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| | *abrielle Stoker's profile:Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life. |
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My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?
Q. When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...
A. 3 August 2010: I'd normally advise against it if you were contemplating it but since you've gone the whole hog already I suppose the best thing to do would be to take it it's logical conclusion.
Your family may not have admitted it to themselves yet but I'm sure... (read in full...)
Do I respond to an email from a 14 year old when I'm 30?
Q. I got to work this morning to find an email that I don't know what to do with, so I'm looking for some help here. It's from a girl who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. I'll give you a little backstory. I work for a local bank. I used to manag...
A. 3 August 2010: I suppose it's an unfortunate comment on the world we live in that we have come to place where receiving an apparently innocent e-mail from a girl under the age of consent automatically leads to panic to recipient. But it has, and we just have to ... (read in full...)
I found a message on her cell phone from a guy getting straight to the point...cheating!
Q. I am a father of a one year old, and I think my girlfriend, the mother of my child, is cheating on me. Why? Because I found a text message on her phone, from some guy I've never met, that went as follows: "Do you want to f*ck?". Seems pretty ...
A. 3 August 2010: This IS pretty serious. Keep an eye on her I guess.If you're in a relationship you have a right to know...eventually you'll have to confront her.... (read in full...)
Feel sick day after giving BJ?
Q. I met up with one of my old guy friends who i havent seen inn aa longg whilee andd ii endedd upp giving him head.... And the next day i felt like i had to throw up... Is it normal.... Butt iff ii memberr rightt... The head of his penis hit the thing ...
A. 2 August 2010: If it was related to giving him head, the reaction should have been immediate, like a reflex. Haven't heard about a delayed reaction like this. Never happened to me either, and I've given a lot of head over the years.
But maybe other Aunts ca... (read in full...)
I'm too shallow to overcome her sexual past
Q. My girlfriend of 9 months has slept with lots of partners and i am finding it hard getting over it. I am 20 and she is 18. She has slept with 9 people before me. Her first was when she was 14, she's slept with someone who was 21 when she was 15,...
A. 2 August 2010: If you realise yourself that it is shallow (and those are your words), then surely it's possible for you to try and lock it out of your mind. Try to look at what you share right now and if that is worth keeping, let the past go.
It's only a step. ... (read in full...)
How do you kick an mastibation habit?
Q. I m 19 yrs guy..i started masturbating since 15 yrs of age..at tht time it was jst a fun for me,but now it had become my habit..now i masturbate once in 2 days..i have become lean and skinny..i cant control this habit..i want to get rid of this ...
A. 2 August 2010: You could try masturbating only when you really really want to. That is, instead of actively seeking out porn or chatting online to find someone so that you can masturbate, do something ELSE and if the urge to masturbate really takes over, you can ... (read in full...)
Is sex really ALL men think about? Does it ever stop?
Q. I'm in high school and everyone always goes on about how guys my age only think about sex. The other day in our summer class, a couple of my guy friends and I were talking and one mentioned that he recently realized how every time he sees a female ...
A. 2 August 2010: While it isn't possible to know what men are thinking about all the time, it's unlikely to be a very accurate generalization.
Sure, a lot of men (or women) for that matter are prone to thinking about sex a lot. And there's nothing totally unnatura... (read in full...)
Help! I am befriending my lover's wife, should I stop??
Q. I am befriending my lovers WIFE....opinions? comments? ...
A. 2 August 2010: Why are you sleeping with a married man in the first place?
Oh well, that's a broader question I guess.
If she isn't aware of the situation you are sort of doubly deceiving her. I'd desist if I were you.... (read in full...)
Do guys like toys too???
Q. Do guys EVER like vibrators on there cocks? if so where on the balls? i want to try it on my BF but he's never tried it so any advice would be great!!...
A. 31 July 2010: I haven't met any men who liked seeing toys being used on anyone but me.
Still, you'll have to ask your boyfriend what HE thinks.... (read in full...)
Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??
Q. Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?...
A. 31 July 2010: It's impossible to tell, simply because a flaccid penis is no indicator of how big a guy can get.
I remember once being with these two guys and when they removed their pants, one was bigger than most erect cocks (nearly 7 inches flaccid) and the ... (read in full...)
Had sex twice, but did not feel anything physically, why??
Q. Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes... I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I ...
A. 31 July 2010: It's difficult to really understand your exact problem. However it sounds like the Viagra might have something to do with the lack of sensation. Maybe even the lack of emotion, though that is less likely. I'm not so convinced that the "working woman ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of becoming an "escort". Any advice?
Q. hi im 16 years old and i have no qualifications as i got kicked out of school, i am considering becoming a protitute or joining a escort agency but i was just wondering can i even become an escort if i am only 16 nearly 17, i have no other income ...
A. 31 July 2010: At your age it will be illegal so please don't consider it.
There will certainly be something else you're good at. Give a shot at a job in a mall or as a waitress or something. There's got to be SOMETHING out there.
When you're 20-21, you can r... (read in full...)
He said he needs sex to feel commitment!
Q. I asked a question awhile ago and the answers I got were not the ones I was looking for, so I am going to add more detail and ask the question a little different. I have known my boyfriend for 2 years, We have been dating now for 7 months. His o...
A. 31 July 2010: Well, darling, I still don't buy his story. And you're not likely to find a lot of sensible men claiming the same as he does.
However, if you want to have sex with someone on your terms, that's your choice. It's not likely to make him fall in ... (read in full...)
How long am I meant to last during sex?
Q. Hai, I am 24M. I had sex when i was 21 and it did not lasted for more than 10mins and my gf broke up with me as she wanted to go long. since then i gave up untill a week bak i met this woman who was 35 and we met and very soon got so comfotable that ...
A. 31 July 2010: I'd get bored after the first twenty minutes or so, but if you can go for 2 hours, more power to you.
Anyway, if your post is true, it usually is difficult to get hard enough to acheive ejaculation if you keep going again and again in a short pe... (read in full...)
Will 18 year old boyfriend be in trouble if my parents approve of us dating?
Q. Hey there. soo im kindof confused.ive been looking for the answer everywhere. But im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 my parent approve of us dating im almost 16 and we wanna have a kid as crazy as it sounds but will he get charged by the stated with anyt...
A. 31 July 2010: You're only young once.
You can have kids later.
Yes, your boyfriend will almost certainly be charged with statutory.
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He says he can't love before sex!
Q. My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...
A. 30 July 2010: It sounds very very thin. cocoqueen has it right. It's a bright red flag for this relationship.... (read in full...)
How many sexual partners in your most "productive" year?
Q. A quick poll: how many sexual partners did you have your most "productive" year? I am male and had around 5-6 partners in one single year. Anyone else mind responding. My theory is that most people sexualartners are not spread out evenly but ...
A. 30 July 2010: I can tell you that in my least productive year(s) after being sexual active I had 2 partners in 3 years.... (read in full...)
Should I be a close friend to my ex or leave it and move on?
Q. well i think im falling for my ex agian. Were both 15 and was together for 11 months 2 years ago but now he says to me that he likes me a lot and would love to have a relationship with me again, but the only thing is his not ready for a long ...
A. 30 July 2010: When I was your age a guy I was completely head-over-heels in love with offered me a similar kind of proposition. For the next year-and-a-half I spent almost every free moment giving him head in every place imaginable and thinking I was the luckiest ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gags when she tries to give me head! Is there anything I can do to help her?
Q. Hello all I need your advise my girlfriend says she can't give blowjobs as she gags on my penis his 6 and a half inches and was wondering if there's owt could do to stop her gagging on him as she won't do them know more because of it Is it me am I ...
A. 30 July 2010: I'm going to assume she's a willing participant.
Well the thing is, 6.5 isn't too much, so I guess there's some adjustment required in the technique.
Are you trying to push it into her mouth, i.e. try to face-f***? If so, don't. That sort... (read in full...)
What's so good about big penises?
Q. Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...
A. 30 July 2010: I'm not sure which girls you've been talking to. Big penises are nice to suck on but I've rarely found them good for much else other than a lot of pain.
Five inches is very nice and with good technique, you should be very desirable indeed. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I had sex with someone else during the break?
Q. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years. One time when we broke up he had sex with one of his good friends and I didn't find out till 6 months later. we broke up for about 3 weeks because i said i couldnt handle it but during those 3 weeks i had ...
A. 30 July 2010: Not unless he asks you specifically.
If he does ask and you lie about it, that might come back and bite you later. In any case, you were on a break, and you haven't done anything he hasn't, so it's not like you've done anything hugely wrong.... (read in full...)
Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?
Q. I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...
A. 30 July 2010: Whichever one of them has the STD (or is a carrier) gave it to you. If you really want to fix responsibility both these guys will have to get tested.
There is NO way anybody else can possibly give you the answer to that question.... (read in full...)
When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?
Q. so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy ...
A. 30 July 2010: Sounds like just sex.
If he's good (and though I know generalizations are stupid, he should be if he's a Turk) then maybe you should be happy with what you've got?
If it's love you're looking for, then you may be barking up the wrong tree.... (read in full...)
When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?
Q. so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy ...
A. 30 July 2010: Sounds like just sex.
If he's good (and though I know generalizations are stupid, he should be if he's a Turk) then maybe you should be happy with what you've got?
If it's love you're looking for, then you may be barking up the wrong tree.... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of what might happen next after the police caught us talking to 2 underage girls, but all we did was talk!
Q. This is probably the worse place to ask for advice on this topic (No offense I appreciate all the help I've received over the years) but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend and I have two female friends (ONLY friends) that are 13 and 14. ...
A. 30 July 2010: There's nothing to worry about if you haven't actually had sex with them. That said, keep your clothes on in future. It's gentlemanly.... (read in full...)
I did so much for her, yet when I decided to stop receiving her abuse all she did was get mad at me!
Q. After college, I continued on with my education while my friend "X" had her plans not go according to the way she wanted them to. (She didn't get accepted to grad school and didn't get a high paying job she wanted.) Over time we saw less of each ...
A. 30 July 2010: Some people are petty and not worth your time. She seems to be on of them. People do change, sometimes for the worse, as they grow older.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend he is not as popular as he thinks, or let him learn a lesson?
Q. First of all, please don't think I'm like a terrible person for writing this(: Ok, my best friend (who is a guy) I mean we're like inseperable, is playing basketball this year. He tried out last year, but didn't make it. A few guys on the team gave ...
A. 30 July 2010: It's usually best to let people learn from their mistakes and be there for them if they take the lesson too hard.
He may blame you if he finds out that you knew and didn't tell him. But I think that's a risk you should take.... (read in full...)
Enjyong sex but not squirting like rest of girls
Q. OP's own title: hi, i do sex even i enjoyed it a lot we both satisfy each other but the thing is i never squirt like the way i saw on different videos n clips i want too squirt like that n even i do masturbate my self but never had that sort of lots...
A. 30 July 2010: Those 'videos' are pornography - and not even normal porn at that. Squirting appears to be a fetish these days and there is a genre of porn that caters specifically to that demographic by having the actress probably drink several litres of water ... (read in full...)
Why do I date outside of my race?
Q. Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He ...
A. 30 July 2010: Its what you like at the moment. Big deal. There was a period in my life (a short one, but still...) when I exclusively hooked up with black guys. Its probably just a phase. As long as you don't consciously exclude people of a particular race from ... (read in full...)
I'm very insecure about my penis size.
Q. lookin for advice from any ladies,iam a decent lookin guy, but my penis is 6 inches long and only 4.5 inches around.iam very insecure of it,any advice?...
A. 30 July 2010: Let me second that -
A) It doesn't matter, really.
B) Six inches is perfectly good. In fact it's just about that right size - very big ones are difficult to fit in and they hurt badly.
You really have nothing to be insecure about. In fact, ... (read in full...)
13 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...
A. 30 July 2010: At 13 you shouldn't be having a boyfriend. Algebra should be your biggest concern. And Trigonometry, if they're still teaching that.... (read in full...)
How many sexual partners in your most "productive" year?
Q. A quick poll: how many sexual partners did you have your most "productive" year? I am male and had around 5-6 partners in one single year. Anyone else mind responding. My theory is that most people sexualartners are not spread out evenly but ...
A. 30 July 2010: What you need to do is run an anonymous poll somewhere. There must be sites that allow setting up polls. Some people aren't likely to answer that question under their own names. ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to have a fantasy like this?
Q. So ive had a fantasy of hooking up with a random guy, not for sex, but for oral and stuff, and like, meeting him in a club or somewhere and doing stuff like that somewhere risque. Is it bad to have a fantasy like this? Is it unhealthy or healthy to ...
A. 30 July 2010: Nothing wrong with the fantasy. If you feel like acting it out, however, do be safe.... (read in full...)
Why did she say these things after a break-up?
Q. IF YOU DO READ THIS AND HAVE AN OPINION I THANK YOU IN ADVANCE... Ok I've been going out of mind over a girl I've wanted for 4 years maybe. We were friends for 3 three years before anything happened between. The first time she was close to an ...
A. 30 July 2010: My gut instinct says she still has feeling of some sort for you but is conflicted enough about it to not want to come out and say it yourself.
You've wanted her 4 years, maybe you should think about whether you two should give it another shot?... (read in full...)
My b/f is jealous towards my old boyfriend who passed away!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months, and we have a really good relationship, up untill a week ago. See my ex boyfriend pasted away, 16 months ago. And it has taken sometime to get over him, I have a tattoo for him, on my back. ...
A. 30 July 2010: It's difficult to handle having to compete with a ghost. He'll probably come to his senses over a period of time. Keep your grieving private and wait it out.... (read in full...)
I got a call from a woman who said my partner of 8 years was her fiancee! He said she was just playing a joke!
Q. hi im 32,ive been with my partner for eight years. he keeps saying he isnt ready for children and doesnt want to get married. just lately he hasnt been coming home and says he's worked late and is staying with a friend? a few months ago he went to ...
A. 30 July 2010: Too many red flags - unwilling to ocmmit, Albanian background and probably a fiancee sitting back in his home country waiting for him.
The question is, what are you waiting for?... (read in full...)
How can I get our relationship back to normal?
Q. I am 15 in 2 months time, and my girlfriend is 15 in about 5 months time. We have been together for a few months short of a year, but in the last few months we've been together my girlfriend has begun to be really grumpy and moody with me. I...
A. 30 July 2010: I wonder who's paying their phone bills...
It happens when a relationship reaches a certain stage. It's called fatigue. Ease off a bit - sometimes less is more.... (read in full...)
Was what he did with me considered cheating? And how can I get over the feeling of being used only for sex?
Q. Hello everyone! Soooo I have a bit of a problem... This summer was a pretty crazy one for me. I lost my virginity to my bestfriend. We didn't start dating or anything, but I didn't expect him to be talking to another girl. Throughout the summer i...
A. 29 July 2010: Yes, he's using you. Yes, he's showing an inclination to cheat on his girlfriend, though whether he has actually done it depends on how his gf defines 'cheating'. You need to stop considering this creep as your 'friend', I guess. And his gf has a ... (read in full...)
Have I found my perfect partner too young?
Q. I'm in a fantastic relationship at University. My girlfriend is as nice, attractive, good looking, healthy and trustworthy as I could hope for. There is no doubt in my mind that she is totally in love with me, she seems to be my number 1 fan, and ...
A. 29 July 2010: There's no such thing as 'too young', so if you've found the right person, that's absolutely wonderful.
Having said that, Asia is a long way from London. At your age, compromising on your career might a bigger issue that 'not getting to live it ... (read in full...)
Can I harm my unborn child if I smoke and drink around my pregnant wife?
Q. [Moderator's Note: Question edited for clarity] i drink wine regularly, my wife is pregnant, is there any effects on my unborn baby because of my drink? is there any risk of smoking and drinking wine on my child which is not come in this world? ...
A. 29 July 2010: Passive smoking can have an adverse effect on your baby's health, so you should definitely avoid that.
Regarding drinking, there's no such thing is 'passive drinking', so I guess you don't need to worry about that.... (read in full...)
I can't get an erection around women any more, am I gay?
Q. hi, im a 20 year old male and in the past two years have become concerned that i may be becoming bi sexual or even gay! it started when i used to smoke canabis alot and resulting in me giving up wich is a good thing i guess, but then the thoughts...
A. 29 July 2010: You don't really sound gay but it's more likely you have low testosterone or even erectile dysfunction (which may be a result of your former drug habit). Please consult an appropriate doctor and get yourself checked.... (read in full...)
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