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writes:Ok, I've always been useless at this so please help.As some of you may have read my current relationship is over and according to you guys is beyond repair. Good news is I'm accepting it and moving on.(By the way it wasn't down to me - I'm not a cheater)So please help me figure out if my very good friend feels something more than just friendship...She did tell me a while ago while I was still trying to patch things up that there couldn't be anything between us.But im wondering if that was because she didn't want me to split because of her. I think this because:* We talk and text all the time.* She invites me round and likes to hear me tell her about her good points.* When I go the conversation often drifts onto sex. (Shes quite broad minded.)* Heres the big one, I joked about getting her a prez from a local adult store and she said she'd have liked it. I recalled she has also said this once before. It wasn't a joke reply.As I write this it seems the conclusion is obvious but I honestly thing we are just pals, not that I don't love her to bits but had settled into the idea (as I beleived it was) of helping her find a mr right which wasnt me.I'd hate to lose her as a friend. If there is any doubt at all I'm not going to make any kind of move. What shall I do ?????
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Wait and see what happens.
She may like you too but needs time or being cautious. If you really like her, take it slow and que sera, sera.
Good luck!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Well, i think you should wait a while and see what happens because if you make a move on her to soon she might get upset and you might loose a good friend which would be awful.
If she suggests more and more things to you then when your alone together move in for a kiss and if she likes it she will respond and then you will have your answer.
Hope this helped a bit x
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