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We developed into something more than friends but he has another girl on the side!
Q. I met this guy 6 months ago through some mutual friends at a party, I am 22 he is 24 we both spent the night there as we couldnt drive home because we had to much to drink. We ended up sharing a bed and fooled around a bit but nothing else he ended ...
A. 7 December 2006: Staying in the same situation will lower your self esteem.
He fancies you but he not serious. If you are still wondering where it leads. Nowhere is the answer.
He is playing, and has a another girl. Please do not hurt yourself anymore, find som... (read in full...)
My BF broke up with me suddenly - was his mum to blame?
Q. I really liked this guy and then we split up suddenly after i heard that his mum said i wasnt right 4 him cause i am stuck up my own arse! which is not true. He's 25 so do u think his mum had anything to do with our split?...
A. 7 December 2006: Whether or not his mum was the influence, do you want a 25 year old man who gets his mum tell him who to date.
He is old enough to make his decisions.
Either way,you are better off if you move on to a fresh start.
xxx... (read in full...)
He flirts with me but doesn't want a relationship - what's going on?
Q. He likes me but doesn't want a relationship, then sometimes he just flirts and asks to meet up what's going on? ...
A. 7 December 2006: This is a player, no matter how tempting tell him to play with somebody else.
Unless you are to go along with it, you may get hurt and feel used.
He trying it on to see how far do you go. If you are looking for a relationship and respect, do not p... (read in full...)
We like each other, but we're just friends!
Q. there is this girl i realy like and she has said she realy likes me but all we ever do is be friends and i jjust donno what to do any more someone please help...
A. 7 December 2006: There must be more to it than that.
Is she shy, unavailable or with any other good reason to only be friends with you?
Express you feelings in more depth to her to avoid confusion, talk to her and find out what is stopping you both from going fo... (read in full...)
My life has been a train wreck b/c of her! She wants to be friends but I just want to move on. Help!
Q. I had a child very young, and later married the mother. I truly do love her; I always have. In November 2005 she left me, and got together with my best friend. She later told me that she only went to him for help with us (with our problems) ...
A. 7 December 2006: You are still in love with this woman. Assuming that he is aware of her impact on your life hence why she wants to make sure you are not the rebound guy again?
Sorry to hear that you have been a wreck for such a long time. Be strong and star... (read in full...)
My friend is falling in love w/ a good guy friend. I told her to go for it! What do you think?
Q. Hiya, Ive got this friend who's falling in love with this guy, but she thinks shes got alot of competition b/c many girls like him and he likes someone else, theyre REALLY REALLY good friends and i told her to go for it and ask him out and if he re...
A. 7 December 2006: I agree with your advice.
Wish your friend good luck from me!... (read in full...)
How do I enlarge my penis size?
Q. i am looking for a way to make my dick bigger i am 22 and it is about 5-6 inches and i am looking but dont know what to do about it can u help me ?...
A. 7 December 2006: Assuming that you are for real, you penis is big enough!
... (read in full...)
What should I get my bf for our first Christmas together?
Q. I want to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I want it to be special because this is our first Christmas together. We have been dating for about 4 months and I don't know what to get him. I need help, what do you suggest?...
A. 7 December 2006: Boys love watches and gadgets. If you know his favourite band, a CD perhaps?... (read in full...)
I have a date but I don't know what she's really thinking... help!
Q. today i asked my friend out to the christmas ball at school. she was suprised i asked her because everyone thought i liked someone else. anyway she accepted. but later on in the day i saw her around school but she wasn't too happy. i asked her ...
A. 7 December 2006: She said yes, I am sure because she wanted to. Reassure that that you understand she has her shores and be supportive.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm glad my boyfriend is out of prison... but drinking makes him more paranoid than ever!
Q. Hi, I guess I'm just really confused at the moment and would like an impartial view on things! I've posted on here before and had some really kind words and useful advice. Basically... (here goes!)... My boyfriend has been in prison for the l...
A. 7 December 2006: Being abused as a child and come out of prison has naturally affected his emotionally leaving his insecure and in need of a lot of reassurance.
If he really wants the help, he may want to consider councelling again.
You also need to sit and talk... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm not the only one he's had a baby with... and his other family has moved in downstairs!
Q. my daughters father who i love so much had a baby with a young 22 year old girl. our babies are two weeks apart,to top things off i lost 24 pounds during my pregnacy and from stress my baby was born with cleft lip.now the girl mom moved downstai...
A. 7 December 2006: Your situation is rather complicated, are you happy sharing this guy. Not easy sharing dwellings with relatives but other women about, not one I would recommend.
Love is blind,but you may want to revise your future happiness here.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my best friends lover - how do I win her heart?
Q. Ive fallen for my best friends lover, but have i not tell her about my felling for her ...My best Friend is in another state but,he don't treat her the way he surpose to treat her..I called my friend today telling him i have been thinking about hi...
A. 7 December 2006: Get together and express your feelings, if you do not tell her you not find out.... (read in full...)
I am a year and a bit older than him - will he not ask me out because of our age difference?
Q. Will guys ask girls who are alittle bit older out? Im 20 will be 21 in 2 wks. He is 19 will be 20 in june. I think he likes me but i dont know if he would ever ask me out cuz of my age. ...
A. 7 December 2006: I am sure that age is not the reason. Perhaps he is shy and not sure if thats what he wants to do.
Talk to him about your feelings. Nothing to lose and hopefully something to gain if you take the leap.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
We are both married but cheating but I can't stand he is cheating on me with yet another woman!
Q. I am married for 18 years, my husband is a cruel man. He hits me. There is nothing but kids between us. I fell in love with my cousin's husband. He is married and has had lots of affairs. I loved him so much and I got very jealous when he spoke to a ...
A. 7 December 2006: With kids or not. If you husband is violent,get away from him now. It is the best for you kids.
My father was very violent towards my mother, it traumatised me for life. When I was 17, I finally convinced my mother to leave my dad. I wish she ... (read in full...)
He Broke up with me so he could date my friend!!! I dont want to lose a friend but im confused!!
Q. I just got out relationship with this guy, that I am not sure if I still love, or hate. We went out before, but I broke up with him because I wasn't feeling the love there between us. But i evolved a crush on him after the brake up, and we got back ...
A. 7 December 2006: Forget get the boyfriend you dumped, then dumped you for another, that is history.
Talk to Vinnie, find out if he likes too and go for it!... (read in full...)
He never initiates sex... is he getting all the satisfaction he needs from porn?
Q. Is it possible your boyfriend could be fully satisfied with just looking at nude pics or porn? and not have the need to be very intimate with you? Thats the way i feel about my boyfriend right now. He thinks that, that is all i want in the ...
A. 7 December 2006: Men like porn, nothing you can do about it.
Do not initiate for a week of so, this way he does not have it easy on the plate. Make him hungry one day by dressing up in sexy lingerie with high heels.
If that does not work, and assuming that you... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel the same... how can I get over him?
Q. I've liked a guy for about 2 years and now I think I love him because I cry almost everyday and my heart hurts just thinking of him. I recently told him I had strong feelings for him and he doesnt like me the way I like him. I want to know how do I ...
A. 7 December 2006: It takes time to get over someone. But you need to be strong to move on.
Unless you give yourself the opportunity to meet other people, you will always be thinking about this guy.
Keep busy, go out and enjoy yourself. His loss, someone elses ga... (read in full...)
I've been living in limbo for years... do I make the change now I've fallen for someone else?
Q. Although we have loved each other for a long time, my relationship of 11 and 1/2 years has had its up and downs. We have never married and do not have children. We have only recently been living together under one roof for the past 2 years. Within 3 ...
A. 7 December 2006: If you do ever express your feeling for this contractor, wait til contract is over to keep things simple.
By having this feeling for somebody else, does this mean that you no longer in love with your existing partner?
Regardless if you get it o... (read in full...)
I am confused... does she like me?
Q. I have a friend that I really like and i'm showing it boldly to her, doing almost if not all favors she asks me and i'm confused if she likes me, but sometimes i do feel she likes me too coz as dating scene says body language can't lie if a girl l...
A. 7 December 2006: Try to talk to her about it.
She may be unsure if you like her the same way not just up for a laugh. You may show her but how does she know if you are serious?
She may be feeling the same way as you!
Be brave and go for it!
Good luck xxx... (read in full...)
Im due to be married next year, but stuck to my guns on staying a virgin, thing is im now confused about it, should I just give in now ??
Q. Hi I am 23 and to be married within the next year. I strongly didn't wanna have sex till marriage coz I believed in being responsible for my actions and not getting carried away. So I am still a virgin. My boyfriend who is not a virgin has tried...
A. 7 December 2006: If you fiance has known from the start he had to wait for you, he will respect it to the end.
That is what you have choosen to do, then stick to it. Unless you have changed your mind, you can look forward to that first special night.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Fallen for a man but he's already got lots of girlfriends!
Q. I was sent to Korea to teach martial arts for three months and whilst here in korea fallen for the other instructor ho leaves for home in a week and we have planned on seeing each other agin but im not quite sure wether he mans it as i no he as a ...
A. 7 December 2006: If you are not happy sharing this guy, move on now before you get hurt.
xxx... (read in full...)
Do women talk indirectly to you if they like you?
Q. Do females talk indirectly to you if they like you? And when they do talk to you(in the midst of her conversation with your mutual friend) she asks you something that you thought she already knew. Example, she asks oh do u play football too? and ...
A. 7 December 2006: When a girl is shy and does not know what else to say, she may ask a question, knowing the answer just to make conversation.
If you like her back, ask her a direct question and get to know her better, you will get your answers quicker.
xxx... (read in full...)
6 Years ago I fell for this girl, we are friends but I love her.. Im hurting, how do I deal with this ?
Q. Well, 6 years ago (when I was 15) I began to like a girl and she liked me too but I've never told her anything so nothing happened.then we became friends and now, after 6 years,I still love her and I'm jealous of everything she does.When she's with ...
A. 7 December 2006: Only you have the inner strengh to help yourself.
Be strong, talk to her. You have nothing to lose. Only wasting another six years if you do not talk to her.
Go for it! Good luck xxx... (read in full...)
Bit obssesed over my ex and the fact hes now dating the friend that hated me!!
Q. When my ex and I were still together he introduced me to a friend of his who used to live in our town until she moved to Australia, but now she's moved back (lets call her Pom). She took an immidiate disliking to me, which is unusual in my ex's ...
A. 7 December 2006: Your ex and you are not the perfect couple if you are not together as a couple and he is going out with another.
You should not be fooling around with him, knowing he is with another. Was the situation reversed before she moved to Australi... (read in full...)
She ignores me when she's drunk! But does she really not care about me?
Q. When My Girl Get's Drunk i don't think she care about me 1 bit. last month my girlfriend was moaning that saturday night's was boring (which i find an insuit) so i give her so money and told her to go out she did with my brother + girlfriend and m...
A. 7 December 2006: If you do not enjoy nights out with this girl who does not pay you much attention, why are you with her?
You both need to sit down and talk about this. Try to do something together without the entire family and find out if you have enough in comm... (read in full...)
I want to know about her previous sexual encounters, she says it doesnt matter, should I let it lie ?
Q. My Girlfriend when she was 16 she cheated on her boyfriend with someone she knew for a whilie now she's 20 with me i wanna know what she did. she told me she jerked him off While he fingered her (which she told me she never liked anyone doing) sh...
A. 7 December 2006: Past is past, her private life before should not matter.
Do you have to justify what you did with others girls before her? Even if you feel comfortable doing this, that is your choice not obligation.
What she did or not did with other people d... (read in full...)
My coworkers just talk and stab each other's backs! They keep telling me I'm too quiet, but I'm just protecting myself - how can I handle them?
Q. Hi. I work in an office where people seem to just talk about personal things. And most of them are backstabbers and spread rumors about their "friends" here. I'm totally different. I know about three people here that I talk about person thi...
A. 7 December 2006: These people are trying to entice you to lower to their standards. Let them bitch about what they want and ignore it. If you take the bate and retaliate it may agravate the situation and give them amunition to bitch about you.
They obviously do n... (read in full...)
I don't know how to act during our split from one another - any advice?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend has asked me for a break in our relationship. i cried a lot, was v upset and distraught but agreed, as i had no choice. He basiaclly wants to think about whehter I am the one for him long term. if he decides no, i gu...
A. 7 December 2006: The decision should be up to both of you, not just his.
What kind of relationship do you have with this person as he did not have your address already?
Whether it is to send you a letter or not, whatever will be will be. Wait and see what happens.... (read in full...)
He hasn't responded back, do you think he's had second thoughts about our friendship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and love him very much. A couple of weeks ago i ran into a guy i used to be friends with ten years ago. He said that he'd like us to meet up as friends (he knows i'm in a relationship). I agreed, but ...
A. 7 December 2006: If you are alreay in a relationship, why the ansiety to hear from this guy. Friends do not reply for weeks sometimes.
Give him space and he will reply is he only wants to be friends.
Perhaps he was after more but realized you are not availabl... (read in full...)
He twisted my words about being private on the phone at times - was it b/c of a girl?
Q. Here is the thing. A long time ago, if my b/f and i had an argument on the phone he did not care that he was talking in front of family at home. It bothered me and i said, i like things like that private. He said fine. I call him at work (and thi...
A. 7 December 2006: Private conversations should be really face to face. Work environment is no place for this, regardless if co-worker is girl or not, he should be busy at work. If you like conversations to be private you should wait for him to get home. Face to ... (read in full...)
I have the ability to read people and it's affected my relationships!
Q. I've had a problem since i was a kid. I have the ability to read people, know when someone close is in trouble, what is in their hearts. This affected my relationship with my mum and boyfriends. As a kid i had a bestfriend. Anytime she is about to ...
A. 7 December 2006: I do not understand how these predictions would push people away when it is the closeness to you that intensifies your gift, alerting you to help them.
Nothing to be ashamed about. Not easy to live with this as you feel the pain they feel, you ... (read in full...)
She is mad that I'm flirting w/ others while we're trying to work things out. What do I do?
Q. me and my ex are trying to work things out. she found out that i had been flirting and now shes mad. what do i do? ...
A. 7 December 2006: If you are "trying" to work things hard, by flirting with someone else that is not trying very hard.
If you love your ex, you need to reassure her that you mean what you say even harder now. Give her some time to calm down and try to discuss thin... (read in full...)
We don't want to have an exclusive relationship, so how do I move on?
Q. Dear Cupid, How do I forget him? I met this guy 2 and half years ago, we were instantly attracted to each other. We dated a couple of times, but then we grew appart. We've been in touch through common friends and now he works in my building....
A. 7 December 2006: If you are with one guy and you are dreaming of another then perhaps you should rethink if to carry on with existing relationship at all.
Being already in a relationship may put the other one off.
He might not have wanted a relationship a year ago... (read in full...)
He has clear intentions for our future and he told me to wait. But I can't..what can I do?
Q. he's talking about someday, i wanna talk about today... he told me to wait, but i know i cannot wait.. i miss him so much, but what can i do? it seems he really dont know what i feel, even i tell him, he wont understand, and wont bother to t...
A. 7 December 2006: To many questions and not enough information.
If he waits to wait and you cannot wait then there's your answer right there.
Good luck... (read in full...)
What forms and regulations does my bf have to adhere to, when he goes to work in the UK? Any advice?
Q. well! this is for people living in the UK and that have had long distance boyfriends moving to the uk. my long-distance boyfriend is hoping to move to the UK in a few years time. but I need help on what things he has to do to move to England. ...
A. 7 December 2006: Your boyfriend needs to apply for NI and Residency card.
He must contact Dutch consul or Embassy based in London to get more information.... (read in full...)
She is shy-so how do I get close to her without making the situation even more tense and uncomfortable?
Q. I'm 15 and I have been going out with this girl for a a few weeks now, but we never get really close and kiss like other people of my age do, and I know she is shy about stuff like that, and so am I in ways, how do I get close to her without making ...
A. 7 December 2006: Just take it slow, it may be uncomfortable but you should talk about it first. Clarify you feelings and ask her to express hers before making a move.
It will be more regretable to do nothing about it tough.
good luck xxx... (read in full...)
I would never have an affair but this online guy I like is married! Should I stop talking to him?
Q. Hi, im in a really weird situation right now. Im 22 and i've had 2 failed relationships, i just ended the last one about a year ago. Just about 2 weeks ago i met this guy online and we begin chatting, he's married and he's also 36 years old. He told ...
A. 7 December 2006: If you have waited a year before having any relationship why consider starting one now with a married man?
You knew he was married from the start, great points for that, he is honest. However you carried on intimate conversations which means that... (read in full...)
She broke up w/ me for the fourth time in six years. I'd like to make it work or else learn how to get over her. Help!
Q. my gfriend and i have been together six yrs now she has broken up with me now for the fourth time last week and moved out of our house.you would think i would know what to do by now but i love her and want to better our relationship i cant get her ...
A. 7 December 2006: You do not sound that compatible to me. You mention that you love her but all the other comments are negative which indicates that differences must be beyond repair.
Why would you want somebody that lies to you and turns situation into being yo... (read in full...)
Hes cheated several times before, I told him he needs to earn trust, but hes hanging out with other girls again!!!!
Q. I'll give u brief intro of things so u know whats been happening - boyfriend cheated on me many times in 3 years whilst long distance, so we parted. 2 years later we decide to try again (he back home long term). I say he has to earn his trust back, ...
A. 6 December 2006: I think deep down you know that answer yourself. This boy has not learn the lesson and clearly wants to have his cake and eat it!
Get rid and move on to someone who deserves you.
xxx... (read in full...)
My man is very into "Watersports" How common is this ???
Q. My boyfriend an i have a good relatioship and like to experiment, he recently confessed that he really wanted to give me a golden shower so i let him in the shower, i didnt mind it too much but wasnt great. He now bought porn with girls getti...
A. 6 December 2006: Not something I am into personally.
It depends how flexible you are, if you are not turned out by this, perhaps you should not do it?
My understanding of foreplay is that both parties should enjoy it otherwise is one sided.... (read in full...)
I moved 200 miles away from everyone I love to be with him - he just goes out to smoke up w/ friends and is still on a dating site!!
Q. I met my boyfriend last year on an internet dating website and after spending one weekend together, we were inseparable so we both decided that I should leave my job, my friends, my family and move the two hundred miles so that we could be ...
A. 6 December 2006: Online relationship is very safe but it is when you move in together with someone when you really learn about each other.
Your decision to give everything was perhapes premature and impulsive as you did not know him that well.
Perhaps there is... (read in full...)
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