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We're planning to get married but he doesn't seem to desire me sex-wise...

Q.   Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and plan to be married August of this year. We are both 34 years old. I work mostly days and him nights. We get along well for the most part. The main problem is sex actually. I want to ...

A.   30 January 2007: Maybe he's just tired, and if he can switch to days things will change. I hope this is fixable and you'll actually be great together, but I have to admit this happened to me before I got married and now I wish I'd talked to someone about it, as ... (read in full...)

Im confused... What could he possibly be thinking about!?

Q.   Alright, my ex and I have been broken up for about 3 months. We talked this weekend which mainly included me crying and explaining how I viewed the break up. He had broken up with me. He said that he wanted to think about a few things and for me ...

A.   29 January 2007: Perhaps he just called to see how you were because you were upset earlier, got your answering machine, and tried to say something like "Call me if you need to talk some more." I can't stand answering machines myself, it always comes out wrong. Maybe ... (read in full...)

If she working why is she accepting a dinner date with me and not going with her mates?

Q.   i'm bit confused. there's this girl i've met once before on a mates birthday. since she has added me on msn and talks to me whenever i'm online. she recently got my number. today on msn she said her mates are goin to eat out with her mates birthday ...

A.   27 January 2007: I totally agree with the other replies - maybe she's rearranged things because she'd like to see you, maybe the timings weren't quite what they seemed in the first place, etc etc. I say go with the flow and don't lose sleep over the details. Sounds ... (read in full...)

I'm 11 and I'm worried..he never says he loves me! What's wrong?

Q.   Hi. I am 11 years old and I am really upset. I asked my boyfriend to the movies. He said 'yeah, i was going to ask you anyway' so i got all excited, this being my first date with him, (i've been on others) but then he ruins the moment by telling me ...

A.   25 January 2007: That is so sweet. I don't want to patronise you when you're obviously going through an emotional crisis and a difficult age but someone seriously needs to give you a hug and buy you an ice cream. Just because the world is going on about growing up ... (read in full...)

I think my friend has mental problems!

Q.   Dear Everyone, i have a friend who is going to get engaged but i dont think he is mentally stable to do that. first of all he says he is agnostic then he says he is spirtual but not religous. i dont know does he really know what he is sayin...

A.   25 January 2007: Are you saying you suspect he has mental health problems because he does not believe in an invisible sky being with magical powers who monitors our thoughts and presides over an elaborate system of reward and everlasting torment? Just checking...... (read in full...)

I have cheated on my wife numerous times, because she doesn't take care of my needs. What should I do?

Q.   I have been married for 5+ years and have a 3 year old and one on the way. My problem is my wife is not as excited about sex as I am and I have cheated on her numerous times. I have not had sex with another person since the summer but I have had ...

A.   25 January 2007: Sex is a need. Obviously it's understandable that she is tired and has other things on her mind and she needs your support right now more than anything else, but I'm going to disagree with some of the other posters and say that you can't just stop ... (read in full...)

Just thinking about her or reading an email from her turnes me on. What is going on?

Q.   I am 21 - well past puberty. I had a relationship 4 years ago where I fell in love but wasn't loved back. Since then i've been afraid of relationships and haven't really dated. I am finally in a relationship again with a girl I'm crazy abou...

A.   25 January 2007: Sounds healthy. Seriously - you get turned on thinking of your new girlfriend. Never EVER be embarrassed about this! (Well, not unless you get an email from her when you're at work and you have to stand up, in which case I would suggest wearing a ... (read in full...)

He's taken to watching porn, but says its my fault as I cant have sex at the moment!!!

Q.   now it is worse! I have gone broadband after my bloke convincing me it would be faster for me on ebay etc, I did this on the 12th jan. all good, but on 18th i go out for my daughters 11th birthday to find he has been using it for big boobs porn and ...

A.   25 January 2007: Let me get this straight: 1. You can't have currently penetrative vaginal sex, and therefore you refuse to have any sex with him AT ALL. I didn't quite understand this bit. There are a whole bunch of things in sex and let me tell you as a guy that... (read in full...)

I really want to experience some girl on girl action, but my boyfriend doesn't want to take part. Should I cheat on him?

Q.   Ok..i feel embarassed to be asking advice online so its a good think u don't know who a I am lol.. anyways.. so i am 20 something and I'm straight in a healthy commited relationship. I have no complaints about our sex life.. but here i am ...

A.   25 January 2007: Well, you have three choices. 1. Do nothing: keep your relationship the way it is. 2. Break up with your "no girl on girl action for me" boyfriend and seek other relationships. 3. Stay with boyfriend and try stuff out without telling him. ... (read in full...)

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