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writes:HelloI've met a girl through a "meet me" application on the internet. I've started messaging her, but how can I make it more interesting? I don't want her to find me boring just because of how we're e-mailing. Basically, I "sent her a flirt" and she sent one back. Then I sent a e-mail saying Hello, and asking her how she was doing and thanking her for the flirt. She's replied pretty straight forward, just saying she's fine and asking how I am... Bit difficult, can't you see? If that's all she's going to send me, then I must try and find away of making it more interesting, or else both of us will get bored. How can I spice up boring first messages? Please keep in mind that I don't want to scare her away either! I must be careful about what I say. Maybe I could ask if she has MSN or something?
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (20 February 2008):
 The next time you email her, I would type something like this. Hi there my name is ........., I think your ad is great, I also like (whatever movie or music taste she happens to mention that she likes). If you would like a chat here is my addy so that we can chat some more xx. That way you have broken the ice and should give you guys something to elaborate on.
Good luck Romeo. Dusky xxx.
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reader, Kawika  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 Humor is always a good way to break the ice. Everyone opens up to laughter. Try starting your conversation with a joke or an exciting and fun topic. Keep it positive. No negatives or put downs. Ask her a thought provoking question...such as "If you were to write a book about your life, what would it be...a tragedy, romance, adventure, or comedy?" It opens things up to share. Another good idea is to use private chatrooms. I hope this helps....
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 If she is right for you , you will clicked right away.If you only can send boring messages then she may not be the one for you.
You are both the same kind.It takes a different kind to bring out the best from you.
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