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writes:hi, my ex and i broke up in november. This was due to arguemens from moving house, buying a doberman, money, being told he doesn't love me and i ended up seeking advice from his male boss who confessed feelings for me in the space of 3 months. we had been living together for 2 years with pets. since then we have been seeing each other on and off.ive told him i still love him and that i never want anyone else, that i was sorry but he just tells me he doesn't love me any more and doesn't think he ever could and that he doesnt see me having his children in the future.Normally i would walk away and start a new life for myself, but even though he says those things, we still see each other, go out, spend most of our time together and do the things we used to do as a couple when things were great.even though we arn't together, when things seem really great and happy he pushes me away. he says that this is because hes scared of getting hurt again and that he doesn't trust me.I really love and care for him and will do anything to save what we had. is there any chance in the future he will want to be back with me again?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 Hun, your bf has lost his trust in you because of the way you behaved. You must have hurt him deeply.
I suggest that you just keep being yourself, dont pressurise him at all.
Unfortunately once trust has been broken in a relationship it is seldom ever repaired.
You are going to have to wait and see if he will be able to forgive you and be able to trust you again.
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