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How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 4 October 2010: Are we bringing a lot of these questions out of cold storage?
This is auch a subjective question you know. Depends on the individual, his/her upbringing, social background and religious convinctions.
For some people, anything more than 1 (whi... (read in full...)
My husband is into BESTIALITY PORN!!
Q. Help!! I have just discovered that my husband of 30 years is into bestiality-porn!! I dont have a problem with him watching porn, which he has not lied to be about, but I have recently noticed that he has been downloading tons of disgusting images ...
A. 17 August 2010: It's illegal in some places to even have that sort of porn I believe, so it's a doubtful thing to comment on. I suppose it seems to indicate he's a little too much into porn for his own good. Generally there's no harm done as long as he's not trying ... (read in full...)
He asked to see someone's boobs, but everyone is telling me it's what boys do!
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years. we were at his sister wedding reception and I found out he asked another girl to see her boobs. I kown this girl shes married with kids and not at all interested in him. He and his sister have know her ...
A. 17 August 2010: No, that's not what normal guys do. Take a firm line with this guy - he needs to clean up his act and behave like a serious boyfriend if he wants to deserve a girlfriend.... (read in full...)
Women, what kind of porn do you like?
Q. straight women, what kind of porn do u like?...
A. 17 August 2010: I'm seconding YouWish on this one. Some of the titles used in this flicks are atrocious!! Some of the activities depicted probably even more so.
Personally, I seldom watch the stuff (though it can be hilarious to watch sometimes, the 'acting'... (read in full...)
What does it mean when he called me "poppet"?
Q. Well I was recently called poppet by my best friends brother (Ian) and he won't tell me what it means ; I was wondering if any of u guys know what it means? It would help me bunches :) ...
A. 17 August 2010: pop·pet –noun
1. Also called poppet valve . Machinery . a rising and falling valve consisting of a disk at the end of a vertically set stem, used in internal-combustion and steam engines.
2. British Dialect . a term of endearment for a girl or ... (read in full...)
Can only orgasm from missionary. Is something wrong?
Q. Husband and i have been married for 4 years, sex is great everytime but we are still stuck with the missionary position.I can only climax with him on top of me.We have tried different positions but never reached orgasm with any.I have heard great ...
A. 17 August 2010: There's a very good reason why missionary is the most commonly used position - it's actually the most likely to lead to mutual satisfaction. Nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
I'm at a high risk of being hurt of these rumours are true...
Q. I'm seventeen. I work at Krystal and recently, a beautiful girl started working there and she's my age. We're the only ones still in school that work there. I've liked her for awhile and finally after work I just told her. And she replied by saying ...
A. 17 August 2010: Wouldn't you rather find out for yourself what kind of a person she is than rely on rumours which may have originated from people with vested interests? I know from first-hand experience how easy it is to earn the title "whore", so I would ... (read in full...)
Should I become a christian in order to have a chance to date her?
Q. i have a crush on this girl. Through her i get to know that the next boyfriend she have should at least be a christian. She dont know that i have a crush on her yet. I am a free thinker. To have a chance to be her boyfriend, something inside...
A. 17 August 2010: Terrible idea. If you're not religious, why subject yourself to a life of hypocrisy and deceive the Church and this girl inthe process? If she can't accept you for who you are, what's the point anyway?... (read in full...)
A question about precum?
Q. This is probably a rhetorical question but is there any way to control precum? I seem to be getting it even just when kissing with my girlfriend, it can get to a point where it can be a bit embarrassing....
A. 16 August 2010: Never met a guy who could do that. Why is it embarrassing though?... (read in full...)
Define "harmless flirting" from married mans point of view
Q. OK so there's a guy at work who is very friendly with me, I was instantly attracted to him and there was chemistry however as soon as I found out he's married I completely backed off, I didn't realise because he doesn't wear a ring. That hasn't ...
A. 16 August 2010: If its in the workplace what he's doing seems rather inappropriate. Complimenting you on your jewelery, or your looks in general for that matter, is fine. Saying he'll "look out for you here" is patronizing with a shade of something more. This would ... (read in full...)
I found out my wife was gangbanged by 4 guys and it turns me on
Q. I found out my wife was gangbanged by 4 guys. This was before we met. I am very turned on by this and would love to hear full details. My wife however, says she was drunk and ashamed Afterwards and won't open up about it. She did admit to having m...
A. 16 August 2010: Women fall into three categories when it comes to gangbangs. The first (and vast majority) are those who would never even contemplate the act and find it fills them with disgust. The second (a tiny minority) find them thoroughly enjoyable. The third ... (read in full...)
Worried about my first threesome this weekend!
Q. Help! I am having my first threesome this weekend. It involves my fiance and another man who is a complete stranger. What should I do? What should I expect. Any ideas will be appreciated....
A. 16 August 2010: Sounds like it went well. Good for you! Just hope she doesn't get to a place where she needs two guys to get her off :)... (read in full...)
Need advice on enhancing my bustline.
Q. I'm fifteen years old, and I am still in my 34 A's in bra size. This may not be a major problem, or something to worry about, but I just don't want my breasts to be this small, especially not at my age. Maybe I'm going through the road when everyone ...
A. 16 August 2010: Big breasts are over-rated, really. In fact you seem to have largely sensible views on this. There's every chance they'll grow to around B-cups in a couple of years, which is a lovely size to be. Even if they don't, it's essentially moot because ... (read in full...)
Dating my cousin. How judgemental will society be?
Q. Hello, I am a male and I'm dating my cousin. She is not blood related to me, but do you think that people will still judge and criticize us? I love her very much and I want to be with her. I just hope people won't judge us....
A. 16 August 2010: If she's not related by ties of bloof it isn't that big an issue.... (read in full...)
Sex was two minutes. He asked me to call the next day but no reply, is he avoiding me cause hes overly ashamed?
Q. [OP original title] Ive posted this pretty much before but there was more to it and needed an opinion. I went on a date w/ this guy.We had ALOT of sexual tension - just super attracted to each other and enjoyed each others company and it seem...
A. 16 August 2010: He may be embarassed yes, or just busy.
If it's the former you're going to have to help him get past it. And don't avoid the subject. Try telling him two minutes is just right for you or something.... (read in full...)
One guy has really fallen for me, and he just won't leave me alone!
Q. I have a boyfriend...but um, this guy "Drew" has fallen hard for me. Driving down to just see me as much as possible when he's broke and forced to sleep in his car, I've never asked him to, he claims hes here to see my city but then beeegs to hang ...
A. 16 August 2010: Be firm but kind and tell him you're not romantically interested in him and that you will no longer communicate with him if he continues to expect similar feelings from your side. If he doesn't desist, act on the threat and cut him off. Sometimes ... (read in full...)
Girls, how often do you think about sex?
Q. I was talking to a male friend the other day. We were talking about sex and he mentioned to me how men think about sex practically all day. He asked me whether women think about sex and I said yes. He asked me how often. I told him I didn't know, ...
A. 16 August 2010: Pretty much anything remotely suggestive of a penis or semen has me wishing I was engaged in giving a blowjob. Like right now.
Does that answer your question?... (read in full...)
Why did she pick on me all night?
Q. I've been dating a girl for a short while and we seem to like each other. However, the other day we were hanging out with her friends and they found it necessary to tease me and pick on me all night. When I got offended apparently I was being a bad ...
A. 16 August 2010: Sounds like she doesn't feel for you too strongly, mate. Unless you're OK with a relationship where all the power is on one side, get out.... (read in full...)
20 minutes of sex was all he wanted?
Q. Opinions needed. I am a little disturbed the last week because of what happened. Just a little about myself before i tell you the story. I got married very young, it was a short lived marriage that ended up w/a child who i had to bring up basical...
A. 16 August 2010: Some men think the pleasure of the hunt is over with the kill. They're generally wrong, 'thank you' sex can be so wonderful.
Anyway, why don't you try to approach him? Few men say no to a straightforward bootycall.... (read in full...)
"You're mine!"
Q. the last few nights that i've been sleeping with my boyfriend, and while im half asleep he'll say to me "youre mine". is it normal for guys to say that? he can be quite insecure and needy at times and today we were out and there were a lot of guys ...
A. 16 August 2010: Last time a guy said that within my hearing I replied "only until morning". Yes, he's a little insecure no doubt, but that's not really a bad thing if you're looking for a relastionship. Keeps 'em on their toes.... (read in full...)
Trimming or shaving down there? What is the best thing for a man to do?
Q. Hi everyone, do u guys shave or trim ur penis hair? If u guys do, then which way do u guys prefer to do? Do girl like a clean or hairy penis? Is that ok for men to buy the hair remove products? Is that too gay if men use them?...
A. 16 August 2010: Personally I'm not into complete smooth shaven because they tend to become a prickly stubble. Use a pair of scissors to keep a trim, doesn't have to be cut too short, just has to be enough that your penis is visible even when completely flaccid.... (read in full...)
She gave him a hand job but said it wasn't cheating
Q. I have been married for eight years now, recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was stay...
A. 15 August 2010: Well, I would call it cheating if I was married, but your mileage may vary. I mean I'd be the first to help out a guy in need with a friendly handjob, but I'd definitely ask my significant other (if I had one) first.
Are you sure you don't ac... (read in full...)
I get the feeling he doesn't love me
Q. ok..this guy say s that he loves me..like really crazy about me..but i dont understand..he never does nething to make me feel tht he likes me other than saying so... He goes on calling me on the phone non-stop..with out really being concerne...
A. 15 August 2010: Sounds like a self-loving egotist from what you've said, but we don't have much to go on.... (read in full...)
Some tips for entertaining a married older man
Q. I'm 18, and have been seeing a 42 year old man. He is married with kids. It all started when I spent the whole night working with him on his truck that broke down. He's a mechanic witch is what I would like to be when I'm finnished highschool. A...
A. 15 August 2010: I'm sorry darling but it does sound like the man is using you. Married men are best avoided - trust me, I have the scars (thankfully mental) to know. Even when they tell you they're a step away from divorce, they're best avoided. Now it's not a ... (read in full...)
If he cums in my mouth I feel sick the next day.
Q. me and boyfriend sometimes have oral sex. when he cums in my mouth the next day my body always hurts or my stomache hurts. why is that? ...
A. 15 August 2010: a) If that's your real age you should not be giving blowjobs.
b) If you find it doesn't agree with you, don't swallow
c) If you really want to swallow you're going to have to learn to love it, like I do. Look forward to it as something you want in ... (read in full...)
I agreed to help her financially, but she'll leave me if I stop.
Q. Hi I have met a girl online and we chat for about 3 weeks and she came to find me in my country. We met up and hit it quite well and she asked me to be her boyfriend which I agreed that we should try out. During this period of time, she told...
A. 15 August 2010: She's playing you for a chump. Get out before it's too late. Sorry to be blunt, but that's the facts.... (read in full...)
I've been with 40 sexual partners, how can we get past this?
Q. My partner 25 and i 23 have been together for a year, i have been with 40 sexual partners and he has only been with me we have always stuggled with this and seems to be getting worse the closer we get has anyone got some advice on how we can get ...
A. 15 August 2010: Normally its the male in these relationships who posts the question out here, you know...the "my GF has slept with X number of men before me boo hoo hoo".
From your side you can only keep re-assuring him that he's the only one who means anything... (read in full...)
How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 13 August 2010: "Too many" is always going to be subjective. I'd been with two men by the time I was 18. One was a classmate I was crazy about and who used me, the other was the school gardener who must've been thrice my age. These are the only two sexual partners ... (read in full...)
Do white guys like to date black girls?
Q. hi. i have a question. im a beautiful black 16 year old girl. and ive always been attracted to older white guys, well... white guys period. im very sweet and i luv to smile. do u think a white guy would ever date me Because i heard white men dont ...
A. 13 August 2010: Oh a lot of them do, I can assure you that. It's more important that you find the 'right' guy who cares for you and loves you. If he's white (and he well might be), great.
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Is 4.5 in length & 4.5 in girth too small to satisfy females?
Q. Guys and Gals I need your opinion. I'm Bi and really attracted to females but only have had sex with males. All the male mates tell me that my size is perfect but we engage in anal sex so smaller sizes are probably better anyways. I really want ...
A. 13 August 2010: It's quite fine. What you can do with it is more important than the size anyway :)... (read in full...)
Please help me validate my anxiety!
Q. Ok, please help me put my mind at rest, or validate my anxiety! My boyfriend and I are not having sex but we do give each other handjobs. I've heard that it is possible to get pregnant from this if he has cum on his hands etc and I am very neurotic ...
A. 13 August 2010: What you've described is really unlikely to result in a pregnancy, and further if you're on the pill the chances are pretty much Nil. Get a test though, should put your mind at rest.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and best friend don't get along!
Q. My best friend since kindergarden doesnt like my fiance. I've tried and tried to have them get along. She always finds some reason not to like something he does or says. He is one of the most sweetest guys I have ever dated. I dont know if I should ...
A. 13 August 2010: It's not unusual for friends to feel jealous when one of them finds a signifiant other. Try to give her some time as well; though eventually she should adjust to the changed circumstances over time. It's really unlikely to be a genuine dislike for ... (read in full...)
Is this considered incest?
Q. [Mod Note - OP's own title] I recently visited my cousin during my vacation in LA. She's my first cousin and she's a very attractive girl. We're both also 29 years old. While we were hanging out I asked her about the night clubs in LA. She said...
A. 11 August 2010: It's not incest...yet, and wht you felt was inevitable in the circumstances, but this girl sounds like trouble.... (read in full...)
Is my penis too big? WIll it ever stop growing?
Q. Why is my penis so big? so i am only 14 years old and my penis is already 7 inches when erect i wanted to know if it has stopped growing because it can be really embarrasing sometimes i dont think i could cope with anything bigger and because im ...
A. 11 August 2010: Well if it stops at 7 inches you have a lovely size! If it gets larger, you're going to be the envy of other men. Relax, darling :)
At your age I'm told random erections are fairly common. Used to see them in boys when I was in school too, tho... (read in full...)
Addicted to masturbation and it's hurting my girlfriend. What can I do?
Q. Hello fellow peers, my alias is dimario, and I am a 20 year old well to do male with a beautiful girl friend whom I have been with since I was 16. But! There is a problem, since I was a teenager ofcourse I masturbated, and that seemed quite okay at ...
A. 11 August 2010: Hmm...Portnoy's complaint? You aren't the only person to be addicted to masturbation, y'know. But you seem like a decent guy who really feels for his girl, and that must be a good starting point, right?
It's going to be a difficult task getting ... (read in full...)
Is this a common fetish and should I be worried?
Q. I am a 23 year old wife and mother of 3 and my husband has just told me that he has a fetish for shemale's. We have been together for six years and married for 5 and since the begining of our relationship I have always known that my husband was ...
A. 11 August 2010: Always glad to help :)
I assume you're thinking about using a strap-on? Should be fun! Enjoy. ... (read in full...)
How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?
Q. How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?...
A. 11 August 2010: 7.3, eh? So they did get a rulebook out? So how many times over am I a whore? Hmm...where's that calculator? ;)
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Has anyone ever vomited whilst giving a blow job?
Q. [Mod Note: OPs own title] I give my boyfriend oral sex almost every day and I love doing it it turns me on a lot, but last night I got carried away with it I went wild and then out of no where I gagged and suddenly vomited all over him. I was mort...
A. 11 August 2010: I've retched a few times when I was just starting out (was about 15 at the time so we're talking about ten years ago). But as I had more experience I've managed to keep the gagging to a minimum.
Nothing to stress about. Laugh, rather.... (read in full...)
Is this a common fetish and should I be worried?
Q. I am a 23 year old wife and mother of 3 and my husband has just told me that he has a fetish for shemale's. We have been together for six years and married for 5 and since the begining of our relationship I have always known that my husband was ...
A. 11 August 2010: It's a very common fetish. Whether you should be worried or not STILL depends on the probability of his acting on his attraction. Most likely it will stop at surfing shemale porn on the web, which I suppose is something you can deal with. If it ... (read in full...)
Is my baby's father my husband or my boyfriend?
Q. I am married but I had sex with my boyfriend on march 27,2010 and on april 26,2010 i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant is my baby for my boyfriend? I didnt have sex with my husband until the april 30,2010. Can you please help me....
A. 11 August 2010: No one here can help you. A DNA test can. Eventually, I suppose a court of law will decide who actually gets to keep the baby.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to believe that sex outside of marriage is immoral?
Q. I am still a virgin at 34 due to mostly my own religious convictions. I believe it is immoral to have sex outside of marriage. I feel like a freak due to this fact. I hope that nobody knows since only the ones closest to me know about it. Am I wrong ...
A. 11 August 2010: How can any belief related to morality be right or wrong answer when morality itself is relative? If you're looking for an affirmation of your belief that sex outside marraige is wrong, you won't get it from me. BUT I will definitely endorse and ... (read in full...)
How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?
Q. How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?...
A. 11 August 2010: There's no rulebook on that sort of thing. Depends on who's calling you a whore, besides. Three before you're 16 is a little careless, though. Reputations shatter very easily when you're young.... (read in full...)
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