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writes:A couple of weeks ago, I went to visit an associate of mine. She had a possible health problem and I wanted to make sure she was okay. When I got to her house, this tall, handsome guy walks out and introduces himself as her son. I asked for her number and he also gave me his. He's visiting California from Georgia. Anyway, when it was time for me to leave, he walked me to my car and gave me a kiss on the cheek. He's a little older than me and has ten grown kids and eight grandkids. Anyway, he called me that night and asked if he could see me the next day. He rode with me to run an errand. To make a long story a short one, he asked to see me everyday for about a week and we would talk on the phone every night. Well, I noticed he was moving a little fast - talking about me moving to Georgia, having babies, etc. Well, we were intimate and he continued to call for a few days and then he just stopped returning my calls. What is up with that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Sorry hun, he was just after sex... go for a check up just incase you have contracted anything from this man. He certainly sounds like a smoother mover!!
Put this one down to experience and dont get caught again - make them wait for sex... at least a couple of months!!
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reader, Psychology101 +, writes (15 March 2010):
Sounds like he went by the Book...talked you into sex thats all he wanted. Bottom Line...SEX is what he was looking for.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 March 2010):
He wanted sex and got it. Sorry. Best to get yourself checked for STD's and such, just in case. In the future, don't fall for the same thing. Men will tell you everything you want to hear to get sex, and once they've had it, will move on. Take your time getting to know a man. The right one will work harder.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Yep he got what he was looking for, he called for a few days then someone else caught his eye. If and when he comes sniffing around again don't jump into the sack with him and see how long he sticks around.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (15 March 2010):
At your age you are still falling for the old trick. He was interested in you for sex and you gave it up easy. He's done. When he starts calling again that means he wants to do it again. You should have made him wait at least 3 months to see if he was a keeper and to give him time to form an emotional bond. Forget him.
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