met an aspiring actress, got on so well with her but found out she plans to sleep her way to the top!
Q. Right so last week met this girl a stunner at a local pub. we got on right away and i started seeing her. everything was going just fine until we started off talking about careers and she revealed that her plan is to sleep her way into roles! I was ...
A. 27 March 2012: "Sleeping one's way to the top" hasn't really worked since the fifties (and it's doubtful it really worked even then). Nice of her to be honest, but if that's not the sort of thing you can handle, you shouldn't go ahead with this. ... (read in full...)
Guys: would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modelling?
Q. I have been modeling for an online lingerie site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew...
A. 23 March 2012: It would be a deal breaker for a lot of men, thought not all. Think very carefully about the consequences - these things are permanent. I've done porn in the past and while my own boyfriend does not have a problem with that (we are in a very open ... (read in full...)
What is the average length of time that a man lasts during sex?
Q. This might sound like a silly question and I know that every one is different, but what is the average length of time that a man lasts during sex?? I've been with this guy for about 5 months now and we just recently started having sex. He lasts ab...
A. 23 March 2012: There's a lot of variation from guy to guy. The average would be around 15 minutes basis my experience though I much prefer the guys who get it done with within ten.
The thing is, a lot of men are conditioned to think that the longer they go on, t... (read in full...)
It creeps me out that my boyfriend masturbates in bed, next to me!
Q. I'm not prude to someone's need to self please, I'm not even jealous or against it... but my boyfriend has been masterbating while I'm sleeping. I wouldn't even know about it if I hadn't caught him at least a half a dozen times. (and by caught I ...
A. 23 March 2012: Well that is - maybe not creepy exactly - but certainly inappropriate. You may want to have a word with the guy and let him know he should at least have the courtesy to use a different room.... (read in full...)
How do I offer this FWB situation to him without sounding like a whore?
Q. I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we have gone on a couple of dates. Well.... last week we had sex, but he let me know that he he is not interested in a girlfriend and Im not interested in a boyfriend. I want to be FWB but also ...
A. 22 March 2012: FWB things don't work unless, like me, you have a LOT of friends, so you'd better be very sure what you want.
You can, of course, try to be straightforward about yo feelings with him - "I think we had a wonderful time last week and I'd love to ... (read in full...)
How can women watch porn with their partners?
Q. One thing that bugs me is how can women watch porn with their boyfriends/husbands? Aren't you bothered he's getting turned on by another woman, who he possibly thinks is hotter? The thought is horrible....
A. 22 March 2012: When it comes to good-looking men in porn, looks are subjective, of course, but Franco Roccaforte, Evan Stone and Mr. Marcus generally caught my eye.
@person12345
I don't generally agree with you when it comes to porn, but thanks for sayin... (read in full...)
How can women watch porn with their partners?
Q. One thing that bugs me is how can women watch porn with their boyfriends/husbands? Aren't you bothered he's getting turned on by another woman, who he possibly thinks is hotter? The thought is horrible....
A. 21 March 2012: Well, not everyone thinks the same way, you know.
Some women may find that they dont really mind what turns their man on as long as they one who gets the benefit is she herself.
Others may passively accept the reality that, no matter who yo... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend don't know which day our anniversary would be!
Q. Please help us settle this debate. My boyfriend and I in a disagreement about when our official anniversary should be celebrated. Option 1: September 8th. This is the day we first slept together. We had been dating for two months before this dat...
A. 21 March 2012: Just celebrate both, rather than fretting over it. Though I do think one should wait until you get married to start celebrating anniversaries. ... (read in full...)
Could a girl ever accept my love of supermodels?
Q. Ok, I like supermodels and always have. Not the big-boobed, blonde bimbos in men's magazines but the high fashion models. When magazines like Vogue or Photo have their "Top Models" issue, I get it. If there's an interview with a model I like, I'll ...
A. 6 March 2012: It's possible but it would take a lot of searching.
And attractive women would not neccessarily judge you only on your money.... (read in full...)
Are all men rubbish at keeping in touch with their girlfriends?
Q. This is one for the guys. I'm just wondering if generally men aren't interested in keeping in touch with their girlfriends via calls and texts. Not that you don't care about your gfs - but you don't feel the need to keep in touch with them when they ...
A. 2 March 2012: Not all, but most. Not a red flag in itself. ... (read in full...)
She used to have affairs with married men. Is she dating material??
Q. I met this really beautiful girl a couple months ago. She seemed nice and sweet too. Almost too good to be true! I asked her to lunch and surprise to me she said yes. We sort of started a relationship. I mean not too serious yet. Just movies a...
A. 1 March 2012: It shows that she has made bad decisions in the past. Of course, as any fund manager will tell you, past perforance may or may not be repeated in future. SO there is no inherent indication that she will cheat on you or any such thing.
If this goe... (read in full...)
I feel like an outsider after our discussion about wills and money!
Q. HI guys. I have posted questions on here before and had some really good advice so hope you can help. To cut a long story short, I have been with my partner almost four years and we are reasonably happy. It started out long distant but i mo...
A. 29 February 2012: He has a right to dispose of his assets as per his wishes and his children are the priority for him, which is also, to some extent udnerstandable. My lawyers (well, my father's basically) always told me that placing money in a trust is a better way ... (read in full...)
OK I get that she once did porn, but why does she feel ok showing to people??
Q. Hi Agony Aunts and Agony Uncles, Here's the deal. I met a girl at a party and liked her but then found out she once did porn. She seemed sweet and even innocent and I could hardly believe it. I found out by googling her name. We spoke about it...
A. 28 February 2012: One may regret making a certain choice at a certain point of time but still be comfortable of the acts done as a consequence of that decision. And if the opposite person asked to see her porn clip and was someone she trusted (maybe wrongly but ... (read in full...)
What is a "hell-bent" heart?
Q. I was listening to the song by Lee Ann Womack, "I Hope you Dance". In the song are the lyrics: "Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin' Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin' Don't let some hell-bent heart leave y...
A. 27 February 2012: Searching for meaning in pop music is a bit like searching for a vegetarian tiger. It's possible it exists, but it would be futile to go looking for it.... (read in full...)
Is it taking advantage of a girl if you sleep with her because she's "easy"?
Q. So I know this girl who is really beautiful. Not only is she gorgeous but she's also "easy". You know what I mean by easy, right? She lets a lot of mates have their way with her. I mean, maybe she likes it too. If someone will get her a gift or buy ...
A. 24 February 2012: If you think it's wrong you shouldn't do it, like I said. Your friends are not the ones who have to live with YOUR feelings afterwards.
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Are there any health risks in swallowing cum?
Q. dear cupid, are there any health risks involved with swallowing cum? please don't mention std's, because i already know that they're a risk factor, buuut i also know for a fact that the guys i've given oral sex to don't have anything. soo, o...
A. 24 February 2012: Swallowing cum does not carry any risks further than those of the act of oral sex itself. By itself, cum is rather harmless, but every time you put a penis into any of your cavities, you're exposing youreslf to a certain set of risks that you need ... (read in full...)
Is it taking advantage of a girl if you sleep with her because she's "easy"?
Q. So I know this girl who is really beautiful. Not only is she gorgeous but she's also "easy". You know what I mean by easy, right? She lets a lot of mates have their way with her. I mean, maybe she likes it too. If someone will get her a gift or buy ...
A. 24 February 2012: If it wasn't for the fact that I don't expect gifts, I'd ask you if you were from WV or Chicago...anyway, the question here is of your moral compass. If it says you're doing something wrong (and the fact that you asked this question seems to ... (read in full...)
How can I compete with my wife's new sex toy? It gets more action than me
Q. I got my wife a new toy. It seems the toy is getting more action than me. However, she has NO problem giving me oral sex. I seem to get more oral sex now and she seems to use her toy more. Is this normal?...
A. 20 February 2012: Could be just that it's a 'new' toy and people do like playing with new toys until they get old. After that, the old favorite takes over again. How long has this been going on?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had several threesomes and hook ups in her past: liberal open-minded girl or just a slut?
Q. Well, I know this topic comes up a lot but here I go anyways: I'm dating this girl for the last 5 months. She has been always open about her attitude about sex, and admitted to me that she has had a lot of threesomes, hook ups and ongoing on and o...
A. 17 February 2012: "Slut" is a label, and like most labels is quite odious.
The two possibilities here are, as you rightly said, that she is a confident woman in charge of her sexuality OR someone who lacks the ability to make the right choices.
If she is ope... (read in full...)
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