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Don't men still do old-fashioned things for the women they love?
Q. I'm a little irritated with my b/f. For two weeks, I've asked him 3 times to air up the tire on my car because it looked low. Each time, he blew me off saying, "Yeah, yeah, yeah..." and then doing nothing. Today I had a flat and he was pissed at me ...
A. 1 January 2008: It is not worthwhile falling out about pumping Air in tyres.
I cook and clean, but my husband will wash up and hoover for example, we do not have to remind each other what needs to be done and equally share the load as any partnership should b... (read in full...)
I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?
Q. this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other ...
A. 28 December 2007: First thing you need to do is stop contact.
To be keep stalker label, you would have to maintain contact which you know by now that feelings are not mutual so you must accept reality no matter how much it hurts.
Deep down you know that this rel... (read in full...)
Do I end it... even although we're good together?
Q. Well, my problem is that I'm with this girl who I reckon I've been seeing for about 4 weeks maybe more, and I feel we both feel really good together and have been enjoying being with each other but a day ago she told me that she got drunk at the ...
A. 28 December 2007: Your girlfriend made a mistake by sleeping with her ex. Even though she was drunk, she was not forced into sex so there were feeling there to sleep with him in the first place. She may still be on the rebound, saying that she did not mean that to ... (read in full...)
I told her I didn't like her because she is not my type and now she hates me. Who is out of line??
Q. Ok, another question from me; A girl who used to be my friend had a crush on me, then one day i told one of my friends that i would never go out with her, because she is not my type which is true and i just dont feel that way about her. She found...
A. 25 December 2007: Ignoring someone that likes you, does not make you the bigger person. Perhaps you feel you did good by not taking advantage of the situation? Yes, that did not make you a complete selfish person if you did.
But what you could have done was talk... (read in full...)
How can I make the break-up with my fiance as easy as possible??
Q. I want to break up with my fiancee of 3yrs, i love her and all but i know i am too young to spend the rest of my life with her. I want to date other people in the future after all the dust has settled between us. My question is where do i begin? ...
A. 25 December 2007: You can begin to being honest with her. There is no easy way to break up with anyone, regardless the circumstances.
I do not know you but age may not be the reason for your decision.
If you really deeply loved this woman, age should not make a d... (read in full...)
How can I shake the winter blues??
Q. I think I have the winter blues.I've been really depressed lately,and EXTREMLY self conscious of my body.I've lost my tan.=( Its weird,because in the summer I have no problems being confident what so ever. I just feel fat and pale lately. How can ...
A. 25 December 2007: Feeling depressed during winter, can mean that you may be affected by SAD disorder (Seasonal Affective Disorder)
You could try these steps to improve the symptoms:
- Spend at least 30 minutes outside every day.
- Set a timer on a light to go ... (read in full...)
It's been 2 months. I think I really love her, but I'm worried we lack a "spark". Can you help?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now..and i think i really do love her. but lately things have been feeling wierd between us. like there is no "spark" and i think she is thinking about breaking up with me. how do i light th...
A. 12 December 2007: First step to save any relationship is to talk honestly with each other about it.
Spark is not something you switch on or off.
It is either there or it isn't. The problem sometimes is that it is there and you cannot see it. Only by working toge... (read in full...)
Help! My husband is always talking to his ex wife!
Q. My husband and I have been together for almost 2 years. I have 2 daughters from a previous relationship and he has a son from a previous marriage. His son is 6 and very sensitive. His son still has many issues about his mommy and daddy ...
A. 12 December 2007: If this lady is so concerned with her son's happiness, surely it is not healthy for the boy to witness such hatred and disrespect in front of him?
My guess is that her only tool to still control your husband is to use her son to carry on with unr... (read in full...)
3 boyfriends in 4 months. I don't know if I love my boyfriends, or just having them. Please advise!
Q. I don't know whats going on in my head. Ive had 3 boyfriends in 4 months. and i dont know if i love my boyfriends or if i love the idea of having a boyfriend. not to mention people at school have been calling me a tramp because i jump from guy to g...
A. 12 December 2007: Numbers are not important here. All it means is that patern is repeating itself.
Think of it as a lesson you must learn in life, until you learn from it, you keep repeating history.
Think of the reason why for break up.
Are you going out wi... (read in full...)
She rejected one of my invitations so I went out with another girl. Now I have the chance to see the initial girl again, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
Q. K, so I f***ed up and need some advice on this one. 3 weeks ago I met a girl, and we hooked up that night, had great chemistry right away. I liked her pretty much right away, and we've been talking since. Well, the weekend after that I asked h...
A. 12 December 2007: Got a bit confused reading your question.
Let me get this straight:
Girl 1 go out with you, you have fun.
Then you get bummed out by Girl 1 when she rejects you.
Enter Girl 2 and you have fun, who you still seeing.
Meanwhile Girl 1 now ... (read in full...)
Office affair!
Q. Hi - I am married but getting very close to a colleague at work. We are very flirty and becoming quite tactile. I want to take things further (she is married too). I feel we will become 'fuck buddies' soon. We get on fantastically we...
A. 12 December 2007: I believe that affairs do not work, someone always ends up getting hurt and it is not fair to partners who do not chose to be part of a love triangle.
If lust and passion is felt for other than your partner, then you need to assess your current ... (read in full...)
Why do I stay when he beats me?
Q. why does my boyfiend beat me up? i have been with him just over 6 months and we have started having sex but only because he wants it. if we aregue he always hits me. he starts arguements to bilittle me and he says hes scared of me breaking up with ...
A. 17 October 2007: The reason why he does it should be a problem for him to sort out.
There is no justification for a person to hit another.
Don't fall throught this trap of love/hate relationship.
No man that hurts us can ever respect you or trully love you.
M... (read in full...)
My friend is married into an abusive relationship. I fear for her safety. What can I do?
Q. I have a friend who is married to an abusive husband. 6 yrs ago we had an affair. I fell desperately in love with this woman. She said she felt the same about me. Her husband found out when she told him she wanted a divorce. He got violent on ...
A. 11 October 2007: Firstly, in this century there must be a way out for her!
Why is this lady still with her husband, please do not tell me it is for the daughter.
For kids to experience this traumatic and violent environment, it is not safe or healthy for them.
... (read in full...)
I like to go out with my friend, but it seems the only place we can go is where I end up getting drunk and making out with total strangers. There must be more to life than this! Can you help?
Q. Hi. I have been going out to this place on friday nights where I go with my best mate. Its ok, but it means that I drink alot n makeout wit people that do drugs n stuff like that. I also hav to lie to my parents about where im goin. Theyd neva let ...
A. 11 October 2007: To be sociable you do not have to join any special clubs, more importantly you do not have to do anything that makes you unhappy or ashamed of your behaviour.
It is not cool to drink or take drugs just because your friends may say so. The only... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend... But I like somebody else, who is already taken! What do I do?
Q. I have a girlfriend but i like this other girl but she has a boyfriend. I don't even know if i love my girlfriend anymore, but i love it when im around this other person. I;ve knowen this girl for 5 years but i've only started to feel this way the ...
A. 11 October 2007: Dear Anon
You may have known this girl for about 5 years but your feelings only have changed for the last 2 weeks.
2 weeks is not a long time to decide if you really like her, try not to focus/spend to much time with a girl that is already take... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to keep it smooth.
Q. Hey, im thinking about shaving my pubic hair for the first time i have sex with my long term boyfriend... the thing is, i dont want its to go all prickly n cause a rash on us, so can anyone tell me the best methods to keep 'smooth' thanks in...
A. 23 September 2007: Shaving pubic hair often causes a rash and uncomfortable when growing back.
Waxing is effective, lasts couple weeks but is painful.
There are very good hair removal creams in pharmacies and superstores.
Exfoliate before hand, use the cream an... (read in full...)
She wants a cooling off period after just a couple of days, do you think thats an excuse?
Q. I have a been going out with my girl friend for just a few days and we both like each other very much and we have falling in love. My girl friend thinks we need a cooling of period because we are rushing into things too soon.Is she right or is in a...
A. 23 September 2007: It depends what your girlfriend means by a cooling off period.
Did your girlfriend asked you to take things easy like only see each other once a week or take a break completly?
There is nothing wrong with taking things slow for a while, you h... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any advice about overcoming your lover's past?
Q. I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and I know that she is the one... I feel it deep down inside and I am not ignorant to the desires of my heart or soul. However, there is a slight problem, and that is with her past actions wit...
A. 12 July 2007: It is not your decision, not up to you to wait time to heal.
If there is any healing to do, it is by your girlfriend of feeling guilty about doing something she now regrets.
This healing/guilt is for girlfriend, nothing to do with you really. ... (read in full...)
I've lost my sex drive; any ideas why or how to get it back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years but over the past 9 months or so I seem to have lost my sex drive as well as anything physical. Any ideas how to make this come back or why maybe?...
A. 6 July 2007: To keep sex with your partner fresh and exciting takes effort from both of you, constant work to keep sex drive alive.
Sometimes routine and familiarity, knowing what to expect does not leave much for imagination, so there is no mistery to look forw... (read in full...)
I've got low self-esteem and am afraid of rejection
Q. There's this guy I really like but I've no idea whether he feels the same way. I'm really scared of rejection because I'm shy and have really low self esteem, so i really don't know what to do. ...
A. 6 July 2007: When you say you know this guy, you do not mention how well you know him.
Has he given indication that he likes you? Perhaps he is a friend and enjoys your company.
You could try spending sometime with him and get to know him better. Fin... (read in full...)
Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?
Q. Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and ...
A. 30 May 2007: He should not have any reason to be embarassed about you or your relationship.
It does seems strange that after 7 months, you do not know any of his friends.
Perhaps he just made an excuse to avoid going out with his mates in case they made fun... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 20 May 2007: Dear AskEve
Sorry to hear about your loss, I am really feeling for you.
Time will help you find the way how to cope best you can.
You can use your pain to help others.
Pain is a fact of being and one that permeates all of our lives to some de... (read in full...)
How do I stop bitching about people who do not treat me fairly or the way I expect them to? Any help?
Q. I have adopted a bad habit from my mother, that of bitching about those people who do not treat me fairly or the way i expect them to. My mother uses this trick to disclose important private information that she knows about my father to other people ...
A. 20 May 2007: If you are not happy with the way you are. The answer is simple. STOP IT! Do not blame your mother as an excuse to carry on with the drama. You and you alone are responsible for your actions.
The important thing to remember is that you have take... (read in full...)
I dont know how to end it... what have I done?
Q. What can i do?I had an affair last year with a close friend..He swore that it was only a bit of harmless fun on the side and that no-one would get hurt but i began to fall for him. i knew that it could nt go on so i finished it but recently he ...
A. 16 May 2007: If you are sure that you love your husband, let your love for him give you strength to resist this other guy.
You may not have respected your babies and your husband but better late than never. It is not to late. You have made a mistake, but you ... (read in full...)
I was never the only female (yes sexual) friend in his life.
Q. I have been friends with a guy for 4 yrs. During this friendship I was never the only female (yes sexual) friend in his life. Although i accepted it i never liked it and i have never told him this - i have put up with it i guess because no one ...
A. 14 May 2007: Do not settle for being second best or the backup girl.
If he really liked you and you alone, he would not have any more sexual partners.
To make yourself worth more than that, move on and get rid of him as a sexual partner. I am sure you deserve ... (read in full...)
We were together for 4 years, he is now with someone else but he stills tries to touch and kiss me!
Q. i was in a relashinship for about four years and was madly and deeply in love with him and still am. we broke up over something very silly, he is with someone else now. he still rings me and talks to me regualer he also visits now and again just a...
A. 9 May 2007: It is possible that your ex is finding hard to let go.
Could be nothing else but loneliness on his part.
You broke up for a reason. In order for both of you to move on, if you wish to remain friends, do not complicate things and make it clear to... (read in full...)
He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!
Q. I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that ...
A. 8 May 2007: Of course you still love this guy. If you do not listen to your friends, why should you listen to strangers!
If you were perfectly happy with all this, you would not feel the need to post a question here???
I am sure that your boyfriend st... (read in full...)
Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?
Q. Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?...
A. 2 May 2007: It is a myth.
Just because you may meet some women with tattoos on their back that are promiscous, it does not mean that they all are.
To be able to read if men or women are sluts is not that easy. You have to get to know them a bit closer t... (read in full...)
How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not to break her marriage?
Q. I'm involved with a married woman and i do not want to lose her, I really love her so much and she is confused and she does try to forget me to make believe that is worthless trying. How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not ...
A. 1 May 2007: Dear Midaylight
You must be sure that you really love this woman before thinking about putting her in a difficult position. If she feels the same for you, it is not fair on anyone and do you want to be reason to break up a marriage nor apply pres... (read in full...)
I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with-he called her name out while making love to me! I am devastated. Any advice?
Q. I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with. They (with some others) went abroad working for around 4 weeks. I noticed when we were all out together she always went to the bar with him. When he got home he was annoyed with me b...
A. 29 April 2007: Your partner calling out her name whilst in bed with you is wrong but it does not mean he is having an affair. But it means that he fancies her and that is the problem.
He is angry because he feels embarassed by your actions of calling the othe... (read in full...)
Is it true that English girls love the Irish guys?
Q. I am an Irish male and I am going to liverpool next week on a lads weekend. I have heard that English girls love the Irish guys.... is this true???...
A. 29 April 2007: Girls only like guys if they are nice no matter where they come from.
Nationality should not be an issue. Personality is more important.
Concentrate on what you have to give as a person.... (read in full...)
What do I tell him if he asks to have sex with me again? I'm 18, he's 49 and married with kids!!!
Q. i am soooo in need of ANYONES help! i've never been in a situation like this. ok here it goes... lets just start off by saying that i can get very flirtacious and get carried away.. its kinda sad but yea. anyway so my manager at the place i work at ...
A. 29 April 2007: Everyone makes mistakes but you now have the choice between acting like an ass or being one.
You may have been lonely, vulnerable or needy. Whatever the reason is it no excuse. Every mistake is an opportunity to become a better person.
Wha... (read in full...)
I love my new girl but sex is boring. How can I get her do new things?
Q. y isn't things like my first sexual partner? when i first started havein sex with my first sexual parnter things was great till she had a misscarriage and then she got unhappy but still unhappy she would do things to me my new girlfriend doesn...
A. 29 April 2007: You need to read your own question as if someone else wrote it and realize how it comes across.
Do not fall into the trap of comparing partners. You may still be into your ex. Is she not an ex for a reason, remind yourself what that reason w... (read in full...)
If he's no longer my bf, then is doing things with him sexually..a wrong thing to do?
Q. My ex bf and I broke up about a year ago because he was moving to a state up north and I live in the South. We really loved each other and now he goes to school in the south (still not in my state tho) and we have met once since to hang out. We ...
A. 29 April 2007: Your instints are right. If you do not want to get hurt, do not fall into the trap of becoming F**K buddies.
It could be enough for your ex but you may later miss the rest.
I feel very strongly about this as it should be all or nothing in a relati... (read in full...)
Period is 8 months late and I'm too scared to go the doctor! Help!
Q. I had sex about 7/8months ago! im to scared to go to the doctor as we didnt use protection and im almost 8months late i dont understand! i dont want to do any tests just in case!! unless i wait how do i no if its just me or if i maybe pregnant and ...
A. 29 April 2007: Running away from the problem will not make it disappear.
You really need to go the doctor.
If you were pregnant you would have put on some weight and your tummy would show after this time.
It could be cystic ovaries but unless you go to the docto... (read in full...)
Could it be hes simply lost interest now that I am available ?
Q. Ive recently broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, but ive developed feelings towards a lad that i live with, we get on really well and he told me when i had a boyfriend he really liked me, but i wasnt up for cheating or anything so we ...
A. 26 April 2007: If he really like you, then what is he waiting for?
Perhaps forbidden fruit was what he was after.
Having said that, he could be waiting for you to go through rebound period.
Tell him how you feel and call his bluff?
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
My bf says his ex is the sexiest girl alive and talks about her w/ his friends! Is he trustworthy?
Q. Hi, I recently discovered that my boyfriend chats with his friends about his ex girlfriend. He told me once that I turn him off in bed. And that his ex girlfriend was the prettiest and sexiest girl that he has ever met. He swears that he is not i...
A. 26 April 2007: Sounds to me that even if he is not seeing his ex, he is still into her.
His current girlfriend should be considered the most beautiful girl he has ever met. Do not settle to be his second best.
He should be happy to be with you not just content.... (read in full...)
I love my wife, but I feel that number 2 woman is right for me.
Q. About a year ago I married a beautiful sexy lady. Let's call her #1. She is smart and fun and all that. Neither of us have any children. Sex is great. A little while before we got married I met someone else (#2). It started out innocent, as ...
A. 25 April 2007: It sounds to me that you have made up your mind already about who you are in love with.
Tell wife the truth, get divorce before starting a new relationship.
Angel of Love... (read in full...)
Ladies, how do you tell your wife your biggest fantasy is to sleep with hot, young 18 years old females?
Q. sexual fantasy / fantasies / fetish My wife has asked me before what kind of fetishes or fantasies I had. My real answer is hot young 18 year old girls. Would a wife really want to know the truth of a fetish or fantasy that has nothing to do wi...
A. 23 April 2007: How would you feel if your wife told you that her fantasy was to have sex with a 18yr old rubgy player with a baby face, muscles to die for and high libido in his prime?
Perhaps a fantasy you could not deliver?
Unless you would prefer a threesom... (read in full...)
She still sees her ex out of pity even though she knows I'm not happy about it!
Q. How would you go about dealing with a partner who still sees their ex out of pity? This is basically the reason my girl still has contact with her ex, even though i can't stand it and she knows that. She won't even tell him that she's moved on a...
A. 23 April 2007: Your girlfriend may mean well but she is not allowing her ex to move on by feeding his "dependency", for her company.
Of course it will devast him but how can he go through the grieving process if there is a constant reminder?
The kindest thing to... (read in full...)
I fancy this girl who has an emotional boyfriend. How can I help her without getting between them?
Q. Hey guys, um im single atm, but ive became very interested in a girl. Problem is she has a boyfriend, i have been speaking to her everyday for a few weeks now and she tells me everything. She told me that isn't exactly happy with him. He has ...
A. 23 April 2007: How many people have said in a relationship, I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU? A lot.
Any break up will have at least one broken heart. But does her boyfriend want her to stay out of pity? I do not think so.
Yes, the boyfriend would be devasted... (read in full...)
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