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Are my ex and I going to be together again? Or am I kidding myself?
Q. Well this is sort of a follow up for my last question. I saw my on/off bf this weekend, we had a lovely time and he told me he was unsure that we did the right thing to "cool things off". I didn't question him any further... but now I'm all ...
A. 29 November 2006: Sorry, do not know the rest of details but sometimes relationships break up for a reason. Sounds to me that he is more curious and if he has made no attempt to get back together again, time to move on. If communication is not flowing at the same ... (read in full...)
I cry after sex from being so emotional! Any advice?
Q. hiya, i know people are going to laugh at this but, well i do like sex its just it makes me so emotional afterwards and i go into the toilet n cry, once i actually cried while we were having sex and so it took a lot of convincing to my bf that it ...
A. 29 November 2006: Have you tried to get some councilling and professional help to allow you to recover from your trauma. Issues are affecting your life because they have been supressed. Whatever help you decide to seek, please remember that your a wonderful person ... (read in full...)
We started dating 6 months after his wife died, now he tells me he doesn't love me!
Q. hi have split with my boyfirend, has been 6 weeks now. i wrote ina while ago and explained it all but to recaphe's a widower, and we started seeing eachother 6 months after his wife died.over two years we'd fallen in love ,and then as it all star...
A. 29 November 2006: Life is not fair but I am sure he did not meant to use or hurt you. Perhaps he was on rebound and grieved, found confort in your company and misundertood his true feelings.
Either way, you need to accept the harsh reality of a break up which is n... (read in full...)
I cheated, he forgave me, then believed a rumour we were having an affair so he dumped me! I want him back!
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend of 6 years 2 years ago and he found out, he got really angry but he said he would forgive me, stupidly i started talking to the guy i cheated with and we became friends, my boyfriend found out and we fought constantly about ...
A. 29 November 2006: Agree with Smeedle 100%, you need to move on with your life and accept responsibility for consequence of your actions in the past. It sounds as it it is to late.
If you cheated in the first place, something must have been wrong or lacking. Chea... (read in full...)
Didn't know he was married and now I'm 5 months pregnant by him...
Q. Ok. Well, I've contemplated writing in here, but ever heard the saying "You'll go nuts if you don't talk to someone?", yeah. Well that's me. I'm a single mom of a daughter who is 13. I got into a relationship not knowing this man was married. When I ...
A. 29 November 2006: My heart is with you. You have a lot to cope with it but try to be strong. Do it for yourself and for your baby. Rise above and forget about him and his family. You are better off without him anyway.
You are not alone, you can do this! Find... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a guy who uses me!
Q. I'm deeply in love with a guy that completely uses me. He flatters me (an unusual occurance for anyone to) non-stop until I feel safe enough with him and trust him enough to take my clothes off, on webcam. Then, he'll reluctantly talk to me and if i ...
A. 29 November 2006: Hey sister, BE STRONG and let this to carry on. It is self destructive, you self esteem will be affected and as you are vulneable by your deep feelling towards him, it makes you blind. You want to believe that flatter is real and he means it. This ... (read in full...)
He hates public affection! Is there a reason behind this feeling?
Q. I just started dating a man who informed me he does not like "public affection" I tried talking to him about it to understand it. I am very opposite and like holding hands. He does not. Or any sort of affection. Is anyone out there that can explain ...
A. 29 November 2006: If that is the way he is, you must learn to accept it as you can not force someone to change. Some men are embarassed of public affection although holding hands is quite conservative. You must prepare to accept this and respect his feelings if he ... (read in full...)
How can a woman stationed in Iraq put the spark back into phone conversations with her bf?
Q. My sister is in a serious relationship but has recently been stationed in Iraq with the Air Force. She feels her conversations with her boyfriend are running slim. How do they put the spark back into their conversations or create more things t...
A. 29 November 2006: Phone sex is an option. If you sister things ahead of phone call what to say, then conversation will flow easier. Also to remind her boyfriend of their good times together will remind them both of what fun they had and will have when they next see ... (read in full...)
He has mood swings and will turn funny on me - what might be causing them?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for over 6months we are really close and in love but every now and then he will just turn funny on me and always apoligies and says why am i still with him because he thinks hes a complete idiot for the mood changes. ...
A. 29 November 2006: He is suffering from paranoia, low self esteem and depression. I suspect that something must have happen throughout his life to make him feel this way.
Netherless, he must seek help to avoid hurting you and himself. You can help by discussing this... (read in full...)
I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?
Q. Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the ...
A. 29 November 2006: Be patient and expect that you may need to give her some time to forgive you.
The biggest challenge will be to prove to her that it will not happen again. Try and understand why you were driven to cheat in the first place and try to resolve thes... (read in full...)
We like each other, but he sleeps with other girls! Why does he do this?
Q. i really like this lad we met about 2 years ago and we speak everyday but only see each other about once a month cuase he lives about 2 hours away, and i know he really likes me 2! and we dont feel like this about anyone else! i know he can see ...
A. 29 November 2006: This is an open relationship that you have going on here, you may need to discuss some boundaries but sounds as if you always have a choice to keep it platonic. You may need to be prepared that sleeping around is part of his personality and by not ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to stop working overtime and his family would think I'm controlling if he did! Advice?
Q. hey, i had put up a question yesterday "My BF works too much and I don't feel loved!" thanks for all the replies. but the real problem is that i have spoken to him about it. ive told him everything. all he says is that he doesnt no wot to do about ...
A. 29 November 2006: If the overtime will reduce soon then things should improve when busy period is over so remember that it is not forever. Sounds to me that his father is very strict but if you boyfriend is still very young to get his own place, he must respect ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling really down and my family is not close like we once were!
Q. I feel very tired and depress today I was tempted to cry all day. I prepared a national exam very hard while I was working part time for uni last year, it caused the boy I was dating to drop me, and morevover I failed. My sister and brother are ...
A. 29 November 2006: Your sister and brother may not realize how sensitive you feel at the moment but they may think that every time you call them it is to listen to their lives.
Dont let your needs cloud your judgement. try to talk to someone else about your depr... (read in full...)
What can I do about my depression?
Q. I feel tired and like sad all over I haver even the feeling of this sadness in my bones I don not know how to cheer up any tips to get ok?...
A. 29 November 2006: Dear Astrid, remember that there are a lot of people still left in this world that care. This website is a good example.
It may be difficult for you, but you must figure out what area in your life makes you depressed and concentrate on what you ... (read in full...)
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