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How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 30 September 2010: @SlimShady I'm not sure whether to be pleased or scared as hell that my peak may be ahead of me. The possibility of my being monogamous by that time is really remote, so...this is practically giving me an anxiety attack here!
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When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Again, if you have grounds for doubt, ask for a test. It depends on your level of trust with her, doesn't it? If you're having a lot of casual sex with women you don't know very well, both parties are entitled to ask for a test. If it's a long-term ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Well put, DemmandLace. If the girl you're with is someone you've just met or it's really very early in the relationship or you have other strong grounds to doubt the presence of an STD, you should clear this question before you actually begin the ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: That is something you should have gotten cleared long before you removed your clothes, isn't it?... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Certainly wouldn't be insulted to be touched down there! As for that question...well it's not disrespectful at all, but it sounds a touch 'scientific' actually.... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting
Q. Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...
A. 29 September 2010: Berlin, eh? I wasn't aware of there being a strong tranny scene in Berlin. Rio and Bangkok/Pattaya I knew about (and want to visit so desperately).... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 29 September 2010: @Slimshady But how important is each factor? For instance, a woman who is financially independent in her twenties itself and has a place of her own - would she hit that peak earlier? Or is an increase in sexual desire from 29 to say around 38 ... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 29 September 2010: Apart from some women who would tell you specifically that they are giving up their right to be respected (regardless of their being clothed or not at the time), yes, we do want to be treated with respect. Even if my previous statement has been ... (read in full...)
Advice on love handles?
Q. This isnt a love question but im just curious. I'm 16 years old, weight isnt an issue for me, my figure is normal, but i have this fat belly that really bothers me, like when i wear clothes without a jumper to hide it basicaly! I would like some ...
A. 29 September 2010: Cardio (or just a good long run on a regular basis) will definitely help. Or swimming. As someone's said, ab crunches won't do enough on their own. Once you've burned off the fat you can try for the ab excercises to get to the 'wow' stage.
But t... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting
Q. Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...
A. 29 September 2010: It's very normal. In fact I'm terribly attracted to them myself (though in a purely sexual way) though I've never been with one. All that I've heard however leads me to believe that transexuals would love to attract a woman and further that they ... (read in full...)
I have two sexual fantasies that people seem to find disgusting and a turn off.
Q. I have two sexual fantasies that people seem to find disgusting and a turn off. I see loads of evidence of them on the internet but have never met anyone who admits to liking them. Firstly I have a real love for Feet, i find them very sexually ...
A. 29 September 2010: Your fantasies are quite 'standard', if anything, but you might want to think about whether you are disclosing them to the wrong people.... (read in full...)
I'm baffled why he didn't want to have sex with me...
Q. Okay, I'm looking for a male perspective really, but women feel free to answer too. I'm 21 and out clubbing every weekend, my eldest brother too does exactly the same and we regularly end the night together. He always brings his best mate out wi...
A. 29 September 2010: Sounds like he likes you but doesn't want to rush you or force anything (after all it's not like he'd have known you were interested, would he?) And he might be a little afraid if your brother, perhaps?
Don't overthink it. If you like the fellow, ... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 27 September 2010: I'm going to have to watch this thread. I've around the same age as the OP and if my sexual prime is *starting* now...the mind boggles. Seriously.... (read in full...)
What do men really think of women that are good in bed?
Q. What do men really think of women that are good in bed? Recently, I heard that a couple of my ex-boyfriends had told people that Im good in bed and while my friends say I should be flattered I actually feel quite embarressed. Does it not mak...
A. 27 September 2010: Depends on the guy. The right one will be ecstatic about the fact that you're skilled. The wrong ones will talk about it behind your back.
Personally I'm proud to be well-regarded by men who I didn't want a relationship with anyway. And the guy ... (read in full...)
I want to surprise my boyfriend but the surprise might be on me
Q. i want to sprise my boyfriend .. we are going abroad and i got my vagina pierced this afternoon and we are going abroad tommorow night will it beep going through the metal detectors? i want to suprise him i dont want him to find out this way.. ...
A. 27 September 2010: I've travelled on the domestic sector in US and despite having pierced ears, belly-button, eyebrow and vagina, haven't set the detectors off, so you should be fine.... (read in full...)
I want to surprise my boyfriend but the surprise might be on me
Q. i want to sprise my boyfriend .. we are going abroad and i got my vagina pierced this afternoon and we are going abroad tommorow night will it beep going through the metal detectors? i want to suprise him i dont want him to find out this way.. ...
A. 27 September 2010: I've travelled on the domestic sector in US and despite having pierced ears, belly-button, eyebrow and vagina, haven't set the detectors off, so you should be fine.... (read in full...)
Why is "Slumdog Millionaire" a "feel good film"?
Q. I know this isn't a sex or daiting question..(well it kind of is i guess..) But why is slumdog millionaire a 'feel good film' when it's about three orphaned kids, an evil man who takes children's eyes out for more money, a brother who threatens his ...
A. 27 September 2010: It's not. It's not even a very good film. Just another year the committee got it wrong @ the Academy.... (read in full...)
Why won't he cuddle or hold me after sex
Q. a guy I'm just friends with will never cuddle with me after we sex..we talk everyday, chill and stuff,but I've known him 5 months,so why not hold me? ...
A. 24 September 2010: Men are not natural post-coital cuddlers. Sometimes those that are in love do cuddle those they are in love with post-sex, but even that is rare. You may want to talk to himand explain your feelings.... (read in full...)
Sex in a pool?
Q. If l have sex in a pool will water enter into my girlfriend and if it does can it affect her vagina....
A. 24 September 2010: If having a bath (during which she presumable would be cleaning her bitsies) doesn't hurt her, sex in a pool won't either.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl says this during sex?
Q. Hello everyone i just have a little bit unusual question mostly for females but i dont mind having different opinons :D , i just wanna know what girls mean when they say during sex F**k me harder or when they are like ' harder harder ' Does th...
A. 24 September 2010: It doesn't mean she's not enjoying it, trust me :) It means she wants you to penetrate harder, deeper and faster. However it may also happen that you're a little soft inside her.... (read in full...)
How can you convince your girlfriend to give you oral?
Q. Do most women like giving BJs? How can you convince your girlfriend to give them to you?...
A. 24 September 2010: Whether it is possible to convince her to give you oral on what her reasons are for not giving it. ... (read in full...)
I actually meant it when I said those three words
Q. Aw man, I got myself in a bit of a pickle here. About a week ago, my best friend (a girl) and I both got drunk and had sex. Before we did it, though, she told me she's the kind of girl who needs to hear those three special words to make it feel ...
A. 24 September 2010: Umm...tell her? She probably doesn't realize you have feelings for her...it might make her see you in a different light.... (read in full...)
Isn't that what college is for? To experiment and have fun?
Q. I'm 19 and this is my second year in college but my first year AWAY at school. I'm really starting to enjoy it, but I'm kind of worried of how I'm putting myself out there. I've been here for about 5 weeks now and have had sex with two guys already. ...
A. 24 September 2010: And here I thought colleges were temples of learning...
Look, unless you're a Trust Fund kid who doesn't need a real job anyway, you need to be focuseed on your studies and conscious of the fact that you will need to have employable skills (... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend have a midlife crisis or was it that he just couldn't keep it in his pants?
Q. I have been going out with a guy for 7yrs and we were blissfully happy up until last November. He is 3yrs older than me. We bought a house last November which he probably pushed for more than I did but we both knew it was the right decision deep ...
A. 24 September 2010: 28 is a little young for a 'midlife' crisis. I suppose youre mileage may vary. Sometimes casual sex can be just that without having any meaning or affecting his feelings for you (as I once tried to explain to a very angry woman in a supermarket). ... (read in full...)
Why can't he keep it up longer than 10 mins?
Q. hi my man cant keep it up longer 10 min but some times he can go longer but not that oftfen i just want to know why that is we do the same stuff we do when he goes longer so why does he some times go for 10 min ...
A. 24 September 2010: Maybe it's because he finds you irresistable? I always take quickies as a compliment. Anyway the only suggestion I can give is to try and persuade him to give you oral or to masturbate you so that you've had your fun by the time he starts.... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?
Q. I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. ...
A. 24 September 2010: Whether you choose to have an abortion or not is a deeply personal decision that you will have to take. I can only suggest that you take it quickly - after 20 weeks it gets really dangerous to both you and the child. As you don't seem to be opposed ... (read in full...)
Are older men better lovers?
Q. Is it true that older men make better lovers, due to experience?...
A. 24 September 2010: That's a common trope in erotic literature but I find it's not neccessarily true. I've met men in the age group who were wonderful lovers and then others who weren't the five minutes I spent with them (apart from the cum, I mean, which is always ... (read in full...)
Is thick and yellow normal for cum?
Q. When I perform oral sex on my man, I noticed when he cum in my mouth, it is thick and yellowish. When I go to spit it out, I gag every time. Have any male experienced this? Can anyone tell me what this could be? It looks like old mucus....
A. 24 September 2010: I've seen a lot of colors and textures over the years and while thickness is to be expected in a man who hasn't cum for a while (recently there was one whose load was the consistency of glue!), if the color is significantly yellow and consistently ... (read in full...)
His conversation really hurt me! should I tell him?
Q. This conversation put tears in my eyes but I said nothing, I just sucked it up. Now I think that as conversation was on IM so maybe I misunderstood and I had no reason to be upset. Hi I would need some honest opinions about this conversation...
A. 23 September 2010: While I suppose a lot would depend on whose biography it was (if Sylvia Plath - it's not a compliment) but it does sound like he was trying to be funny and not succeeding.... (read in full...)
Men: Is sex a chore and not enjoyable?
Q. Do you men that focus only on performance during sex take sex as being a chore instead of enjoyment?...
A. 23 September 2010: I suppose it may be that way for those who aren't particularly attracted to their partners. ~cough~ I've never encountered that situation myself.... (read in full...)
Is it all women, or just my wife that have boring sexual fantasies?
Q. So, my wife really gets off on hearing about my sexual fantasies. She often asks me to tell her, " what were you thinking about last time you masturbated.". Then I will tell her, WHATEVER it was, be it having sex with our next door neighbor, the ...
A. 23 September 2010: Actually the naughty neighbor, secretary etc fantasies are done to death as well, so...I don't know. Individuals are different and have varying perspectives. A lot of women (and men for that matter) are not comofortable talking about their fantasies ... (read in full...)
Does it matter what girls look like when sucking?
Q. Question for guys (though ladies can offer their answers too!) I desperately want to give the guy I'm seeing really great head. But I'm incredibly insecure at times - not just as most girls are, it's a little deeper than that apparently- and ...
A. 23 September 2010: I've been giving head since I was fifteen (so around 11 years now) and I'm not even going to mention how many men I've given them to.
Not one has ever had a problem with how my face looked. If anything, the more "out-of-control" I am, the more it ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one who hates the smell and taste or sperm?
Q. This may be strange or maybe this is common...You tell me. I can not stand the smell or taste of sperm! I freely give my husband (of 25 yrs) BJ when he wants, let him cum on my chest and he has even rubbed it on my face BUT it makes me gag! ...
A. 23 September 2010: By all accounts, you're in the vast majority. Most women can't stand the taste of it (though such a strong reaction to the smell is less common). Even in porn, several of the leading pornstars (Krystal Steal and Silvia Saint come to mind) never ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sexual thoughts just out of the blue?
Q. Is it normal to have sexual fantasies/thoughts while doing everday things? such as school or just sitting at home watching TV? It's been happening to me alot lately. No I'm not sexually active as a matter of fact I'm still a virgin - I've never had ...
A. 23 September 2010: Yup, sounds about normal. In fact, out of the blue is when I have some of my more detailed fantasies brewing in my head. It builds up while you're doing something else and gets you all bothered until you find a release through masturbation (which is ... (read in full...)
Why did it hurt her self-esteem when I was not able to 'get off'? Is she just being silly or is this a deeper issue?
Q. Why do girls feel insecure or why does it lower their self esteem when they can't get men off. Recently the last couple times I was sleeping with my gf I was not able to get off. This is because we came back late and I had a several alcoholic ...
A. 22 September 2010: Sigh...making a man cum is often how we measure ourselves at least I know I do. The reasonable part of our brains tells us it could be any number of factors that might have led to it but it's impossible to see it as anything other than a failure.
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Why is my husband so secretive?
Q. hi,my name is amrita.I am married for 6 months and i am now pregnant,but when i ask my husband questions,like whats his monthly payment or whats his password for yahoo he dont wanna tell me these thing.I gave him my password to my yahoo cause i love ...
A. 22 September 2010: Not everyone is quite as willing to share how much they make or their e-mail passwords. In fact sharing the e-mail password is actually asking for too much, in my opinion - what if it's used for something work-related which he is contractually ... (read in full...)
WMW Threesomes
Q. [MOD NOTE:OP'S OWN TITLE] I can't be the only one...right? My and my husband are looking for a girlfriend to spoil, and enjoy all together. Am I too open-minded??...
A. 22 September 2010: Too open-minded - maybe, maybe not. Your milage may vary. Make sure that whatever you decide to, you have thought about long and hard, and whoever you decide to do it with, is on the same page as you.... (read in full...)
Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?
Q. hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking ...
A. 21 September 2010: It may be just hormones. It may be an indication. It's really not enough to go on. Its quite possible you're straight. There's legions of straight men and women who find transexual porn to be extremely attractive - more than conventional porn even. ... (read in full...)
Older boyfriend doesn't want sex so much and its making me feel insecure
Q. I have been dating an older man for almost a year. I am twenty seven and he is forty five. He is a good man as far as paying the bills and helping me raise my daughter. Our sex life has been dwindling lately and every time I try to talk to him ...
A. 21 September 2010: Libido declines with age. You should be aware that this is a common problem when the age gap is as you've described it. You're probably nearing the prime of your appetite while he's on the decline. It has NOTHING to do with you, your looks or your ... (read in full...)
Sharing my wife... playing with fire?
Q. I want to know if anyone has ever played around with this – I am a 41 year old man… recently married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We are very much in love…trying to have a child together. We have a great sex life…but we are both on the adven...
A. 21 September 2010: Hot fantasy - yes.
Playing with fire - also yes.
Threesomes of any sort where two people out of the three are committed to each other are dicey at best and definitely not recommended. Do a search around DearCupid and you'll find some stories abou... (read in full...)
Am I just overreacting to a man with a high sex drive?
Q. okay so ive been with my boyfriend for nearly two months now, we've been together before about a little over a year ago, and its safe to say that i fell for him and the feelings just never went. However lately ive been thinking, especially with ...
A. 20 September 2010: It's really impossible to say with the information you've given - it just isn't enough. The way you've presented it however the possibility does suggest itself.... (read in full...)
How can I get my wife to dress sexy for Halloween?
Q. What is the best way to get my wife to wear a super sexy hallowen outfit? For the last few years, we have gone to the same adults-only Halloween party, made up of neighbors and friends. The "adults only" part is not as racy as it sounds. We all ...
A. 20 September 2010: Ahh...memories of Halloweens past come to mind :) I've always had a gala time at Halloween parties since around 2003 I think. The first time I dressed as a devil (horns, trident and all) and the night ended very very well. I did a police officer ... (read in full...)
I want to allow my boyfriend a three way but want to hear feedback on how it will affect the relationship
Q. Sex with my boyfriend has been lackluster. I love him deeply and would never cheat or leave him. I think he feels the same way about me but the sex is not the reason we are together. We both agree that our bond is deeper. The reason I'm writing is ...
A. 20 September 2010: At 7 months it probably isn't a good idea. Actually a 3some isn't a good idea even after 7 years if two of the participants are committed to each other. It's nothing to do with the 3some per se - that may even be an enjoyable experience. It's just ... (read in full...)
My world crumbled when I heard about his former lover
Q. hello, I have been married for the last 4 years and am having a child aged 2 years recently i had a talk with my husband and came to know that he was having an affair before marriage and he also had sex with her on listening to this my world ca...
A. 20 September 2010: Ahh...the occupational hazards of arranged marriages.
Look, whatever it is appears to have happened before he knew you. If it's been a happy married life so far, it might be advisable to forgive and forget.
If it hasn't been a happy married li... (read in full...)
Facebook hints please
Q. facebook hints if a married woman's page on facebook ( i got to know the page by chance) didnt show her full name or a particular picture of her and the most important didnt show her martial status meanwhile in the interest she mentioned t...
A. 20 September 2010: It would appear to give that impression, yes. On the other hand she may just have been careless while making the profile.... (read in full...)
Having trouble going below his belt line!!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 weeks and I really do love him and he loves me too and he tells me all the time. We are both virgins and havent gone very far and I want to be able to please him sexually so we talked about me giving him ...
A. 20 September 2010: There was a time when I was a little freaked out by the thought myself. Once I brought myself to apply my hands (among other things) to a penis I found I pretty much couldn't get enough.
Take the plunge. You won't know until you do it.... (read in full...)
I've never had sex because I'm not comfortable about my penis size
Q. Ok so I'm a 19 year old male, and I've had sex before I just never felt comfortable due to my penis size. Nobody has ever said that it's small or anything but a lot of people try it on with me and I'm always afaid that my penis isn't big enough. My ...
A. 20 September 2010: I think we should put a banner on the site saying
"Women love a nice, funny guy,
Even if his dick measures five".
Relax. You're hung fine. ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any insight into ED?
Q. So for the past couple of months my boyfriend has been having trouble maintaining an erection during sex. It won't happen every single time we have sex, but it does happen and its getting really depressed about it. For starters, he's 23 and I'm ...
A. 16 September 2010: While ED can happen to anyone, what you've described sounds like exhaustion more than anything else.... (read in full...)
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