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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Dating for 2.5 years turning into a FWB relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts, I've posted a few questions here as of late (some anonymous), My (now ex) girlfriend broke up with me just under 2 weeks ago saying that we are now on different levels in our lives but that she still loves me - but not sure if she'...

Does she really like me? Could she be afraid to tell the world that she is into girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone. I am a 17 year old female who is bisexual. Around the beginning of September my friend had started taking this girl to school with us in the morning. I had thought nothing of it until her and I actually began talking. We have...

FWB problems. Do I keep waiting for him or just stop seeing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that. We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight. He asked ...

I want to be friends, he wants a FWB

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - This may be odd...but i need help. I met this guy at the beginning of my senior year, same age as me, and we obviously liked each other. We hung out once at his house and chilled and almost kissed. Then a week later he got into a relationship that ...

After a month of pursuing me he suddenly just disappears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hey if anyone could just give a bit of insight that would be great. Sorry this is probably gonna be long but bare with :) I met this guy very casual he saw me where i worked, never talked just looks this went on for about three month he even...

After I asked him to used a condom he lost interest. He's drifting away from me. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - things has changed he used to text me every hour, checking up on how im doing and made time to see me everynight after work... ever since i told him that we should use a condom we never had sex at all i will tell him that i want him but he doesnt s...

His Russian friend is very interested in him. Am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy since March. He's 33 and I'm 20. He's a master student and is going to graduate this semester and go back to his country. Unless he gets a job here. Our relationship is private as we agreed since the beginning, and we start...

My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...

My Gf's extreme sex drive is out of control. She wants excitement. Does she need therapy? Or is there any way I can help her without breaking up - the latter would make her more vulnerable, I think

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I've resorted to reading the site here cause I've had trouble "Google-ing" my situation with any real results. So before I post the question a disclaimer here is; I don't want anyone to comment on how I shouldn't be bothered by my G's h...

Should I offer myself to this guy for two months before I move abroad? I don't want to look like an idiot'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

19 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I want to make a deal with this guy but I am not sure if it is normal to do so or how to get by doing the deal without looking like an idiot or making a fool out of my self. I am moving out of the country end of this year as I ju...

In love with the wrong guy... Is there a way out of this for me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 2 1/2 years with the the relationship being intimate for just under 2 years. We met and there was immediate attraction. We stated our goals for long term relationship at the beginning and as things progressed he changed ...

I'm a lost girl and I'm losing myself in this sea of men I've been seeing. What advice can you give me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Facts and dates these thing occurred: June 9th- ectopic pregnancy August 17th- He went back to his hometown September 1st- October 12th guy number 2 who went back to his baby mamma October 13th- I slept with g...

How can I determine if my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - how do you know if your ex still has feelings and wants to get back with you? We were together 6 years on and off now and again sleep with each other now and again. I don't know whenever i should just cut ties completely its hard, as we have 2 kids ...

There are decent guys like me who get no where. Why do some girls allow guys to treat them in disrespectful ways?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

13 October 2012 (M) - My friends are always giving me a hard time calling me nasty names because they say I treat girls "too nice". At first I use to brush it off but now it is getting really old hearing them go on and on about how I better check to see if I still ah...

I'm in love with my new neighbour, but I've been in a FWB with my other neighbour for 2 months. How should I play this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

11 October 2012 (M) - I moved into my apartment building 2 months ago and met my neighbor shortly after the move in. We hit it off right away. We have been hooking up for about a month and a half. It is weird because its like we are in a relationship but we are not.. ...

Why would a guy break off friends with benefits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

10 October 2012 (F) - I have been hooking up with this guy for three months. Back then we agreed to keep it simple - no emotions, and if someone wanted to stop they would tell the other straight up I am a modest person by nature, but I feel like I need to mention ...

Confused by girls behaviour and mixed signals. Does she like me? Am I at fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

10 October 2012 (M) - Hi there everybody ME: I have a name but I’m not telling. I am 29 years old and I want to tell my love story, just to help me figure this girl out. I am an engineer so, I don’t except to find the answer here, I expect some statistics ;) I wi...

Short term affair with girl from abroad. What are the rules?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

10 October 2012 (M) - Well, im peruvian and a girl came to my house to study abroad, she's living with me and my family. The thing is that i really like her and she also says that she feels the same way. Even though she also have told me that she loves me and I also feel ...

He treats me like a girlfriend despite insisting he didn't want a relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - Is it possible to be seeing a man who actually does not want to see you happy? I have been dating this man for awhile now who I believe is emotionally confused. We are not an "official" couple and he claims to not want to be one. However, he has a...

I don't know what to do or how to free myself from these feelings for my FWB and Best friend. What are the options please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Hi My best friend and I are in a situation and need help!! we are Friends with Benefits but I'm in love with the her! it's making things complicated and jeopardising our friendship. she's just come out of a long term relationship and...

He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...

Are these signs that my sex buddy is falling for me? I don't want her to get hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - So here is the deal: I met this really hot girl, she happened to like me back. She told me straight up she has no interest in relationship and so we started meeting to have some amazing (and I mean it) sex. Now, I should be happy with this arra...

Planning to try new things in our sex life, but how can I feel more confident?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

2 October 2012 (F) - So I posted about really liking my FWB and we have had an open chat about what we both want and we're going to stick with each other which has made me really happy. But now he wants to take things a lot further, not relationship, but more erotic ...

What would you do in my place? He was my FWB but then he cheated on me. But then we had words and everything went downhill from then.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

2 October 2012 (F) - There is something that happened some 5 months ago between a guy and me. We were very good and close friends, so close we ended up being FWB. It was very wrong I know and it turned out bad, as such, since I fell in love with him. While we were ...

Seperated for 3 months, both had sex partners, how do we move on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I need some serious opinions. I have been with my husband for 6 years. Rocky for last two years...since we got married. A year into the marriage my husband told me he had a one night stand. He told me a million times it was a mistake and he ...