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| | *abrielle Stoker's profile:Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life. |
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Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 8 February 2011: I fear that all the work you've put in has been largely in the nature of a grave you'll sink into eventually.
I hope it works out for all three of you eventually, but I wouldn't count on it. Still, all the best. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get a sore jaw after giving bf oral?
Q. is it normal to very quickly get a sore jaw after giving my bf oral and will it go away in time? its often too painful to continue for any length of time...
A. 28 January 2011: Totally normal. The trick is to know how much hand to use.... (read in full...)
Why do men in porn films last so long?
Q. What do the men in sex movies do for them to keep long during sex(about an hour) before they cum? Are they real people like us?...
A. 28 January 2011: Having actually 'been there', as it were, I can tell you that while some guys actually do last fairly long, most resort to viagra (and similar medication). There's also considerable use of clever camera editing. It's not fun, really.... (read in full...)
Does it matter that I'm black?
Q. I'm 14 and on the ending stretch of my 8th grade year. I really like this girl and she is really nice to me and I Am nice back. I was thinking about asking her out but I'm black and she's white. I don't have a problem with white people all of my ...
A. 28 January 2011: It's never mattered to me, thats for sure :)
You won't know until you ask. And if she isn't interested, it's her loss. Move on. Most girls I've known are color-neutral.... (read in full...)
Big decision, do I sell my soul?
Q. im 21 years old and have found myself in a really terrible financial situation. I don't feel like explaining the whole story but I made some bad choices on who to trust. The only immediate job that is paying good is doing massages. Call me naive but ...
A. 25 January 2011: If you have principles you should stick to them. Do not do anything you would not be comfortable with or regret later. ... (read in full...)
Concerned about my boyfriend watching one particular porn star daily!
Q. Hello all, please let me know if I should be concecrned here. I recently found out that my boyfriend looks at porn daily. I also found out that he subscribes to one girl's porn/webcam site so all the porn he has is just of her. I have been feelin...
A. 24 January 2011: There's nothing wrong, in itself, about paying for porn, or even looking at it regularly. However when you add that it is one particular starlet only and that he seems to spend ALL his time only looking at her - that's unhealthy. Definitely ... (read in full...)
Is she just saying I'm big to make me feel better?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for a good while now, and we plan on getting married before we ever have sex, I'm a virgin and she says she's a virgin too, my penis is 5 1/2 inches long and she says that huge..but what if she's just saying ...
A. 24 January 2011: To a virgin, five and a half will seem big. Even for more experiences women, that size is very pleasurable and for some, bigger dicks might actually be difficult to take anyway.
She seems to love you for what you are. Count your blessing... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to think of my girlfriend when masturbating?
Q. should i masterbate thinking about my girlfriend? i have just started dating her but i had a crush on her for years? i kind of feel bad thinking of her in such a way ?help please........
A. 20 January 2011: While I am not privy to your fantasies about your girlfriend, I do have to ask - if you find it cheap and disrespectful to think about her while masturbating, how will you manage if you ever get in a situation where you engage in sexual relations ... (read in full...)
She will not even let me hold her hand. Why is she so resistant to hand holding?
Q. i have recently started dating my friend.i want to kiss her. I was just talking to her on the phone with her and jokingly i just said that i'll tickle her. She said that she won't even let me touch her. Whenever i'm with her she hasn't even held...
A. 20 January 2011: Are you sure you two are dating?
Maybe if you were trying to be affectionate in a public place, she was not comfortable with the situation. That said, a statement that she won't even let you touch her is very un-girlfriend-like. Or is she just... (read in full...)
Advice for a guy that can't stand his little sister's boyfriend?
Q. I've been at a crossroads attempting to either force myself to like the guy or give up and pray my sister breaks up with him. I am not sure how long the questions usually are on this site, but if you have time for a back story, stick around! This...
A. 19 January 2011: If your sister is old enough to make her own decisions (and I'm assuming that she's old enough to vote, so she is) then there is little you can do beyond advise her. YOu aren't required to accept him if you genuinely do not think he is good enough ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 11 January 2011: You've played them both this long, haven't you? And now that the chickens are coming home to roost, I suppose there's a problem.
@chigirl puts out a lot of sound home truths, I'd suggest you read her post twice over.
I'd suggest you come... (read in full...)
Is a threesome a good idea if my boyfriend suggests it?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. He has expressed how he enjoys watching me masturbate with a dildo. He has recently discussed with me how he would enjoy watching me have sex with another man. I just dont want this to ruin our ...
A. 11 January 2011: It often ruins a relationship. Threesomes are only really enjoyable when there are no strings attached whatsover.
That said, your boyfriend is coming across as rather manipulative, and what with the age gap, I wonder if he isn't using you to f... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to lose weight!
Q. Help! My boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I think I'm pretty hot though, and not overweight at all. I am 5'6 and weigh 132 lbs. His problem is, I've gained weight since we've been together. When we first met, I was a professional dancer and ...
A. 7 January 2011: If he's fussing for 7 pounds, that's a red flag right there. It's a very reasonable weight (closer to slender than average, I'd guess). Such behavior is...less than ideal, to say the least.
You shouldn't have to put up with it if you don't wa... (read in full...)
Is he cheating?
Q. Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit now, but i've found that our sex life has taken a downfall. we only have sex once every 2 to 3 weeks and his penis is always dirty. His excuse is that he masterbates in the shower and didn'...
A. 7 January 2011: Cheating or no cheating, dirty penis = avoid at all costs.... (read in full...)
Do guys like their hair being played with?
Q. Do guys like to have there hair played with? Not just when kissing...
A. 7 January 2011: I've know a lot who didn't actually. The best way to find out is to do it and check his reaction.... (read in full...)
My fiance is into sheMale porn and has listed himself as bisexual on a dating site. I want him to be faithful and honest to me
Q. My fiance is into porn like just about every other normal Joe out there. I have no problem with this. I have no problem with him viewing the occasional she-male porn either. I get that some guys just need to look at different things. However, ...
A. 6 January 2011: Ordinarily speaking, I'd be inclined to say 'It's a passing phase' and let it go. After all, liking shemale porn isn't unusual.
The issue here of course is that it seems to have gone a lot further than that. Dating sites, an alleged homosexu... (read in full...)
Is this all normal behavior during sex?
Q. Im in a new relationship and recently had sex with this man for the first time, during the act he spoke out about what he was seeing ie youve opened your legs wide for me, he shouted out on 3 occasions while looking away "fuckoff" as if to someone ...
A. 4 January 2011: Not normal. Huge red flag.... (read in full...)
I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves
Q. Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...
A. 4 January 2011: I would advise against it. It takes a different mindset to really be able to enjoy and accept a woman like that, and if you do not have it you're only inviting trouble for yourself.
If you weren't in any danger of falling in love with her, my ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I'm satisfying her?
Q. I've only had sex with one girl and that's currently my wife, but she has other partners before me whom she had sexual intercourse with. I'm only curious to know if the whole penis size ordeal actually came from the porn industry or if its really ...
A. 3 January 2011: My preference is for...well anything above 2.5 inches is just dandy, actually!... (read in full...)
My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?
Q. I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...
A. 3 January 2011: I wonder whether the question is bona fide actually.
Assuming it is -
a) You're too young. Dont even contemplate it.
b) Why exactly do you want your first experience to be with someone who's not even your brother's "ex" but just someone he ... (read in full...)
How do people have one-night stands or loveless sex?
Q. Hi, OK, this is gonna sound naive, but it is sincere. I am a heterosexual male in my late 30s and I do not understand one-night stands, or having sex with a stranger (like a prostitute) or someone you don't love. I mean, I understand the sex...
A. 3 January 2011: It's easy for those who can seperate 'love' from 'sex'. I can. I can seperate the pleasure of the sexual act from the pleasure of being with someone they love.
A lot of people can't - and that's probably MORE common. You're not different or abnor... (read in full...)
My crush on Taylor Swift...
Q. hi how can i convice anybody in my family to take me down to manchester to see taylor swift, she isnt playing were i live, its about a 4 hour car journey!is there any way i can convince them, this is a once in a life time thing and she is my ro...
A. 3 January 2011: Have you tried telling them you'd really really want to go? Be pro-active, do some reasearch online, figure out the fastest and least expensive way to go, stay, and come back. Check if anyone else you know is going so maybe you can share the ... (read in full...)
Does she actually think I would have a chance with a beautiful model?
Q. My gf and I were watching television the other day and an ad with this attractive model came on, she asked me, 'Would you approach her?', even though she knows I'm not the type to flirt with other women. She doesn't act like the insecure type a...
A. 3 January 2011: It's a silly question of the type that we women occassionally toss out there just to see what men say in reply. Don't pay too much attention unless she starts obsessing about it.... (read in full...)
Are there any guys that don't mind girls who just trim?
Q. Are there any guys that actually don't mind girls just trimming their pubes nowadays? I've stopped getting rid of mine now cos of the itchiness and ingrown hairs, but all my guy friends say they find pubes extremely unattractive. Is this true for ...
A. 27 December 2010: I generally trim and haven't had any complaints!... (read in full...)
Is anal Masturbation a sin?
Q. Is anal masturbation a sin? I recently found out how awesome it is, but I really want to know if it is a sin or not...help please?...
A. 24 December 2010: I think the view of your pastor (or, if you are not a Christian, the applicable religious authority) would be more relevant than what will be the personal religious views of various posters on here.... (read in full...)
My sister said she felt bad for my future children!
Q. Guys i don't know what to do. I know this will probably sound stupid but i'm really upset and confused. My sister and i got into an argument while mixing formula for our baby god-brother, who is staying with us for a little bit. She said she felt ...
A. 22 December 2010: Rather mean of your sister, but you're sort of over-reacting too. One incident doesn't mean anything. If you genuinely care for kids that's what's most important.... (read in full...)
Do we really have the same taste or is he doing it to impress me?
Q. when ever i say something i like he says i like it too for example i said i like to watch funny videos he said me too i said i like to play video games he said i love games i said my favorite food is rice he said i love rice ok so there ...
A. 22 December 2010: It's...really not possible to tell on the basis of this. Maybe he really does like the things you do (after all, a lot of people do like rice, videogames and humorous videos). Or maybe he's trying to impress you. Either way, you need to figure out ... (read in full...)
I want that inch back! Does weight affect penis size?
Q. I know this is kinda of weird question. Well like a year ago i had 9 inch penis but i was 6.5 tall and had only 160 pounds. So i started to work out and gain weight well i am 210 punds now and my body is in a pretty good shape ,but my penis seem to ...
A. 22 December 2010: Apart from the fact that 8 inches is STILL way bigger than normal, the difference is going to be on account of more flesh/muscle around your pelvic bones. Inches don't disappear like that.... (read in full...)
Why was he so quiet during oral sex?
Q. I hadn't seen my boyfriend of 11 months, in 6 days. When we met up, I thought I'd surprise him with a blow job, our first, and because I was on my heaviest day of period. I did not feel comfy with regular sex. It was amazing for me, and I hope for ...
A. 21 December 2010: Sounds like he had a LOT of fun. (I mean, cumming twice in a short span of time is impressive. PLUS you swallowed!) It reads like an 'ideal sexual situation'. Be proud ;)... (read in full...)
Do men like lingerie or women naked?
Q. So I got some realllly cute Lingerie at Victoria Secret to wear for my boyfriend the other day and I guess the thought never ran through my head but do guy's really enjoy lingerie or are most men just all for the full blown nakedness?...
A. 21 December 2010: Different strokes from different blokes, actually. But generally men do like to see pretty girls in lingerie. It does add a delicious flavor to a woman's body.... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 17 December 2010: At 22, being heart-broken can mean thinking you'll be single the rest of your life. Reality is rarely that cruel.... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 17 December 2010: That's not 'wrong', in fact that's rather right! ... (read in full...)
Can sex or my penis size ruin my relationship?
Q. Hello everyone, I just started to go out with my girlfriend, and she seems like the greatest girl in the world except for one huge problem. At times she can be very sweet and caring and there are other times where she can be very judgmental. She ...
A. 17 December 2010: The others have given some really useful advice, so I'll keep this short:
a) 5 inches is absolutely fine.
b) Cumming quickly is a massive compliment in my book, at least.
c) A good strategy if you're a regular quick cummer is to finish, use ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend to update his language and stop sounding ridiculous?
Q. Hi, I'm a freshman and I have this best friend "JP". I use slang a lot when I talk: aiight, fookie, stresst, heated, blawk, gucci, boi, fit, madd, sick, tight, etc. It just kinda rolls off my tongue jst as well as the next guy. this kind of language ...
A. 17 December 2010: The funny thing with slang is that, 'updated' or not, it does sound ridiculous anyway. Or will, soon enough. Not to sound patronizing, but you might want to think about whether you're taking too many liberties with the language yourself.
As fo... (read in full...)
I enjoy watching my boyfriend masturbate!
Q. I really enjoy watching my bf masturbate himself off. Is this weird?? ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hell no! It's very fun!... (read in full...)
What happens if a man does not have sex for a very long time?
Q. What happens if a man does not have sex or ejaculate for a long time? (I had an active sex-life up until 7 months ago, but none since, will it stop working and will i get prostate cancer?....) ...
A. 16 December 2010: Nothing so serious, but regular ejaculation is recommended.... (read in full...)
Sex with a younger guy? but not just any younger guy!
Q. My story is this: I am currently divorced from my second marriage. My first marriage was over in 2003. And I had a son and daughter and my husband had a son and daughter. So basically I had a step son and step daughter for a little ovr 6 yea...
A. 16 December 2010: I suppose it would be acceptable if real life was an extract from a 90's soap opera.
It's not. You're an adult woman entitled to make your own decisions, but I'd suggest you think a long, long time before thinking about venturing into this rel... (read in full...)
Will me being a "long stayer" cause her problems?
Q. Ok, Me and my girlfriend are gonna be moving in with each other, To make the long story short. we will be having sex a lot, and I usally last about 2-4 hours, We have had sex about 3 times and we have been together for 6 months, I just want to know ...
A. 16 December 2010: If you last that long - yes, actually. It can be painful and very tiring. Even when I participate in what certain people on here term "advanced sexual activity" the time period is limited to an hour or so. THe thing is, sex is fun, but there is ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about his blue balls!!!!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i always have foreplay without having sex because i told him i was a virgin so he sticking to his promise not to have sex with me. But when ever we are done, he always complain bitterly of having "blue - balls" to the e...
A. 16 December 2010: Oh nothing's going to actually HAPPEN to him. Don't buy that line.
Still, it would be very frustrating to say the least. You may want to think about giving him a helping hand.... (read in full...)
Do girls look at porn?
Q. Do girls look at porn? And why are girls so shy to say they "flick the bean"? ...
A. 15 December 2010: Flick the bean? Is that what they're calling it these days? Hmm...learn something new everyday.
Some girls do watch porn. A lower proportion of the population than men,I'm told, but they do exist. Some have even posted on here in the past.... (read in full...)
13 and never been kissed...
Q. Hi I need help! I am a 13 year old boy and i've never kissed a girl, i have crushes sure but i don't want to ask them out because if they decide to kiss me or something i dunno what to do or how to kiss.. i know it's sad right plz don't laugh at me. ...
A. 15 December 2010: At 13, that's a good thing. Too early, if you ask me. I had my first kiss at 15 (and I often think that was too early too).... (read in full...)
Whats better for penis size?
Q. So this may sound dumb but I'm wondering from a girls point of view. What's better for penis size, length or Gerth? Cause I'm 5.5 long and 5.75 around, so which one is more enjoyable...
A. 15 December 2010: Both are trumped by a sense of humor, but if one HAS to choose, gifth.
By the way, your present size is just yummy!... (read in full...)
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