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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

How do I handle this unwanted breakup? And yet he still says he wants to be my 'friend.' Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi i have had terrible times with my guy friend. we have been really good friends ever since 2011. We have been very close and had intimate sex. But every-time he tells me he doesnt feel for me more than a friend. So finally in the month of Nov...

Am I crazy to hope there might be more between us or should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I have had a FWB for three years (we've known each other fir 16 years) when we are together we act just like any other couple but if we're at work or out with friends we act as if nothing is going oneven though mist of them know we're sleeping ...

So it that it? He told me he was not looking for a relationship. I thought we had more going on than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone I always love to read this website love all the advice now I need some. I'm 24 separated and have 2 kids.now I met this guy in the club. He's 21 and military.. He asked my number and gave it to hi. we started texting then he w...

Jealous that my FWB had sex with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - So there's this guy....we've been having sex lately and I REALLY like it. I mean I know he doesn't care about me like emotionally and I dont care about him like that either. But the sex is really good.....until I found out the next day he had sex ...

Is this strange for a FWB hook up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - I have been hanging out with my guy friend a lot more lately, and we have become 'friends with benefits', I think, can't really think of a better term right now (I usually don't have casual sex like that so it's kind of throwing me off). Anyway, I ...

He tells me he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - I had sex wih my friends brother. I have known him over 10 years. At the beginning there was some kind of attraction between us, but my friend, his sister didn't want us to get together. So I remained friends with her brother for 10 years. My ...

I can't decide who I want more: my FWB or my ex boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, i was in a fwb arrangement then i met my boyfriend who is now my ex. i am drawn completely to my fwb he is also the same with me. when were together the sex is amazing but the problem is i still love my ex boyfriend but i cant get e...

How can I tell if it was just a hook up or if he wanted something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Okay I have known this friend of my male cousin (who is very protective of me and everyone knows this) for about three years, he's not a player and has had a serious relationship since I met him. Recently I have started to become attracted to him a...

Is he a player or does he really have feelings for me in this year long friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - I recently had a serious talk with a guy I have been seeing for a year and a half. I told him I had developed feelings for him and originally went to talk about ending the relationship as I did not think he felt the same, however he shocked me. He ...

After a summer fling he's been hot and cold!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

9 April 2013 (F) - Hello. This is pretty long, I would love some male advice because I have no clue what's going on! Okay here we go. SO, I started University 3 years ago, with a boyfriend and met a guy on my course. Anyway, he had a girlfriend too but we just clic...

Does he really love me or does he just not want to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about 5 years and have been having sex with him for just as long. We both agreed it was a "no strings attached" relationship. A few months ago we were both at the same bar and he acted like he didn't even know ...

I lost my friend over a rude text that I didn't send to him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - I recently had a sexual encounter with a friend (married)(someone I've known since childhood),we re-connected and talked on the phone for over a yr and saw ea. other daily. Our relationship became sexual no strings attached. A family member decided ...

Is sleeping with your housemate really such a bad idea??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

7 April 2013 (M) - I have been living with a couple of girl room mates or should i say house mates as we do not share the same rooms for a while now. I initially found nothing attractive about them but recently, one of them has been catching my eyes and attentions. ...

Need to move on from FWB situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - I am 53 years old. I met a man 3 years ago after we both were fresh out of divorce. We dated and are good friends with benefits. He has helped me and I took care of him after an accident. I sold my house due to the divorce and he offered me to live ...

Should I think our hook up was just a one time thing? I'm afraid to ask him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

5 April 2013 (F) - Basically last year I ended up getting involved with my best guy mate, we spent the summer together and then it just ended for stupid reasons and we didn't speak for 8 months. Now we started messaging and we eventually met up. He was cuddling me ...

She knows I want a no strings attached relationship. Is she willing to accept that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

5 April 2013 (M) - Bout 5 years I had a crush or fell in love with a girl. I wanted a relationship but she rejected me. She started to date other guys so I left. Took a bit but I got into a relationship and she got married. After years not talking my relationship was ...

Two year long FWB and now he's showing signs of affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - Is it normal for a FWB relationship to last nearly two years and what does it mean when the guy is showing signs of affection like cuddling, Eskimo kissing and just appearing on a whim?? These things have just started recently in my experience he ...

FWB--should I bring up the subject of being exclusive? Or just chill and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

1 April 2013 (F) - Short version: I'm hooking up with this guy, who's friends with my friends, so we're at each other's houses most weekends. No talk of exclusivity, but we're not dating anyone else, and he's made a point out of acting quite couple-like in front of ...