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| | *abrielle Stoker's profile:Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life. |
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Am I attractive?
Q. i would just like to know if i am attractive. I am about to turn 16. Im 5 4 and 96 ibs. light blonde with bright green blue eyes and a 34B. people say im pretty but i just want to know other's opinion thanks. any questons about me ill answer....
A. 25 August 2010: It is impossible to determine if you're attractive based on a description of this nature. In any case, different people define prettiness very differently. Based on your description your figure appears to be decent, but it's impossible to say ... (read in full...)
I feel like I want to be single!
Q. im am so confused! i have a boyfriend of 2 years yet i feel like i want to be single! i like attension of other men and going out partying with my friends and he likes to stay in n just see his friends.. am i being selfish? or should i just ...
A. 25 August 2010: You're young and want to be single. What's keeping your from acting on that?
Of course your boyfriend has his point of view, but as long as he doesn't mind you sowing your wild oats, there should be no issue. If he does, then you need to look at ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married
Q. My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I...
A. 24 August 2010: It's a very common practice to take the husband's name all over the world. There's something bothering you that you're either not aware of yourself, or are not sharing with us.... (read in full...)
Why does he freeze when it comes to having sex?
Q. Why would a guy in his late 20's and still a virgin, not want to havesex? What does it mean when he only wants bjs?? He is a nice guy and touchy handsy but when it comes to the topic of sex and lets do it, he freezes? How to get him to relax? Thank ...
A. 23 August 2010: While the previous posters do have their points I suppose its vaguely possible he's just scared he won't be able to please you or something. ... (read in full...)
Should I lose weight for my boyfriend?
Q. I am totally in love with my boyfriend, and i know he loves me. Never would i doubt that but... I dont know if im pretty enough for him. I'm worried about my weight. I am 5'3" and weigh 106lbs. I'm not even what some people would consider chubby. ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's not unusual for boys that age to be very thin. They usually fill out in a few years. Your weight is perfectly fine.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is only happy when I eat but it makes me sad when I have to eat!
Q. I am 14 and have trouble eating! I think i am pudgy! my boyfriend tells me all the time that he loves how i look, and that im not pudgy, and anytime i see like family now, they always tell me that i look like i've gotten skinnier, and my sister is ...
A. 23 August 2010: You boyfriend and your family love you and are acting in your best interests. Do listen to them.... (read in full...)
Is a 6 inch penis big enough?
Q. Im almost 18, and i have a penis that is 6 inches, is that big enough for girls?...
A. 23 August 2010: Oh yes, very much so.... (read in full...)
Porn makes me physically sick, how can I tell my b/f?
Q. Hey well iv never watched porn before but my boyfriend wanted me to try it cause he thinks i would like it. When i watched it it made me throw up i was grossed out by it. Should i tell him i watched and it made me throw up? Is that normal to have ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's an extreme reaction, but not an abnormal one.
Of course you should tell him. It's always best to get these things outin the open as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
I hate the things my girlfriend has done in the past
Q. Hello i know this girl online and we ve been friends for like 5 years and we know like almost everything about eachother. 2 years ago we confessed to eachother that we had feelings and we got together but we still havent met ( we re plannin to meet ...
A. 23 August 2010: Whether you genuinely have feelings for her or not, your attitude smacks of hypocrisy. Nonetheless, since you haven't actually started a relationship, if these things actually bother you, you should re-valuate whether you want to be with her or not, ... (read in full...)
By your standards, how many sexual partners is too many by age 19?
Q. When I was younger, I could not get laid--could not even get a date--to save my life. I never went to any dances, never went to proms, nothing. This year, however, I lived in Africa for 3 months and when I came back to college, somehow, things ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's your life, my dear. Morality is, after all, relative, sexual morality even more so. Provided tht you are staying safe and know what you're doing, who's to object?
If it gives you any comfort, or at least a sense of solidarity, I had a simila... (read in full...)
He finished off on his own!
Q. okay so today i gave my boyfriend a handjob and a blowjob and he didn't cum, he finished it off on his own..i feel like he wasn't turned on by me.. why didn't he cum? and what are good ways to make him? or turn him on?...
A. 23 August 2010: It doesn't work for some men, it just doesn't. Difficult to say why, but that's how it works - some guys are just too used to their own hand for anyone else's to do the trick. As for cumming from the BJ only, that's not easy if you're not used to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to masturbate to other woman in relationships?
Q. Is it normal for men to masturbate to girls that they know and are attracted to while in a relationship? Do women also fantasize about other men that they know while they are in a relationship?...
A. 23 August 2010: While masturbating to porn/celebrities is fairly common and is not usually a cause for undue alarm, doing so with other people one knows blurs the line a little. I would not call it normal unless there is an understanding between the people in the ... (read in full...)
Why would anyone think this is okay?
Q. Why would anyone think that it is okay to start off a marriage with a huge lie regarding past betrayal??? I've been reading people's responses to questions regarding cheating, and am specifically perplexed that anyone would think that it is OK for ...
A. 22 August 2010: It isn't. I suspect that what a lot of aunts who go with the 'let the past be the past' line are actually getting at is that, having been in a relationship for a reasonably long period of time, the good things that have happened in the recent past ... (read in full...)
Can you get sick from oral sex?
Q. hello almal. Well, i like to think myself as the crazyest guy my girl could find, the reson for that is, i love making love with my girl, its like im addicted, my sex drive is very high seence i found her, we do al crazy stuf including ora...
A. 22 August 2010: I suppose you can, just as you can from eating anything else, especially if you don't like the taste.
But the fluids of a healthy individual would not lead to any diseases.... (read in full...)
I have difficulty ejaculating while having sex!
Q. Ok I'm a bit embarrassed about this but I need help!!!! I cannot seem to ejaculate while having sex... I can go for hours and nothing at all... This has happened with the last few girls iv slept with... But last night while I was having sex with ...
A. 20 August 2010: I don't think attractiveness of the girl is that important a factors since he says he feels like he's finished, but there is no cum.
It would be interesting to know whether you do ejaculate with masturbation though.... (read in full...)
I have difficulty ejaculating while having sex!
Q. Ok I'm a bit embarrassed about this but I need help!!!! I cannot seem to ejaculate while having sex... I can go for hours and nothing at all... This has happened with the last few girls iv slept with... But last night while I was having sex with ...
A. 20 August 2010: Please seek medical help. An andrologist would be able to guide you.... (read in full...)
Fun experiment with my girlfriend and my friend?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, and I have a subject that I don't know how to approach. My best friend recently joked that he wouldn't mind "a hand" from my girlfriend. She passed it off with a laugh, but later that day she asked ...
A. 20 August 2010: dirtball probably has it right. It's not the best idea in the world when the girl is actually your girlfriend (as opposed to a friend who happens to be a girl). Much as you will enjoy it (and she surely will, even if you don't - the feeling of two ... (read in full...)
Recently I fell in love with my best friend's wife!
Q. hi i am jon, i love my wife vary much but recently i fall in love with my best frind wife, i dont know she love me or not, but she like me, we talk many hours everyday over phone, she never disclose her fleeing about me but i indirectly infromed her ...
A. 20 August 2010: The best advice anyone can give you is to stop desiring some else's wife. If you value your marraige and your own wife, you will reduce the contact you have with this women, who probably does not regard you as anything more than a friend, and only ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?
Q. I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...
A. 19 August 2010: DO men do that? I don't know. A lot rather like cute girls. And as the previous poster says, clieched as it may sound, when it comes to long-term relationships, a good woman trumps a hot one. A hot girl is visually arresting, just as a hot guy is, ... (read in full...)
Should I visit a prostitute to lose my virginity?
Q. I'm a male virgin. I've never kissed a girl, I've never been on a date and I've never had a girlfriend. I've been told by numerous women that I'm not handsome or as some put it, ugly, even though I thought I was average looking. Guess I can appr...
A. 19 August 2010: If that's your real age you hardly have anything to worry about just yet. Don't visit a prostitute. You won't feel good about it in the long run. It will be awkward, and won't do any wonders for your self-esteem.... (read in full...)
Is 13 too young for sex?
Q. I like sex but i am only 13 years old am i too young?...
A. 19 August 2010: Yes it is.
You'll have a lot of time to be sexually active later on. You're running out of time to be a child.
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Wide hips: good or bad?
Q. I have an average body type, I'm 5'6, I'm athletic and try to keep in shape and I'm content with my body ..... Recently while getting dressed, my friend (a male) said to me that my "hips are wide" ... should I take that as a compliment or as insul...
A. 19 August 2010: Wide hips on an athletic body are most men's dream come true. In your particular case a lot depends on the context, but I'd be optimistic.... (read in full...)
Before she met me she sent a picture of herself to another guy, should I be mad at her for this?
Q. Should i be mad at my girlfriend for something she did in the past? Me and her were not together at this time but she did something that really bothers me. She sent a pic(nothing dirty) to a guy because he kept asking and asking, he kept bugging her ...
A. 19 August 2010: No you should not. It sounds like a really insignificant event.... (read in full...)
Anyone can answer this one..
Q. My queation is.. and anyone can answer this question, male or female.. i am an extremely attractive woman. i have 4 children with my husband and by looking at me you wouldnt think i even have any..i am very down to earth... i can talk to him abou...
A. 19 August 2010: My dear thing, if Ashley Cole and Peter Crouch could cheat on Cheryl Cole and Abigail Clancy respectively (I mean hell, Cheryl Cole's even hotter than me, and that's saying something), you can rest assured that attractiveness has nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
How do I make my body smaller and my boobs bigger?
Q. i am 14 and i have small boobs (38A). i am about 5'6'' and i weigh almost 200 lbs. people always make fun of my weight. and my friends talk about how my boobs are smaller than theirs. most of my friends are C's and DD's. i was wondering how i can ...
A. 19 August 2010: Well you can make you body smaller by following a balanced diet and getting plenty of fresh air and excercise. That should lead to your boobs looking bigger (don't remember who it was that said "Nothing makes breasts look bigger than a small ... (read in full...)
What can I do when my boyfriends penis is too small and cant feel him inside me?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title: hi everyone. i am a 20 year old female and i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now. i am starting to get very close to him and i love our conversation, i love all our time together, and i feel that we can go a long...
A. 19 August 2010: Sounds more like performance anxiety. How big is he when he does get erect?... (read in full...)
Morning sex. optional? or required?
Q. I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 weeks now. While I am not terribly experienced in sex and dating, I have been using this opportunity to gain a bit of insight into boys. The few nights I went back to his place I ended up leaving at 3 or 4 ...
A. 19 August 2010: A friendly blowjob to round off the experience, at the very least.... (read in full...)
I think he used me! why do boys do this?
Q. there is this boy who i really liked, ive liked him for 5months now, we snuck out, one night and we has sexual intercourse, and then the next day he ignored me and he keeps ignoring me, and i feel very used, i really love him, why do boys do that to ...
A. 19 August 2010: SOME boys do this, not all. He's either horrified by what he's done and thus scared, in which case he may come to his senses shortly, or he's a complete cad who you need to forget about as soon as possible.
At your age you shoudl also be keeping ... (read in full...)
Do you still have sexual desire whilst on your period?
Q. Do you want have sex when you are in Menstrual period? Recently,my monthly period are abnormal,I think it's something to do with it( sexual desire ).But I am not sure. Thanks for help. ...
A. 18 August 2010: I don't feel like engaging in vaginal sex at all when I'm on my periods, but I do feel the desire to engage in sexual activity all the same. ... (read in full...)
My brother walked in on me!
Q. I had bought some lingerie at victoria secrets and I was trying it on in my room and my brother happened to walk in and see me in it and made a comment. It was kinda weird. He told me I looked good in it. Is that suppose to be flattering or ...
A. 18 August 2010: I dont think asking him about it will achieve anything. If he had said what he said innocently also, this will queer the pitch.... (read in full...)
Problems with PE( premature ejaculation) please help
Q. I, 18, have been dating my girlfriend, 19, for almost 2 years. We first started having sex 7 months into our relationship. We had experiance oral sex only 5 months into out relationship. I love my girlfriend and although she doesn't find herself ...
A. 18 August 2010: Have you asked her whether she would seriously mind if you finished early? I mean honestly, I don't mind at all when a guy finds me so irresistable he's cumming within minutes. I simply ask him if he wants to take a break and have another go. ... (read in full...)
Is there phone hacking going on or does my husband have something to hide?
Q. Hi, this is going to sound really silly but I need some advice. I've been married to my husband for 7 years and we have a great relationship. We are happy, healthy, love our kids, love each other, sex is awesome and we just have a lot of fun. We've ...
A. 18 August 2010: You've answered your own question, darling. Phones aren't easy to hack and as you said, it makes no logical sense to do that.
Having said that, he may not have actually availed of the advertised services. A lot of guys do back out when it comes to... (read in full...)
I booked a 3-month trip to Jamaica while I was single. Now I'm in a relationship and I need advice. Help!
Q. I'll try to keep this short. Basically, thanks to America's lovely financial aid system loopholes I was able to spend my spring '10 semester--my 2nd semester of college--in Africa at no cost to me. In fact, I came back with $1500 more than what I ...
A. 18 August 2010: If the government is pouring my tax dollars into sending young women to exotic locations under the pretext of education, I don't see ANY reason why the beneficiaries of this largesse should not avail of the benefits.
Boyfriend or not boyfrien... (read in full...)
Husband is psychotically jealous and our married life has filled me with disgust for the world.
Q. I am 28 years old. I have only ever been with one man intimately, my husband. I met him at 20, lost my virginity to him then, and at the age of 25 I married him. I did not know psychotic jealousy until I was with him. Nor would I have even ...
A. 18 August 2010: Second the previous posters. This is hurting you more than anything else.
As for mutually using men without commitment, I've found it to be fun. Think about it.... (read in full...)
My brother walked in on me!
Q. I had bought some lingerie at victoria secrets and I was trying it on in my room and my brother happened to walk in and see me in it and made a comment. It was kinda weird. He told me I looked good in it. Is that suppose to be flattering or ...
A. 18 August 2010: Accept the compliment, move on, learn to lock your doors when undressing.... (read in full...)
Tattoos... a turn on or a turn off?
Q. Help, i find tattoo's a real turn off my gf is planning on getting one, im worried it would make me feel less attracted to her tattoo's i dont mind on other people, i keep my opinion to myself unless asked on what i think about tattoo's in g...
A. 18 August 2010: Well I have a few and haven't got any complaints. But then I haven't been looking for a LTR since I got them.
I think on guys they usually look silly (most times).... (read in full...)
Getting a blow job while asleep...
Q. Hai Everyone out there... Im really curious and excited about getting a blowjob asleep, Me and my GF have discussed it and she really would like to wake me up with a blowjob, but she asked me a question, that "If I give you a blowjob while yo...
A. 18 August 2010: I do this often. Guys do generally get an erection after a while, some sooner than others. They blur into full consciousness a few seconds before ejaculation.
You've got yourself a good girl there.... (read in full...)
I suspect my daughter's partner may be gay - what should I do?
Q. I saw my daughter's boyfriend in the back of our car holding hands with his best friend when I turned round and they immediately pulled away from each other. immediately he became narky and critical of my daughter and struggled for next few day...
A. 18 August 2010: You may want to talk to your daughter about it and suggest she get to know more about this aspect of her boyfriend's life before she commits any further.... (read in full...)
I COULD have been living my dream!!!
Q. hi I am 20,living in bangladesh. i was in a relationship with my bf who lives in new york. Had a little fight and he stopped calling me. on those lonely days i tried to divert my mind and went in to som chat rooms where i found a pilot banglade...
A. 18 August 2010: Umm...you do know that men who appear on chatrooms are often not what they claim to be in terms of their career, right?
And also that they would promise just about anything to get a girl to come on cam/phone and have cybersex with them?
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I feel a bit violated after my friend tried it on with me, but should I tell my boyfriend what happened?
Q. I have been for my bf for about 8 months he makes me very happy, but last night i went out with some friends most of them male i am quite friendly with one in particular there is alot of banter between us. I went back with him and his housemat...
A. 18 August 2010: Telling your boyfriend isn't going to do you any favours, but you may want to re-evaluate who you call your friends and your drinking habits.... (read in full...)
My husband is into BESTIALITY PORN!!
Q. Help!! I have just discovered that my husband of 30 years is into bestiality-porn!! I dont have a problem with him watching porn, which he has not lied to be about, but I have recently noticed that he has been downloading tons of disgusting images ...
A. 17 August 2010: It's illegal in some places to even have that sort of porn I believe, so it's a doubtful thing to comment on. I suppose it seems to indicate he's a little too much into porn for his own good. Generally there's no harm done as long as he's not trying ... (read in full...)
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