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writes:there was a girl she loved me but i broke her heart. She told me her secrets and i told only my best friend. He told her. i love her so much and she hates me now i tried to talk to her but she dont want to talk to me now i said sorry to her and told her i will never do it again but she told me once glass is broken you cannot make it again. now she doesn't want to talk to me also and wenever i see her somewhere she pretends that she doesn't know me. what can i do ?????
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 October 2012):
 I hope you realise your "best friend" is not your friend, best or otherwise.
As for your ex girlfriend, I don't know what those secrets were but your repeating them has well and truly ended any chance you had. I think you need to accept this is over and just as she is never going to trust you again you should never trust your friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012): "How can I encourage a girl to love me again?"
You can't.
"what can i do ?????"
Learn from your mistake by acknowledging the consequences of your thoughtless and hurtful actions, and move on.
What will you do? Probably ignore sound advice because it's not what you want to hear and so you will continue pining over her, not comprehending the irrepairable damage you have done to her and therefore your relationship with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012): all you can do is tell her how sorry you are.
maybe the wounds are still a bit deep at this time, let the dust settle for a couple weeks then try again.
if you really love her youl not give up.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (28 October 2012):
 I think there is nothing you can do here apart from move on. She loved you, and trusted you with her secrets and you betrayed her by telling someone else. Once the trust has gone in a relationship its very hard to get it back, what she say's is right, once the glass is broken you cannot make it again, and in this case the glass is well and truly broken. What can you do? Well i think your best bet would be to cut your losses and move on.
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