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I have had my share of challenges in life but believe that we learn something new every day.

Hope to bring some comfort and helpful advice to someone who needs it.

Found this site looking for answers myself, even though I was not brave enough to ask them.

It is wonderful to know that so many people in this world still care about others. A big hug to all of them.

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My gf kissed another guy right infront of me! I don't know what to think or do!

Q.   I am 17 and my girlfriend is 16, the other nite we went to my m8s party. It was all goin gud until i sat down and saw my girlfriend kiss another guy right in front of me!! even though im not the type to start fights, i went over and started one. ...

A.   20 January 2007: Dear Hughesy28 You are following your heart and I wish you all the best. The way I see it, advice is only guidance and like a gift, once given to you, it yours to do as you wish. At the end of the day, it is your decision that matters. I ... (read in full...)

My gf kissed another guy right infront of me! I don't know what to think or do!

Q.   I am 17 and my girlfriend is 16, the other nite we went to my m8s party. It was all goin gud until i sat down and saw my girlfriend kiss another guy right in front of me!! even though im not the type to start fights, i went over and started one. ...

A.   19 January 2007: To the previous Anon that left last comment: Sounds like you need more of a break and fresh air yourself, this site if for people who need or want advice. If you do not agree with comments what are you doing on this site? Chill out!!!... (read in full...)

Should I stop his boot fetish?

Q.   I am 33 years old and my boyfriend has a boot fedish. In the beginning I didn't bother me but now it is out of hand. I feel he doesn't care for me if I don't wear them. Should I just turn the other cheek? THX...

A.   19 January 2007: May this fetish has now become a routine and is no longer fun for you. It is natural that you want to please him but you also need to have fun with it. Have a talk with him and find a compromise. Perhaps if you both agree to do it less, he wil... (read in full...)

Should I be worried that he's stopped calling?

Q.   should i be worried that my boyfriend hasnt been calling me? he usually calls almost everyday i know hes been stressed lately but is that an excuse for not calling for several days? ive tried calling him and theres no answer so i leave a message ...

A.   19 January 2007: You need to talk to him face to face about this. You deserve to know where you stand. If this guy admitts that he lost interest for you and is not prepared to try again, there is nothing else you can do to rekindle. It takes two people to work at a... (read in full...)

Confused about my three men...

Q.   I had been dating a man James for a time and things went wrong we met again and told me he wuld like to be with me if I stayed in town, told me not to worry as he had a nice job so that if I couldn't get a cool job here he would be supportive and ...

A.   19 January 2007: Forget James, he clearly has a girlfriend. He is not the honest type because he is giving you attention whilst with another. He would do the same to you. Go on a date with old school friend first and see if there is chemistry there. If not, the... (read in full...)

Am I just his back-up girlfriend?

Q.   Well i like this guy and everyone at school told me that he liked me to and he even asked me to the movies but i found out that he has a girlfriend in a city that is three hours away he told my friend that he liked me but basically using me as a ...

A.   19 January 2007: You may like him a lot but he doesn't. He has a girlfriend so he is not taking you seriously. Do not settle for being second best. Get a boy that will like you for yourself not when he gets bored. You may get hurt later on as feelings get stro... (read in full...)

How do i show him that i would like more with out scaring him off?

Q.   Well i have read problems and i've been giving suggestions but now i am at a complete loss! I have been chatting to a guy on the internet and last night we met! While we were chatting, we said that we were both just looking for friendship a...

A.   19 January 2007: You have only just met, my advice is take it slow and let him take the reins. He is certainly giving you signs that he is interested, but be careful that you do not become friends with benefits. Go with the flow and see what happens. If you want... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and the father told me to keep it a secrte. I told my 2 teenage children and now he wants nothing to do with me! What should I do?

Q.   i have been separated for a year and a half. i met a bloke 4 months ago, he swept me off my feet. I didn't know what real love felt like until i met him. 2 months into the relationship i fell pregnant. at first he seemed happy about it, we ...

A.   19 January 2007: He is using you telling teenagers as an excuses and being very shelfish about it. If he did not want the responsibility he should have been more careful as well. You owe it to each other to have a talk about this, support each other as the baby is ... (read in full...)

I want to forget about her and move on but I still love her! Any advice?

Q.   Hi, could you please help me with this….. I have been in relationship with my partner for year and half. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I kept saying to myself no o...

A.   19 January 2007: To have a good relationship, love is not enough. You also need respect and a lot of understanding. Abuse and arguments are not sign of respect and I do not think you are compatible to be together. Of course this hurts, as you wish things were dif... (read in full...)

I don't trust my fiance, but we're getting married in February! Please help.

Q.   I just cannot trust 'George'. I have been in a relationship with him for the past 2 years. We broke up once last July when he got engaged to another woman. We only split for a couple of months... and he called off his engagement with that girl ...

A.   19 January 2007: Getting married with trust issues is not a good idea. Not matter how much planning you have, can you adjourn this wedding until you are reassured? Sorry to hear that whilst you were separated he got engaged and broke it off. Does he really know... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's ex wife won't leave us alone! We just want to be left in peace. I can't take the pressure!

Q.   Hi Everyone, I Would like some help please, as i am really getting upset. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this week and i love him so much. My problem is his ex wife, she won't leave him alone. I was best friends with my boyfriend for ye...

A.   19 January 2007: The way forward is to get other jobs which you already know. Why do you stay it is impossible? Better to do a more menial job for less money than to take this crap? By working at this place you give this woman the perfect weapon to get to you both... (read in full...)

He's goes behind my back and contacts his ex, and takes numbers from other girls! What should I do?

Q.   Hi My boyfriend and I went out at university and he cheated a few times (it was long distance). We broke up but a year later we got back together because he is finished universty. I said there was a lot of things that needed to be done on his p...

A.   19 January 2007: If your boyfriend agreed not to contact other girls and seems to go it when you are not around, he has been dishonest with you. By hiding these contacts from you, does not make texts innocent. If they were, why not doing in the open? Perhaps he i... (read in full...)

My gf kissed another guy right infront of me! I don't know what to think or do!

Q.   I am 17 and my girlfriend is 16, the other nite we went to my m8s party. It was all goin gud until i sat down and saw my girlfriend kiss another guy right in front of me!! even though im not the type to start fights, i went over and started one. ...

A.   19 January 2007: First she pushed him away, then she said she thought it was you? How much more punishment do you need? Not only this girl has cheated on you but rub your nose in it. The sooner you can dump her the sooner you can move on and find a nice girl tha... (read in full...)

I find myself being very nervous about driving. Any tips to dealing with this?

Q.   I get nervous abour driving on the highway I do it right and need it for working and find many lorries and special vehicles on the way ,I even have nightmares about driving from an different place and see the car from outside, any tips to get more ...

A.   19 January 2007: You may want to try hypnotherapy. Different methods work on different people of course. It takes a while to get used to, took me five years of driving from A to B quiet roads before I attempted the motorway so you are not alone. Take it slowly, ... (read in full...)

Am I blaming all my stress on my relationship?

Q.   Either im stressed or im holding grudges on my girlfriend, but recently I have been a bit stressed with a few events plus extra work and stuff and I feel that I have been either blaming them on my relationship I haven't seen my girlfriend for a...

A.   19 January 2007: You are stressed by both work and lack of quality time together in relationship. Try to talk to your girlfriend, tell her how you feel and work out together on how you can get more quality time together. More than likely, she is feeling the same... (read in full...)

How do I tell my ex bf- that we take our 'sex buddy' relationship further or I'm moving onto the college guy who likes me?

Q.   I've been undecided on my feelings for my ex since we broke up in october, I've known for a long time that I don't love him, but we've fooled around every now and then when he's between girlfriends and we get on fantastically, he's one of the only ...

A.   19 January 2007: My advice is cut off ex from your life completly, he is just using you (even if he likes you, he also enjoys using you for sex). You want more and he doesn't. The longer you continue this way, the more hurt you will feel later and your self esteem ... (read in full...)

We make each other miserable! So should I stay or go?

Q.   I recently moved in with my Boyfriend, I have been with him for 5 years, Things were ok but then all of a sudden he seemed to turn. We used to talk and now we dont. We dont get on we make each other miserable. i dont want to leave him but i dont ...

A.   19 January 2007: You need to make time and sit down to talk, share your feelings and establish why do you argue. Every relationship has ups and downs, there is hope though. After five years, you may need to boost your relationship with some passion to keep it i... (read in full...)

Is it normal for her, to mess around with with other guys not even 2 days after we go on a "break"?

Q.   hey everyone you guys rock. the girl i love put us on a "break" and during this time she has made out with numerous people and lied about it numerous times. its killing me. everytime we talk it ends up in a fight because i build up so much animosity ...

A.   19 January 2007: Dear Anon, I think you do not have the right to be mad if you were on a break. If this girl is kissing guys 2 days after you go on the break, it shows you that she wants to be single and is not ready to commit. Dishonesty is not a good basis f... (read in full...)

I told my bf that I missed him - he said "act like it then!" What do I do?

Q.   i need some help or its goin dowwwnnnn!!..uhm..me and my bf been goin out for about 4 months now..and uhm..when i talk on the phone with him, i tell him all the time that i miss him..but these couple of days..he reply back sayin..i doubt it..or "act ...

A.   18 January 2007: He is showing signs of insecurity. For whatever reason he needs to be reassured but you need to ask him why he is reacting this way rather than speculate. Talk to him face to face rather than enter into a debate over the phone. If you have reduced ... (read in full...)

My friend said she was fine with me and her guy friend going out, but now she's calling me names!

Q.   Hmmm, right i like this lad...he likes me, pretty straight forward right? not really seen as he's my mates mate n she reli reli likes him. He asked me out n i said yes. My friend said she was fine with it but isnt and now she making me feel bad ...

A.   18 January 2007: You need to talk to your friend again and explain how hurt you feel. It was not your intention to hurt her feelings and she did tell you she was ok with it giving you the green light! As your best friend, she needs to be understanding and see your... (read in full...)

All I’ve only wanted to do is get to know her and have a romance. Have I been naive and foolish? Any advice is apprciated.

Q.   I am a bachelor in my late forties, who has tended to avoid relationships – basically you can get hurt! Over the past 7 years, my attitude has altered somewhat – I’m getting older; contemplararies are either been long-married/in relationships and ...

A.   18 January 2007: Dear Anon, I think you had stronger feelings for this lady and she saw you more as a friend. The romance was built on hope and a lot of patience, nothing wrong with being a gentleman. A real woman will appreciate that, even Caucasian white (you w... (read in full...)

Should I see a doctor for the lump on my neck, or will it go away?

Q.   i currently have a problem, my neck on one side at the bottom nearing the shoulder has some sort of lump while the other side is straight. i would like to know is this worth goin to see a doctor or will it just go away in a few weeks??? plzzz hel...

A.   18 January 2007: Only the doctor can tell you if it is serious or not. Good luck ... (read in full...)

He dumps me, refuses to see me and now...wants back in my life! Any thoughts?

Q.   About 5 months ago, I began seeing this guy. We really clicked but looking back, our "relationship" basically amounted to week-end hookups with very little communication in between. I wanted more, but never said anything - just tried to go with ...

A.   18 January 2007: This guy does not want you, likes to have sex with you now and then. Because he can. He is using you like an object and you let him whenever he gets bored or are in between other sex buddies. Keeps his sex life interesting! If you do not want to ... (read in full...)

More than anything, I want a baby! How can I persuade my bf to give me one?

Q.   Right before i even say this i know your going to start going on about how young i am and how i should live my life but i dont want that i want advice, NOT a lecture thanks xxx I want a baby, I've thought about it alot and have decided that i w...

A.   18 January 2007: You cannot persuade your boyfriend to have a baby if he is not ready. It is a very serious commitment at any age. If you trick your boyfriend to have a baby with you, it is dishonest and you may push him away. I am not going to be judgmental... (read in full...)

My GF is always moody and depressed. She says a baby will change that. Should I give her one?

Q.   I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, but over the past month she's been becoming more and more moody, getting very depressed saying she wants a baby. I'm only 17 and we're both going to uni next year, and I do...

A.   18 January 2007: Do you want a baby? If the answer is no, then to have a baby just to cheer somebody up is not a good reason. You are very young, not ready for this commitment even though you are being more mature about this than your girlfriend is. She needs... (read in full...)

My head has been turned by a colleague, now I no longer love my wife. Help!

Q.   To be honest you may have been asked this very question a million times and it must be the hardest to answer! Its is a matter of a married person who thought he was in love with his wife only to find a true love without looking. Ok here goes. I...

A.   18 January 2007:  Six months does not seem a long time to feel comfortable, plan to have a baby, try to have a baby, get wife pregnant, fall in love with somebody else and fall out of love with your wife! YOu must have been a busy boy! Sorry to be harsh, it is po... (read in full...)

My guy on the side makes me feel special even though he only wants to have sex with me in the car. What should I do?

Q.   I am having a affiar with a 26 year old man. He has a girlfriend and two kids. I have a bf of 3 years i luv him to bits, but he doesnt make me feel special any more and the 26 year old does. Even tho he is just wantin sex i still enjoy being with...

A.   18 January 2007: This situation is recipe for disaster. You have a boyfriend, this should be incentive enough to stay away. If you are not in love with him and he does not make you feel special, then leave him so that you can play with whoever you want. This ... (read in full...)

Found out the 36 year old I'm dating is married... he wants me to be his "other lady"... advice so far is mixed!?

Q.   Hi, i need some help. I am 21 and this guy i am attracted to is 36yrs.Dont think he is taking advantage before him i have always dated older men.Recently i found out he is married and he admitted.I was very upset but we are still communic...

A.   18 January 2007: You must remember that this guy is married and leave him well alone. Being the bit on the side is not very glamorous and you are interfering with his marriage. Responsibility is also yours, even though he clearly does not respect his marriage vowe... (read in full...)

How do I stop being used like this?

Q.   I'm completely in love with this guy, however he only seems to pay attention to me every now and then. He uses me, because in my twisted head that's desperate for him to love me too and will do anything for him, I'll do stuff on webcam for him. I...

A.   18 January 2007: If it makes you sick being there for him and feeling used, STOP! You have more control over this than what you realise. You are living in hope and it may never happen. He won't respect you for being that easy. He pays you attention when he is bo... (read in full...)

Define: "love triangle"

Q.   Is there a formal definition of a "love triangle"? Wondering about possible outcomes and resolutions....

A.   18 January 2007: Agree with previous answers about definition, just would like to ad that three is a crowd and do not work longer term.... (read in full...)

I still love my ex even though he has moved on. I need some advice.

Q.   I really still love my ex. He has moved on! i want to but i just cant! He treated me like dirt! he took away my virginity and then dumped me a week later! i thought it was true love. I really miss him and would do anything to get him back but i know ...

A.   18 January 2007: This person let you down and hurt you. Why would you want to go back for more? I know, because you love him. Well, you should love yourself first! you did nothing wrong, it is natural you miss him and of course it is painful. But be strong, ... (read in full...)

I really want a long term boyfriend so I don' t want a guy who just wants sex. Where can I find a guy like this?

Q.   Guys this is one for you!! I havent been shy (if you know what I mean)I have had a number of lovers though non of it was intentional. I never wanted to be used for sex but it happened. I confused sex with love to begin with then when they neve...

A.   18 January 2007: How soon you sleep with a guy? Depends on you and the guy. If you are feeling used. Get to know them better first and if they really like you they will wait til you are ready. Some people wait 3 dates, others 1 month, others 10 dates, other 2 ... (read in full...)

His car wsparked outside her house! Do I jump to conclusions...any advice?

Q.   This is a follow up to my first question "My girlfriend has cheated on me yet i dont want to give up on her". I Thank the people who responded the first time your opinions were very good. She keeps sayin she loves me and that she wants to be my old ...

A.   18 January 2007: Use the break to move on. Sorry, it does not sound good. x... (read in full...)

It seems the more we get into this relationship-the more he pulls away! What's going on?

Q.   Should I finish with my boyfriend. We have a fab time dating and have done now for eight months, but he's already told me he nover wants to marry or live with someone again. On top of that he'e now telling me he intends going on a lads holiday. ...

A.   18 January 2007: Over last few months,you had the chance to get to know him better and are now realising that you are not that compatible and do not want the same things in life. Finish with him and move on. time is to precious to waste.... (read in full...)

Pur relationship is perfect except for one big flaw---he's married! What should I do?

Q.   I have been 7 years with my boyfriend who is married but till today when I broach the subject of divorcing and marrying me, he still says he cannot now unless he is prepared his father's depression worsens plus he has parkinsons. Our relationship is ...

A.   18 January 2007: He is using his father as an excuse which is very sad. PARKINSONS will not go away if he stays married either? If you are happy with this situation, you need to take responsibility as you have allowed it to carry on this long. This man will nev... (read in full...)

When is the right time to say I love you to a girl?

Q.   when is the right time to say i love you to a girl? because i have a girlfriend that i have been going out with for nearly 3 months and i haven't actually said it to her beacuse i don't no if its to early to say and i don't want to put her off....

A.   18 January 2007: Now is a good time, 3 months is reasonable. If you feel it, say it. ... (read in full...)

I'm so bored with my fiancee! Am I really in love in with him? What do you think?

Q.   I am engaged to my boyfriend of four years. We decided to get married in no less than a year and up until recently everything has been been ok. We have a good solid relationship but he hates to go out and even walking on the beach he finds boring. I ...

A.   18 January 2007: Delay you wedding date if you have to until you decide what you want but do not marry someone you are not in love with. You need to talk to your fiance and work through this. the thought of a new guy is always going to sounds more interesting ... (read in full...)

Like A Virgin?

Q.   will my bf know im a virgin? i told him i had a one night stand a few months ago, thas how i lost my viginity however i was lieing...

A.   18 January 2007: Why would you be embarressed to say you are a virgin and rather risk him thinking you are easy? Honesty is best policy. ... (read in full...)

Mom Caught me with sisters hubby!

Q.   my mom saw me with my sisters hubby this happened by surprising me 4 brunch. she saw me with a mouthful. she said she wouldn't tell but expects he and i to do the right thing. he wants 2 tell her but we only did it once and only head. so?...

A.   18 January 2007: only once and only head does not make it ok. come clean... (read in full...)

She says she's not ready to date, but her body language says otherwise. What's up with this girl?

Q.   ok whats the deal with this girl, shes likes me and i like her, she broke up with her ex and its been like 7 months right now, her ex cheated on her and now she dont trust no 1,anyways so i got her number an shes calls me every night an we talk an ...

A.   18 January 2007: first date, she clearly wants to take it slow. She is still hurt from past relationship. 7 months might be enough for you but not for her to trust again, everybody is different and heals at different pace. If you really like her, do not rush her ... (read in full...)

How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend... "please don't dress like such a slut"

Q.   This is driving me nuts! My girlfriend dresses like a complete slut! I like a girl dressing confidently and showing some skin but this is over the top. Even her own friends make comments! I find it totally unattractive and its making me doubt ...

A.   18 January 2007: If she dressed like this before, why are you trying to change her? Surely it is up to her to decide how she dresses. Her so called friends are hypocrit as well. Wearing revealing clothes is part of her personality and does not mean she is on th... (read in full...)

I love this guy but our relationship is always on and off. What should I do?

Q.   For the past 18 months or so, I've been in love with this guy. We've never done anything, apart from stuff via webcam. It's been on and off always. When it's off its completely off and we don't even talk any more, but when it's on, we'll talk on ...

A.   18 January 2007: He likes you but is to embarressed to do something about it. It has been 18 months. question is, is he mature enough to ignore his friends and date you properly. Not msn crap! I don't understand why you never had the chance to kiss but have the... (read in full...)

Will I look like a floozy for approaching someone I met, while I was previously dating someone else?

Q.   I was dating a man for a year and we broke up, then 6 months later got back together. While we were back together, we visited his family in another state. While there, I met a friend of his brother's and we really hit it off. But I ignored that, ...

A.   18 January 2007: Let him know you are available and see what happens. You are single and it is your decision who you date now. Never mind what others think, you did nothing wrong. Do not waste your life, go for it and enjoy! Good luck... (read in full...)

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