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I was suggested a threesome with my mother and her lover, when this woman found out I was bisexual!

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Question - (19 February 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *exy sammi writes:

Hiya all

so iam 18 years old and i realy badly need HELP!!

when i was 11 my mum left my dad for a women at her gym. I live with my dad and he realy hates the both of them so i now live with my mum and her lover. we talk about there relationship and how much fun they have. when my mums lover find out that i was bisexual she keeps asking me to join there relationship. what should i do

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A male reader, JTalbott United States +, writes (24 May 2008):

JTalbott agony auntSounds like a fake question.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

actually a lot of the reason that incest is considered so taboo is because of inbreeding problems - so this is not a problem here. However I personalluy find it distasteful as I could not look at another family member sexually. But I guess it is down to how you feel.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008):

It is very strange that all answers so far have said 'sick','fetish', 'disgusting','not right' but no-one has said why. Obviously, you need to know if your mother is aware of this proposal. You seem at least to be considering the prospect of this threesome, that is your choice and for sure, if you are all in agreement and you are all obviously over legal age, then try - you might like! Certainly, this sort of liaison is considered 'sick' etc simply because it is a taboo and little-discussed subject. Who is being harmed? If any of you subsequently decide it was a bad idea - stop!

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A female reader, farrah777 Australia +, writes (21 February 2008):

NO WAY!!!

You no better, you should stay away from your mums girl friend, and if she cared for your mum she wouldn't say that to her girlfriends teenager.

You need to tell your mother and your father both about this, cause that is just sick!

If your mum doesn't care which I think she will, then you should keep distance from both of them, cause thats not right.

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2008):

hello1 agony auntNO, why are you even asking this here? your not a naive little kid. Your mum g/f is sick

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (20 February 2008):

Danielepew agony auntGood question by Toasty. Does your mother know about this proposal? If she doesn't, you should tell her, and see how she reacts. She needs to do something. Something like dumping her lover.

Whatever she does, look after yourself. I have a suspicion that you can't trust your mother. And I'm sure you can't trust her lover. It's only good that you live with your father.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

I really think it was out of line for your mothers partner to bring this up...she sounds like she has a few unsettled sexual fetishes that are pretty crazy (incest between you and your mother). I would definately tell her no, but that's just me. Does your mother know about the proposal?

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (20 February 2008):

chrissy32789 agony auntI am not here to judge you are make fun of what you think, i dont belive in relationships with your family but heres the thing if you are going to feel ok with having sex with your mom and her lover then thats your choice, but do you know if someone else finds out about this they are going to make fun of you and tell everyone, and you are going to get very depressed, but you should really talk to your mom about this and tell her what her girlfriend said and see what your mom says about it, i dont think your mom would be to happy about it but just go ahead and talk to her and let me know what she says and i will help you out a little more.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntWhat do you mean what should you do? Surely you are not serious about having a sexual relationship with your mother and her lover. OMG that is sick and your mum's lover is way out of line by asking you.

Find yourself your own lover and get these thoughts out of your head.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008):

ewww don't. it's your mother, you wanna have sex with your own mother??? that's sick, that's exactly why this banned from the uk, incest!

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