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| | *abrielle Stoker's profile:Qualified to help people? Don't really know. Am in my twenties, currently working in the hospitality industry. Very open-minded on sex, probably too active for my own good. Flatter myself into thinking I'm reasonably intelligent and believe that my upbringing, difficult as it was, has given me a decent perspective on life. |
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Is it all just porn?
Q. Just wondering, are there "Real" women who like and enjoy getting cummed on her face or in her mouth? or is this all just porn?...
A. 17 March 2011: Well I know I do! Not because I like being degraded or any such thing, but just...well, because, I guess. There doesn't need to be a reason for everything, does there?
That said, most women do not and you should respect their wishes.... (read in full...)
Can someone fall in love with a hooker?
Q. Do you think that someone can really fall in love with a hooker? I have been doing this profession for over a year now and I have had few clients that I liked but this time I feel that I really have fallen in love with this guy, I can't stop think...
A. 16 March 2011: It's been known to happen...you may want to say something and find out where he stands and whether he has any feelings for you, or else things will get even more complicated. If he does not reciprocate, it would be for the best if you declined to ... (read in full...)
Six hours watching naked women?
Q. is it a problem when your man sit in front of you and watch a naked women web site for six hours...
A. 16 March 2011: I'd be the last person to object to porn-watching in normal circumstances, but 6 hours of it would be mind-numbingly boring. Sounds suspiciously obsessive. Has he shown similar addicted behavior before?... (read in full...)
13 year old boyfriend wears briefs. Does it really matter?
Q. My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these: http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html...
A. 4 March 2011: Um...your point being?
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If someone starts ignoring you., what do you do?
Q. There's this guy I met last year in April. And after we met, he asked me out a few times but I said no for 2 main reasons ; because I was still getting over my ex- boyfriend , and because I knew the guy was a bit of a flirt. But I wasn't nasty or...
A. 2 March 2011: He may or may not be deliberatly ignoring you, but I think you should stop trying to get in touch with him. He does not appear to be interested.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can cum around this girl
Q. I have a quick question about masturbation and sex. I'm still a virgin and have recently started dating a very sexual girl, i've given all I can give up to the point of sex and haven't received anything. I'm worried about not being able to cum. I c...
A. 2 March 2011: You won't know until you try. Do try to change your masturbation habits though.... (read in full...)
Is grinding with other guys considered as cheating?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I have girls night out sometimes. So here's my question: Grinding/dancing with other guys considered as cheating? I mean, i wouldn't want my bf to be upset if i dance with other guys but my gfs tell me it's fine... what are ...
A. 2 March 2011: Cheating - not at all.
Grounds for objection, arguements and potential break-up - Yes, certainly.
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Ejaculation places of interest.
Q. Ejaculation Places of Interest What does it typically mean when: men have a fantasy about cuming on a woman's breasts? Why does my husband suddenly express this same fantasy? After one year of marriage do I have reason for concern? ...
A. 2 March 2011: Oh I love it when a guy does that! Brings an interesting wrinkle to the sex act.
Very popular in porn too, maybe he's seen a scene he likes? It's not a cause for concern unless you aren't comfortable with it, really. Though I don't see why you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sense of humor.
Q. My girlfriend has mesmerizing sense of humor which can bring out something funny even of the most tense situation . Some time I feel jealous that why I can't match her sense of humor . Though, I'm proud of her having this natural gifted thing but I ...
A. 2 March 2011: Two comedians wouldn't get along anyway. Count your blessings.... (read in full...)
Insecure about the size of my penis?
Q. my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:...
A. 2 March 2011: Oh you'll do just fine. Just be sure the insecurity is actually about your penis size and not something else :)... (read in full...)
Men say I'm creepy, crazy, and a stalker...Help
Q. well my problem is the very first time i went on a date i was scared so i was very stand-off ish then i started getting attention from the wrong type of guys but i really liked the attention so i gave away my virginity to someone who was just ...
A. 2 March 2011: I'd suggest getting a job. It will make a huge difference to many things, including how you handle relationships.... (read in full...)
Should I dump her or take the risk?
Q. Hello helpers, In a nutshell, this is my first serious relationship, and I have been unhappy with certain parts of it for a long time. Yet, I don't feel like it's bad enough to end it, and I'm pessimistic about finding another girl any time so...
A. 2 March 2011: It's not about risk-taking. Relationships are not an investment portfolio. The question is whether you love her.
We all make mistakes. She has made her share, and may make more. That said, the sense I get out of your story is that she does hav... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with a married man who's now in love with me...
Q. I have been having an affair with a married man for nearly a year now, I am a single girl and this just started as a bit of fun, but in the last few months he has been telling me that he is so in love with me . He has been married for a year and a ...
A. 2 March 2011: I used to fall for that sort of thing a lot. It's always a lie you know, and definitely not a white one. I guess in a way I never even realized what I was doing until one such wife bitch-slapped me in a supermarket.
Stay away, don't even try to p... (read in full...)
Boyfriend seems possessive! Should I worry?
Q. Should I be worried that my boyfriend seems really possessive lately? Does it mean he's done something he knew he shouldn't have? When we first started dating (we have a long distance relationship while he goes to school) he seemed jealous but not ...
A. 2 March 2011: A lot of men are possessive and your boyfriend sounds like one of them. This isnt' neccessarily a deal-breaker for everyone - you have to assess your own feelings about this and make a decision.... (read in full...)
What's the difference between MFM and FMF threesomes?
Q. What's the differences between FMF threesomes and MFM threesomes? Just wondering because the first few months into dating my bf he wanted a 3some with another female, i said no and that if he wanted one then he can dump me and find 2 ladies th...
A. 26 February 2011: At the risk of sounding facetious, the main difference is in the ratio of men to women.
Most MMFs I have been in have involved the men not touching each other at all and the girl basically getting to (if, like me, she's really into it) enjoy an... (read in full...)
I like oral sex, but I do not enjoy intercourse, and I see it as a burden. How can I learn to enjoy sex?
Q. I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend just over a year now. He's the only person I've ever had sex with and I've never really enjoyed it. I enjoy oral sex, but whilst we are having intercourse I don't feel much at all and I feel as if sex is a ...
A. 25 February 2011: Is this giving oral sex or receiving it that you're talking about?... (read in full...)
I love my friends, but all they talk about is sex! How do I tell them I think they are being crude? Or should I say nothing?
Q. I have a great group of friends ranging in age from 13 to 17. I'm almost 15, so I'm in the middle, age-wise. Well what's upsetting me is that my friends are funny and great, and I love them, but every other topic is sex! Like threesom...
A. 25 February 2011: Try tuning out mentally. Playing songs in your head helps. If someone asks why you arent taking part in the conversation you can reply it's not a topic you find very interesting at that moment in time.... (read in full...)
I don't feel as desired as his ex
Q. I have been dating this great guy for about 7 months now. He is really really sweet and gentle and mature. Before we started to date, we had discussed our pasts.He said his ex looked bad and was really just a cry-baby and would keep fighting with ...
A. 24 February 2011: I'm not sure it's about you feeling desired as it is about you wanting to pretty much erase the existence of this ex from his life. It doesn't work that way. She WAS a part of his life. Under emotional co-ercion, you appear to have made him say ... (read in full...)
3 times we've had oral sex but he's only cum once. Is that normal?
Q. me and this guy have been dating 3 times we both are virgins.but we did oral sex....what matters me is that when we do this he masturbates only once. is it normal that he did ejaculate once out of 3 times having oral sex and holding each other ...
A. 23 February 2011: It is quite common for men to not be able to finish by oral sex alone. Nothing to worry about. Make good use of your hands (and breasts if you can) and things should work out better.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend says she can't perform oral sex because she has a sore throat! For 12 months???
Q. Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 yrs. However, during foreplay (or anytime) she will not perform oral sex on me. She has done on a handful of occasions in the past, and I perform oral sex on her regularly because she enjoys it, just ...
A. 23 February 2011: Personally I never let a sore throat prevent me from giving oral sex, so I'd assume she doesn't want to do it and would rather use this excuse than say it out loud. I'd suggest discussing it with her, and if she is not comfortable with it, then that ... (read in full...)
I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me
Q. Is it fair that I always do oral sex to my husband until he gets to the climax without even asking if I want him to do it to me too or have the real sex either. I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a ...
A. 23 February 2011: Well nothing can be forced you know, and if a guy won't do oral, he won't. But you do have a right to receive pleasure through normal penetration. This is an unfortunate situation. Have you thought about counselling?... (read in full...)
Is it possible to turn retroactive jealousy into a turn-on?
Q. I'm yet another guy struggling with my girlfriend's past. Please try to bear with me. I couldn't get to sleep a few weeks ago when I was at her house, so went to use her computer to surf the net for awhile. I noticed she had not logged out of he...
A. 23 February 2011: The retro jealous question has been debated Ad Infinitum on these boards so I won't re-iterate much of that. I'd suggest you look through the previous postings before you make any decisions. And 'run for the hills' is definitely NOT what I would ... (read in full...)
Can you have a threesome without sex?
Q. My girlfriend stated to me that she had a threesome in the past but didn't have intercourse with the guys. She I believe that? Also should I believe that she didn't perform oral sex on them either? ...
A. 23 February 2011: It depends on how you define 'sex'.
If the didn't have intercourse, she may have given oral or handjobs. Most people would still call that 'sex'. If she hasn't done any of these things...well what DID she do, then? I suppose theoreti... (read in full...)
Money over love?
Q. Do all men value money over love? ...
A. 23 February 2011: I'd have to say its often the other way round...
People are complicated creatures who are motivated by different factors at various points in time. I have known men who have been hopeless romantics as well as others who have been very mercenar... (read in full...)
Why will a man video his sex act with someone he is cheating with?
Q. Emergency question I accidentally came across a movie on my boyfriend's laptop, he was having sex with another another woman from what i saw i won't call it love making. I don't know if my boyfriend intentionally recorded that act but Im sure ...
A. 16 February 2011: To answer your question - men seem to get a kick out of seeing themselves having sex with a woman. FOr all you know, he's recorded himself havings sex with you as well.
If you're considering staying with this man, I hope you're ready to deal wit... (read in full...)
Poetry, do guys like it?
Q. Just a random question for the guys... What do you think about a female sending you poetry? Would you appreciate it? Or think it was strange? What if you had been hurt by someone, and they sent you a poem saying that they were sorry, what would...
A. 16 February 2011: There's two negatives to this, you know - one is that almost all amateur and a large proportion of published poetry is terrible. The other is that it can come across as very pretentious. Just a simple note should be more than enough.... (read in full...)
He ripped me off..and my best friend still talks to him! What should I do?
Q. So here is my problem: So me and my exfriend done business together. So he cheated me a stole money I invested. This business was based on trust so there is nothing I can legally do about it. This crushed me because I lost 2000$. I was going to b...
A. 10 February 2011: While that is not a nice thing to do, you have to recognize that she has a right to make her own judgement of the issue. You may want to talk to her about how this makes you feel and see if anything changes.
Besides - is there a vague chance t... (read in full...)
I want to give him a BJ, but he smells and tastes kinda funky...
Q. Hello. I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I can't, because he smells kinda bad down there. He's clean, he takes daily showers, but his penis still has some funny smell. I also tasted it once and I wanted to throw up - it was very salty. ...
A. 8 February 2011: Some guys just don't smell right. That said, some girls just can't take the smell no matter what a guy does.
Like someone else stated, are you sure that he washes his penis thoroughly when he showers? If he's uncircumcized, this includes pulling ... (read in full...)
I want sex toys but I have to ask my mom
Q. I would like to ask my mum about getting sex toys but need her to buy them since I am only 15 and can't buy online. But I have know idea how to ask her since she is not so open about these things ...
A. 8 February 2011: That would not be a good idea, I think. Awkwardness galore. Sex toys are one of those things you can live without, actually, at least for now. Just...wait till you do get financially independent.
Until then, try an unripe banana or somethin... (read in full...)
Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?
Q. There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...
A. 8 February 2011: No it does not mean that, it means you've probably been dodging bullets all this while. Please stop this high-risk behaviour immediately. If you must have sex (and you should not be), please use protection.... (read in full...)
Female Orgasm Questions
Q. Ladies, this question is obviously for you. I just have some basic questions regarding the dynamic of female gasms. Please take the time to read and answer the whole question 1. Can all women experience G-Spot orgasms? If so, do som...
A. 8 February 2011: Let's have a go at this one. After all I've had more orgasms than anyone else I know.
1. Can't speak for all women, but most do. And no,it doesn't take anything ridiculously oversized to do it. Even fingers can work, in fact.
2. No. Squirt... (read in full...)
Wondering about the appearance of semen from different men?
Q. okay so i got with a guy when i was 15 and was with him for 4 years, i lost my virginity to him and remained faithful to him, i never cheated on him and so i had only had a sex life with him, obviously when your sleeping with someone and have been ...
A. 8 February 2011: Semen IS different from man to man, and sometimes for the same man it can be different depending on his diet and how long it has been since he last ejaculated. ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 8 February 2011: I fear that all the work you've put in has been largely in the nature of a grave you'll sink into eventually.
I hope it works out for all three of you eventually, but I wouldn't count on it. Still, all the best. ... (read in full...)
Will having sex with my friend help me get over my ex?
Q. I can't get over my ex but I'm good friends with a guy who treats me like a queen and wants me to be his girlfriend and wife one day but I'm still messed up in my head about my ex. If I have sex with my good guy friend, will that make me get over my ...
A. 7 February 2011: It's far more likely that you will end up messing with his head also.
Take some time, deal with the break-up pains, and when you feel ready to enter into a new relationship, that's when you can start going out with this friend. Sex with him, if ... (read in full...)
Am I masturbating too much?
Q. I have a girlfriend as of now, but I still masturbate at least once, usually twice per day. All told, between my time with her and my own time I'm getting off about 13-16 times per week. I know that this may qualify as over-masturbation, but I'm not ...
A. 7 February 2011: At your age I don't think that's too much. Why not spend more time with the girlfriend though?... (read in full...)
Aggressive and dominating male in the bedroom - deep-seeded issues or fun fetish?
Q. Hi all, I'm a bit confused at the moment! I recently ended an 8 year relationship a few months ago and I know I am in no way ready for another. However, I have a high sex drive and it had been over six months since I had sex. Basically, again...
A. 7 February 2011: Depends on whether he's scaring you, really. Personally I don't like men who talk in that manner, but if you do like it, why not enjoy it while it lasts. It might be a red flag from a relationship point of view though. Men like that rarely make good ... (read in full...)
My "curvy" penis!!!
Q. I'm not sure how to put this question but I guess I'm curious about what women actually think of my penis. I guess I've never really was subconscious until recently. I've been sleeping with this girl lately that has started calling it curvy and ...
A. 7 February 2011: Oh I think it sounds very nice. A lot of penises are curved. They're fun :) ... (read in full...)
Geek/nerd guys?
Q. So, I've always had a thing for geek/nerd guys. There something adorable about them. When my friends talk about their perfect boyfriend,they are all about abs and stuff like that. I want a tall,skinny boyfriend that wears glasses. But,even if I find ...
A. 7 February 2011: Comic book conventions. The BEST place to find the geek boys. Be careful though, there IS such a thing as "too" geeky.... (read in full...)
Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?
Q. Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...
A. 31 January 2011: Just a couple of things to add to the very valid points the other aunts have made -
a) Most effective BJ's involve a combination of hand and mouth
b) A lot of guys can't get off from an oral BJ alone. I've given a lot of BJ's and am considered p... (read in full...)
Is there anyway I can ease the pain in my throat after I give my boyfriend oral sex?
Q. My boyfriend has been teaching me gradually how to deep throat. I really enjoy pleasuring him in that way, and I'm getting really good at pulling him in deep. The only problem? It hurts! The next day, my throat is very sore and inflamed. Unplea...
A. 31 January 2011: Ice-cream and/or chilled fruit juice helps. Don't do it all the time. Such things need to be appreciated.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get a sore jaw after giving bf oral?
Q. is it normal to very quickly get a sore jaw after giving my bf oral and will it go away in time? its often too painful to continue for any length of time...
A. 28 January 2011: Totally normal. The trick is to know how much hand to use.... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 11 January 2011: You've played them both this long, haven't you? And now that the chickens are coming home to roost, I suppose there's a problem.
@chigirl puts out a lot of sound home truths, I'd suggest you read her post twice over.
I'd suggest you come... (read in full...)
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