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What are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy?
Q. hello agony aunts this question goes to all the girls/women who are agony aunt, men feel free to answer if u wnt what are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy or peng?? i need help as some girls on msn say im g...
A. 7 March 2007: I find that sense of humour, respect, sensitity and intelligence is very atractive in a man.
Physically, I like the eyes more than anything. Hands next but we are all different.
You cannot appeal to everyone, just be happy for what you have alr... (read in full...)
My friend has seen my bf going into a male strip club!!
Q. A friend told me she'd seen my boyfriend go to a male strip club 4 times over the last fortnight. I asked her if she was lying, but she said she was working a late-night shift (she's an airport taxi driver) and had seen him. She said she couldn't...
A. 7 March 2007: You could go to the strip club and find out for yourself but by not denying it, he kind of admitted it was true.
He does not respect you or care enough about you in this relationship.
Get rid and fast.
Find someone who can give you what you nee... (read in full...)
He wants to be a little bit more adventurous in our sex life and has suggested a 3-some. If I don't go ahead with it I feel he will leave me. What can I do?
Q. please help, my boyfriend has recently suggested that we should experiment some more sexually and that a little bit of new things is good for a relationship. He want's me to have a 3some with him and his mate, i don't think a 3some is my thing but i ...
A. 7 March 2007: You should not have a threesome is it you are not happy doing it.
No partner is worth keeping if to keep him, there is a condition of doing something you are not into.
As much as it hurts by feeling that you would lose someone you love, this per... (read in full...)
I want her to dominate me and spank my butt!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a wonderful relationship with a wonderful woman. we truly enjoy each others company in and out of the bedroom. The problem is, I have this fantasy/fetish that i would like my lover to dominate me! I would love it for her to wh...
A. 7 March 2007: Perhaps you next flirt with her, bring to the conversation the spanking bit as a joke and watch her reaction. If she is "throws a fit", then it may be a sign she is not into that and you need to respect that.
Buy a whip and leave it in the hous... (read in full...)
How can I stop looking at too much porn?
Q. Help, i look at porn and i am just 13. i need to stop because it is slowly eating away at me. I know god hates it. Any advice plz....
A. 7 March 2007: Do not be to hard on yourself.
You are at a very young age where curiosity about sex is very high. But even mature men love watching porn.
There are worst sins. Remember that as long as you are not hurting anyone or contributing to any violent ... (read in full...)
My boss seems infatuated with me but he's married, should I go for it?
Q. Hi, I've been working at a restaurant for about six months and my boss has been flirting with me. To begin with i just thought that it was friendly flirting but last month he gave me a huge bouquet of flowers, everyone starting talking and since ...
A. 7 March 2007: Be strong and don't even go there!!!
He is married with kids, two major complications. If the marriage is on the rocks, wait until he is available for anything to even be comtemplated.
Did he give you a reason for giving you flowers, Are you sure... (read in full...)
Does she like me or does she not, it's driving my crazy!!!
Q. I love this girl but I am not sure she loves me or even if she cares about me. She talks to me and she twists her hair when she does it, I heard that is a sign that a girl likes you. She sits by me and sometimes she stares at me and It is driving ...
A. 7 March 2007: You do not say how long have you known her but she may be going through the same turmoil as you!
Play it cool but tell her that you like her and watch her reaction, you maybe pleasantly surprised.
If you do not tell her, you will never find out... (read in full...)
How can I make it clearer to him that I want him to kiss me!?
Q. hey! me and my bf are both 16 and have been togther for 2 months yesterday :) all we have done so far is hug ALL THE TIME! and about a month ago we kissed but we havent kissed since :( but i really want to! he is too tall for me to reach up and ...
A. 4 March 2007: Ask him to sit down, then kiss him.... (read in full...)
I was forced to have sex with this boy, my friend now doesnt want to know me, and I feel I have no one to talk to!!!
Q. i feel as if i am alone i have no one to talk to i am due to go to counselling in a few weeks i feel as if i cant go through with pretending everythings ok when its not. i was forced to have sex with a boy. my best friend tried to help me but ...
A. 4 March 2007: You have been a tremendous ordeal and it is not good that you do not have someone to talk to.
Your best friend is frighted but she must also get culprit's friends reported to the Police as it is harassment. I am sure that she must rather be ther... (read in full...)
Did I miss the opportunity to get to know her more?
Q. Hello, I previously posted a question asking if anyone thought a girl liked me, the kind people who replied 100% agreed that she did. She broke up with her boyfriend a week or so ago. Last Monday (after she had broke up with him) she continued ...
A. 4 March 2007: Unless she emigrates, you still have a chance.
Get out there and talk to her before she hooks up with somebody else! Like now.
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
I have not had a period for about 9 months and i am getting worried! Please help me!
Q. I am 15 years old, 60kg (9st 4) and 5 foot 1 and ugly. I am unhappy about how i look and feel. I have never had a boyfriend as no one has looked twice at me. I have never even kissed a boy and all my friends have done more than that. I just feel emb...
A. 4 March 2007: Being pretty or not does not affect your period.
Go to your doctor to get checked out.
You need to build your self esteem, everyone is beautiful to the eyes of another. You just need need to meet this person.
Feeling miserable will not appeal t... (read in full...)
We're going away for 3 days. How can I get my friends to let my bf join us as he dying to come along?
Q. im going away for 3 days to a concert and my bf really wants to come along but one of my friends said no with the reason he doesnt like my bf (he never met or spoke to my bf) but he bringing his gf who i hate . we only be all together in between ...
A. 4 March 2007: What kind of friend tells you what to do?
Double standards, your friends brings girlfriend but you ALLOW HIM stopping you from bringing your boyfriend.
You must STAND UP for yourself.
Sounds like a public place to me, arrange to travel with ... (read in full...)
I want someone who appreciates me, but that isn't happening
Q. I am a ladies man or at least thats wut my friends say I am, but how do I actually get a woman that appreciates me for me. I mean, why is it that most women that I meet say the same thing. They say that they want someone that will appreciate them, ...
A. 4 March 2007: The right girl will appreciate you for what you are. You just have not met her yet. WOULD YOU recognise her even if she was in front of you?
Agree with Martini, what type of girls have you been going out with? This maybe the problem.
If you are ... (read in full...)
My fling has developed feelings for me, and so have I, but I don't think I am worth his tears.
Q. I was at my friend's house because we decided to spend a friday together. She decided to invite her boyfriend and my fling. Honestly I don't even know where we are at. Like a while back we decided to take a break bc he needed to get his head ...
A. 4 March 2007: If you were falling for him and you now know that he has feelings for you, what are you looking for?
Talk to him and hear it from the "horse's mouth".
Go for it and good luck
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
Husband left her but he's back on the scene but she says she loves me! What's really happening with this woman?
Q. Hi to all, seems I need your advice again. One month before Christmas I met someone and it seems I am now in love with her. Here is her story: been married very young with someone that was not treating her very nice (he was abusing her is more...
A. 3 March 2007: I do not doublt that she this woman has feelings for you but she is having her cake and eat it.
She is not being very fair on you and not showing that she will commit.
Without knowing her full circumstances, I suspect that it must be difficul... (read in full...)
I've missed FIVE periods now... could I be pregnant?
Q. I recently had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke. I tried to get the morning after pill at two chemists, but couldn't get it for this reason: I haven't had a period since early september, for no particular reason, which isn't pregnancy,...
A. 25 February 2007: Doctors should be going through process of elimination so if they do not know what it is causing this, they should test for something else.
Cystic ovaries is the most common but not the only cause.
Stress is a very important factor.
I have has cys... (read in full...)
My husband has a horrible temper. I've told him we need to work on it and he doesn't take it seriously. I'm attacted to someone else now! Help!
Q. I've been married for just over a year. My husband has a very bad temper to the point where all he does is yell when something bothers him. I tell him he has to calm down, but he doesn't. He never wants to talk things through rationally. He just ...
A. 25 February 2007: Sounds like your husband is not playing his part.
Book a marriage councellor appointment so that he knows you mean BUSINESS OR ELSE!
Try not to be tempted by someone else as you may be confused about your feelings at the moment.
Your husband (con... (read in full...)
I have a fantasy about girl's feet but I don't want to tell any of my friends in case they laugh.
Q. i realy like girls feet, i have fantises of smelling them, licking them, and sucking there toes. i want to tell people so i can go out with the girls that don't mind but i am to scared to tell because i think that every body will find out and laugh. ...
A. 25 February 2007: Your fetish is more common than you think. Sucking toes can be very sexy.
Feet are part of our body and should not be left out.
Some women like licking feet too, you just need to find your match.
Nothing to be embarrassed about.
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
I get on great with this girl, she said I'd make a great boyfriend (she already has one) how do I play it?
Q. Searched through the site to find a similar situation but couldnt find one! Recently, I've met a girl and we are getting on unbelievably well. We have so much in common and have talked and talked for hours. We make each other smile, cheer each ...
A. 15 February 2007: Be patient, if it does not work out with her boyfriend there is still hope.
She clearly likes you but cannot commit because she probably does not want to hurt her boyfriend.
If you really like her, wait and see what happens.
Meanwhile... (read in full...)
The guy I'm with wants to date other women, too! I'm uncomfortable with that. What should I do?
Q. Im new to the dating scene I guess, always been in a relationship. Right now, I'm dating one guy but to him it's okay for him to date other women. I'm not really comfortable with that. I'm sort of selfish when it comes to men I dont like to share ...
A. 15 February 2007: If you are not comfortable with it now, this relationship is not right for you.
You will get hurt as you feelings for this guy grow.
It is still painful to let go, but you will be better off letting this guy go now.
Your best bet is to date some... (read in full...)
I think I'm stalking... how can I control my obsession for this boy?
Q. Well This Is Weird Butt.. Last Year Me and My mate Fancied this lad at my School and We loved Him so Much that One day We started to 'Follow' Around the School and After School!! Ive Heard that 'Stalking' is wrong and weird. I asked my friend i...
A. 13 February 2007: A crush may seem very intensive at your age.
But if you really care for this guy, leave him alone.
It is hurting him.
Not only it can cause you trouble but it is affecting him.
Whenever you feel the urge to stare, count til 10 and thing of ... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but is there a time in-between periods when pregancy is impossible??
Q. OK. So here's the thing. Me and my boyfriend are totally into each other and have been going out a while now. Anyway long story short, we're both ready to have sex and understand the consequences and stuff, and we're both virgins. We are both of ...
A. 12 February 2007: Forget probability, always use a condom as you can get pregnant anytime.... (read in full...)
Kissed my friend and now she's 'off' with me!!
Q. My best friend is a girl and ive liked her for sometime now she knows this to. She said that we couldnt get together before because of our friendship - she don't want to lose a friend but,over the weekend we kissed a number of times and one kiss ...
A. 12 February 2007: You both need to talk and get your feelings out in the open.
There may be an element of confusion in this situation.
Hope things work out for you.
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
Shall I get everything out in the open??
Q. 5 days ago my "girlfriend" Stephanie dumped me. We were in a relationship that started out almost a year ago with me letting her know I was interested in her while she had been in a one-way relationship with Jim for almost three years. Soon after, ...
A. 12 February 2007: You have to express your feelings face to face not on email.
It is natural that she is confused after recent break up and insecure because of betrayal of her ex.
Not a good time for you either but if you really like her, try to be supporti... (read in full...)
Husband left her but he's back on the scene but she says she loves me! What's really happening with this woman?
Q. Hi to all, seems I need your advice again. One month before Christmas I met someone and it seems I am now in love with her. Here is her story: been married very young with someone that was not treating her very nice (he was abusing her is more...
A. 12 February 2007: Why would a woman have husband back is he was not treating her right before.
Even if she believes that she telling you the truth, moving hubby back in was not a clever move, whatever reason given. you only know one version of the story. If she want... (read in full...)
How do I tell hubby I didn't have an affair! Will he believe me?
Q. I've been happily married for almost 3 years now but the end of last year we went through a very bad patch and I found myself attrcted to someone at work who was always very nice to me and paid me alot of attention, which was great because I felt ...
A. 12 February 2007: If nothing happened, there is nothing to tell. If you know that nothing will ever happen, no harm done. Learn the lesson here.
It may hurt him to know that you went as far spending the night with someone.
Why the questions now, if things are alri... (read in full...)
He doesn't have a phone and doesn't call me as much as I'd like him to. Is he playing games or should I give him a chance?
Q. Hey everyone, Little dilema here to say the least. Well, Ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half. We've went out or have seen each other about 5 or 6 times. The problem I had with him at the beginning was he didn't have a phone and he ...
A. 12 February 2007: Be careful andf take it slow.
Not sure about this guy not having a phone and only calls at weekends. You may have spent the night a couple of times but you have not seen him for two weeks.
Could it possible that he has a girlfriend that works aw... (read in full...)
I am seeing a married man, is there really any hope that he'll want to leave his wife to be with me?
Q. Hi i have been seeing a married guy now for about 7 months, when i first met him he told me he was married so when he offered me his number i declined but we bumped into each other a few more times and i still refused to get into a relation...
A. 12 February 2007: If he has developed feelings for you then he should leave his wife.
Question you should be asking yourself is:
Would he be faithful to you?
What about the wife and kids? He is having his cake and eating it.
You are better off leaving this guy... (read in full...)
How can we make him see she's just not interested in him?
Q. One of my closest friends (""adam"") has fallen for another of our friends (""beth"") but Beth doesnt feel the same way. Wenever he is drunk, Adam texts her telling her how he feels. This is happening about once a week. Me and another of our f...
A. 12 February 2007: Agree with CD206, it is Beth that should put a stop to this. But not doing this, she is almost encouraging Adam to carry on.
Not matter how much Beth is trying to spare his feelings, the kindest thing is to put a stop to it before his feelings... (read in full...)
Should I leave it and wait for him to contact me?
Q. Hyah I wrote earlier this month asking for advice about sleeping with my ex. I did what I am sure is the right thing and told him that I couldn't as I still had feelings for him. He said that he understood and that if I ever felt down he would come ...
A. 12 February 2007: Regardless if he received messages or not, do not contact him.
You have both agreed to be friends. Contacting him will make you look "clingy".
Focus on going out and meet other people. It is time to let go and move on. Do not drag this hope any... (read in full...)
I'm going out with a boy but he keeps hitting me and I can't explain the bruises to my parents.
Q. i am goin out with this boy, but he keeps hitting me and treating me like a pig. wat shall i do? i dunno how to explain 2 my parents with the bruises are HELP wb xxx...
A. 12 February 2007: Treating you like a pig, shows that he has not respect for you. But hitting you, means he does not truelly love you and has anger management problems.
Leave him, like NOW!!!!
And ask him to get therapy so that he does not hurt anybody else.
I... (read in full...)
I love my bf but I want to have fun! What should I do here?
Q. hey, yo. I'm really, REALLY flirty with this guy, and he's really flirty right back. If not more so. I really, really like him. He's thirty. He's hot. He's funny, and he's really kind! We were flirting like crazy on the way home and we always jo...
A. 12 February 2007: Meeting a new guy is always excitings and may explain why your boyfriend may sound boring to you now. You know him better, aware of his querks and he is familiar to you.
If your boyfriend does not make you feel wanted or satisfy you you should leav... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but the gf far away has his attentions! Is there anything I can do?
Q. Hay there guys. Got a slight problem your typical girl likes boy, Boy - clueless. I had my eye on this guy for ages. we eventually got talking at some gigs one reason that attracted me to him - music style, wow , i really fall for good taste in m...
A. 12 February 2007: I agree 100% with previous comment.
This guy probably does not know what he wants or is ready for any commitment.
Staying away is the best you can do for yourself and move on with your life.
It may seem very hard to let go now because you have fee... (read in full...)
Bf broke up with me to marry his pregnant ex gf! Do I wipe the slate clean and just move on?
Q. Dear Cupid Please interprete these kinds of reactions to me, My boyfriend broke things off with me because he is marrying his ex which he made pregnant. Everyone feels this is sweet and responsible of him to make such a decision. When he broke th...
A. 12 February 2007: This guy need to decide what he wants to do and stick to it. By coming back to you, he is dragging you into this mess.
If he really loves you, he should be with you.
I do not believe that people should get married if they do not love each other.
... (read in full...)
Husband left her but he's back on the scene but she says she loves me! What's really happening with this woman?
Q. Hi to all, seems I need your advice again. One month before Christmas I met someone and it seems I am now in love with her. Here is her story: been married very young with someone that was not treating her very nice (he was abusing her is more...
A. 5 February 2007: Husband back to save on rent? Is he the only lodger she could find?
This is not a healthy situation regardless of reasons given.
Your instincts are right, wait til she is completly available, ready to commit to a relationship then you can both giv... (read in full...)
Did he mean actually love as in 'in love' do you think?
Q. hello im 16 and i have a bf and we have been going out for over a month now. today i went round his house and we were sitting on his bed just talking. then we started play fighting and then he was pretendng to strangle me (only pretend! lol). th...
A. 5 February 2007: Try not to ready to much into it so soon.
Yes he is curious of how much you like him but it gives not clues about his feelings towards you.
Playfighting is good fun that is all.
Be cool and take it slow, he will tell you direct when he is ready.... (read in full...)
He's my ex and we still have sex. But I'm 2nd best to his gf...what should I do?
Q. What does my ex boyfriend want from me? How do you distinguish between still having feelings for your ex, and just still being attracted to the things that made you fall for them in the first place? I've been on the fence about my feelings for my ...
A. 5 February 2007: Your ex seeks comfort from you, nothing else.
He feels safe in sharing his "not so good moments" with you without the commitment because he can, because you let him.
If you are really his good friend, let him deal with it on his own two feet. ... (read in full...)
Are women more sentimental than men?
Q. Are women more sentimantal than men? I feel as though in a relationship there's a big difference between things that women hold dear to them compared to men (eg keeping love letters, presents etc.). Do they just handle it differently? ...
A. 5 February 2007: Women tend to be lead by their emotions more so than men.
But there are still some sentitive men out there that also can be romantic.
I prefer not to generalise men and women to be from different planets and take each person for what they are indi... (read in full...)
We're 13...I need an gift idea for for Valentine's Day!
Q. hey, im 13(so is he) and i havent got a clue what to get my bf for valentines day. he doesnt like football, or any other sports i dnt think, and i dont think hes the type for luv heart teddy bears, please help!!!! im completely stuck!!! what do i...
A. 5 February 2007: Hi, if it is your first valentine together and you haven't been going out long, get him a valentines card (without bears in it).
You do not want to embarrasse him by going to strong on gifts.
If the weather is good why not treat him to a nice pic... (read in full...)
How do I tell this quiet girl...she's the one I want to be with?
Q. so wht can i do now.. i want the quiet girl.. so wht to do?? how can i propose her.. am afraid.. cauz shes too quiet.. and am not so certain she loves me.. but her eyes tells me she loves me.. so give me a gud idea...
A. 27 January 2007: Invite her out for a drink and try to get to know her as friends. If she is shy take things slow.
Once you have been out a couple of times tell her that you like her and watch her reaction.
If she likes you she will give you eye contact and smil... (read in full...)
I give good advice, so why are my ratings bad?
Q. Dear agony aunts, I am feeling a bit down at the moment. Why? Because like you I am an agony aunt but unfortunately my ratings have been going down and it makes me feel well (excuse my French)…“sh***y.” I don’t think I give bad advice so I don’t ...
A. 27 January 2007: Remember the reason why you decided to become an agony aunts. I am sure it wasn't for the ratings.
If you gave about advice to 100 people and helped 1 person out of that, looking at the ratings you could have 99% poor response but if you have mad... (read in full...)
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