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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and a place to live. So he told me that this might help me in the future, and that he might be the person to direct me to love.Please help me understand is he trying to tell me that he is poor so i should rely on the foundation or what!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 He gets the woman , money and house. What can you ask for more, with all expenses paid by the govt....LOL!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 So he's thinking of asking her to marry him.. then they get the government money... easy.. can you just please contact him and see if he wants to get married, and if he loves you or just wants to get rich.
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female
reader, Laura1318 +, writes (25 February 2010):
Miamine,
The OP wants to know why is that man on the dating site recommending her to the foundation to get money and free housing for married couples.?
Is it because he is poor?
From the limited info, we cannot say with certainty if he is poor or not. He could just be taking advantage of the govt. incentives.
Since it is a govt. foundation to encourage marriage and giving out incentives for people to get married, it would be dumb if you don't apply for those incentive whether you are rich or poor.
The answer to that query.... we don't know whether he is poor or rich .
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reader, Miamine +, writes (25 February 2010):
Sorry, we are confused... your a girl, and this man may be too poor to marry, so wants you to get the government money, is that it?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (25 February 2010):
I get it. He is suggesting that you reap the benefits from the foundation for getting married in your country.
The foundation is run by the govt. to promote marriages and giving out those incentives.
He is not poor but wishes to take advantage of those govt. offers.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 February 2010):
Your government probably wants more people to marry. Think he's suggesting he can set you up with a girl, so you can get the money.
But why bother, he'll take some of the money for himself. If you know about the scheme, then contact your government yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): Sorry people the post belongs to a female mistake
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (24 February 2010):
The best person to clarify is him, so ask him. If you are discussing marriage then you should be able to talk about this. Is your country a Muslim country? If so, I doubt there will be a government fund for gay marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): thanks for the reply but its not a scam the foundation belongs to the government in my country so i know who deals with it.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (24 February 2010):
He is trying to con you off your money. He is asking you to donate to the fake foundation (he is the beneficiary)
Agree with Miamine, it is probably a scam.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 February 2010):
Don't like the sound of it.. money and marriage, sounds like some kind of scam to me... think you should dump him and move on.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Hun, this sounds like one of those 'mail-order bride' sites.
Anyways, you dont know the guy, would probably have to marry him and who knows what type of person he would be????
Rather to be safe, dont get involved as there are lots of really sleazy people trawling the internet looking for innocents to take advantage of.
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Sounds like some kind of cult to me!
Ask him to clarify himself.... But be very carefull you know what you are getting yourself into.
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