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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

My FWB says he feels no connection. What does he mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - He says he does not know why but he cannot feel a connection to me. he says he cannot feel anything in his heart anymore since his live in gf of 5 yrs cheated on him. It has been 4 yrs since she did this. we started seeing each other 1 yr ago. He ...

Is it possible for a fwb to turn into love and if so how?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - seeing my guy 1 yr now. He says he there will never be anything between us. yet one time after sex (he sometimes thinks out loud) he said emotions cannot get into this. He gets closer i think and then pulls away spacing out visits i think to ...

How much should I dress up or make up for my FWB?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. I have a fwb with this guy who I really fancy! He knows How much I fancy him, but we both know it will not become anything more. I'm just wondering how much effort should I or shouldn't I be putting in into our sexy time? I...

Sex buddies forever or could there be more? I've fallen for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - Okay... So here goes, I am current having sex ( we have done it once) with a guy.... We decided we were going to meet with each other around 14 months ago and thats how it was going to be... Since then we have texted like crazy (flirty messages and ...

Getting mixed vibes from this guy who ended things then reappeared. Any advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. Posted not so long ago as I had just started seeing a guy who had recently got out of a relationship. We met on a night out and from then he was texting me and we met up a few times. He would message every ...

Is it ok to be jealous when his ex-lovers call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - I know this sounds ridiculously stupid and the answer is obviously "YES!" But, how do you guys feel about it? And what can I do to stop it. My boyfriend's ex-sex partners keep texting him. These girls are from, like, last year, and he keeps saying h...

I'm shy but I want to ask him out. How do I get the courage? And it's Two days before this semester finishes. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - We have two days left at university, and I'm too shy to ask him out.. I don't know whether we will have a chance to talk, and even limited opportunity to talk one on one.. We're not friends, but we're on friendly terms.. Please give ...

No strings relationship. When is it appropriate for me to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I started this relationship that is supposed to be no strings attached and we both seem to like each other more than we should. We talk everyday and he usually initiates the conversations. We have only met twice. I have heard nothing from him...

Should I date this older woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

16 September 2013 (M) - Dear all, I am really torn about this and need some objective advice (besides I am too ashamed to ask any of my friends). I will start with a quick summary about myself: I am 30 years old and had only had one relationship in my whole life. I...

Does FWB want more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - Ok.. I'm hoping someone can help... I have a kind of fwb situation going on with a guy I work with. It was him who asked me about it, as we were both single and not looking for an intense relationship, as both of us had been hurt in the past. So ...

Is this just sex or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

10 September 2013 (F) - I recently met this guy who is a regular customer at my job. I'm a restaurant manager. He comes in and has a drink every now and then and has gotten to know the bartenders well. He inquired about me with one of the bartenders and she got us to start ...

I'm worried that I've inadvertently become a friend with benefits, and it isn't a label that I like or think I deserve

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

10 September 2013 (F) - Hi all, hoping for some impartial advice! A guy approached me on a night out and asked for my number. Was bit out of blur but he was cute so I said yes. He messaged me quite a bit and we arranged to meet for a drink. We were out with our groups of ...

Men, what is my ex-FWB thinking after I said goodbye two weeks ago?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

10 September 2013 (F) - I ended 2year "fwb" ... had to walk away! I honestly believed that we met for such great reason, so choosing to end all, for someone I truly liked and cared for hurt. I hadn't heard from him like "normal" and when I sent a casual, "hello' ...

2 guys don't know which one to date and one doesn't seem too interested anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

10 September 2013 (F) - So here's my situation. In april, I went home with one of my friend's roommate's (who I was friends with) and we slept together. He's kind of a ladies man, so he'll have the occasional girl over. But anyway, that happened a few times. I didn't ...

My ex and I have become FWB, he says he wants more but I'm not sure??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I know this will sound incredibly stupid, and reckless but I have been having a purely sexual relationship with my ex and the father of my two children. I know people say it all the time, but it really did just happen. We had taken our childr...

Friends with benefits, but he has a girl-friend and he doesn't care about her. Any opinion on these signs that he may like me?Thank you

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - HI, there is this guy i used to like and i told him he didn't pay attention and so on, this was like 5 years ago. And he was a major womaniser. Anyway, so i started dating this guy and he started dating this girl, and this guy who i liked his name ...

Why does he say I'm the only girl for him and then ignore my suggestions of meeting up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - I find this man so confusing please please help!!!I have known him for about 7 years. We have both been away and travelled etc...but always been 'casual sex buddies'. We ahve a lot in common but I think have both enjoyed being single. He lives about ...

I don't want to ask him what's going on with us because I don't want to seem pushy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - hey i am a bit confused here i would appreciate your help...i started seeing this guy..just hooking up for lunchdates and coffee and it reached a point where he invited me to his house and we even had sex...my major concern is that i dont know what ...

I like this guy but he's recently single and not looking for anything serious.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - I have a guy friend who I have feeling for and who until recently had a girlfriend. Anyway recently he keeps trying to hook up with me but in like a flirty jokey way which I wouldn't mind except for the fact he clearly doesn't want anything serious ...

Is it ok to text a FWB every day?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - I am recently out of a relationship, but I would still like to find a guy to have a no strings attached kind of relationship. I have met this person I think. I think he may actually care about me which is great and makes me only not sure what is ...