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writes:So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that.We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight.He asked me if I was alone at home, and I said yes and he didn't reply.So I waited thirty minutes and said yes,no? He says no so I go "k" and he goes "sorry later" I can't stand the way he acts sometimes. Do should I keep waiting for him or talking to him? Or should I just stop?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnx guys I appreciate the help. And I know I'm dumb it's that I like him and if he would've known me like 1 year ago I would've dissed him badly but anyways, let me get these stupid illusions out my head because I know it wouldn't be anything more than friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): "So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that."
No he doesn't. Anything goes in FWB's OP, long hugs, dates, kisses, favours anything, it's all still just FWB's. He's hardly just going to shag you then ignore you afterwards until he wants to shag again, he'd just lose his easy pussy.
"I can't stand the way he acts sometimes"
What way he acts? That he doesn't just drop everything and come over any time you call? You're only FWB's OP, you mean nothing more to him than a walking talking piece of easy ass.
"Do should I keep waiting for him or talking to him? Or should I just stop?"
If you want to stay fuck buddies, you'll shut your mouth and stop talking all this nonsense and giving him shit for absolutely nothing. He owes you nothing but his cock OP, he doesn't have to be nice to you, he doesn't have to be considerate so I don't know where you got all these ideas from.
OP legs open, mouth shut, them's the rules, if you can't do that then don't be his fuck buddy. If you're hoping it will turn into something more then you're wrong. We don't fall in love with pieces of ass OP, we already have the prize, why would we bother running the race? OP for the record, acting like you're more is how it's done, we guys treat our FWB's like girlfriends when we're with them, long cuddles, pillow talk, sweet nothings but it means nothing, you're just our flesh sex doll.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 October 2012):
 How does he treat you as more than FWB ?... Because it really does not sound so, from your curt , " professional " text exchanges. Heck, I swap more niceties with my dentist's secretary when we schedule my appointments !
... do you mean that he is cuddly in bed, falls asleep in your arms, calls you " baby " and other terms of endearment ? Stuff like that ? ... that means nothing, or, actually, it means that he has an affectionate, intimate sexual style,... better than nothing, sure, and better than " slam bam thank you ma'am ", ... but,we are still firmly in FWB territory, and it's a territory from which is next to impossible to escape, since, if he had seen in you a glimmer of " gf material", he would not have placed you there to begin with.
I can't say that FWBs NEVER EVER turn into something more, I've heard of an exception or two, but the odds are abysmal, so my advice must necessarily be- don't waste time waiting that pigs learn to fly. More so, if you have to stress out and suffer about it- you can get pointlessy very hurt in the process. Why sweating it that much to squeeze a few droplets of interest and affection from a man, when there may be dozens of other men out there ,who would give you what you want willingly and generously ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): "So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that."
Not possible. No guy treats a bleep buddy like a more than a bleep buddy.
The only way that he would treat you as if you were more than a bleep buddy would be if you hadn't already put out for him, then you the would treat you as if you were more than a bleep buddy because YOU WOULD BE MORE THAN A BLEEP BUDDY.
As my would-have-been 125-year-old Irish grandmother would tell you if she were able, "Why buy the cow when the milk is free?"
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