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I fancy this girl who has an emotional boyfriend. How can I help her without getting between them?
Q. Hey guys, um im single atm, but ive became very interested in a girl. Problem is she has a boyfriend, i have been speaking to her everyday for a few weeks now and she tells me everything. She told me that isn't exactly happy with him. He has ...
A. 23 April 2007: How many people have said in a relationship, I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU? A lot.
Any break up will have at least one broken heart. But does her boyfriend want her to stay out of pity? I do not think so.
Yes, the boyfriend would be devasted... (read in full...)
He flirted a lot with me and when I told him I liked him, he just wanted to be a 'friend'! Was he lying or what??
Q. Dear Cupid, I've got a strange situation here. At my college, I developed a crush on this guy, who i think likes me back and couldn't admit the truth! He was South American, which didnt help, but he'd flirt, touch me on my arms, (stroked my sho...
A. 23 April 2007: It is so hard to accept that some people can flirt so well that they could almost seduce an angel.
But it does happen. Unfortunately, this guy did not meant the sweat words or gestures. It is all part of a game to get what they want. to them they... (read in full...)
I'm tired of my boyfriend's ex-wife's stuff lying around, including old condom wrappers. What can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, My bf and I had a huge row this weekend. We've been dating for a year and he's recently asked me to move in with him. I accepted and we were in the process of making room in his house for all my stuff. The problem is, his ex-wife'...
A. 23 April 2007: He may not understand how much it bothers you and be more laid back about it all.
But as it bothers you more, you need to take action into your hands.
It is not a good start to start having rows once you move in together.
I am not suggesting t... (read in full...)
I'm friends with the girl who is cheating on her boyfriend, whom is also my friend. What can I do?
Q. I have a friend. Shes been with her boyfriend for five years. She has cheated on him a few times before(im talking more than a kiss). Recently shes been seeing a guy behind his back for the last three months. She has no intention of breaking up with ...
A. 23 April 2007: Agree with Dr Pete
If you were in the "boyfriend" shoes you would want to know.
Regardless to whom you are more loyal to, you are not part of their relationship.
Yes the boyfriend should find out the truth but it is not your role to tell him. T... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose our friendship, but I have fallen for my good female friend.
Q. i have a very good female friend. i like her so much. she is shy, and hasn't been in relationship for years due to it. it's come to a point where i'm thinkin about her all the time! i want to know if she would consider dating me? how can i do t...
A. 23 April 2007: I agree with Kenny, go with the gentle approach.
Be subtle and take things slow, the eye contact and light arm/hand touches are good tips.
If she looks back at you like regular eye contact for about 5 seconds (do not look at the watch) and smiles b... (read in full...)
He says he is starting to fall for me but thinks we shouldn't see each other as much because of this...
Q. Hi I've met a really nice guy who I've been seeing for the past two months. He has said he dosnt want to get into anything serious but we have spent alot of time together and my feelings for him are strong. He has said he is starting to fall ...
A. 23 April 2007: I would be very careful with spending time with this guy. He may not be ready for a relationship, due to be hurt in the past, scared of commitment or just happy being on his own. Either way, the important thing here is that he is not ready.
H... (read in full...)
He has just revealed that he is seriously in debt and I'm not sure what to do.
Q. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months after meeting on a dating site. We're both taking things slow as we've both been hurt before. He has just revealed that he is seriously in debt and I'm not sure what to do. Half of me wants to run as I can't ...
A. 23 April 2007: Jivegirl
I understand your caution for not wanting to be involved in a financial crisis. But you are not in debt, it is your boyfriend who is in debt. Therefore his responsibility to clear it.
This guy has been honest to admit something very per... (read in full...)
My boyfriends is touching me more than I want him to, What should I do ?
Q. Hi!Well I have a really bad problem.well my boyfriend is really sweet and everything and I do luv him but the other day we were snogging like we always do and he tried 2 go a little further and I didn't want 2 go further he tried undressing me and ...
A. 17 April 2007: Tell your boyfriend to slow down as you are not comfortable with things moving so fast.
If he is not happy with this, he is not worth keeping.
It is your call, you should have as much control over this relationship as he does.
Do not let anyone p... (read in full...)
She thinks were dating, were not, how do I tell her I just want to be friends!?
Q. i just went out with a friend on a date. i wasnt sure if i liked her or not and as the date went on i didnt. i thought i made it pretty clear that i just wanted to be friends, but now she thinks we are dating. i want to let her down easy because she ...
A. 16 April 2007: The kindest thing to do is to put this girl out of her misery and tell her as soon as possible so that she does not get her hopes up any more than already has.
The longer you leave it, the more painful it will be for her.
Should not go out with any... (read in full...)
Will my ex realise that the new guy in her life is a player and will hurt her?
Q. I have just come out of a relationship with a lovely girl. She said it was because of her job, but then she told me she was seeing someone else, who is known as a player (testified to me by many people). They had been friends for 6 months before ...
A. 5 April 2007: Just be as supportive as you can, be there for her as a friend. She will let you know what happened when she is ready.
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
With this measurements would you say Im fat ?
Q. Am i fat? I'm 5'7''. My Bust- is 34 My Waist is 27 My Hips- 38 My inside leg- 21 ...
A. 3 April 2007: No you are not fat but why do ask the question if you are going to ignore the answers anyway?
I bet it does not matter how many comments you get saying you are not fat, it will not change the way you think about yourself.
I was annorexic up until... (read in full...)
My friend is confusing me alot, does she like me romantically or not!?
Q. I have this friend who confuses me all the time, I really don't know how she feels, but as she is a friend don't wanna risk that either. We get on well and talk a lot bout personal issues she mainly talks I listen!!! The thing is I feel I am gett...
A. 3 April 2007: She gave you a hug, you kissed her on the lips, she did not stop you???
Of course she likes you!
Get the courage and talk to her. No, you have not missed your chance.
Unless you tell her how you feel, how else will you know where you stand.
Do... (read in full...)
Are my concerns and questions about a potential, future gf, counter-productive to my recovery from the ex gf?
Q. I am just getting into recovery from a break-up. The wound still pretty fresh and it's hard. It's hard because mostly the bond that existed between us and the connection were perfect. We were a perfect match but couldn't make it work right now beca...
A. 3 April 2007: If she feels as much passion as you, no external obstacles in the world will keep you apart, not for long anyway.
Depending what is at stake, you must have a reason to still have hope. Perhaps this woman feels the same for you but she is not avai... (read in full...)
How do I accept the difference between men and women ?
Q. I have fallen in to this vicious circle that prevents me from relating with women. I generally judge them first and most of the times, i realize that i could not trust them. As i cannot trust them, i keep judging them to the extent of demeaning them ...
A. 30 March 2007: What you need to realize is that just because you have met some wowen who were not worthy of your trust is does not mean that they are all like that.
You cannot punish all for the mistake of just a few.
Regardless if it is a man or a woman, t... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to help a girl with a broken heart ?
Q. whats the best way to help a gurl with a broken heart?...
A. 30 March 2007: That depends who broke her heart. If it is you, then the best and kindest thing you can do for her is to stay away. This will allow her to move on quicker without the constant reminder of why her heart hurts.
If you are a caring friend, just let... (read in full...)
What colour should healthy sperm be?
Q. Just wondering if anyone knows what colour cum is supposed to be. Since I've always known my cum has always been a creamy white colour, but recently I've noticed sometimes my cum can have a more yellowy colour to it..is this normal? I was thinking ...
A. 18 March 2007: Agree with Realm, check with your doctor.
Also your diet may affect the colour of your sperm.
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
I am a girl and I orgasm really quickly, do boys like that?
Q. Am I normal? I'm a virgin and I'm not rushing into sex with my boyfriend any time soon but we have taken it for hand jobs and fingering and when he fingers me he only does it for a little while and I orgasm straight away, is it normal to orgasm i...
A. 18 March 2007: Men will like the fact they can satisfy you and not get "nacked" before they orgasm.
It is a turn on for men to make you reach clitoral orgasm without penetration.
As you orgasm quickly it will be good for you because you can feel ectacsy even if ... (read in full...)
Why do I always take it to heart when something bad happens to someone?
Q. Why do I take it to my heart when something bad has happened to someone, like say a broken relationship due to sex or some other problem. I feel as if it is also going to happen to me some day and I have to think about it beforehand. So majority of ...
A. 17 March 2007: You need to take the risk like the rest of us.
No matter how careful you are, life will still present challenges to you. That is a fact.
If you stop yourself from living, you will become a shadow, a wannabe and regret it the rest of your life. D... (read in full...)
If I just say "no' to a girl who likes me, would that be too spiteful?
Q. If a girl fancies you and comes onto you and you don't like/fancy her, can you just say NO!! or would she say i'm spiteful? I find it hard to say no. Thanks for any help....
A. 16 March 2007: You should be honest. If you do not fancy a woman, she will respect you more for being upfront rather than give false hope or feel pity, the truth always comes out.
Good luck
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with a married woman from work. Is anyone else in a situation similar and if so, how do you deal with the guilt?
Q. I have been having an affair for 4 years with a married woman at work, We meet up about once every 4 weeks. We are very careful but each time I feel guilty but can't stop as the physical side is good. I'd really like to know if anyone else is i...
A. 16 March 2007: Of course the physical side is good, you keep it fresh and exciting every four weeks.
Regularity does not matter in terms of guilt, you are still doing wrong.
Leave her alone, she is married. If she does not want to be married anymore (clearly... (read in full...)
What would YOU do in my position????
Q. I had a funny feeling at lunch time earlier in the week and went home at lunch to see what was going on there. My boyfriend is not working as he quit his job and he is "off the chain" as they say.... I found him and two other people, a friend...
A. 16 March 2007: Get rid of him. He is taking advantage of you financially and emotionally. You deserve better.
Find someone who better appreciates you. He is not worth your time and he is taking you for a fool.
Be strong, stand your ground and move on with you... (read in full...)
How can I begin to tell my girlfriend what I've done?
Q. I feel terrible, so, so terrible. Last night for some stupid reason, I made out with a mutual friend of mine and my girlfriend. We didn't take it to the sex level, more like a behind the bleachers make out. Not that that changes anything or how I ...
A. 16 March 2007: You should tell her the truth. If the situation was the other way around, would you not want to know?
Honesty is the best policy.
Something is not right for you to allow this to happen, what is if it happens again?
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
I love him so much but he only likes me as a friend!
Q. hi, well this year and last year i have been unbleivably in love with a guy called richard and i never actually told him and i thought there was no way anythin was gonna happen between me and him and i tried for 5 months to get over him but it didnt ...
A. 13 March 2007: There is no easy way of getting him out of your head. It really hurts when your feelings are not returned.
He was honest with you and told you that he only likes you as a friend. You cannot force someone to fancy you.
Stay away for a while, try... (read in full...)
Was this guy's attention more than just harmless flirting?
Q. I was hanging out with one of my guy friends today in a small group and he was doing little flirtatious things like blowing in my ear, playing with my hair, and making one small sexual gesture to me while also trying to get my attention out of ...
A. 13 March 2007: Try not to read to much into it. A player will do this to 90% of women in the room, in his mind just for fun!
Watch him again how he looks/reacts at other girls when he does not know you are looking.
If he acts the same way then there is your ans... (read in full...)
Straight to the point or round the houses?
Q. What is a better way of getting laid with someone: playing mind games or asking out straight away?...
A. 13 March 2007: If you really liked someone, How would you feel if they had played mind games with you?
It messes with your mind and they could be having fun!At your expense.
Playing games is not cool. If you meet someone that just wants sex with you, tell the... (read in full...)
I have a tape recording of my husband having sex with the girl next door. Can I clear the noise up for clarity?
Q. I got a tape recording of my husband and the girl next door doing it, I show it him and he said he dose not no what it is there is a lot of white nosie in it I just want to know it there is anything I can do to clean it up there it a lot more on it ...
A. 11 March 2007: With white or black noise, it should be clear enough.
Why would you want to hear the details? This may hurt you even more.
Your husband should have just come clean but he hasn't unfortunately.
You should have sufficient proof that he was not f... (read in full...)
Should I take the plunge with my friend ? the Sexual tension is mounting, but would this ruin it ?
Q. A dear friend of mine have this unspoken thing for oneanother. I dont want to ruin our friendship but i have had a serious crush on her for a long time now and its apparent she does too. So much so our friendship is boarderline awkward as a result ...
A. 11 March 2007: If you both like each other then go for it.
You may regret it the rest of your life if you don't.
How to do it, simple. Ask her out and tell her how you feel.
Good luck
Angel of Love ... (read in full...)
Why do I cum and orgasm straight away when I'm on top?
Q. Why do i cum and orgasm straight away when i am on top of my boyfriend but it takes ages when i'm not on top? any ideas why?...
A. 9 March 2007: Everyone is different.
I do not reach orgasm in all positions but the secret is to know how to make the most of it.
Why not invest in more foreplay before penetration or go on top first for a few minutes then go into another position, by the time... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfried suddenly want me to make the first moves before we can have sex?
Q. Why does my boyfried suddenly want me to make the first moves before we can have sex?...
A. 9 March 2007: Not sure how long have you two been together but he probably wants reassurance, to feel desired or to bring more excitment to your love life. This is is not a bad thing.
It is a turn on for some guys to be seduced by women, it makes them feel want... (read in full...)
I'm a bit hot headed and always take it out on her. How can I control this?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going strong for about a year and a half now. We've had a few arguements, but what couple hasn't? Last night though, we had a really big fight, during which we both said things we didn't mean, and hurt each other pretty ...
A. 9 March 2007: Take anger management course. Unless you can better control your emotions, you may end up losing this person.
Nobody sane wants to be a punch bag.
If you both said things to hurt each other then you both should learn how to communicate with eac... (read in full...)
Should i text him again although its been a month saying that i want to be mates with him or should i try and forget him?
Q. hi all im really stuck me and this guy a few months ago meet up and talked and seemed to get on well , we met up a few times and drank and chat and become mates , but after a few meets we ended up having sex and we still decided to stay mates ...
A. 8 March 2007: Don't hope for something that isn't there.
You could end up getting hurt. You maybe missing the intimate side more than the friendship.
... (read in full...)
How often do women think of their past sexual partners?
Q. I have general questions for women. How often do women think of their past sexual partners? I'm curious because my girlfriend seems to bring up(in converstaion) people she has slept with at random moments. ...
A. 8 March 2007: I never compare past experiences or men but only think about the present one.... (read in full...)
My gf and I are sort of together, but I get on well with another. Should I pursue her instead?
Q. Hello, I am wondering if you could help me. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and things have started to get a bit 'bumpy'. We are sort of together at the moment but sort of not. There is this other girl who i really like and ...
A. 8 March 2007: You must decide which one you really want to be with and stick to your decision.
It is not fair on any of you to carry on this way.
If your relationship is not working out and you did try to improve it with your partner then you must break up befor... (read in full...)
I asked this guy I fancy if he was free and I was shocked at his response.
Q. I Really fancy this guy but I asked him if he was free and he said he has a girlfriend and that its "just fucken " with me "in a strictly plutonic". I was shocked by his response as I thought he really liked me as he had told me 2 months previous ...
A. 8 March 2007: Get rid of him, he sounds like a player.
Be careful to give him more attention as he will hurt you even more.
He may be interested in entertaintement nothing more.
You need to find someone who is single and is more compatible.
It may be hard to a... (read in full...)
How can I feel better about myself? I feel as if I'm not good enough for my fiancee.
Q. i feel like im not good enough for my fiancee. he treats me like a princess and worships the ground i walk on. everything he does he puts me first im the main thing in his life. my past relationships were very abusive so i became used to abuse so a ...
A. 8 March 2007: You have not given a reason to explain why you are not good enough for your fiance.
It is possible that you have "subsconciously adjusted" to receiving abuse behaviour, accept this as normal. This has made a impact on your self esteem hence why ... (read in full...)
Why do I always want things to happen quickly for me in life?
Q. Why do i want things to happen quickly for me in life? When i am relating with someone i want them to meet my demands quickly as well. What's wronG? ...
A. 8 March 2007: Just remember somethings in life are worth waiting for.
You probably have less patience than others, not necessarily wrong just different.
The same way you act a certain way which is individual to you, others will act at their own pace.
This is w... (read in full...)
What can I do to get closer to him?
Q. well most of you know about the boy thats on sniff and sleeps around that in falling in love with, its git worswe we used to ring eachother all the time and talk sometimes it go and meet him but we didnt do anything , so he got bored moved on to ...
A. 8 March 2007: You cannot change the past but you control the present. Make it a future to be proud of!!!
So what you have sent him dirty messages, if you want respect now, it is very simple. STOP IT!
Find someone worth your time.
Good luck
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
Will my ex realise that the new guy in her life is a player and will hurt her?
Q. I have just come out of a relationship with a lovely girl. She said it was because of her job, but then she told me she was seeing someone else, who is known as a player (testified to me by many people). They had been friends for 6 months before ...
A. 8 March 2007: Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to make her see what you see.
They say that love is sometimes blind and it is true. If they have been friends for 6 months, you need to give your ex some credit and perhaps she can see for herself?
What ... (read in full...)
We broke up and his friend raped me. We got back together and when I told him he said he can't deal with it anymore. What do I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and i became good friends with his friend.. but his friend raped me one night when we were out at a club. me and my boyfriend got back together and have been together for a month but i just told him what ...
A. 8 March 2007: Sorry to hear about your ordeal. It is difficult enough to cope with, you need support more than ever.
Your boyfriend needs to be more considerate towards you as you are the one that was raped not him.
He may be feeling that his trust was raped by... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and in love with this guy but I need to get him out of my head once and for all! How can I do this?
Q. I want to finally get over this guy, he's 15, and has just lost his virginity to a girl he's been seeing for a while now. I've been in love with him for two years now, and I'm sick of having my heart broken by him. He only pays me attention when he ...
A. 8 March 2007: Sweetie, love can be so painful when not returned.
You need to be strong and allow yourself to move on as by now this boy would have committed to you if he really liked you.
Some people have to much choice and he may be one of them. Don't le... (read in full...)
What are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy?
Q. hello agony aunts this question goes to all the girls/women who are agony aunt, men feel free to answer if u wnt what are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy or peng?? i need help as some girls on msn say im g...
A. 7 March 2007: I find that sense of humour, respect, sensitity and intelligence is very atractive in a man.
Physically, I like the eyes more than anything. Hands next but we are all different.
You cannot appeal to everyone, just be happy for what you have alr... (read in full...)
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