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His ex gf sent him a christmas card and I'm wondering...is she just keeping him strung along?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months. He lives 50 miles away, we have our own houses and we see each other every weekend and in the week. He had a girlfriend and they kind of drifted apart after three years - 3 yrs ago (she couldn't ...
A. 28 December 2006: You both need to talk about this. He needs to understand how insecure this makes you feel.
But you also need to see how confusing this must be for him to. A three year relationship is not easy to erase and it is natural that a bond has esta... (read in full...)
HAd sex and I'm worried about pregnancy. How long do I wait before having a pregnancy test?
Q. hi im 16 and i have a bf of my age we had sex at december 26 and i got my last period at december 13... we dnt use any protection so im soooo scared .... i can be pregnant??? he eyaculates out but someone says that anyways i can be pregnant.. how ...
A. 28 December 2006: Pregnancy tests are very efficient now, go to a chemist and read behind the pack, it tells you how soon test can be made from.
Always use a condom as ejaculating out is not birth control.
Safe sex is not just to stop you from getting pregnant... (read in full...)
He tells my mom what he thinks of her and he egged my step-dad's van at halloween! Why is he this way?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 7 months. I love him alot. But he gets the impression my mum and dad do not like him. There has been times that my mum and him are standing at the front door and he is telling her what he thinks of ...
A. 28 December 2006: If this guy give your mum verbal abuse and egges your step dad's van, I am not surprised they do not like him.
Your boyfriend is old enough to have some respect for older people and if he really wants to be with you, he will need to earn their resp... (read in full...)
Seeing him flirting with someone else made me realize how much I like him
Q. Hi there...okay here goes, ive posted a couple of times about a guy at work. He's 13 years older than me and married. Last christmas temptation got the better of us at a works do and we slept together. It was awkard afterwards and i think mainly ...
A. 28 December 2006: Seems to me to me that you have fallen for the wrong guy. big time!
Do not feed this ilusion that you could have have him. First of all he is married. The fact that he slept with you it does not mean that he is not happily married, just mean... (read in full...)
I am finding I have feelings for another man and I'm worried I will mess up my marriage. Help!
Q. Hi, i am married for just a few months now, my husband is such a wonderful guy, very good to me, the thing is, I have feelings towards another guy, nothing at all has happened. I really don't understand why ... i honestly don't want to be feeling ...
A. 28 December 2006: Try not to rush into a decision which you may later regret.
You must love your husband to have married him.
As you have not been married for long, perhaps you can still work this out but only by talking and lots.
For you to display feelings ... (read in full...)
She won't let me kiss her! What can I do?
Q. this girl has dinner with me everyday she even made me dinner by her she wont let me kiss her and says she just wants to be friends when i try to kiss her she shys away and says stop...
A. 27 December 2006: She may be shy or having a good reason for behaving this way. Try get her to open up to you by talking to her gently. Sounds like she is afraid, not necessarily of you but of something that is stopping her.
Tell her how much you like her and how ... (read in full...)
He wants me to get bigger boobs and blonde hair and tells me if I get fat, he will leave! What should I do?
Q. Hi my boyfriend of 5 yrs wants me to get plastic surgery for my breasts and wants me to bleach my hair. I was always happy with my breast but he says they should be bigger and higher...he also wants me to become a blonde.....which I dont think would ...
A. 26 December 2006: If you are happy with your hair and boobs, do not change.
If you get fat, as long as you are happy, the right may will love you the way you are.
But leave this control freak, false, loser, idiot, chauvinist pig.
Your other option of course... (read in full...)
I am wondering wh he takes his cell phone to the bathroom with him? Other females? Am I over-reacting?
Q. Am i being paranoid? My bf's friend was calling to see if we wanted to go eat. The the friend said he would call back. A few minutes later my b/f says i am going to the bathroom and i am taking my cell phone...i said why would you tell me that? He...
A. 26 December 2006: My ex used to take his mobile to the bathroom, to talk to his bit on the side so I have found out.
Saying that is it not proof that he is cheating but if the he whispers/texts in bathroom on the phone, he is hiding something!
Not one I would le... (read in full...)
Is he coming on strong or is he just wanting to be friendly?
Q. I have been married for four years and have made friends with my husband friends which are also married. Now over the past few years every time we meet up or go to dinner the guy in question finds a way to sit next to me, this in it self is not a ...
A. 26 December 2006: This guy is being more than friendly, he is playing with fire. Knowing that you are not available is more atractive to him.
Pushing him away is the right thing to do.
He has no respect for you or your husband. Unless he is secretly in love wit... (read in full...)
Just found out he has curiosities towards other men, how can I bring this up without letting on I read his emails!!?
Q. I have serious trust issues after several past boyfriends have cheated so i could not help myself when i checked my current partners emails. we've been together a year and a half i live with one another. What i found has really upset and confused ...
A. 26 December 2006: Does it matter if he gets angry about you reading his emails.
He is interested in Men! You cannot ever compete with that or work it out. You are not make that way!!!
Sorry to say sweatie, but wether or not you discuss this with your boyfrien... (read in full...)
Am I right to feel upset that he was masturbating in the bed next to me while I slept!!!?
Q. I woke up one night to my boyfriend masturbating in bed next to me. I feel this isnt normal for him to do this next to me while i was asleep. Am i right to feel upset or should i just let it go....
A. 26 December 2006: He probably did not want to wake you up, trying to be thoughful at the time. Guys feel horny, and like to masturbate there and then.
Personally, If I am asleep I would not enjoy being awaken mid of the night to make love. On the same token, if I... (read in full...)
We split up and I kissed another guy! So why do I feel guilty for doing that?
Q. This is going to sound strange but i recently split with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago!!! I went out last night and i ended up randomly kissing some guy in a club. I still really love my ex, and we are best friends!!! But i feel guilty ...
A. 26 December 2006: There is nothing to feel guilty about. You kissed a guy whilst you were available to do it. What is wrong with that. Do not give yourself a hardtime about it.
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm scared of his clinginess and I'm not sure if I want him...what should I do?
Q. Hi, I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but I can't be sure because I keep changing my mind if I like him or not. About a year ago he asked me out after we shared our first kiss, but I got scared that it would ruin our friendship and ...
A. 26 December 2006: be honest with him, he probably feels the same.
If you explain it as clearly as you do to us, I am sure that he will understand that you are not ready to commit and need to take things slow for a bit.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He hangs a picture of his ex up but not one of me and we've been dating for 7 years!
Q. After almost seven years of dating, boyfriend wants to hang two large pictures with one ex-wife (but not the other ex-wife)with family pictures. He has one small snapshot of he and I on a high shelf that is difficult to even see. I say this is ...
A. 26 December 2006: symbolizes that the pictures means a lot to him.
Ask him why this is so important to him.
Personally, I would not like it, not even a small one.
Move on means move on. His he in denial, or is someone else in the picture that passed away and he ... (read in full...)
I can t move on as I really do care for her as a friend... but she doesn t care! What can I do?
Q. Hello, I think i m in love with this women. She makes me all warm inside, she makes me happy whenever she s around... its undescribable. However she s mean. She expects that all guys run around her... actually they do i've made it clear to he...
A. 26 December 2006: She is using you, and enjoys the fact that you like her.
Move on for good, and only be friends with her is thats what you want, BUT on your terms and when you have another girl. She has had a chance, for 3 years! Find someone worthy of your love... (read in full...)
He puts his friendship with his ex gf..before me! Should I stay?
Q. I like this guy but he is not that atractive,he can be anoying most of the time,and his ex girlfriend is still his friend and he puts her befor me all the time,OH YEA and he is a bad kisser.I tryed talking to him about how I felt BUt he just told me ...
A. 26 December 2006: what exactly do you like about this guy, not a lot. Apart from having things in common and a laugh. Friends do that.
What exactly does he like about you, not a lot. Just to boss you around.
He does not respect you and you are better off moving o... (read in full...)
Does she fancy me? I love her - should I talk to her? confused!
Q. hi everyone i need some help there's this girl who is in my year. I know she used to fancy me in the summer, I also fancied her, and so decided to tell her not so long ago. She said she didnt fancy me, and now i can't stop thinking about her. W...
A. 26 December 2006: You need to respect her feelings, she has told you she did not fancy you. The fact that she talks to you, just means that she enjoys being your friend. Take some time away and be a friend only.
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
How do I stop taking coke before it destroys me and my family?
Q. i have a problem, i have started taking coke, not often, but i have and i love it, but i know its wrong and it would completely destroy my family if they knew... i want to stop but i dont know, its not a regular habit...
A. 26 December 2006: That is why Coke is so dangerous, it makes people feel good, which encourage people to keep using it.
If it is not a regular habit, stop now. It will become before you realise it!
Find out about FRANK for further advice and how to give up.
Be ... (read in full...)
My Mother is depressed and I'm concerned? She needs friends--How do adult single parents make friends?
Q. I am the youngest adult child of a single parent. We have a wonderfulrelationship; I'm sure I talk to her everyday and we spend many weekends at the eldest daughter's house with her family. However, I get the idea that my mother is VERY lonely and ...
A. 26 December 2006: Encourage your mother to get a hobby or join a charity to keep busy. Dont suggest it out of charity for her, I am a Leo and we like nothing more than to feel helpful to others.
Find out about local groups that need volunteers and mention to her,... (read in full...)
We split up and I'm going insane...I don't want to lose her! What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I split about a week ago. It has been incredibly hard for me. We've been talking for the past two days and I cannot tell if she's just being nice or if she still likes me. We met this afternoon to exchange X-mas presents. It was ...
A. 26 December 2006: Her body language says she cares for you but not as a boyfriend anymore. Sorry, give her the space and try to move on. She has tried to let you down gently.
It is a tough time, stay strong, time will help heal.
xxx... (read in full...)
Why can't my wife see what I see...that her father is a low-life! How do I convince her of this?
Q. I'm having major problems in my marriage with my wife because of my father-in-law. The guy is a creep. He's a playboy and loves carousing around with women of all ages. My wife on the other hand still calls him regularly and sees him regularly and ...
A. 26 December 2006: Your wife is very close with her dad, there is nothing wrong with that.
Regardless of what/how he is as a person, he is still her dad. Blood is thicker than water.
Please try to respect your wifes wishes to have her dad in her life. You cannot c... (read in full...)
I used my ex bf as a rebound and now I feel bad I used him! How do I get out of this?
Q. I dated this guy for 5 months.I decided that we werent right for eachother so we started to become friends But then I started dating this other guy who I cought cheating on me so I kicked him to the curb and I used my ex as a rebound.I know I ...
A. 26 December 2006: The kindest thing to do is to be honest with this guy. The longer you leave this, the harder it will be for all concerned.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He's in trouble with the law, he never calls or texts me unless I remind him! Is he worth it?
Q. dear cupid a boy i met at a coffee shop and he asked for my phone number which i gave it to him. he texted me and we got talking. we arreanged to meet for a drink but that night i was with a friend and so was he. then later with text messages...
A. 26 December 2006: Deep down you know the answer. No he is not worth it.
Unless you enjoy being miserable.
Move on and live your life.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my current gf who I don't love or go to my soulmate who is finally divorced?
Q. Hello, I have been living with a woman for 6 yrs now , whom , I love as a friend but thats it. She sleeps on the couch 90% of the time. We actually broke up last year for 2 months but I felt so sorry for her , because she was living in her mo...
A. 26 December 2006: If you do not take the oportunity now to be with your soulmate you may regret it forever and later resent your girlfriend for being the reason to stop you.
Friendship, guilt and resentment are not feelings worthy enough to stay with anyone. If you ... (read in full...)
I am in pain and so unhappy! I need some advice to help me through this!
Q. I'm worthless..i don't do anything..i just cause more people pain. my parents want me 2 get emancipated so i don't have 2 live off of them. i literaly don't have any friends.. i have been homeschooled all my life. i don't go anywhere. i don't have ...
A. 26 December 2006: Dear Sweetie, Sounds like you are going through a bad time. A big hug from me.
Some parents do not know how to show love. Unfortunately, you are not alone.
Wait til your parents is calm and try to talk to the one that listens better to explain ... (read in full...)
My bf is in his 30's and he's a bigtime 'Mama's Boy!" How do I deal with this?
Q. Need advise I am dating a man since for a year now. We are both in are 30's,but he is a few years younger than i.I have never ment his mother but by things mentioned she does not agree with this relationship. He is a BIG TIME mamma's boy and admi...
A. 26 December 2006: If this guy could marry his mother, he probably would.
He is in his thirties but does not thinks much about sex?
His relationship with his mother is very close, to close to be healthy, I do not believe you can have change that, no wonder he ha... (read in full...)
I fell for a woman at work and I'm married! How do I forget this woman and work on my marriage?
Q. What's the cure for love? Please help me! I'm married and I accidentally fell for another woman. (Not having any affair, and she doesn't care about me) I feel miserable. I think about her every 5 minutes or so, wishing so badly I could be with he...
A. 20 December 2006: Having feelings for another is a sympton not the cause of falling out of love with your wife.
This other woman not reciprocating just makes your subconcious curious of what could it be like, also it is fresh in your mind. Seeing her every day is a... (read in full...)
I hate his Mother! How can I make him see how evil she is?
Q. I hate, hate, HATE my future mother-in-law. On wednesday I had the day off and my fiance was at work. She phoned up to see if he was around. I can't stand her anyway plus I had things to do around the house so was trying to get away quickly. She ...
A. 20 December 2006: Dangerous ground, blood is thicker than water.
The relationship is with him not his mother.
Be supportive and try not to panic. Do not give her amunition to say that you pick on her!
Hopefully you do not have to see her very often so take it easy... (read in full...)
My bf cheated on me because he was told I cheated on him...and I didn't! What should I do?
Q. Ive been married for 5 years but split up in august, we have two kids together and so we see each other every day still. things are very complicated with the children involved and i fear losing them to my mother in-law. i know this sounds silly but ...
A. 20 December 2006: Does your boyfriend not trust you that he believes have he is told by someone else or has he used this as an excuse for his mistake?
Either way you need to work some things out.... (read in full...)
Her bf is away a lot and I slept with her! I don't know what to do...any advice?
Q. i have really let myself down, i dont know what to do, i have a friend, whos bf is away alot and i have just been dumped. we got close and i ended up sleeping with her after a night out, i really like her and she does me, but it is hurting both me ...
A. 20 December 2006: If you really like her and she you, then she must do the right thing.
It will hurt the boyfriend a lot more to be kept in the dark.
You both need to talk and discuss if your feelings are worth it.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Five days later, he contacted me after he dumped me! Why can't he just leave me alone?
Q. well the saga continues. My boyfriend of eight months who did the I love you and your perfect speech then finished with me... contacted me five days later asking how I was and then said miss you. How shitty is that why do you think he said that. Is ...
A. 20 December 2006: This guy has some issues he needs to work out himself.
Without knowing what goes through his mind.
There are two options:
Either he has a big problem and is not comfortable discussing it with you so he is running away.
Or he feels lonely and... (read in full...)
They are misuing me but what can I do...I am so lonely! What should I do?
Q. What should I do? I have bf who occassionally hits me and female friend who is very devious. She starts rumors behind my back. I am so lonely from relocating to another state I have no other friends here. I know these people are misusing me but I ...
A. 20 December 2006: Better be lonely than miserable.
What a price to pay for company!
Firstly, nobody has the right to hit you.
Secondly, a real friend should not be devious.
You are destroying your self esteem.
By moving somewhere else, you will be safe, meetin... (read in full...)
I want to have my first child when I reach 17...any advice?
Q. hi im 16 nearly 17 years old, im not in a relationship at the moment but would really love to have my first child at 17 just wanted some advice please..........
A. 20 December 2006: You are very young and you need to think about why you want a child if you are not in a relationship.
Having a child is a big responsibility.
Do you want a baby for the right reasons?... (read in full...)
Does my good friend feel anything more than friendship?
Q. Ok, I've always been useless at this so please help. As some of you may have read my current relationship is over and according to you guys is beyond repair. Good news is I'm accepting it and moving on. (By the way it wasn't down to me - I'm ...
A. 20 December 2006: Wait and see what happens.
She may like you too but needs time or being cautious. If you really like her, take it slow and que sera, sera.
Good luck!xxx... (read in full...)
Do I wait or is she just playing with me?
Q. hey. Me and this girl have recently been getting very close although she has only just finished in a realtionship. She sent me this text yesterday. "I do really like you im just not ready for a relationship yet but its nothing against you. I really ...
A. 20 December 2006: She is not playing with you. This girl is being honest and cautious as she is on rebound.
If you really like her, be supportive and giver her time until she is ready.
Do not apply pressure, just let her know you are there for her if she needs yo... (read in full...)
In the last 10 years, all my past gf's have broken up with me! Why am I failing at this?
Q. i don't know what is wrong with me. in the last 10 years (i'm 30 now) I have not had 1 serious relationship. I have had 10 "girlfriends" and I've been nice to them, I've listened to them when talking, I've done everything that a respectable ...
A. 20 December 2006: Perhaps you have not met the right one yet. Where are you meeting this women?
It might be a good idea to get some feedback as to why they break up with you.
If you are conscious of the fact that your relationships do not last long, are you tryi... (read in full...)
I'm a man in my 40's and I'm still a virgin! What is wrong with me?
Q. I'm a man in my 40's and I'm still a virgin (I know it's embarrasing). I have a good career ad I try to get to know people but people just seem to avoid me. Even my co-workers, I know I can be a typical boss and despite people thinking I am happy, ...
A. 20 December 2006: Perhaps you are trying to get to know people in the wrong places. At work is not the right idea to make friends usually.
Being a virgin just means that circumstances have not been right to get there yet.
Join a gym, social group, evening class or... (read in full...)
Instead of a peck, I kiss my ex for a few seconds on the lips! Do all friends kiss like that..is this wrong?
Q. Is it right for me and my ex to be kissing each other on the lips? Cuz we kiss when i leave but its on the lips but "we are just friends.........and its not a peck its a few sec of a kiss. Is this wrong? Cuz my parents think it is cuz we arent...
A. 20 December 2006: Friends usually kiss on the cheek.... (read in full...)
How do I fend this married guy off, in a polite way?
Q. Hi, I am a very conservative person and do not believe in relationships that cross limits before marriage....waiting for Mr right. Problem is recently an ex collague, who is a friend has been hitting on me. He is married so I refuse to acknowledge ...
A. 20 December 2006: You can try to be polite by putting your point across but if he does not respect you enough and tries his chances again, then be more assertive. He should also consider your feelings about it, not just the other way around.
Be firm if you need to a... (read in full...)
Is my husband's gay tendencies show that he's really gay? Help me out..advice needed!
Q. I am really scared and confused. My husband and I just had our one yr ann. We have a very good sex life, sometimes we watch porn. The past few months he has made more and more comments regarding other mens penises. He also has a lot of naked men ...
A. 20 December 2006: If he considers hot sex by describing gay fantasies he may be bi, regardless if he admits it to himself or not.
Watch a gay porn movie with him and see if he gets hot!
The fact that he gets angry when you try to talk about this, means that he is on... (read in full...)
After being with bad boys I found someone who treats me well. But..I found porn under his bed and I'm upset. What should I do?
Q. I am 22 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year now. I have a low self esteem because I got bullied at school (I didn't wear much make up so I guess the other girls were jealous). I had 2 boyfriends when I was at uni early on ...
A. 20 December 2006: All guys love porn, it is in their nature. If he treats you right, the fact that he keeps porn under bed should not be a threat to you (unless you uses it to get off with you).
Porn is a natural way for boys to aid their masturbation method and ... (read in full...)
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