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writes:So this is more of a story than a question. I used this website to find advice about 6 months ago. I had asked if it was a smart decision to move 7 hours away with a guy I only met a couple times. The advice was not what I wanted to hear of course but I was thankful. So the story goes...I met this guy in June 2011 over the xbox live community. Neither me nor him were interested in developing a relationship we just became close friends. I needed someone to talk to and he listened. I was going through a rough time with my ex and couldn't decide what or who I wanted. I took a chance and drove 7 hours to meet and stay a couple days with this guy I met online. I know I know it's insane and risky but I did it. I didn't drive that far just to have sex with this guy, it was more than that. I did love him and I wanted to know if what we had could be something more. Well i got there and we made love. In all the 4 years I was with my ex I can assure you I never made love before. I was terrified that this guy wasnt going to like me and that things were going to be awkward. But it turned out to be amazing and I felt so comfortable with him right away. After about 3 or 4 more weekend visits with this guy I still was a little confused because I didnt understand my feelings. I also was afraid to move 7 hours away from everything I knew on the chance this might work out. Well one night I was at my exes house (by they way me and my ex were not sexually involved in any way during my relationship with this new guy) and he decided to take my phone and call my new boyfriend. My Ex told my boyfriend all these lies and almost ruined everything. Well I tried to reconcile with my boyfriend and he gave my an ultimatum. He told me i can either leave and go be with him or we are over. I couldnt say no. Theres always been something about him that i can not resist I loved him. So i did it. I drove 7 hours one way never to look back. I can tell you now that I have never been more happy or more in love in my whole life. He is my angel and my everything. He helped my realize what life is about and that there are so many more important things than partying, drinking, and smoking weed. He saved me. I could've ruined my whole life doing the things I was doing before I left. I realize now that love, friendship, and family are what matters in life and as long as you have those things than life could never be more enjoyable. I am now 5 months pregnant with a baby boy and I cannot wait to start a family with him. He also proposed to me on August 08, 2012. I never thought I would be getting married already. I was with my ex for 4 years and he never once thought about marriying me. His loss I say. Anyway, I know I found the one. The way he makes me feel when i look at him its like the first day all over again. I just wanted to share this story because to me its amazing. I never believed in all that online dating stuff. I didnt think it was possible to fall in love with someone you've never met before. I can now say it is possible. All things are possible. At first this guy was just a voice on the mic and now we're getting married and having a baby. We are so happy and we are perfect for eachother. Love really does conquer all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2012): Lovely story im happy for you....
There is hope after all :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): Modnote: Your question is a valid question but should be submitted as a question please. It should not be posted as an "answer" since it is a Question. "This was a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it."
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reader, MissLoca +, writes (22 October 2012):
MissLoca is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I jhave my daughter. Me and her father have come to an agreement as far as custody and agreement is concerned. But she and my fiance get along great she adores him as well as he adores her.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 October 2012):
 What about your daughter, is she with you ?
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reader, Abella +, writes (20 October 2012):
 This is such a beautiful loving love story.
I am so happy that you are in a good place now. And I wish you every happiness with your pregnancy and the new baby.
An uplifting love story indeed.
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