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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been hooking up with this guy for three months. Back then we agreed to keep it simple - no emotions, and if someone wanted to stop they would tell the other straight upI am a modest person by nature, but I feel like I need to mention that I am pretty good-looking, and if his reaction is any indication, I am very good in bed. Everything has been amazing except that after our last hook-up (which was no different from usual) everything changed. He no longer texts me first, ever, though he answers my texts dutifully. I asked him straight up if he wanted to end this and he said no, but he seems reluctant to accept when I ask him over - and he doesn't even hide it (like one time he told me he was going to be busy with work and later I found out he was chilling with his Dad).I am not going to be hurt if he ends it, but this uncertainty is killing me. Plus my ego is hurt since I can't figure out why a single guy would want to end purely sexual relationship with hot and eager girl. What could be? And what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2012): Did you really expect respect from this type of relationship? These are cheap relationships at their best. This isn't the movies. Casual sex is a fad in the US right now. Don't fall for all the hype and show some self-esteem. You're his toy and nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2012): Hey, original poster here. Thanks everybody
I am 100% sure he is not dating someone because he still sent me some maughty texts and this guy isn't a cheater... and if he doesn't want me anymore, why does he insist otherwise? Last time we were together he sure was interested in more
I will be meeting him one last time and then I will probably move on, but this sure is confusing.
And yeah, I AM playing the field but he was... let's just day i have some special needs and he meets them perfectly
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2012): You know what they say: you get used to someones beauty same as to someones ugliness.If there is no feelings involved, he got bored with you, despite the fact that you are beautifull.I never understood this friends with benefits thing. I mean I could understand it if it happen 2-3 times, but for 3 months just do that?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 October 2012):
 It could be anything from stress to his being interested in someone else. A lot of times, when a guy meets a girl that he has feelings for, his appetite for casual sex diminishes, even if he's not currently with the girl he's interested in.
Either way, if you're still up for no strings attached sex in a friends with benefits scenario, your playing field is open. You're not tied down to one guy, and don't take it as an ego thing if his time with you is drawing to an end. That's just the way the wind blows.
I'm guessing he's got another girl on the brain...the kind that makes him want to go beyond FWB.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2012): He might have met someone who turned on his emotions ... Don't ask to see him anymore, time will tell ou what' he's been up to. You're beautiful and you can find instead of one guy ten... Don't chase him.. You will be degrading yourself and coming across as desperate.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 October 2012):
 Maybe he wants more then sex, but not with you.
If he doesn't seem all that interested WHY keep offering?
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